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SrRd_RacinG
01/15/22 1:10:19 PM
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...I ONLY date white men.

Assess this rationally. Is this a crimson red flag?

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AloneIBreak
01/15/22 1:13:21 PM
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If that makes her interested in me thats fine. If not, then its totally racist.

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R1masher
01/15/22 1:18:43 PM
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I dont prefer vegetables. I only eat vegetables

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SrRd_RacinG
01/15/22 1:18:57 PM
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AloneIBreak posted...
If that makes her interested in me thats fine. If not, then its totally racist.
You're not serious right?

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televigilante
01/15/22 1:19:55 PM
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I'm a quadroon and I'm gonna have to disagree with the second post. I think white people are more diverse in looks because their eyes and hair vary in color more. And they can get tans. Let's just be honest.
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Fony
01/15/22 1:20:32 PM
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Wonder how many years she'll be on the site looking. Anyway, preferences are fine. Never understood why people get mad about them.

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Trumble
01/15/22 1:20:38 PM
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Having a preference is reality. Putting it out there as one of the first things people see on your profile is a red flag.

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Ratchetrockon
01/15/22 1:23:20 PM
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There is a small group of black women that really dislike black men and use the same or very similar talking points that racists use. Not saying she is part of that group but just something i thought was relevant to this topic.

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Billyionaire
01/15/22 1:30:03 PM
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Declaring it is bad, but acting on it is okay. Generally speaking, people court and marry within their race because they know it is generally unaccepted within society to do otherwise. So it's fine not to court outside of your race but declaring it is where there's an issue.

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lolife67
01/15/22 1:40:26 PM
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[LFAQs-redacted-quote]

It's also very weird/problematic for one to exclude the race that they are.
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FortuneCookie
01/15/22 1:57:22 PM
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People's preferences are people's preferences. She could have self-image issues or being a social climber. She could just have a thing for white chocolate. ;)

The way that she's worded it is a little abrasive, but it could just be a no means no sentiment. If she says she has a preference, any guy outside that preference with eyes for her and confidence in himself is going to test that. This could just be her way of saying she means it.

It's not something that I would warrant as a red flag on its own.
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Smackems
01/15/22 1:58:00 PM
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AloneIBreak posted...
If that makes her interested in me thats fine. If not, then its totally racist.


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Donomark
01/15/22 2:03:24 PM
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Everyone is entitled to their preferences. That doesn't obviate them from judgment for those preferences. A person who refuses to date someone of their own race is definitely a red flag. That's more than a preference, that points to some kind of racial essentialism.

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lorddrakath1522
01/15/22 2:21:56 PM
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While there's nothing wrong with having a preference in who you date, you really shouldn't be putting it on a dating profile.
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BeantownHero
01/15/22 2:23:28 PM
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SrRd_RacinG posted...
...I ONLY date white men.

Assess this rationally. Is this a crimson red flag?

Self haters come in all shapes and sizes, my friend

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_MorningStar
01/15/22 2:25:02 PM
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Basketballs don't hold grudges.

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Flauros
01/15/22 2:25:18 PM
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Dont fetishize us!

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KStateKing17
01/15/22 2:29:01 PM
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I think it's a dumb mindset to have. There's nothing wrong with admiring the looks of specific groups. To completely avoid a certain race of people means there's some prejudice involved, even if it's your own.

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Machete
01/15/22 2:30:33 PM
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SrRd_RacinG posted...
Is this a crimson red flag?

no, it's a cerulean red flag

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Vicious_Dios
01/15/22 2:31:20 PM
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How T H I C C is this baddie?

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SSJGrimReaper
01/15/22 2:32:09 PM
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reverse cultural differences

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LeoRavus
01/15/22 2:32:11 PM
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Every black woman I've been friends with wanted to fuck. I had one tell me how pretty mixed children are and she wanted one.

Not even making this up. lol

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BeantownHero
01/15/22 2:36:27 PM
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Ratchetrockon posted...
There is a small group of black women that really dislike black men and use the same or very similar talking points that racists use. Not saying she is part of that group but just something i thought was relevant to this topic.

