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haloiscoolisbak
06/18/21 5:53:37 AM
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There's only 3 of us in the place. We used to chill a lot in the common area and now I constantly feel like an awkward third wheel as they always cuddle and talk cute around me. The guy has been my friend for over a decade the girl moved in a few months ago.

Am I immature for wanting to move out? I feel so awkward around them all the time.


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Irony
06/18/21 5:55:34 AM
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Ask to join

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Kaiganeer
06/18/21 5:55:47 AM
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are they having sex or just sleeping together tho
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Nukazie
06/18/21 6:00:14 AM
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sleep under their bed

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chrono625
06/18/21 6:00:47 AM
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Lol get ready to be asked to move out.

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haloiscoolisbak
06/18/21 6:00:48 AM
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Kaiganeer posted...
are they having sex or just sleeping together tho

I assume they're fucking. I would not mind one bit if it was some girl he started dating normally and was over all the time. But the way it started happening just feels weird. I know too much about the girl if that makes sense

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haloiscoolisbak
06/18/21 6:02:11 AM
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chrono625 posted...
Lol get ready to be asked to move out.

That's honestly the last thing I'm expecting. The friend definitely needs me more than I need him. I'm his only male friend. Also he'd be shitty about finding a new housemate

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chrono625
06/18/21 6:07:19 AM
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haloiscoolisbak posted...
That's honestly the last thing I'm expecting. The friend definitely needs me more than I need him. I'm his only male friend. Also he'd be shitty about finding a new housemate

I dont think you understand whats about to happen.


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TheoryzC
06/18/21 6:08:30 AM
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Should have known this was gonna happen

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haloiscoolisbak
06/18/21 6:09:04 AM
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chrono625 posted...
I dont think you understand whats about to happen.

I hope they do ask me to move out. It'd be a blissful surprise. I want to move out. They both seem to think I'm heaps cool and chill with it though. Don't know how else to explain it

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yunalenne10
06/18/21 6:33:27 AM
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Do you want to be there though? Why not just initiate the option of moving out?

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Jiggy101011
06/18/21 7:56:26 AM
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I cant imagine living with roommates.

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Buzz Killjoy
06/18/21 7:58:05 AM
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Jiggy101011 posted...
I cant imagine living with roommates.


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gunplagirl
06/18/21 7:59:59 AM
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They're the ones who will ask you to move out. 2 against 1. Or even if it's by seniority, you and him tie and she tie breaks in favor of him.

Start looking for a new place.

That, or join them. Either way, you're probably fucked.

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Choco
06/18/21 8:02:31 AM
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haloiscoolisbak posted...
There's only 3 of us in the place.
wait why did you phrase the title as "two of my housemates" lol

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CADE FOSTER
06/18/21 8:10:46 AM
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get naked and say whose up for a 3some
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DuneMan
06/18/21 8:14:30 AM
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If your name isn't on the lease then you're going to be asked to move out. Even if your buddy doesn't mind you being in the house the new girlfriend will want you gone sooner or later; your presence is going to nag the back of her mind until she notices and acts.

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DaveTheUseless
06/18/21 8:16:58 AM
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Unbiblical.

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VitalGetPrank
06/18/21 8:18:01 AM
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Even if they don't want you to move out I'd do it anyways, being a 3rd wheel sucks and if they have a bad breakup you're going to be right in the middle of it.

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lww99
06/18/21 8:27:36 AM
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haloiscoolisbak posted...
That's honestly the last thing I'm expecting. The friend definitely needs me more than I need him. I'm his only male friend. Also he'd be shitty about finding a new housemate

can they pay the bills with just the 2 of them? If so, your days are numbered

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Vigilancespren
06/18/21 8:52:44 AM
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Tell them you're uncomfortable and ask them to limit the PDA in the common area.

If they refuse, then look into moving out.

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haloiscoolisbak
06/18/21 10:55:34 AM
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Vigilancespren posted...
Tell them you're uncomfortable and ask them to limit the PDA in the common area.

If they refuse, then look into moving out.

this seems like the most sensible option but i would feel like such a prude doing it. but yeah if it becomes unbearable i'll speak to the guy. or move out

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YUNASBFGIR
06/18/21 11:19:00 AM
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So you're unhappy and you want to move out... what's the issue? Just move out. You should feel comfortable in your home.

