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Duncanwii 01/22/21 9:49:37 PM #1: |
Now I feel bad and she isnt answering my calls. What do I do?
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TeaMilk 01/22/21 9:49:59 PM #2: |
Whatd u fight about
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SteveNasti 01/22/21 9:50:16 PM #3: |
Don't you live together?
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HypnospaceInlaw 01/22/21 9:50:35 PM #4: |
Duncanwii posted...
What do I do?Well, it's never going to be her ... Copied to Clipboard!
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ssj3vegeta 01/22/21 9:51:49 PM #5: |
Calm down, let her calm down as well and call her in da morning
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PoundGarden 01/22/21 9:55:39 PM #6: |
Did she beat you and shove pinecones up your ass?
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Duncanwii 01/22/21 9:55:58 PM #7: |
TeaMilk posted...
Whatd u fight about Earlier today I told her my parents, who are teachers, were being made by the state to go back to work in person before it was safe and she said something along the lines of "well you know, got to die sometime." Wildly inappropriate and thoughtless. I didnt say anything then and it stewed in my brain for the rest of the day and 10 minutes ago I skyped her and demanded an apology. Instead she doubles down and tells me I should be looking for a place for myself and be thinking of moving out, which while true doesn't make what she said any less cruel. So I hung up on her. Now I feel bad and dont want her to be mad at me but she of course isnt answering my calls. --- Hello I'm Duncan, I like Video Games and comedies let's be friends ... Copied to Clipboard!
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orangefire25 01/22/21 9:56:37 PM #8: |
I fucking love this stupid fucking board :)
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yunalenne10 01/22/21 9:58:18 PM #10: |
Duncanwii posted...
"well you know, got to die sometime."...that's not good at all... --- "The more beautiful and pure a thing is, the more satisfying it is to corrupt it." - Rule 43 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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TeaMilk 01/22/21 9:59:12 PM #11: |
Holy shit thats awful of her to say. Didn't expect that
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Dyinglegacy 01/22/21 9:59:54 PM #12: |
Well that sucks mang
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HypnospaceInlaw 01/22/21 10:00:09 PM #13: |
Wow, I can't say that I expected Duncan to be in the right. Wtf was she thinking with that choice of words
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Dyinglegacy 01/22/21 10:00:53 PM #14: |
She was prolly just joking, but got pissed off when you called her out on it
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BeantownHero 01/22/21 10:01:11 PM #15: |
orangefire25 posted...
I fucking love this stupid fucking board :) --- Black In America https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/boards/1527-black-in-america ... Copied to Clipboard!
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MedeaLysistrata 01/22/21 10:02:13 PM #16: |
Duncan is dating a goth?
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Duncanwii 01/22/21 10:06:39 PM #17: |
MedeaLysistrata posted...
Duncan is dating a goth? No shes a wholesome church type, but shes very opinionated and thinks shes right a lot of the time even when shes not. --- Hello I'm Duncan, I like Video Games and comedies let's be friends ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Strider102 01/22/21 10:12:39 PM #18: |
Time to pull out the legendary Eevee shirt.
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KogaSteelfang 01/22/21 10:13:06 PM #19: |
That was a pretty cold thing to say. Sounds like she's frustrated. I'd give her a day or two before calling again.
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Duncanwii 01/22/21 10:17:41 PM #20: |
I dont want to break up over this I still love her. But I cant let this go she was too offensive.
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threetimes 01/22/21 10:22:08 PM #21: |
That is not the kind of remark one would expect a "wholesome church type" person would make. There's something wrong. You have to stand up for yourself over this. She must understand how incredibly callous and cruel that was.
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Drpooplol 01/22/21 10:29:55 PM #22: |
You're definitely owed an apology and shouldn't apologize to her for hanging up on her
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Returning_CEmen 01/22/21 10:30:00 PM #23: |
Sometimes you have to swallow your pride and let things go. Yeah what she said was messed up, but do you really want this fight to continue? Will her apology really make things magically better for you? She obviously is upset you still live at home and lashed out at you when you brought up your parents...who you live at home with.
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Drpooplol 01/22/21 10:31:09 PM #24: |
Returning_CEmen posted...
