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help me out guys

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Sounds like a job for...HUGGLES

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Tag CyricZ and hell tell you why youre wrong

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Whats meant to be will be brother.

Once you realize that life will become much simpler.

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DespondentDeity posted...

Tag @CyricZ and hell tell you why youre wrong

MrDrMan posted...

Whats meant to be will be brother.

Once you realize that life will become much simpler.

ye im just feelin blue

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Nothing can help but time

A billion other women out there in the world.

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Flockaveli posted...

A billion other women out there in the world.

This advice won't help.

WingsOfGood posted...

Nothing can help but time

agreed, i feel better today but still sad oh well

im a man, i didnt know i could even get these feelings

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I remember the first time I experienced this. I was working construction one summer and went to work out of state for a month. I came back and the girl was dating someone else. That was in college so I dont know why I was surprised. I thought it was the end of the world.

It wasnt though. I met more women and had a handful of relationships after that before finding my current girlfriend. Take this and use it as a lesson.

What could you have done differently? Do you actually really like this woman or do you just like the idea of having a woman and the things that comes with like easily accessible pussy? I spent years with a woman that I did actually deeply care about but I knew I would never marry. Looking back I know that I just wanted a girlfriend at the time. Not specifically her.

As someone already said nothing but time will help. Thinking about some of those things might make it a little easier though.

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Da ba dee da ba die?

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Time and (healthy) distractions. Keep yourself busy TC
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It'll pass in time. Try to break all contact if you can. Find other girls.

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Realize that she was never yours, it was just your turn.

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In my opinion:

Take some time for yourself. Don't get caught up in a spiral of self-loathing and shame over what happened, but if you do, try and hash out why you're feeling bad so you can come to terms with it.

If you're having trouble identifying the exact thing that's making you upset, imagine you're describing the situation to somebody else. You might intuitively be able to put it into words that way. Identifying the cause can help you understand how to fix it.

Put your own feelings first, because if you try to feel better while putting other people's feelings ahead of yours, you're gonna have a really bad time. ESPECIALLY if you're trying to be the bigger person and put her feelings first - YOU need to heal right now. Make time for YOU. Don't worry about feeling selfish unless you're in a place where you're doing alright - then you can worry about being selfish. Until then, take the time you need to get back on your feet.

And it's not easy - it's a process. Much easier said than done. Rome wasn't built in a day, and that's okay. Seeking support from others is a good first step.

Apologies if your situation isn't that serious, but I wanted to dump some stuff in case it is. I recently spent a week losing my mind over something shitty, and I think this is the process that helped me come out the other side.

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