Current Events > That feeling when you lend someone money and they dont return your msgs

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Or calls even though your co workers and it's already 2 weeks past the date they said they'll pay you back.



This is why I never ask people for money and what I get for being nice fml

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Find the bastard at work and knock him into the fax machine.

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i hate it when people take my msg.

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I got like $350 I'm owed from 2 people, one of them always reminds me and tells me he owes me money but never pays me. He does tell me he buys beer, drugs, etc...

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Never, EVER lend money without being prepared to lose it

give it freely

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Yea if youre lending money you should only do it if you arent expecting it back.

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This is why you dont ever lend money to people.

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RedJackson posted...

Never, EVER lend money without being prepared to lose it

give it freely

TheVipaGTS posted...

Yea if youre lending money you should only do it if you arent expecting it back.

RiKuToTheMiGhtY posted...

This is why you dont ever lend money to people.

El Mexicano Texano posted...

I got like $350 I'm owed from 2 people, one of them always reminds me and tells me he owes me money but never pays me. He does tell me he buys beer, drugs, etc...

Well fml

I know I'll see him at work next week I'm just disappointed. 300 bucks but at least message me back trying to ghost me when I work with you like wtf are you doing bro.

Never again

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Heres a tip. Dont tiptoe around the issue. Be blunt and say "where is my money. I NEED my money. Now."

If you let them walk all over you, or even worse excuse them when they give you an excuse. It will only get worse.

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Flauros posted...

Heres a tip. Dont tiptoe around the issue. Be blunt and say "where is my money. I NEED my money. Now."

If you let them walk all over you, or even worse excuse them when they give you an excuse. It will only get worse.

Made all those mistakes when he said he didn't have it last week.

Why are people like this. I cant imagine begging for money and doing this after its embarrassing

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apocalyptic_4 posted...

Made all those mistakes when he said he didn't have it last week.

Why are people like this. I cant imagine begging for money and doing this after its embarrassing

Time to just be like bruh

I mean, you can explain shit in terms of man I gotta eat too - fucks wrong with you

but sometimes action is necessary, in the event that you cannot commit to that or that is not possible then just tuck this as one of those life lessons necessary to your growth lol


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Here's a tip: Don't lend people money if you're a bad judge of character.

If you lend someone money and they won't pay you back, you're a bad judge of character.

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Is harassment justified if they won't return money to you?

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Any time someone asks to borrow money from me, I dont give it to them unless Im willing to just give that money away

So if someone asks for like $100 I can feel comfortable in giving that away depending on who it is and how much I care about them But if it was like $1,000 or more I would just say no.

I dont lend out money anymore.

I dont have it.

I dont have it because people dont meet their obligations to me.

So when I deny your loan request, thank the people who came before you that took advantage of my kindness.

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There are very few people that I would be willing to lend money to. There are family members I don't trust enough to pay me back.

Even if I know that I'm going to be paid back promptly I don't lend the money out.

Some people dig their own graves then want to pull you in with them.

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I think the only time I ever got repaid was when I loaned my parents $5000 to get their furnace and AC replaced the next day.

i wonder why money is such a hot topic issue that something as simple as "giving it back" is seemingly incomprehensible

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AsucaHayashi posted...

i wonder why money is such a hot topic issue that something as simple as "giving it back" is seemingly incomprehensible

Never loan money that cripples you if it never comes back.

I never loan anyone cash I cant afford to lose, nor do I pester.

If they choose never to pay me back again then fuck it, but I'm never giving them another thing or doing anything for them again, ever.

No matter how minor or severe. And if they ask why I'll be sure to remind them why each and everytime. Forever, cus I wont forget.

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RedJackson posted...

Never, EVER lend money without being prepared to lose it

give it freely

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It's just money dude. The other guy gets it, so take his lead

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People who dont return money they owe are scum bags. It doesnt matter if the lender can afford to lose that money or not. Its a matter of being an honest person who keeps their word. I dont lend money to anyone.

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I only lend my friends money and even then I give it without expecting it back. Bever loan money that you are unable to loan. All it does is strain relationships. Lost. a good friend to losing money. Needed it for his rent. First it was a $100, then it was $300, then he wanted to use my credit card for a car when I told him no he asked I could ask my mom. I took the phone to her so he could ask her, she of course said no. Then I stopped talking to him. My lesson was learned.

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If the amount isn't much, consider it a small price to pay so that the parasite will never bother you again.
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Thanks for the responses this guy still isn't answering my calls.

I seriously can not imagine doing this to someone. I'm 31 years old and I've never asked anyone for money at my lowest point I was at a pawn shop selling my stuff for cash.

I'm not even mad I'm just disappointed, people need to really learn how to manage money I'm never helping out people like this ever again.

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