There's a not so small section of Black Girl Twitter dedicated to Divesment

https://twitter.com/nuskibitxh/status/1479936766865981444?t=gp6V2oisNo-raZO7UIztuA&s=19


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SrRd_RacinG
01/16/22 11:03:01 AM
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Red flag as FUCK.

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Drunk Cobra
01/16/22 11:12:35 AM
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Trumble posted...
Having a preference is reality. Putting it out there as one of the first things people see on your profile is a red flag.


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Guide
01/16/22 11:15:02 AM
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FortuneCookie posted...
People's preferences are people's preferences. She could have self-image issues or being a social climber. She could just have a thing for white chocolate. ;)

The way that she's worded it is a little abrasive, but it could just be a no means no sentiment. If she says she has a preference, any guy outside that preference with eyes for her and confidence in himself is going to test that. This could just be her way of saying she means it.

It's not something that I would warrant as a red flag on its own.

Your vouch is also a red flag tbh

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nfearurspecimn
01/16/22 11:15:36 AM
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[LFAQs-redacted-quote]

bigot

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pogo_rabid
01/16/22 11:16:16 AM
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Wait wait wait, lets clear something up.

Are we talking about a dating site, or a "dating" site?

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ElatedVenusaur
01/16/22 11:17:13 AM
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LeoRavus posted...
Every black woman I've been friends with wanted to fuck. I had one tell me how pretty mixed children are and she wanted one.

Not even making this up. lol
Well, that's true, IMO. Mix all the races, I say!

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FortuneCookie
01/16/22 11:18:51 AM
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Guide posted...
Your vouch is also a red flag tbh


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Ilishe
01/16/22 11:19:03 AM
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That's fine. It's her preference, her sex life, her personal stuff.

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gamepimp12
01/16/22 11:19:42 AM
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CEs really grown up cause 2-3 years ago this would of been a whole debate.

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VerisimiIitude
01/16/22 11:20:05 AM
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It's a red flag but honestly it's one that you should probably fly if it applies. If you're THAT hung up on race, I'd like to know before wasting any time.

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Criminalt
01/16/22 11:24:48 AM
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No one's losing out just because you're not dating or sleeping with them, but you might be.

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ClockworkHare
01/16/22 4:31:56 PM
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Don't sweat it. She's admittedly doing a huge favor for many black men.

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KStateKing17
01/16/22 5:56:27 PM
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ClockworkHare posted...
Don't sweat it. She's admittedly doing a huge favor for many black men.
That is true. I just hate when people like that have kids.

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RiKuToTheMiGhtY
01/16/22 6:32:29 PM
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She clearly hates black men which is fucked up, this is also a case where a black woman is evidence on why some black men date every other kind of woman because they are tired of the hate from black women like this person.

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Nemu
01/16/22 6:34:41 PM
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I'd say publically voicing it is more of a damning trait than actually having the preference. Whatever rational or irrational views lead someone to having such a preference, it's really nothing that needs to be advertised to others outside some very specific circumstances.
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apocalyptic_4
01/16/22 6:39:22 PM
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I don't care about other people's preferences.

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SSJGrimReaper
01/16/22 6:39:32 PM
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imo it comes off as fetish-y

those "i ONLY date _______" ppl are usually into weird raceplay stuff

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Oh_Boy_
01/16/22 6:40:52 PM
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I may be out of line, but isn't this sort of like posting a public resignation letter for a job that fired you 15 years ago?
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Zergrush80
01/16/22 6:55:42 PM
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Ive known several black women that will tell you that they wont ever date a black man. I knew one that was early 20s that preferred older white guys and Im talking guys in like the 50s and one that would only date Hispanic guys. Ive also seen white women that only dates black guys and such too. I was an equal opportunity dater before I got married.


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Lordgold666
01/17/22 12:31:10 AM
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lorddrakath1522 posted...
While there's nothing wrong with having a preference in who you date, you really shouldn't be putting it on a dating profile.
Lol

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dj1200
01/17/22 12:32:50 AM
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I prefer mixed girls.

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VigorouslySwish
01/17/22 12:37:36 AM
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ya thats def a huge red flag for everyone

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Turbam
01/17/22 12:41:06 AM
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https://youtu.be/CybIKwEhX1k

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pogo_rabid
01/17/22 2:02:39 AM
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Timely
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