Poll of the Day > Its funny how as a kid what you find attractive in a woman..

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changes over time. I use to think i needed a skinny blond girl then as i got older my options widened to different hair colors/races and now im at the point of my life where id rather date a big girl cos chances are she has a better heart. Been burned too many times.

teddy241 posted...

where id rather date a big girl cos chances are she has a better heart.

There's largely untrue, considering that being overweight doesn't magically make somebody a better person and it's kind of ridiculous to claim that.

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I've always had a thing for gigantic boobs because when I was 3 a lady saved me from drowning and had me cuddled in her towel and all I remember from her are her gigantic boobs

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I used to like MILFs a lot as a teen.

I mean, a sexy ass 40+ year old is still good, but I'm more down for somebody my age(31) now.

I thought I knew what my preference was but now I don't even know.
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CarefreeDude posted...

I've always had a thing for gigantic boobs because when I was 3 a lady saved me from drowning and had me cuddled in her towel and all I remember from her are her gigantic boobs

My middle school Math teacher was a Milf(her son was even in the class with me) and she had the biggest boobs I've still yet to see on a woman, she always wore a really tight sweater adn ahad a skinny body which made it even worse for me. My Mom tried to get me tested for ADHD because I couldn't focus in school but really it was because of my teachers breasts being too large for a 12 y/o boy to not stare at.

I still think about her sometimes.

while there are fat girls who are nice, there are also fat girls who are complete bitches.
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That also goes for food and pretty much anything else. You start to get more appreciation for other things as time goes by, and may even become less interested in the things you once liked.

As for my sexual preferences, while I do have things I'm more into than others, I've found I'm able to appreciate many kinds of beauty. To the point that it often irks me when people here talk about how "ugly" someone is simply for not fitting the common western standard of beauty.

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CarefreeDude posted...

I've always had a thing for gigantic boobs because when I was 3 a lady saved me from drowning and had me cuddled in her towel and all I remember from her are her gigantic boobs

My dude.

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keyblader1985 posted...

That also goes for food and pretty much anything else. You start to get more appreciation for other things as time goes by, and may even become less interested in the things you once liked.

As for my sexual preferences, while I do have things I'm more into than others, I've found I'm able to appreciate many kinds of beauty. To the point that it often irks me when people here talk about how "ugly" someone is simply for not fitting the common western standard of beauty.

Well, at some point, when discussing "beauty", you are going to come to come up against the reality that the word "ugly" does indeed exist to describe something. What that is can be debated, but it's not like "ugly" people don't exist.

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fit body, healthy skin and hair, good posture, good style. more important than quantifiers like boob size or leg length.

GEKGanon posted...

Well, at some point, when discussing "beauty", you are going to come to come up against the reality that the word "ugly" does indeed exist to describe something. What that is can be debated, but it's not like "ugly" people don't exist.

Sure, but there's a large middle ground between the two extremes. But I've seen people talk mad shit about a woman just because she's not their cup of tea.

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Zeus posted...

There's largely untrue, considering that being overweight doesn't magically make somebody a better person and it's kind of ridiculous to claim that.

No he was saying they probably have an enlarged heart

keyblader1985 posted...

Sure, but there's a large middle ground between the two extremes. But I've seen people talk mad shit about a woman just because she's not their cup of tea.

It's because people online are mostly anonymous. I try not to judge people.
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i wouldnt have agreed before but after living the lifestyle all men should be caged and subservient....

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I've always just been attracted to women, especially the variety of women I'm attracted to.

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Arv loves all hot chicks Arv loves some red heads some brunettes blondes multicolor hair Arv likes what he likes and knows what he likes

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I used to love huge boobs and girls on the heavier side (not enormous, but certainly not skinny), but my current girlfriend really made me appreciate thin, curvy, sorta boney girls with smaller boobs. Not to mention race (gf is white).

on the whole, my perception of beauty has widened, but it's crazy to think about how five years ago I probably wouldn't have thought my gf was cute but now I think she's crazy attractive. The only real "preference" I have nowadays is I prefer most hair colors (including unnatural colors) to blonde.

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Guess my preference.
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keyblader1985 posted...

To the point that it often irks me when people here talk about how "ugly" someone is simply for not fitting the common western standard of beauty.

Oh lawdy.


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Zeus posted...

Oh lawdy.

Are you seriously trying to argue that the Western standard of beauty isn't terribly flawed?

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SunWuKung420 posted...

Are you seriously trying to argue that the Western standard of beauty isn't terribly flawed?

Oh lawdy.

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SunWuKung420 posted...

Are you seriously trying to argue that the Western standard of beauty isn't terribly flawed?

Given that "beauty is in the eye of the beholder", in what sense are Western standards of beauty flawed any more than other standards?

