Poll of the Day > I need some serious advice regarding a friend who has been MIA.

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KaijunoKami 12/21/20 5:06:14 PM #1:	I need some serious advice. My wife and I have a friend who we haven't heard from in two weeks. She hasn't been on social media since then and she hasn't returned any of our calls or texts at all. The last thing she texted was that she wasn't paying much attention to her phone because she had just met an incredible guy she was spending her time with to get to know and now we're getting really concerned because she was supposed to come by this weekend to make plans since she was going to be spending Xmas with us and we've heard nothing. What should we do? Is there any way to try to find out she is okay without coming off looking like a pair of stalkers? Now I should also mention we actually don't know where she lives as we have never been to her place before. This was the first year she has actively been hanging out with us even though we have known her for several years now, so us stopping at her place to check on her is out of the question. She has no family that lives here who can help either (she also isn't on speaking terms with them). Now maybe she really hasn't been on her phone to see our stuff, but I just want to make sure. --- Welcome to GameFAQs, where having an opinion is a declaration of war. <cite>KaijunoKami posted [p:948611809] in I need som... [t:79191147]...</cite> <quote>I need some serious advice. My wife and I have a friend who we haven't heard from in two weeks. She hasn't been on social media since then and she hasn't returned any of our calls or texts at all. The last thing she texted was that she wasn't paying much attention to her phone because she had just met an incredible guy she was spending her time with to get to know and now we're getting really concerned because she was supposed to come by this weekend to make plans since she was going to be spending Xmas with us and we've heard nothing. What should we do? Is there any way to try to find out she is okay without coming off looking like a pair of stalkers? Now I should also mention we actually don't know where she lives as we have never been to her place before. This was the first year she has actively been hanging out with us even though we have known her for several years now, so us stopping at her place to check on her is out of the question. She has no family that lives here who can help either (she also isn't on speaking terms with them). Now maybe she really hasn't been on her phone to see our stuff, but I just want to make sure. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
EvilMegas 12/21/20 5:08:35 PM #2:	This is the worst place for this. --- Official Former King of Black People(Lost to Joe Biden) http://imgur.com/a/yNvXsJe <cite>EvilMegas posted [p:948611877] in I need som... [t:79191147]...</cite> <quote>This is the worst place for this. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KaijunoKami 12/21/20 5:09:18 PM #3:	EvilMegas posted... This is the worst place for this. I don't care. I'm out of ideas right now. --- Welcome to GameFAQs, where having an opinion is a declaration of war. <cite>KaijunoKami posted [p:948611904] in I need som... [t:79191147]...</cite> <quote>EvilMegas posted... </cite> <quote>This is the worst place for this.</quote> I don't care. I'm out of ideas right now. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Mead 12/21/20 5:10:06 PM #4:	If you dont know where she lives then no I dont really think theres much you can do. --- YOU control the numbers of leches. -Sal Vulcano <cite>Mead posted [p:948611926] in I need som... [t:79191147]...</cite> <quote>If you dont know where she lives then no I dont really think theres much you can do. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Krazy_Kirby 12/21/20 5:16:27 PM #5:	if you know where they live, and it's too far to go there, you can get the non-emergency number for the police there and ask them to do a wellness check --- Kill From The Shadows. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Idiot <cite>Krazy_Kirby posted [p:948612132] in I need som... [t:79191147]...</cite> <quote>if you know where they live, and it's too far to go there, you can get the non-emergency number for the police there and ask them to do a wellness check</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Metalsonic66 12/21/20 5:19:57 PM #6:	She's in someone's trunk right now with duct tape over her mouth. Call the police bro --- PSN/Steam ID: Metalsonic_69 Big bombs go kabang. <cite>Metalsonic66 posted [p:948612238] in I need som... [t:79191147]...</cite> <quote>She's in someone's trunk right now with duct tape over her mouth. Call the police bro </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Smarkil 12/21/20 5:24:41 PM #7:	Nothing. You're not really in a position to do anything. You just gotta let it go and hope for the best. --- I promise that if the game stinks I will make a topic about how I hate it and you can all laugh at me - Mead on Fallout 76 <cite>Smarkil posted [p:948612404] in I need som... [t:79191147]...</cite> <quote>Nothing. You're not really in a position to do anything. You just gotta let it go and hope for the best. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Mead 12/21/20 5:26:36 PM #8:	Metalsonic66 posted... She's in someone's trunk right now with duct tape over her mouth. Call the police bro That really isnt a funny thing to joke about --- YOU control the numbers of leches. -Sal Vulcano <cite>Mead posted [p:948612466] in I need som... [t:79191147]...