Poll of the Day > 'dating advice' always seems so weird to me

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PunishedOni 08/01/21 12:17:16 AM #1:	all of my relationships have started with an appreciation of one another's Deeply Weird personalities and grown from there. i feel like anybody who followed this stuff would just come across as too curated to make me interested at all. maybe its because i have autism idk. do neurotypical people actually want to date someone who has their lives together and can avoid talking about bionicles for 2 hours. i had 2 beers and i feel really drunk --- hi im chelsea ^__^ You have entered the lair of SOMA - the Sega Online Machine Agent. Turn back now, or prepare to be digitized! <cite>PunishedOni posted [p:956660108] in 'dating ad... [t:79592924]...</cite> <quote>all of my relationships have started with an appreciation of one another's Deeply Weird personalities and grown from there. i feel like anybody who followed this stuff would just come across as too curated to make me interested at all. maybe its because i have autism idk. do neurotypical people actually want to date someone who has their lives together and can avoid talking about bionicles for 2 hours. i had 2 beers and i feel really drunk </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KodyKeir 08/01/21 2:23:40 AM #2:	PunishedOni posted... someone who has their lives together and can avoid talking about bionicles for 2 hours Is that possible? --- Why didn't you DODGE‽‽‽ Quoting me will trigger the profanity filter, Not Joking. <cite>KodyKeir posted [p:956662648] in 'dating ad... [t:79592924]...</cite> <quote>PunishedOni posted... </cite> <quote>someone who has their lives together and can avoid talking about bionicles for 2 hours</quote>Is that possible? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
jramirez23 08/01/21 2:28:27 AM #3:	One of the weird things I have heard is that we typically celebrate business people who have put together a good plan and monitor all aspects of their company in a detailed, organized fashion. But if you take this same approach to something like finding a partner, it just seems weird to a lot of people. Maybe not as much anymore. What do you think of that? --- When life backs you up into a corner, come out swingin'! <cite>jramirez23 posted [p:956662732] in 'dating ad... [t:79592924]...</cite> <quote>One of the weird things I have heard is that we typically celebrate business people who have put together a good plan and monitor all aspects of their company in a detailed, organized fashion. But if you take this same approach to something like finding a partner, it just seems weird to a lot of people. Maybe not as much anymore. What do you think of that? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Clench281 08/01/21 6:11:16 AM #4:	People typically want to date someone 1) who can carry on a conversation about topics of shared interest, and 2) who shows they meet a minimum threshold of functioning as an adult in terms of being able to groom themselves, feed themselves, and maintain a healthy body --- Take me for what I am -- who I was meant to be. And if you give a damn, take me baby, or leave me. <cite>Clench281 posted [p:956665109] in 'dating ad... [t:79592924]...</cite> <quote>People typically want to date someone 1) who can carry on a conversation about topics of shared interest, and 2) who shows they meet a minimum threshold of functioning as an adult in terms of being able to groom themselves, feed themselves, and maintain a healthy body </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Reigning_King 08/01/21 6:41:29 AM #5:	jramirez23 posted... One of the weird things I have heard is that we typically celebrate business people who have put together a good plan and monitor all aspects of their company in a detailed, organized fashion. But if you take this same approach to something like finding a partner, it just seems weird to a lot of people. Maybe not as much anymore. What do you think of that? Well romantic love is basically a socially acceptable and widespread form of psychosis so in a bizarre way it makes sense for people to not want it to make sense the way many other things do. <cite>Reigning_King posted [p:956665425] in 'dating ad... [t:79592924]...</cite> <quote>jramirez23 posted... </cite> <quote>One of the weird things I have heard is that we typically celebrate business people who have put together a good plan and monitor all aspects of their company in a detailed, organized fashion. But if you take this same approach to something like finding a partner, it just seems weird to a lot of people. Maybe not as much anymore. What do you think of that?</quote>Well romantic love is basically a socially acceptable and widespread form of psychosis so in a bizarre way it makes sense for people to not want it to make sense the way many other things do. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
