Current Events > So friend (girl) for 15 years, married, 2 kids, has told me she's fallen in Love

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SaccharineSmile
01/27/21 8:32:52 PM
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With me

about 2 years ago she started to fall in love with me and wants to have sex with me (after she moved states)

She said this a few days ago (she visited for the month). She just left on a plane back home

should I cheat on my 7 month girlfriend? (yes this was my first thought )

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DrizztLink
01/27/21 8:35:16 PM
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Duncanwii
01/27/21 8:40:17 PM
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Dont be a homewrecker TC. Even if she was the most beautiful girl on the planet she's married and has kids.
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slmcknett
01/27/21 8:40:28 PM
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Lol

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Infinite 2003
01/27/21 8:41:11 PM
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Moral of the story: Never get married

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sktgamer_13dude
01/27/21 8:41:39 PM
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Johnny_Nutcase
01/27/21 8:42:25 PM
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Infinite 2003 posted...
Moral of the story: Never get married


...to a whore....

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MabusIncarnate
01/27/21 8:42:52 PM
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Don't cheat

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SergeantGander
01/27/21 8:43:42 PM
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Duncanwii posted...
Dont be a homewrecker TC. Even if she was the most beautiful girl on the planet she's married and has kids.

If she is unhappy and wants to separate. That is her decision to make, but don't put yourself in the middle of it

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Middle hope
01/27/21 8:44:10 PM
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TheMikh
01/27/21 8:44:57 PM
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SolidShadow3
01/27/21 8:45:27 PM
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No? Theres nothing that's going to come of it. Unless you think shes going to get a divorce and come live with you. But then theres the whole legal battle with kids, etc..

Just leave it alone and tell her it's to late for that.

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unknownhombre
01/27/21 8:55:51 PM
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Nothing good will come out of getting involved.

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jon1012
01/27/21 8:56:43 PM
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pics

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KiwiTerraRizing
01/27/21 8:58:25 PM
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This happened

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Paragon21XX
01/27/21 9:04:56 PM
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This happened

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SaccharineSmile
01/27/21 9:43:12 PM
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SergeantGander posted...
If she is unhappy and wants to separate. That is her decision to make, but don't put yourself in the middle of it

she said if it wasnt for the kids she would seperate in a heartbeat

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SaccharineSmile
01/27/21 9:45:04 PM
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SolidShadow3 posted...
No? Theres nothing that's going to come of it. Unless you think shes going to get a divorce and come live with you. But then theres the whole legal battle with kids, etc..

Just leave it alone and tell her it's to late for that.


man no joke but she said in front of my girlfriend that she wants a 3rd child with me

that didnt go down well lol

also to throw a spanner in the work her husband is like one of my best friends since high school

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Duncanwii
01/27/21 9:45:50 PM
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SaccharineSmile posted...


man no joke but she said in front of my girlfriend that she wants a 3rd child with me

that didnt go down well lol

also to throw a spanner in the work her husband is like one of my best friends since high school

She sounds like a terrible person.
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Kakapo
01/27/21 9:47:22 PM
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SaccharineSmile posted...


also to throw a spanner in the work her husband is like one of my best friends since high school

You should have led with that, to be honest.
Think how your friend would feel if he found out.

How are you leaning on this, TC?

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SaccharineSmile
01/27/21 9:48:30 PM
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jon1012 posted...
pics


she sends me nude photos of her lol for the past few years

shes like ur typical cute girl next door girl

my girlfriend is like ur typical hot model

yeah woe is me lol

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MrKapowski
01/27/21 9:49:02 PM
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sktgamer_13dude
01/27/21 9:49:38 PM
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This happened

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Dreepapult
01/27/21 9:50:04 PM
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Don't be that guy

Nobody likes that guy

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SaccharineSmile
01/27/21 9:51:16 PM
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Kakapo posted...
You should have led with that, to be honest.
Think how your friend would feel if he found out.

How are you leaning on this, TC?