</cite> <quote>Metalsonic66 posted... </cite> <quote>She's in someone's trunk right now with duct tape over her mouth. Call the police bro</quote> That really isnt a funny thing to joke about </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Metalsonic66 12/21/20 5:29:23 PM #9:	Exaggerating but not joking. --- PSN/Steam ID: Metalsonic_69 Big bombs go kabang. <cite>Metalsonic66 posted [p:948612563] in I need som... [t:79191147]...</cite> <quote>Exaggerating but not joking. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KaijunoKami 12/21/20 5:37:16 PM #10:	Smarkil posted... Nothing. You're not really in a position to do anything. You just gotta let it go and hope for the best. I can't abandon a friend like that. I would rather look like an idiot and be wrong than to be right and do nothing. --- Welcome to GameFAQs, where having an opinion is a declaration of war. <cite>KaijunoKami posted [p:948612781] in I need som... [t:79191147]...</cite> <quote>Smarkil posted... </cite> <quote>Nothing. You're not really in a position to do anything. You just gotta let it go and hope for the best.</quote> I can't abandon a friend like that. I would rather look like an idiot and be wrong than to be right and do nothing. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TheOkHornedRat 12/21/20 5:41:17 PM #11:	We probably need more information if you are looking for any meaningful advice. I'm not convinced that you do, however. <cite>TheOkHornedRat posted [p:948612904] in I need som... [t:79191147]...</cite> <quote>We probably need more information if you are looking for any meaningful advice. I'm not convinced that you do, however. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Zeus 12/21/20 5:41:26 PM #12:	If you don't know where she lives, call the police and ask them to do a welfare check. They likely will know how to find her, assuming she filed a change of address when she moved. But between the talk of the new guy and COVID in general, it seems a reasonable concern. And where she mentions that she's not close with her family and her friends don't even know she lives, a guy with bad intentions might see that as an opportunity. --- (\/)(\/)\|-\| There are precious few at ease / With moral ambiguities / So we act as though they don't exist. <cite>Zeus posted [p:948612911] in I need som... [t:79191147]...</cite> <quote>If you don't know where she lives, call the police and ask them to do a welfare check. They likely will know how to find her, assuming she filed a change of address when she moved. But between the talk of the new guy and COVID in general, it seems a reasonable concern. And where she mentions that she's not close with her family and her friends don't even know she lives, a guy with bad intentions might see that as an opportunity. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Bugmeat 12/21/20 5:46:27 PM #13:	You're on her Facebook? Try to message someone innher family and express your concern. If they can't get in touch with her either then they can call for a wellfare check as they should know where she lives. If she has local family they can just go over and check. --- "Genetics is fascinating. For example, if I mated with this chicken, I wonder if any of you would tell." <cite>Bugmeat posted [p:948613073] in I need som... [t:79191147]...</cite> <quote>You're on her Facebook? Try to message someone innher family and express your concern. If they can't get in touch with her either then they can call for a wellfare check as they should know where she lives. If she has local family they can just go over and check. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
The_tall_midget 12/21/20 5:59:48 PM #14:	Krazy_Kirby posted... if you know where they live, and it's too far to go there, you can get the non-emergency number for the police there and ask them to do a wellness check This. If she's a good friend, she won't mind that you actually were worried about her safety. --- It's almost like these "protests" are just an excuse for degenerates to act how they please and still think themselves to be morally superior. <cite>The_tall_midget posted [p:948613514] in I need som... [t:79191147]...</cite> <quote>Krazy_Kirby posted... </cite> <quote>if you know where they live, and it's too far to go there, you can get the non-emergency number for the police there and ask them to do a wellness check</quote> This. If she's a good friend, she won't mind that you actually were worried about her safety. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Cobalt_Wasps 12/21/20 6:10:32 PM #15:	leave her alone she banging her new boy toy --- there is no authority but yourself <cite>Cobalt_Wasps posted [p:948613887] in I need som... [t:79191147]...</cite> <quote>leave her alone she banging her new boy toy </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
JigsawTDC 12/21/20 6:11:02 PM #16:	There's a lot of red flags here. I'd give her one last text, letting her know of your concern, and say that you'll be reporting her missing if you get no response within 24 hours. It's drastic, sure, but an isolated individual missing a planned gathering after meeting a new guy they've become smitten with screams all kinds of wrong things. <cite>JigsawTDC posted [p:948613902] in I need som... [t:79191147]...</cite> <quote>There's a lot of red flags here. I'd give her one last text, letting her know of your concern, and say that you'll be reporting her missing if you get no response within 24 hours. It's drastic, sure, but an isolated individual missing a planned gathering after meeting a new guy they've become smitten with screams all kinds of wrong things. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