PunishedOni 08/01/21 12:13:00 PM #6:	Reigning_King posted... Well romantic love is basically a socially acceptable and widespread form of psychosis Is everything ok --- hi im chelsea ^__^ You have entered the lair of SOMA - the Sega Online Machine Agent. Turn back now, or prepare to be digitized! <cite>PunishedOni posted [p:956670945] in 'dating ad... [t:79592924]...</cite> <quote>Reigning_King posted... </cite> <quote>Well romantic love is basically a socially acceptable and widespread form of psychosis </quote> Is everything ok </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Nightwind 08/01/21 3:49:23 PM #7:	I've enjoyed my relationships with both the deeply strange, and rather normal. --- Nightwind "the wind has no destination" <cite>Nightwind posted [p:956676541] in 'dating ad... [t:79592924]...</cite> <quote>I've enjoyed my relationships with both the deeply strange, and rather normal. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SunWuKung420 08/01/21 4:00:11 PM #8:	As a weirdo, I'm blessed that my wife loves me for me. --- My theme song - https://youtu.be/uYjM-BuE3Cs <cite>SunWuKung420 posted [p:956676839] in 'dating ad... [t:79592924]...</cite> <quote>As a weirdo, I'm blessed that my wife loves me for me. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Mead 08/01/21 4:09:14 PM #9:	Everybody is different sometimes two people both liking bread can be enough to spark romantic feelings --- my resting temp can easily be in the 90's -Krazy_Kirby <cite>Mead posted [p:956677076] in 'dating ad... [t:79592924]...</cite> <quote>Everybody is different sometimes two people both liking bread can be enough to spark romantic feelings </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
NemesisOgreKing 08/01/21 4:20:07 PM #10:	Been always told to be yourself, don't have expectations, if you don't get along/gel it was not meant to be, and don't date someone based on their physical appearance. I don't know how good that advice is as woman, sex, relationships, and dating are eldritch concepts to me. I just play video games. :3 --- https://www.reddit.com/r/TheCinemassacreTruth/ Don't be a Slob Your knowledge is only overshadowed by your stupidity, Starscream. <cite>NemesisOgreKing posted [p:956677377] in 'dating ad... [t:79592924]...</cite> <quote>Been always told to be yourself, don't have expectations, if you don't get along/gel it was not meant to be, and don't date someone based on their physical appearance. I don't know how good that advice is as woman, sex, relationships, and dating are eldritch concepts to me. I just play video games. :3 </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Mead 08/01/21 4:31:05 PM #11:	NemesisOgreKing posted... Been always told to be yourself, don't have expectations, if you don't get along/gel it was not meant to be, and don't date someone based on their physical appearance. I don't know how good that advice is as woman, sex, relationships, and dating are eldritch concepts to me. I just play video games. :3 It is very good advice. Its ok to stick to your routine and its ok to try something different sometimes. Its ok to change and grow over time but its okay to stick to the same things you like if thats enough to make you happy. Its good to listen to wisdom from others but in the end only you know what is the best way for you to live your life. --- my resting temp can easily be in the 90's -Krazy_Kirby <cite>Mead posted [p:956677668] in 'dating ad... [t:79592924]...</cite> <quote>NemesisOgreKing posted... </cite> <quote>Been always told to be yourself, don't have expectations, if you don't get along/gel it was not meant to be, and don't date someone based on their physical appearance. I don't know how good that advice is as woman, sex, relationships, and dating are eldritch concepts to me. I just play video games. :3</quote> It is very good advice. Its ok to stick to your routine and its ok to try something different sometimes. Its ok to change and grow over time but its okay to stick to the same things you like if thats enough to make you happy. Its good to listen to wisdom from others but in the end only you know what is the best way for you to live your life. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