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weekoldhotdog
06/18/21 11:19:14 AM
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You should have made your move before he did (on her)

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haloiscoolisbak
06/18/21 6:44:39 PM
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weekoldhotdog posted...
You should have made your move before he did (on her)

i was following the don't shit where you eat rule i guess, i can't think of much worse than dating someone you live with. straight from 0 to 100 you know. also she's 20 and we're both 30 lol. i've lost a bit of respect for him because i thought we had a mutual understanding to just treat her friendly. oh well, i'm leaning toward moving out

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shiby with it
06/18/21 6:48:29 PM
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One of them will do something stupid, the other will break it off, and the girl will move out. These things are temporary. Nothing to worry about.

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smoke_break
06/18/21 6:52:06 PM
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VitalGetPrank posted...
Even if they don't want you to move out I'd do it anyways, being a 3rd wheel sucks and if they have a bad breakup you're going to be right in the middle of it.
This. Living with a couple is a disaster waiting to happen. I would not voluntarily put myself in that situation, lol.

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haloiscoolisbak
06/18/21 7:40:47 PM
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Well I feel a bit better now thanks CE. Because of the way the way it happened I thought I was being childish and petty for wanting to move out

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weekoldhotdog
06/18/21 9:00:46 PM
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haloiscoolisbak posted...
i was following the don't shit where you eat rule i guess, i can't think of much worse than dating someone you live with. straight from 0 to 100 you know. also she's 20 and we're both 30 lol. i've lost a bit of respect for him because i thought we had a mutual understanding to just treat her friendly. oh well, i'm leaning toward moving out

not really, if you end up living with your significant other anyways, it kind of makes sense that room mates hook up because that means they don't have to "try as hard" to make a couple. It's kind of like the lazy way of getting a gf. Good on you for having standards tho

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No_U_L7
06/18/21 9:08:03 PM
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haloiscoolisbak posted...


i was following the don't shit where you eat rule i guess, i can't think of much worse than dating someone you live with. straight from 0 to 100 you know. also she's 20 and we're both 30 lol. i've lost a bit of respect for him because i thought we had a mutual understanding to just treat her friendly. oh well, i'm leaning toward moving out


Sounds like you missed out. Your friend is banging a hot 20 year old and runs the house
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MixedRaceBaby
06/18/21 9:09:04 PM
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Lol my wife used to be my housemate

Yeah move tc

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BrandonSmith
06/18/21 9:10:30 PM
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TC probably thought the girl was hot and now hes jelly his roommate is banging her lol
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haloiscoolisbak
06/18/21 9:49:42 PM
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BrandonSmith posted...
TC probably thought the girl was hot and now hes jelly his roommate is banging her lol

She is hot but lots of girls are lol. She wasn't on my radar or anything like that. I just don't like feeling like a third wheel or making others feel like one either. The dynamic of the house has totally changed

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gunplagirl
06/19/21 4:28:59 AM
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TC, you're actually in love with your friend, aren't you?

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haloiscoolisbak
06/19/21 4:32:49 AM
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gunplagirl posted...
TC, you're actually in love with your friend, aren't you?


He's a long term friend and I'm annoyed he's put me in this situation

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gunplagirl
06/19/21 4:35:24 AM
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haloiscoolisbak posted...
He's a long term friend and I'm annoyed he's put me in this situation
Then give him an ultimatum. Say "you have to choose. Date her, or date me. But you can't date both."

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haloiscoolisbak
06/19/21 4:37:51 AM
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gunplagirl posted...
Then give him an ultimatum. Say "you have to choose. Date her, or date me. But you can't date both."

Das just silly

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gunplagirl
06/19/21 4:40:55 AM
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haloiscoolisbak posted...
Das just silly
Then you'd be okay being his side girl?

I wish you luck. I can only hope he loves you as much as you love him.

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haloiscoolisbak
06/19/21 4:43:00 AM
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gunplagirl posted...
Then you'd be okay being his side girl?

I wish you luck. I can only hope he loves you as much as you love him.

You seem unnecessarily rude lol

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