PK_Spam 12/21/20 6:45:15 PM #17:	Do you guys have any shared friends? Do you have an idea if/where she works? Those are places to start. if you have neither, maybe give it another week? At least until close to New Years, and maybe frame your text as one of concern, and that youre still open to having her over whenever, etc... You know her better than I do, so maybe this wouldnt work. Idk. --- "You don't have any thoughts of your own... You'd never understand what it is to deliberately stand against the world." -HCE to me <cite>PK_Spam posted [p:948615012] in I need som... [t:79191147]...</cite> <quote>Do you guys have any shared friends? Do you have an idea if/where she works? Those are places to start. if you have neither, maybe give it another week? At least until close to New Years, and maybe frame your text as one of concern, and that youre still open to having her over whenever, etc... You know her better than I do, so maybe this wouldnt work. Idk. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Smarkil 12/21/20 7:28:41 PM #18:	KaijunoKami posted... I can't abandon a friend like that. I would rather look like an idiot and be wrong than to be right and do nothing. Is she your friend though? Because it sounds like she might not be reciprocating your friendship as much as you think. Regardless, shes an adult and you're not her parent. --- I promise that if the game stinks I will make a topic about how I hate it and you can all laugh at me - Mead on Fallout 76 <cite>Smarkil posted [p:948616445] in I need som... [t:79191147]...</cite> <quote>KaijunoKami posted... </cite> <quote>I can't abandon a friend like that. I would rather look like an idiot and be wrong than to be right and do nothing.</quote> Is she your friend though? Because it sounds like she might not be reciprocating your friendship as much as you think. Regardless, shes an adult and you're not her parent. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SunWuKung420 12/21/20 8:19:48 PM #19:	If you're concerned, do what to have you to do. --- For what it's worth I was the one that made up the scenario that she posted on Facebook about him beating her lmao. Cacciato 11/12/2020 <cite>SunWuKung420 posted [p:948618264] in I need som... [t:79191147]...</cite> <quote>If you're concerned, do what to have you to do. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Berating 12/21/20 9:10:54 PM #20:	Metalsonic66 posted... She's in someone's trunk right now with duct tape over her mouth. Call the police bro Bush, search party of three!! ot:, there's a thing called wellness check: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wellness_check but it's a double edged sword cause if you're in the states, she might just end up getting shot by the cops --- "...and i realized - it looked like an adidas jogging suit on a rack. that's where i almost killed myself." <cite>Berating posted [p:948620154] in I need som... [t:79191147]...</cite> <quote>Metalsonic66 posted...</cite> <quote>She's in someone's trunk right now with duct tape over her mouth. Call the police bro </quote> Bush, search party of three!! ot:, there's a thing called wellness check: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wellness_check but it's a double edged sword cause if you're in the states, she might just end up getting shot by the cops</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Metalsonic66 12/21/20 9:46:31 PM #21:	Berating posted... Bush, search party of three!! Thank you! --- PSN/Steam ID: Metalsonic_69 Big bombs go kabang. <cite>Metalsonic66 posted [p:948621576] in I need som... [t:79191147]...</cite> <quote>Berating posted... </cite> <quote>Bush, search party of three!!</quote>Thank you! </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
dedbus 12/21/20 11:41:38 PM #22:	I'm kinda worried about the guy. He sounds a little out of her league. <cite>dedbus posted [p:948625247] in I need som... [t:79191147]...</cite> <quote>I'm kinda worried about the guy. He sounds a little out of her league. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KaijunoKami 12/22/20 12:37:56 AM #23:	dedbus posted... I'm kinda worried about the guy. He sounds a little out of her league. Dude, I've been with my wife for nearly 20 years. There is no love stuff involved with this at all. Jesus fucking christ. Do you really think people can't care for their friends without wanting to fuck them? --- Welcome to GameFAQs, where having an opinion is a declaration of war. <cite>KaijunoKami posted [p:948626631] in I need som... [t:79191147]...</cite> <quote>dedbus posted... </cite> <quote>I'm kinda worried about the guy. He sounds a little out of her league.</quote> Dude, I've been with my wife for nearly 20 years. There is no love stuff involved with this at all. Jesus fucking christ. Do you really think people can't care for their friends without wanting to fuck them? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