BEERandWEED 08/01/21 4:33:08 PM #12:	That's why my dating advice is always be yourself. <cite>BEERandWEED posted [p:956677730] in 'dating ad... [t:79592924]...</cite> <quote>That's why my dating advice is always be yourself. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Kanatteru 08/01/21 4:35:30 PM #13:	i don't really understand dating in general. it's not that i don't want companionship or intimacy, it's just that everyone is different and has different needs and communication styles, so my previous relationships were all just finding out by chance that theirs were compatible with mine in some way. but that's kind of random and has to happen organically. i don't know if there's any one size fits all advice other than "be yourself" --- despair-inducing <cite>Kanatteru posted [p:956677798] in 'dating ad... [t:79592924]...</cite> <quote>i don't really understand dating in general. it's not that i don't want companionship or intimacy, it's just that everyone is different and has different needs and communication styles, so my previous relationships were all just finding out by chance that theirs were compatible with mine in some way. but that's kind of random and has to happen organically. i don't know if there's any one size fits all advice other than "be yourself" </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ParanoidObsessive 08/01/21 5:44:08 PM #14:	BEERandWEED posted... That's why my dating advice is always be yourself. That only helps when "yourself" is not an asshole or a creep, though. --- "Wall of Text'D!" --- oldskoolplayr76 "POwned again." --- blight family <cite>ParanoidObsessive posted [p:956679675] in 'dating ad... [t:79592924]...</cite> <quote><cite>BEERandWEED posted...</cite> <quote>That's why my dating advice is always be yourself.</quote> That only helps when "yourself" is not an asshole or a creep, though.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Mead 08/01/21 5:46:27 PM #15:	ParanoidObsessive posted... That only helps when "yourself" is not an asshole or a creep, though. plenty of women are assholes and creeps --- my resting temp can easily be in the 90's -Krazy_Kirby <cite>Mead posted [p:956679736] in 'dating ad... [t:79592924]...</cite> <quote>ParanoidObsessive posted... </cite> <quote>That only helps when "yourself" is not an asshole or a creep, though.</quote> plenty of women are assholes and creeps </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Reigning_King 08/01/21 5:48:19 PM #16:	ParanoidObsessive posted... That only helps when "yourself" is not an asshole or a creep, though. Second one yes, first one no. There is definitely a noninsignifcant percentage of women who like men who are assholes. <cite>Reigning_King posted [p:956679783] in 'dating ad... [t:79592924]...</cite> <quote>ParanoidObsessive posted... </cite> <quote>That only helps when "yourself" is not an asshole or a creep, though.</quote>Second one yes, first one no. There is definitely a noninsignifcant percentage of women who like men who are assholes. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
PunishedOni 08/01/21 6:16:16 PM #17:	Reigning_King posted... Second one yes, first one no. There is definitely a noninsignifcant percentage of women who like men who are assholes. do you spend a lot of time on reddit --- hi im chelsea ^__^ You have entered the lair of SOMA - the Sega Online Machine Agent. Turn back now, or prepare to be digitized! <cite>PunishedOni posted [p:956680604] in 'dating ad... [t:79592924]...</cite> <quote>Reigning_King posted... </cite> <quote>Second one yes, first one no. There is definitely a noninsignifcant percentage of women who like men who are assholes.</quote>do you spend a lot of time on reddit </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Reigning_King 08/01/21 6:23:32 PM #18:	PunishedOni posted... do you spend a lot of time on reddit Gross, no. Reddit is an even worse forum than this one, the garbage is hardly navigable. The only time I ever go there is if I'm looking something up like for a game and Google has no other relevant results to point me towards. Really I'm much more of a 4chan guy nornally over this place but I kinda got perma banned there and since I'm not at home it's more trouble than it's worth to evade it. <cite>Reigning_King posted [p:956680817] in 'dating ad... [t:79592924]...</cite> <quote>PunishedOni posted... </cite> <quote>do you spend a lot of time on reddit</quote>Gross, no. Reddit is an even worse forum than this one, the garbage is hardly navigable. The only time I ever go there is if I'm looking something up like for a game and Google has no other relevant results to point me towards. Really I'm much more of a 4chan guy nornally over this place but I kinda got perma banned there and since I'm not at home it's more trouble than it's worth to evade it. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
