Current Events > Apparently it would be creepy to text my crush from work to ask her out...

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by getting her number through another coworker who was in her department without her permission. She quit 2 weeks ago and i never got her number.

They said just DM her through Instagram instead. My profile is empty with nothing so I felt that would be creepier since it would look like i just created it to message her.

I guess I have to move on then.

What do you have to lose by texting her?

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Its only creepy if she finds you creepy already.

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yea I don't see how it's creepy unless you beat around the bush or refuse to take no for an answer and harass her.

Just go for it. Ask in it a cool laid way, no pressure or demands. Says no ya move on no biggy

So the people I've asked, girls are saying its weird/creepy, and the guys are saying just go for it.

hmmm

SomeGuyUO posted...

So the people I've asked, girls are saying its weird/creepy, and the guys are saying just go for it.

hmmm

Id go another route. Let her know on Instagram that you wanted to get ahold of her to ask her out, but didnt want to get her number from someone without her permission so went the insta route.

Depends if youre good looking or not

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Dont take advice from this board. Yeah Of course dont text her. Youve already been told to fix your your IG account, follow her, then DM her. If thats the route you want to take

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KILBOTz posted...

Its only creepy if she finds you creepy already.

This.

Dm her and take your shot. If she turns you down you'll probably never talk to her again anyway.

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Call her.

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metallica846 posted...

But youre.on this board.

But Im not part of the 95 percent of this board that look like this


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Dont text a girl if she didnt give you her number. This should be common sense.

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Ive had sex with women whose numbers I got from someone else. If you do nothing the outcome is certain, if you text her or call her then we do not know what will happen but it could be something good or it could be the same as if you do nothing. Therefore, contacting her is the best option for you since thats the only way to have a chance at the outcome youre hoping for.

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Get that gram goin

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jeffhardyb0yz posted...

lol if youve got a creepy IG dont do that. Thats sus.

You should ask your coworkers to ask her for her number for you. That way she can be aware of who wants to contact her and accept/decline. If she's attracted, she'll have them pass her number to you

This. As a guy, I've gotten a phone call from a girl who I didn't give my number to, and it was weird.

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^ thats not a bad idea, asking the friends to ask her . If the answer to this next question is no mainly though

Kinda boils down to are you good looking or did yall have any type of chemistry?

If yes, then get the number and some line like hey my bad I asked around just because I never had a chance before you left or some junk like that and youll be fine.

If no to the upper questions . Youre just gonna have to get drunk one night, get the number and basically go for it all in one text. Delete the text and that way if she never responds youll have pretty much no memory of it.

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gatorsPENSbucs posted...

^ thats not a bad idea, asking the friends to ask her . If the answer to this next question is no mainly though

Kinda boils down to are you good looking or did yall have any type of chemistry?

If yes, then get the number and some line like hey my bad I asked around just because I never had a chance before you left or some junk like that and youll be fine.

If no to the upper questions . Youre just gonna have to get drunk one night, get the number and basically go for it all in one text. Delete the text and that way if she never responds youll have pretty much no memory of it.

The first part, not the second...
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text her then to CE

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