JTekashiro 12/22/20 7:58:08 AM #24:	Smarkil posted... Is she your friend though? Because it sounds like she might not be reciprocating your friendship as much as you think. Regardless, shes an adult and you're not her parent. Yup. This doesn't really sound like you're friends at all. It sounds like you're getting ghosted and taking it horribly. Seeing as all parties involved seemed to struggle socially, I'd say that's where Occam's razor drops. Just so you know, the police won't tell you how she is doing but they will check up on her. <cite>JTekashiro posted [p:948632286] in I need som... [t:79191147]...</cite> <quote>Smarkil posted... </cite> <quote>Is she your friend though? Because it sounds like she might not be reciprocating your friendship as much as you think. Regardless, shes an adult and you're not her parent.</quote> Yup. This doesn't really sound like you're friends at all. It sounds like you're getting ghosted and taking it horribly. Seeing as all parties involved seemed to struggle socially, I'd say that's where Occam's razor drops. Just so you know, the police won't tell you how she is doing but they will check up on her. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
wwinterj25 12/22/20 8:06:43 AM #25:	KaijunoKami posted... I can't abandon a friend like that. I would rather look like an idiot and be wrong than to be right and do nothing. As you don't know where she lives and have acknowledged she would rather spend time with her new bloke then be on the internet or her phone I don't see much you can do. A good suggestion as already said in this topic is to perhaps contact her close family members on Facebook. If she was a friend though she wouldn't be ghosting you and your wife like this so perhaps you're thinking too much into it. --- One who knows nothing can understand nothing. http://psnprofiles.com/wwinterj - https://imgur.com/YvP6isz <cite>wwinterj25 posted [p:948632420] in I need som... [t:79191147]...</cite> <quote>KaijunoKami posted... </cite> <quote>I can't abandon a friend like that. I would rather look like an idiot and be wrong than to be right and do nothing.</quote> As you don't know where she lives and have acknowledged she would rather spend time with her new bloke then be on the internet or her phone I don't see much you can do. A good suggestion as already said in this topic is to perhaps contact her close family members on Facebook. If she was a friend though she wouldn't be ghosting you and your wife like this so perhaps you're thinking too much into it. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KaijunoKami 12/22/20 11:11:02 AM #26:	wwinterj25 posted... o perhaps you're thinking too much into it. I probably am and it's probably because of this quarantine crap. I am sick of being stuck home. --- Welcome to GameFAQs, where having an opinion is a declaration of war. <cite>KaijunoKami posted [p:948636769] in I need som... [t:79191147]...</cite> <quote>wwinterj25 posted... </cite> <quote>o perhaps you're thinking too much into it.</quote> I probably am and it's probably because of this quarantine crap. I am sick of being stuck home. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LinkPizza 12/22/20 11:16:09 AM #27:	Idk if it's been said already, but there are a few things you could do. If you know where she works, you could drop by to visit if it's a place that allows visitors. Also, if she has social media, you could always ask someone she considers a close friend if they have heard from her. It would at least be a start... --- Official King of Kings Switch FC: 7216-4417-4511 Add Me because I'll probably add you. I'm probably the LinkPizza you'll see around. <cite>LinkPizza posted [p:948636917] in I need som... [t:79191147]...</cite> <quote>Idk if it's been said already, but there are a few things you could do. If you know where she works, you could drop by to visit if it's a place that allows visitors. Also, if she has social media, you could always ask someone she considers a close friend if they have heard from her. It would at least be a start...</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KaijunoKami 12/22/20 12:55:52 PM #28:	LinkPizza posted... you could always ask someone she considers a close friend if they have heard from her. It would at least be a start... Like I said above, I think I'm just overthinking it. As for the part I quoted above, we ARE her closes friends. :-( Everyone else she is friends with are cosplay friends and are also mutual friends with me. --- Welcome to GameFAQs, where having an opinion is a declaration of war. <cite>KaijunoKami posted [p:948640106] in I need som... [t:79191147]...</cite> <quote>LinkPizza posted... </cite> <quote> you could always ask someone she considers a close friend if they have heard from her. It would at least be a start...</quote> Like I said above, I think I'm just overthinking it. As for the part I quoted above, we ARE her closes friends. :-( Everyone else she is friends with are cosplay friends and are also mutual friends with me. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LinkPizza 12/22/20 1:04:07 PM #29:	KaijunoKami posted... we ARE her closes friends. Ah. I thought she had more. Like I have at least 10-20 people I consider really close friends. I thought she may have had more... --- Official King of Kings Switch FC: 7216-4417-4511 Add Me because I'll probably add you. I'm probably the LinkPizza you'll see around. <cite>LinkPizza posted [p:948640395] in I need som... [t:79191147]...</cite> <quote>KaijunoKami posted...</cite> <quote>we ARE her closes friends.</quote> Ah. I thought she had more. Like I have at least 10-20 people I consider really close friends. I thought she may have had more...</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