PunishedOni 08/01/21 6:26:34 PM #19:	Reigning_King posted... Really I'm much more of a 4chan guy nornally over this place but I kinda got perma banned there ah. do you think you spend more time talking to women or reading 4chan posts about women --- hi im chelsea ^__^ You have entered the lair of SOMA - the Sega Online Machine Agent. Turn back now, or prepare to be digitized! <cite>PunishedOni posted [p:956680894] in 'dating ad... [t:79592924]...</cite> <quote>Reigning_King posted... </cite> <quote>Really I'm much more of a 4chan guy nornally over this place but I kinda got perma banned there</quote> ah. do you think you spend more time talking to women or reading 4chan posts about women </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Mead 08/01/21 6:27:05 PM #20:	Reigning_King posted... I'm much more of a 4chan guy a pedophile? --- my resting temp can easily be in the 90's -Krazy_Kirby <cite>Mead posted [p:956680917] in 'dating ad... [t:79592924]...</cite> <quote>Reigning_King posted... </cite> <quote>I'm much more of a 4chan guy</quote> a pedophile? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Unbridled9 08/01/21 6:36:10 PM #21:	Is that possible? I was one of the first people to beat the online Bionicle game. I remember rushing online every day to check to see if they had added a new chapter and watched as they progressed from Gali to all the others. Kopaka was the last IIRC before they added the weird RPG bit right at the end. I think it was meant to advertise the Mask of Light. --- I am the gentle hand who heals, the happy smile who shields, and the foot that will kick your ***! - White Mage <cite>Unbridled9 posted [p:956681162] in 'dating ad... [t:79592924]...</cite> <quote> <quote>Is that possible?</quote> I was one of the first people to beat the online Bionicle game. I remember rushing online every day to check to see if they had added a new chapter and watched as they progressed from Gali to all the others. Kopaka was the last IIRC before they added the weird RPG bit right at the end. I think it was meant to advertise the Mask of Light. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Reigning_King 08/01/21 6:36:18 PM #22:	PunishedOni posted... ah. do you think you spend more time talking to women or reading 4chan posts about women The latter, why? Mead posted... a pedophile? Lol this is pretty funny coming from you given that post you just made in that other topic about not immediately judging groups and being more accepting and shit. Nothing but empty feel good phrases I suppose. <cite>Reigning_King posted [p:956681169] in 'dating ad... [t:79592924]...</cite> <quote>PunishedOni posted... </cite> <quote>ah. do you think you spend more time talking to women or reading 4chan posts about women</quote>The latter, why? Mead posted... </cite> <quote>a pedophile?</quote> Lol this is pretty funny coming from you given that post you just made in that other topic about not immediately judging groups and being more accepting and shit. Nothing but empty feel good phrases I suppose. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
PunishedOni 08/01/21 6:38:22 PM #23:	Reigning_King posted... The latter, why? just wondering. hows your day going --- hi im chelsea ^__^ You have entered the lair of SOMA - the Sega Online Machine Agent. Turn back now, or prepare to be digitized! <cite>PunishedOni posted [p:956681225] in 'dating ad... [t:79592924]...</cite> <quote>Reigning_King posted... </cite> <quote>The latter, why?</quote>just wondering. hows your day going </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Reigning_King 08/01/21 6:40:24 PM #24:	PunishedOni posted... just wondering. hows your day going Same as usual. I haven't left the room I'm in for a few days but I might need to buy some water later today. I just read and play video games and stuff, it's pretty comfy. How are you? <cite>Reigning_King posted [p:956681282] in 'dating ad... [t:79592924]...</cite> <quote>PunishedOni posted... </cite> <quote>just wondering. hows your day going</quote>Same as usual. I haven't left the room I'm in for a few days but I might need to buy some water later today. I just read and play video games and stuff, it's pretty comfy. How are you? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Mead 08/01/21 6:57:42 PM #25:	Reigning_King posted... Lol this is pretty funny coming from you given that post you just made in that other topic about not immediately judging groups and being more accepting and shit. Nothing but empty feel good phrases I suppose. Im okay being hypocritical when it comes to judging pedophilia. Im against it, unlike some others --- my resting temp can easily be in the 90's -Krazy_Kirby <cite>Mead posted [p:956681757] in 'dating ad... [t:79592924]...</cite> <quote>Reigning_King posted... </cite> <quote>Lol this is pretty funny coming from you given that post you just made in that other topic about not immediately judging groups and being more accepting and shit. Nothing but empty feel good phrases I suppose.