Sometimes you have to swallow your pride and let things go. Yeah what she said was messed up, but do you really want this fight to continue? Will her apology really make things magically better for you? She obviously is upset you still live at home and lashed out at you when you brought up your parents...who you live at home with.This is super shitty --- "Or do you want to know more about my vagina?" *LIE* "No" ... Copied to Clipboard!
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marthsheretoo 01/22/21 10:32:10 PM #25: |
Returning_CEmen posted...
Sometimes you have to swallow your pride and let things go. Yeah what she said was messed up, but do you really want this fight to continue? Will her apology really make things magically better for you? She obviously is upset you still live at home and lashed out at you when you brought up your parents...who you live at home with. Christ, dude. She pretty much said she didn't care if his parents died. That's not just something you let go, especially not from a SO. --- "Even MarthKoopa has jumped on the MarthKoopa hate wagon." -DevsBro ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Shadowplay 01/22/21 10:32:27 PM #26: |
Duncanwii posted...
I dont want to break up over this I still love her.Sounds like you're falling for the sunk cost fallacy. Honestly, if she doubled down on a remark she made where she literally disregarded the lives of your parents - people that you have known a fuck of a lot longer than her - then breaking up with her should be a strong possibility. The only way that I would forgive her if I were in your shoes is if she apologized of her own accord and gave a sincere, well thought out explanation of why it was a dumb, knee jerk thing to say. --- I make a topic in Final Fantasy 12 to ask if Tifa! They said no Tifa. Hardness gone!-gandob ... Copied to Clipboard!
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PoundGarden 01/22/21 10:33:24 PM #27: |
HypnospaceInlaw posted...
Wow, I can't say that I expected Duncan to be in the right. Wtf was she thinking with that choice of words KogaSteelfang posted... That was a pretty cold thing to say. Sounds like she's frustrated. I'd give her a day or two before calling again. threetimes posted... That is not the kind of remark one would expect a "wholesome church type" person would make. There's something wrong. You have to stand up for yourself over this. She must understand how incredibly callous and cruel that was. Ahem: Duncanwii posted... Instead she doubles down and tells me I should be looking for a place for myself and be thinking of moving out, which while true doesn't make what she said any less cruel. Learn to speak woman. This has been pissing her off for quite some time. She doesnt respect or see you as a man and is embarrassed to be dating an adult who lives at home. --- "You go. I'm just going to stare at the lake and think about how I almost just killed a baby." ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Turbam 01/22/21 10:34:26 PM #28: |
Duncanwii posted...
Earlier today I told her my parents, who are teachers, were being made by the state to go back to work in person before it was safe and she said something along the lines of "well you know, got to die sometime." Wildly inappropriate and thoughtless. I didnt say anything then and it stewed in my brain for the rest of the day and 10 minutes ago I skyped her and demanded an apology. Instead she doubles down and tells me I should be looking for a place for myself and be thinking of moving out, which while true doesn't make what she said any less cruel. So I hung up on her. Now I feel bad and dont want her to be mad at me but she of course isnt answering my calls.That's beyond messed up. I'd honestly end the relationship over that if it was me. --- ~snip (V)_(;,;)_(V) snip~ I'm just one man! Whoa! Well, I'm a one man band! https://imgur.com/p9Xvjvs ... Copied to Clipboard!
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kirbyakaZ 01/22/21 10:35:01 PM #29: |
If true, that's a horrible thing to say to a person.
At this point I suggest self reflection about your future with this woman. Ask yourself questions like:
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Complete_Idi0t 01/22/21 10:35:14 PM #30: |
Hitting women is wrong
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Caution999 01/22/21 10:35:26 PM #31: |
Sounds like she wanted to say something that she knew would hurt you. I doubt she sincerely means what she said. She wants you to be more independent because she is unable to see you as much as you guys used to see each other.
I think it was a cry for attention because she is frustrated that you guys cannot move forward with your relationship. --- You're reading a signature on a dying video game websight. Sad! ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Krojen 01/22/21 10:38:05 PM #32: |
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SolidShadow3 01/22/21 10:40:04 PM #33: |
Gonna be honest with you Duncan:
If shes doubling down on that kind of comment, shes probably toxic. You're better off without her. She sounds judgmental, and that's very much not a good quality to have. --- By Odin's beard! ... Copied to Clipboard!
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