dedbus 12/22/20 5:47:30 PM #30:	KaijunoKami posted... Dude, I've been with my wife for nearly 20 years. There is no love stuff involved with this at all. Jesus fucking christ. Do you really think people can't care for their friends without wanting to fuck them? The what. From the sounds of things the guy is pretty great. The friend sounds kinda flaky and transient. Hope he's okay and didnt step in something over his head. <cite>dedbus posted [p:948649763] in I need som... [t:79191147]...</cite> <quote>KaijunoKami posted... </cite> <quote>Dude, I've been with my wife for nearly 20 years. There is no love stuff involved with this at all. Jesus fucking christ. Do you really think people can't care for their friends without wanting to fuck them?</quote> The what. From the sounds of things the guy is pretty great. The friend sounds kinda flaky and transient. Hope he's okay and didnt step in something over his head. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
zebatov 12/22/20 7:00:41 PM #31:	Have you checked Dateline? --- C was right. <cite>zebatov posted [p:948652323] in I need som... [t:79191147]...</cite> <quote>Have you checked Dateline? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
EvilMegas 12/22/20 9:09:45 PM #32:	Oh weird, turns out this was the worst place for this. --- Official Former King of Black People(Lost to Joe Biden) http://imgur.com/a/yNvXsJe <cite>EvilMegas posted [p:948657125] in I need som... [t:79191147]...</cite> <quote>Oh weird, turns out this was the worst place for this. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KaijunoKami 12/22/20 9:13:03 PM #33:	LinkPizza posted... Ah. I thought she had more. Like I have at least 10-20 people I consider really close friends. I thought she may have had more... Nah. To put it bluntly, she was raped when she was younger and had to dump all of her old friends because they were friends with the guy. Since then, she's had a lot of trust issues with people, which is where I believe this problem is stemming from. On the good side of news, she is not dead, so there's that. I left her a voice mail telling her that I am glad things are going well with her boyfriend and that we are there for her whenever she needs us no matter what, so never be afraid to contact us. --- Welcome to GameFAQs, where having an opinion is a declaration of war. <cite>KaijunoKami posted [p:948657232] in I need som... [t:79191147]...</cite> <quote>LinkPizza posted... </cite> <quote>Ah. I thought she had more. Like I have at least 10-20 people I consider really close friends. I thought she may have had more...</quote> Nah. To put it bluntly, she was raped when she was younger and had to dump all of her old friends because they were friends with the guy. Since then, she's had a lot of trust issues with people, which is where I believe this problem is stemming from. On the good side of news, she is not dead, so there's that. I left her a voice mail telling her that I am glad things are going well with her boyfriend and that we are there for her whenever she needs us no matter what, so never be afraid to contact us. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
The_tall_midget 12/22/20 10:12:59 PM #34:	KaijunoKami posted... Nah. To put it bluntly, she was raped when she was younger and had to dump all of her old friends because they were friends with the guy. Uh huh. And, of course, she filed a police report, right? You also talked to the person she accused to get their version, right? --- It's almost like these "protests" are just an excuse for degenerates to act how they please and still think themselves to be morally superior. <cite>The_tall_midget posted [p:948659347] in I need som... [t:79191147]...</cite> <quote>KaijunoKami posted... </cite> <quote>Nah. To put it bluntly, she was raped when she was younger and had to dump all of her old friends because they were friends with the guy.</quote> Uh huh. And, of course, she filed a police report, right? You also talked to the person she accused to get their version, right? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
wwinterj25 12/22/20 10:37:52 PM #35:	KaijunoKami posted... Nah. To put it bluntly, she was raped when she was younger and had to dump all of her old friends because they were friends with the guy. So they apparently stayed friends with a rapist? Since then, she's had a lot of trust issues with people, which is where I believe this problem is stemming from. What problems? She with a new bloke so apparently her trust is fine and as far as I gather you're the one with a issue as you were trying to contact someone you haven't seen in a while. These type of topics end up the same way in most cases. The TC asks for advise, ignores all advice given and resolves the problem themselves. --- One who knows nothing can understand nothing. http://psnprofiles.com/wwinterj - https://imgur.com/YvP6isz <cite>wwinterj25 posted [p:948660127] in I need som... [t:79191147]...</cite> <quote>KaijunoKami posted... </cite> <quote>Nah. To put it bluntly, she was raped when she was younger and had to dump all of her old friends because they were friends with the guy.</quote> So they apparently stayed friends with a rapist? <quote>Since then, she's had a lot of trust issues with people, which is where I believe this problem is stemming from.</quote> What problems? She with a new bloke so apparently her trust is fine and as far as I gather you're the one with a issue as you were trying to contact someone you haven't seen in a while. These type of topics end up the same way in most cases. The TC asks for advise, ignores all advice given and resolves the problem themselves. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KaijunoKami 12/23/20 12:24:05 AM #36:	wwinterj25 posted... So they apparently stayed friends with a rapist? What problems? She with a new bloke so apparently her trust is fine and as far as I gather you're the one with a issue as you were trying to contact someone you haven't seen in a while. These type of topics end up the same way in most cases. The TC asks for advise, ignores all advice given and resolves the problem themselves. Except I wasn't ignoring the advice. One person said to wait another week before really doing something. I don't know her address, so I couldn't call police to do a wellness check. Meanwhile, others weren't giving any advice, but being your typical GameFAQs dbag. And I have no idea how you even gathered that she stayed friends with a rapist. I never once said that, so who's ignoring what who said? --- Welcome to GameFAQs, where having an opinion is a declaration of war. <cite>KaijunoKami posted [p:948663038] in I need som... [t:79191147]...</cite> <quote>wwinterj25 posted... </cite> <quote>So they apparently stayed friends with a rapist? What problems? She with a new bloke so apparently her trust is fine and as far as I gather you're the one with a issue as you were trying to contact someone you haven't seen in a while. These type of topics end up the same way in most cases. The TC asks for advise, ignores all advice given and resolves the problem themselves.</quote> Except I wasn't ignoring the advice. One person said to wait another week before really doing something. I don't know her address, so I couldn't call police to do a wellness check. Meanwhile, others weren't giving any advice, but being your typical GameFAQs dbag. And I have no idea how you even gathered that she stayed friends with a rapist. I never once said that, so who's ignoring what who said? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KaijunoKami 12/23/20 12:25:21 AM #37:	The_tall_midget posted... Uh huh. And, of course, she filed a police report, right? You also talked to the person she accused to get their version, right? Dude, that was years before we knew her in the state she was born in. Why wouldn't I believe her though? She had no reason to ever lie to us about it. This is exactly why Weinstein and Cosby got away with what they did for decades, no one wanted to believe a woman because it came out of their mouths. --- Welcome to GameFAQs, where having an opinion is a declaration of war. <cite>KaijunoKami posted [p:948663069] in I need som... [t:79191147]...</cite> <quote>The_tall_midget posted... </cite> <quote>Uh huh. And, of course, she filed a police report, right? You also talked to the person she accused to get their version, right?</quote> Dude, that was years before we knew her in the state she was born in. Why wouldn't I believe her though? She had no reason to ever lie to us about it. This is exactly why Weinstein and Cosby got away with what they did for decades, no one wanted to believe a woman because it came out of their mouths. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MrMelodramatic 12/23/20 12:27:44 AM #38:	KaijunoKami posted... Nah. To put it bluntly, she was raped when she was younger and had to dump all of her old friends because they were friends with the guy. Since then, she's had a lot of trust issues with people, which is where I believe this problem is stemming from. On the good side of news, she is not dead, so there's that. I left her a voice mail telling her that I am glad things are going well with her boyfriend and that we are there for her whenever she needs us no matter what, so never be afraid to contact us. How'd you find out she's alive? --- Forever Momo; <cite>MrMelodramatic posted [p:948663132] in I need som... [t:79191147]...</cite> <quote>KaijunoKami posted... </cite> <quote>Nah. To put it bluntly, she was raped when she was younger and had to dump all of her old friends because they were friends with the guy. Since then, she's had a lot of trust issues with people, which is where I believe this problem is stemming from. On the good side of news, she is not dead, so there's that. I left her a voice mail telling her that I am glad things are going well with her boyfriend and that we are there for her whenever she needs us no matter what, so never be afraid to contact us.</quote>How'd you find out she's alive? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
InfestedAdam 12/23/20 12:28:21 AM #39:	Police and coworkers are the only venue I can think of short of attempting to check on her in-person. --- "You must gather your party before venturing forth" "Go for the eyes Boo! Go for the eyes!" <cite>InfestedAdam posted [p:948663144] in I need som... [t:79191147]...</cite> <quote>Police and coworkers are the only venue I can think of short of attempting to check on her in-person. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SunWuKung420 12/23/20 9:51:29 AM #40:	KaijunoKami posted... Dude, that was years before we knew her in the state she was born in. Why wouldn't I believe her though? She had no reason to ever lie to us about it. This is exactly why Weinstein and Cosby got away with what they did for decades, no one wanted to believe a woman because it came out of their mouths. Tall midget hates women. It's best to not engage him. Kudos for checking on her. --- For what it's worth I was the one that made up the scenario that she posted on Facebook about him beating her lmao. Cacciato 11/12/2020 <cite>SunWuKung420 posted [p:948671674] in I need som... [t:79191147]...</cite> <quote>KaijunoKami posted... </cite> <quote>Dude, that was years before we knew her in the state she was born in. Why wouldn't I believe her though? She had no reason to ever lie to us about it. This is exactly why Weinstein and Cosby got away with what they did for decades, no one wanted to believe a woman because it came out of their mouths.</quote> Tall midget hates women. It's best to not engage him. Kudos for checking on her. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