I honestly dont know man

i have a massive ego so it feels good that people want me, so this will be my downfall really


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Duncanwii
01/27/21 9:52:08 PM
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Dreepapult posted...
Don't be that guy

Nobody likes that guy

It sounds to me like she initiated so she's being that girl.
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MrKapowski
01/27/21 9:52:10 PM
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Kami_no_Kami
01/27/21 9:53:30 PM
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Dont be scummy. If you both agree to leave your partners for each other, thats one thing, but dont debase yourself by cheating.
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Turbam
01/27/21 9:53:40 PM
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SolidShadow3
01/27/21 9:53:54 PM
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SaccharineSmile posted...
man no joke but she said in front of my girlfriend that she wants a 3rd child with me

that didnt go down well lol

also to throw a spanner in the work her husband is like one of my best friends since high school
With that info, honestly as bad is it might be.. I'd call up said friend and tell him ASAP (hopefully before shes home) INFRONT of your girlfriend. She'll respect the fuck out of you for it, and he'll know you're a good honest person.

She sounds kinda fucked up, if shes willing to cheat on her husband with you, theres a good chance she'd cheat in you if you ever did get together. Do the right thing man..

Either stay out of it 100%, or tell your bro what she said. For all you know it could be a test.

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MrKapowski
01/27/21 9:54:56 PM
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MedeaLysistrata
01/27/21 9:55:10 PM
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Looking forward to the next 10-20 topics on this

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spikethedevil
01/27/21 9:55:27 PM
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Cheaters are scum bags.

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KamenRiderBlade
01/27/21 10:06:10 PM
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SaccharineSmile posted...
also to throw a spanner in the work her husband is like one of my best friends since high school

Bros b4 Hoes

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WallStreetWolf
01/27/21 10:06:16 PM
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No one in this story should be dating anyone

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Dreepapult
01/27/21 10:07:30 PM
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Duncanwii posted...
It sounds to me like she initiated so she's being that girl.
Yes. But he can also not help her be that girl. So it's still on him as well

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MACisBack
01/27/21 10:10:46 PM
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Its not worth it on any level, and that's coming someone who use to do shit like that before.

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apocalyptic_4
01/27/21 10:31:29 PM
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My manager is in a similar situation but shes in a arrange marriage.

If I had the chance I would in a heartbeat

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SaccharineSmile
01/27/21 11:18:04 PM
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SolidShadow3 posted...
With that info, honestly as bad is it might be.. I'd call up said friend and tell him ASAP (hopefully before shes home) INFRONT of your girlfriend. She'll respect the fuck out of you for it, and he'll know you're a good honest person.

She sounds kinda fucked up, if shes willing to cheat on her husband with you, theres a good chance she'd cheat in you if you ever did get together. Do the right thing man..

Either stay out of it 100%, or tell your bro what she said. For all you know it could be a test.


yeah its such a fucked situation thats Ive never been in before

its something you see on a sitcom or rom-com movie

she asked me if I also had feelings for her... I said I cant answer that (obviously I feel it a little I mean weve been best friends for half my life... its just a logical based emotion person, and logically this doesnt even work unless we cheat on our parents)


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SamsungGearS2
01/27/21 11:21:26 PM
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Too good to be true.

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Delirious_Beard
01/27/21 11:24:54 PM
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didn't you already do this gimmick

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SaccharineSmile
01/27/21 11:36:35 PM
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Delirious_Beard posted...
didn't you already do this gimmick


ha like this time last year? Yeah same girl she visit the city (to see her family and friends) atleast once a year

different now is that I have a girlfriend that have said she loves me

so technically Im now cheating where as last time I wasnt

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BunkerBoy
01/27/21 11:37:07 PM
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TC is a troll. A big LOL at anyone gullible enough to believe him
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SaccharineSmile
01/28/21 6:18:10 PM
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Yeah man I dunno, if I was single this situation would make it easier

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ZeroX91
01/28/21 6:19:21 PM
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Paved paradise to put up a parkinglot~

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