</quote> Im okay being hypocritical when it comes to judging pedophilia. Im against it, unlike some others </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LinkPizza 08/01/21 8:27:52 PM #26:	People will just date someone they like. Its that simple Clench281 posted... People typically want to date someone 1) who can carry on a conversation about topics of shared interest, and 2) who shows they meet a minimum threshold of functioning as an adult in terms of being able to groom themselves, feed themselves, and maintain a healthy body Sometimes, they dont even need all of that --- Official King of Kings Switch FC: 7216-4417-4511 Add Me because I'll probably add you. I'm probably the LinkPizza you'll see around. <cite>LinkPizza posted [p:956684046] in 'dating ad... [t:79592924]...</cite> <quote>People will just date someone they like. Its that simple Clench281 posted...</cite> <quote>People typically want to date someone 1) who can carry on a conversation about topics of shared interest, and 2) who shows they meet a minimum threshold of functioning as an adult in terms of being able to groom themselves, feed themselves, and maintain a healthy body</quote> Sometimes, they dont even need all of that</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
honkzilla 08/01/21 9:18:30 PM #27:	Reigning_King posted... the garbage is hardly navigable I like it when people put themselves on blast by admitting that they don't know how to follow a threaded discussion It's like a giant "I say very little that matters" sign <cite>honkzilla posted [p:956685340] in 'dating ad... [t:79592924]...</cite> <quote>Reigning_King posted... </cite> <quote>the garbage is hardly navigable</quote>I like it when people put themselves on blast by admitting that they don't know how to follow a threaded discussion It's like a giant "I say very little that matters" sign </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Reigning_King 08/01/21 9:50:41 PM #28:	honkzilla posted... I like it when people put themselves on blast by admitting that they don't know how to follow a threaded discussion It's like a giant "I say very little that matters" sign Right and the attitude redditors have of being starved for attention and saying/doing whatever they can to be recognized and rewarded by their """community""" is a great side effect of that format I'm sure. Reddit is absolute trash my guy. <cite>Reigning_King posted [p:956686094] in 'dating ad... [t:79592924]...</cite> <quote>honkzilla posted... </cite> <quote>I like it when people put themselves on blast by admitting that they don't know how to follow a threaded discussion It's like a giant "I say very little that matters" sign</quote>Right and the attitude redditors have of being starved for attention and saying/doing whatever they can to be recognized and rewarded by their """community""" is a great side effect of that format I'm sure. Reddit is absolute trash my guy. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DirtBasedSoap 08/01/21 10:12:26 PM #29:	people still post on 4chan? wtf --- weiners and farts??? idk lol <cite>DirtBasedSoap posted [p:956686645] in 'dating ad... [t:79592924]...</cite> <quote>people still post on 4chan? wtf </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Zareth 08/01/21 11:19:56 PM #30:	Reigning_King posted... Well romantic love is basically a socially acceptable and widespread form of psychosis No it isn't I know you're trying to be an intellectual edgelord, so I'll be one too but actually be right - romantic love is biologically designed for two compatible partners to reproduce, and for the male to stay with the female long enough to support her in raising the child. --- In my opinion, all slavery is wrong, even the really fancy kind - Mead <cite>Zareth posted [p:956688287] in 'dating ad... [t:79592924]...</cite> <quote>Reigning_King posted... </cite> <quote>Well romantic love is basically a socially acceptable and widespread form of psychosis</quote>No it isn't I know you're trying to be an intellectual edgelord, so I'll be one too but actually be right - romantic love is biologically designed for two compatible partners to reproduce, and for the male to stay with the female long enough to support her in raising the child. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
honkzilla 08/02/21 12:59:10 AM #31:	Reigning_King posted... Right and the attitude redditors have of being starved for attention and saying/doing whatever they can to be recognized and rewarded by their """community""" is a great side effect of that format I'm sure. Reddit is absolute trash my guy. I don't see how any of that has anything to do with anything I said lol <cite>honkzilla posted [p:956690370] in 'dating ad... [t:79592924]...</cite> <quote>Reigning_King posted... </cite> <quote>Right and the attitude redditors have of being starved for attention and saying/doing whatever they can to be recognized and rewarded by their """community""" is a great side effect of that format I'm sure. Reddit is absolute trash my guy.</quote>I don't see how any of that has anything to do with anything I said lol </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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