wwinterj25 12/23/20 10:47:10 AM #41:	KaijunoKami posted... Meanwhile, others weren't giving any advice, but being your typical GameFAQs dbag. I always give sage advise. KaijunoKami posted... And I have no idea how you even gathered that she stayed friends with a rapist. I never once said that, so who's ignoring what who said? I see you're not actually reading what I said. wwinterj25 posted... So they apparently stayed friends with a rapist? This is saying her ex friends stayed friends with a rapist over the victim(your friend). To elaborate more that seems a very odd thing for these people to do if this indeed actually took place. --- One who knows nothing can understand nothing. http://psnprofiles.com/wwinterj - https://imgur.com/YvP6isz <cite>wwinterj25 posted [p:948673150] in I need som... [t:79191147]...</cite> <quote>KaijunoKami posted... </cite> <quote>Meanwhile, others weren't giving any advice, but being your typical GameFAQs dbag. </quote> I always give sage advise. KaijunoKami posted... </cite> <quote>And I have no idea how you even gathered that she stayed friends with a rapist. I never once said that, so who's ignoring what who said?</quote> I see you're not actually reading what I said. wwinterj25 posted... </cite> <quote>So they apparently stayed friends with a rapist?</quote> This is saying her ex friends stayed friends with a rapist over the victim(your friend). To elaborate more that seems a very odd thing for these people to do if this indeed actually took place. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LinkPizza 12/23/20 11:17:04 AM #42:	wwinterj25 posted... To elaborate more that seems a very odd thing for these people to do if this indeed actually took place. Normally, Id agree. But Ive actually seen this happen a number of times. Sometimes, its just that they dont believe the victim. It could also be that the other friends were pieces of shot who werent with it. Or that they dont know... --- Official King of Kings Switch FC: 7216-4417-4511 Add Me because I'll probably add you. I'm probably the LinkPizza you'll see around. <cite>LinkPizza posted [p:948673985] in I need som... [t:79191147]...</cite> <quote>wwinterj25 posted...</cite> <quote>To elaborate more that seems a very odd thing for these people to do if this indeed actually took place. </quote> Normally, Id agree. But Ive actually seen this happen a number of times. Sometimes, its just that they dont believe the victim. It could also be that the other friends were pieces of shot who werent with it. Or that they dont know...</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
wwinterj25 12/23/20 11:22:11 AM #43:	LinkPizza posted... Normally, Id agree. But Ive actually seen this happen a number of times. Sometimes, its just that they dont believe the victim. It could also be that the other friends were pieces of shot who werent with it. Or that they dont know... Surely the TCs friend would have told them the situation before not becoming friends with them and I'd assume a police investigation would have been opened. This is just assumptions though. It could go many ways and indeed her ex friends might not have believed her. She's better off without them if they know about this bloke been a rapist and still took his side though. Yikes. --- One who knows nothing can understand nothing. http://psnprofiles.com/wwinterj - https://imgur.com/YvP6isz <cite>wwinterj25 posted [p:948674136] in I need som... [t:79191147]...</cite> <quote>LinkPizza posted... </cite> <quote>Normally, Id agree. But Ive actually seen this happen a number of times. Sometimes, its just that they dont believe the victim. It could also be that the other friends were pieces of shot who werent with it. Or that they dont know...</quote> Surely the TCs friend would have told them the situation before not becoming friends with them and I'd assume a police investigation would have been opened. This is just assumptions though. It could go many ways and indeed her ex friends might not have believed her. She's better off without them if they know about this bloke been a rapist and still took his side though. Yikes. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LinkPizza 12/23/20 11:48:31 AM #44:	wwinterj25 posted... Surely the TCs friend would have told them the situation before not becoming friends with them and I'd assume a police investigation would have been opened. This is just assumptions though. It could go many ways and indeed her ex friends might not have believed her. She's better off without them if they know about this bloke been a rapist and still took his side though. Yikes. Oh. I dont know specifics about this friendship. I was just saying Ive seen shit like this happening... There are people who are fine with their friends doing shitty things because they also did shitty things. I think there was a story once about a female almost getting raped by a group of like 5 guys. And obviously, the guys would care because most of the were in on it. And their GFs didnt believe the other girl because they didnt want to believe their BFs would do something like that. Cheaters, too. There were a group of guys who had a guys night where their GFs werent allowed. Turns out the reason was because they were cheaters. And the reason the other guys didnt care was because they were all cheating... --- Official King of Kings Switch FC: 7216-4417-4511 Add Me because I'll probably add you. I'm probably the LinkPizza you'll see around. <cite>LinkPizza posted [p:948674924] in I need som... [t:79191147]...