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GEKGanon posted...

Given that "beauty is in the eye of the beholder", in what sense are Western standards of beauty flawed any more than other standards?

Unhealthy and skinny isn't sexy.

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SunWuKung420 posted...

Unhealthy and skinny isn't sexy.

unhealthy and fat isn't sexy.

and that didn't answer his question
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Krazy_Kirby posted...

unhealthy and fat isn't sexy.

and that didn't answer his question

No wonder most video gamers are single.
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teddy241 posted...

id rather date a big girl cos chances are she has a better heart.

pretty sure obesity is the primary cause of heart disease.

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I don't mind if a girl is bigger, if she's not lumpy. like, big and SMOOTH is prettier than small and lumpy

/opinion

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every girl who is fat but not lumpy, that's just photoshop she's lump irl

acesxhigh posted...

every girl who is fat but not lumpy, that's just photoshop she's lump irl

What if it's real life instead of online?
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Zeus posted...

There's largely untrue, considering that being overweight doesn't magically make somebody a better person and it's kind of ridiculous to claim that.

I have to agree 100% with this. Ive made the mistake of thinking heavy set girls are nicer a la Shallow Hal... but in reality they have even worse self esteem issues and can be even bitchier than skinny chicks.

All Chicks can be hard sometimes. Might as well get with a hot chick that gives you problems than a fugly chick that gives you problems.

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bulbinking posted...

pretty sure obesity is the primary cause of heart disease.

I could have SWORN that's where Zeus was going with that post.

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HornedLion posted...

I have to agree 100% with this. Ive made the mistake of thinking heavy set girls are nicer a la Shallow Hal... but in reality they have even worse self esteem issues and can be even bitchier than skinny chicks.

All Chicks can be hard sometimes. Might as well get with a hot chick that gives you problems than a fugly chick that gives you problems.

This is the most anecdotal thing ever considering it comes from you.
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I still have a thing for red haired, green eyed, preganant, mid thigh amputees.


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teddy241 posted...

big girl cos chances are she has a better heart

I'd say it's the opposite

Bugmeat posted...

I still have a thing for red haired, green eyed, preganant, mid thigh amputees.

Wait are you Kain?

blu posted...

I'd say it's the opposite

The fat joke was made many posts ago.
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Revelation34 posted...

The fat joke was made many posts ago.

takes fat people awhile to catch up
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Soup_or_Science posted...

I could have SWORN that's where Zeus was going with that post.

You're thinking of MichaleCole, who responded to my post.

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SunWuKung420 posted...

Unhealthy and skinny isn't sexy.

First of all, don't you mean "skinny to the point of unhealthy"? Or "unhealthy in order to remain skinny"?
Or are you just assuming skinny = unhealthy?

Second of all, that didn't actually answer the question.

Third of all, what makes you think "skinny" is a Western beauty standard? Looking at the rest of the world, it seems most cultures value skinny/lean/fit body types versus fat or obese.

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VioletMassacre posted...

You can get heart failure from anorexia too.

Because no one will ever find you attractive?

That's a bit much even for a skinny person such as myself

But I'm not anorexic, my skinniness is genetic

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Soup_or_Science posted...

Because no one will ever find you attractive?

That's a bit much even for a skinny person such as myself

But I'm not anorexic, my skinniness is genetic

Not sure if that's true.
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VioletMassacre posted...

There's lots of weirdos out there that actually gets turned on by anorexic girls, so.. It's like a feeder but the opposite. It's disgusting when guys encourage girls to stay sick.

There are also weirdos into obese women, who encourage them to over-eat. People can have weird kinks.

From there, it's a matter of degrees. Somebody who is slightly underweight is probably a bit healthier than somebody who is slightly overweight, but the further you go in either direction, the worse the health can be. However, weight in general is a kinda piss-poor predictor of health. Somebody who could underweight or overweight and still be healthier than somebody with a normal weight.

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VioletMassacre posted...

There's lots of weirdos out there that actually gets turned on by anorexic girls, so.. It's like a feeder but the opposite. It's disgusting when guys encourage girls to stay sick.

The western ideal of beauty is the #1 cause of the anorexia/bulimia problem. Be skinny or be unloved is a terrible mindset.

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SunWuKung420 posted...

The western ideal of beauty is the #1 cause of the anorexia/bulimia problem. Be skinny or be unloved is a terrible mindset.

also lots of obese people because idiots think it's hot
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Krazy_Kirby posted...

also lots of obese people because idiots think it's hot

Judging that obesity is judged via BMI, a terrible and inaccurate weight vs health indicator, the current idea of what's actually obese is incorrect.

Idiots created the ideal that skin and bones is sexy. Other idiots agreed.

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