Current Events > As a pick up artist, this is my date template

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I've been experimenting with various factors, this is the one that seems to work best

I invite a girl for happy hour at a Thai restaurant. Just exotic enough to be enticing and different, not enough to be weird

But since I live downtown, I tell her to park outside my building since it'll be easier to find parking (true) and meet me and then we can walk over to the thai restaurant together (it's 2 blocks away)

Once they arrive, ill chat with them a minute outside and tell her I want to make iced tea and to come inside

99% of the time girls agree to this. It makes them comfortable with me and my place early. I have them pick the flavor for the iced tea. Then while the water is boiling, I ask them if they want to start with a drink here.

This is more of a 60/40 split with girls. I'm fine either way. I stay home and drink with the girl, talking while the water boils. If we finish the first drink and she wants another ill give her another and work from there...a few dates things have gone so well we never even end up leaving the apt

But generally, after 1 drink, ill put the iced tea in the freezer so it'll be cold by the time we come back (so I'm already setting up coming back home together) and then we walk to the restaurant.

Happy hour is good, because you can splurge a bit without feeling as guilty. Get the drinks and food flowing. Nothing is too heavy so neither of us feels less sexy after. Honestly, I've just started paying for dates but if a girl insists on paying or splitting I just let her. None of it is that expensive due to happy hour and I can afford it. My date Monday was only $60 after tip.

The restaurant is where we spend the most time.
Then I feel it out some more. If I feels she's ready I'll just take her back home for the iced tea (I also offer to add alcohol to it, grey goose is my favorite). If she's not quite ready I take her to the bar/wine bar next door. Rinse and repeat, ill take her to another place after that if I think she needs more time and familiarity.

But I usually try not to go more than 2 bars on top of the happy hour...at some point you're just stringing it out too long. I'd rather just take her home for the iced tea and try to work it from there (and of course letting her leave if she isn't feeling it)

So we'll get home, I'll have her pick a song to play us and I'll pour us drinks (alcohol optional) and keep talking

Eventually that leads to cuddling, then kissing, then you get the idea
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As a pick up artist

lol, what a nerd


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C. Final answer.

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Sometimes, I give No_U_L7 a hard time, but there's nothing wrong with coming up with a successful date template. If it works, it works.

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I4NRulez posted...

lol, what a nerd

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I'm a put down artist.

I put down pick up artists.

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But what do you do when she calls you ugly and says she's ready?

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The typical responses
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Would I get modded if I screenshot what I have TC tagged as?

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Oh and to clarify:

"Do you want to split it?" Or "we can split it if you want" is more often than not a trap and I'll say no

But "let's split it", or "let me pay half" isn't, especially if she says it multiple times. If you're not sure, just say "if you insist?" And you'll find out
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lol Scion as a pick up artist. LOLROFL

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_MorningStar posted...

C. Final answer.

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DirkDiggles posted...

lol Scion as a pick up artist. LOLROFL

Damn, so far today I've been accused of being vegy, cite pineapple and scion. Who next
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Shut the fuck up Vegy.

I4NRulez posted...

lol, what a nerd

lmao!

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You know, you dont have to go to all this trouble to impress your hand.

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So, first make her comfortable at your home, then get her drunk? Some artist.

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Vegy's weird ass gimmicks strike again.
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Scion, you are trying too hard.

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AloneIBreak posted...

So, first make her comfortable at your home, then get her drunk? Some artist.

Drinking together is a very common date activity...sorry if that bothers you

I always ask and they know it's optional (as stated)

I never overpour or give a girl more than she can handle

You can go super light (half drinks before, skip drinks at happy hour, no drink after etc) or skip it entirely if you want....there is nothing in the template that makes alcohol a requirement

Also as mentioned, this is the template or logistics plan...the seduction plan is something else I couldn't explain in a single topic
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No_U_L7 posted...

Oh and to clarify:

"Do you want to split it?" Or "we can split it if you want" is more often than not a trap and I'll say no

But "let's split it", or "let me pay half" isn't, especially if she says it multiple times. If you're not sure, just say "if you insist?" And you'll find out

what do you mean by "trap"?

DavidZ2844 posted...

what do you mean by "trap"?