</cite> <quote>wwinterj25 posted...</cite> <quote>Surely the TCs friend would have told them the situation before not becoming friends with them and I'd assume a police investigation would have been opened. This is just assumptions though. It could go many ways and indeed her ex friends might not have believed her. She's better off without them if they know about this bloke been a rapist and still took his side though. Yikes. </quote> Oh. I dont know specifics about this friendship. I was just saying Ive seen shit like this happening... There are people who are fine with their friends doing shitty things because they also did shitty things. I think there was a story once about a female almost getting raped by a group of like 5 guys. And obviously, the guys would care because most of the were in on it. And their GFs didnt believe the other girl because they didnt want to believe their BFs would do something like that. Cheaters, too. There were a group of guys who had a guys night where their GFs werent allowed. Turns out the reason was because they were cheaters. And the reason the other guys didnt care was because they were all cheating...</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Aculo 12/23/20 11:57:20 AM #45:	TC, you sound like a mega creep. maybe bring it down a notch, guy. you're in your late 30's i'm guessing? maybe a little too old to be obsessing over why a cosplay girl isn't returning your texts, ok? --- ok? <cite>Aculo posted [p:948675244] in I need som... [t:79191147]...</cite> <quote>TC, you sound like a mega creep. maybe bring it down a notch, guy. you're in your late 30's i'm guessing? maybe a little too old to be obsessing over why a cosplay girl isn't returning your texts, ok? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
wwinterj25 12/23/20 12:00:05 PM #46:	LinkPizza posted... Oh. I dont know specifics about this friendship. I was just saying Ive seen shit like this happening... Indeed. Aculo posted... TC, you sound like a mega creep. maybe bring it down a notch, guy. you're in your late 30's i'm guessing? maybe a little too old to be obsessing over why a cosplay girl isn't returning your texts, ok? It seems him and his wife wanted her company, ok? --- One who knows nothing can understand nothing. http://psnprofiles.com/wwinterj - https://imgur.com/YvP6isz <cite>wwinterj25 posted [p:948675337] in I need som... [t:79191147]...</cite> <quote>LinkPizza posted... </cite> <quote>Oh. I dont know specifics about this friendship. I was just saying Ive seen shit like this happening... </quote> Indeed. Aculo posted... </cite> <quote>TC, you sound like a mega creep. maybe bring it down a notch, guy. you're in your late 30's i'm guessing? maybe a little too old to be obsessing over why a cosplay girl isn't returning your texts, ok?</quote> It seems him and his wife wanted her company, ok? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Zacek 12/23/20 12:03:20 PM #47:	Does she have any relatives you can contact? --- Final Fantasy was in 2D? I thought the number 7 was just a metaphor for something .... - Cbaker216 <cite>Zacek posted [p:948675426] in I need som... [t:79191147]...</cite> <quote>Does she have any relatives you can contact? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Aculo 12/23/20 12:04:34 PM #48:	wwinterj25 posted... It seems him and his wife wanted her company, ok? yeah, i'm sure she was just counting the days, ok? --- ok? <cite>Aculo posted [p:948675458] in I need som... [t:79191147]...</cite> <quote>wwinterj25 posted... </cite> <quote>It seems him and his wife wanted her company, ok?</quote>yeah, i'm sure she was just counting the days, ok? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KaijunoKami 12/23/20 3:47:35 PM #49:	MrMelodramatic posted... How'd you find out she's alive? I finally remembered where she worked and call her but the secretary had said she just left for the day. Anyway, she did finally message back and apologized while being surprised we were that worried about her well being. That's the end, so thanks to all of you that were trying to help. :-) --- Welcome to GameFAQs, where having an opinion is a declaration of war. <cite>KaijunoKami posted [p:948682952] in I need som... [t:79191147]...</cite> <quote>MrMelodramatic posted... </cite> <quote>How'd you find out she's alive?</quote> I finally remembered where she worked and call her but the secretary had said she just left for the day. Anyway, she did finally message back and apologized while being surprised we were that worried about her well being. That's the end, so thanks to all of you that were trying to help. :-) </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
wwinterj25 12/23/20 3:56:17 PM #50:	Well that was anti climatic. --- One who knows nothing can understand nothing. http://psnprofiles.com/wwinterj - https://imgur.com/YvP6isz <cite>wwinterj25 posted [p:948683239] in I need som... [t:79191147]...</cite> <quote>Well that was anti climatic. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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