Ooh allow me to clarify again. Sometimes, some girls will test you. In this scenario, she is testing to see if you are willing to pay, or rather if you think she is worth paying for

If you insist on paying still, she'll upgrade her opinion of you and downgrade if you take her up on her offer to split
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TBH thats a pretty well thought out template lol

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What drinks do you give them?

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LightningAce11 posted...

What drinks do you give them?

I love grey goose, most girls do too as it's quite smooth. Helps to have a variety as girls have different tastes. All I have rn is a huge bottle of goose

And a variety of mixers

Heavy_D_Forever posted...

TBH thats a pretty well thought out template lol

Thank you...years of testing and experimentation

Simple but nails the details, which is what really matters
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Robot2600 posted...

But what do you do when she calls you ugly and says she's ready?

This. The setup seems doomed to fail without accounting for these steps.

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thanks tc i jus tried this n it works 100% i already got laid 9 times. thanks so much! u got a paypal or patreon?

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Hm who would've thought that a girl that parks in front of your house and agrees to go inside, sometimes for drinks, would make her wanna come back to ur place after literally bar hopping and drinking more and more

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Master Kazuya posted...

Hm who would've thought that a girl that parks in front of your house and agrees to go inside, sometimes for drinks, would make her wanna come back to ur place after literally bar hopping and drinking more and more

Logistics template, not seduction template that is something entirely different

Gotta plan for success

Failure to plan, is planning for failure
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I put my iced tea in the freezer as well

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PoopPotato posted...

I put my iced tea in the freezer as well

Gotta remember to take it out at some point lol

If its not cold enough by the time we come back, I add in ice cubes
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Up
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You're super into the iced tea, man

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MutantJohn posted...

You're super into the iced tea, man

I am tbh, its delicious and low cal
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bump
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all bow to the pua

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_MorningStar posted...

C. Final answer.

What is vegy? Final answer.
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No_U_L7 posted...

None of it is that expensive due to happy hour and I can afford it. My date Monday was only $60 after tip.

Honestly, I feel like even that is too much money for a first date. I think you could still get good results for less. Ive taken women to parks, the beach or a nice campus on the weekend when theres barely anyone around, and they seem comfortable. Its also physical, which gets good vibes, but its not distractingly hard like some hikes would be.


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I saw No_U_L7 at a grocery store in Florida yesterday. I told him how cool it was to meet him in person, but I didnt want to be a douche and bother him and ask him for photos or anything. He said, Oh, like youre doing now? I was taken aback, and all I could say was Huh? but he kept cutting me off and going huh? huh? huh? and closing his hand shut in front of my face. I walked away and continued with my shopping, and I heard him chuckle as I walked off. When I came to pay for my stuff up front I saw him trying to walk out the doors with like fifteen cheap watches in his hands without paying.
The girl at the counter was very nice about it and professional, and was like Sir, you need to pay for those first. At first he kept pretending to be tired and not hear her, but eventually turned back around and brought them to the counter.
When she took one of the watches and started scanning it multiple times, he stopped her and told her to scan them each individually to prevent any electrical infetterence, and then turned around and winked at me. I dont even think thats a word. After she scanned each watch and put them in a bag and started to say the price, he kept interrupting her by yawning really loudly.

Lorenzo_2003 posted...

Honestly, I feel like even that is too much money for a first date. I think you could still get good results for less. Ive taken women to parks, the beach or a nice campus on the weekend when theres barely anyone around, and they seem comfortable. Its also physical, which gets good vibes, but its not distractingly hard like some hikes would be.

i live in CA and it was a higher end thai restaurant downtown. im sure you get cheaper...but its convenient, i like it and i can afford it

i think that was for 3 appetizers and 4 drinks, so not like we didn't order a ton
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Is it just vodka/mixers you offer?

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LightningAce11 posted...

Is it just vodka/mixers you offer?

Yes

I have beer atm too but not always

Think I have some rum and a single gin jic they hate vodka

Oh and I have wine but usually save that for stay in dates
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No_U_L7 posted...

i live in CA and it was a higher end thai restaurant downtown. im sure you get cheaper...but its convenient, i like it and i can afford it

i think that was for 3 appetizers and 4 drinks, so not like we didn't order a ton

Yeah, I guess that changes things. If its working, then keep doing it.

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