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SaccharineSmile
12/09/20 1:38:44 AM
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BloodMoon7
12/09/20 1:39:47 AM
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I am a girl.

It scares me.

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pegusus123456
12/09/20 1:41:10 AM
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You know something, Ray? When I first moved here, I said, "Okay, I am tired of being Mr. Lonely Jeans."

So I went down to that bar down the street, and there were women there, and I sat for, like, two hours, and I finally force myself to go up to somebody and say, "Hey, how are you doing?"

And she said, "Um, fine." And then the woman turned to her friends and said, "But I'm not desperate." And I just, you know, stood there while they laughed. And then I just, I walked home.


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CosmicShadows
12/09/20 1:57:38 AM
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DuranOfForcena posted...
fear of rejection, fear of being thought of as a creep, history of failure


This pretty much.
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Irony
12/09/20 1:58:28 AM
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They may scream

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SaccharineSmile
12/09/20 2:01:33 AM
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DuranOfForcena posted...
fear of rejection, fear of being thought of as a creep, history of failure

they shouldnt be thought of fears man!

Just go out and have fun

theres literally no reason to think about what someone *may* think of you - they actually dont do that

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Irony
12/09/20 2:02:44 AM
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Hey baby do you like daggers?

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FrankJaegr
12/09/20 2:03:15 AM
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Lost_All_Senses
12/09/20 2:04:02 AM
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Because I walk quietly and have a loud voice. They usually don't notice me and pepper spray me when I start talking.

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Lokison
12/09/20 2:43:07 AM
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I talk to plenty of women, just not in any meaningful way because I'm self aware of own issues and need to work through them before I do something stupid.

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Smackems
12/09/20 2:43:50 AM
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Cooties

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Pogo_Marimo
12/09/20 2:57:17 AM
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Uh, I live with my GF and her best friend...

They terrify me.

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Evening_Dragon
12/09/20 3:00:24 AM
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Can CE stop being so fucking broken

a third of you can't talk to girls, a third are married but shitty and rural, and a third are hohos

can't there just be some normal ass people

fuck

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Xatrion
12/09/20 3:28:31 AM
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Evening_Dragon posted...
can't there just be some normal ass people

You're on CE. This is the norm.

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legendarylemur
12/09/20 3:43:00 AM
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Personally I don't have trouble speaking to girls at all, but one thing people need to understand is that a lot of people won't have an easy time talking to girls, and a few bad early instances of talking to them gone horribly wrong will probably scar them for a long time. There's no real easy solution other than some girl giving him a chance first tbh, and most people won't have the looks or the right kind of jobs for that.

Just saying "don't be afraid" is pretty much one of the most pointless things you can tell anybody with a phobia. Because they already told themselves that long before you thought you came up with it lol

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trappedunderice
12/09/20 3:50:34 AM
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Evening_Dragon posted...
Can CE stop being so fucking broken

a third of you can't talk to girls, a third are married but shitty and rural, and a third are hohos

can't there just be some normal ass people

fuck
I imagine this is what the guys on here act like in the real, just socially awkward. You can tell by how they act on CE https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=t5J-YE5n1Zk

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UnfairRepresent
12/09/20 3:58:23 AM
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I'm not

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CaliRefugee
12/09/20 4:03:29 AM
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PowerMang
12/09/20 4:24:58 AM
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At some point in my childhood, I started fearing my parents would say "No". So I just stopped asking them anything. Then in my teen years, I treated one girlfriend pretty bad because of...puberty or whatever. And I've regretted that ever since.

Long story short? I've had 3 or 4 opportunities when I could have had sex or had a relationship but I blew it because of the reasons above. I'm some undefined incel, I think :)

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Rika_Furude
12/09/20 4:30:09 AM
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what if i walk up to one and im like "hi" and they are like "eww, you loser, get away from me you creep"

thats like the worst possible outcome but i just know it will happen the first time i ever try

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Iwin2013
12/09/20 5:23:59 AM
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SaccharineSmile posted...
discuss

Well, considering a massive campaign is going around still, discrediting fools' and even ruining their lives. #METOO. I don't blame fellas. My brother is 29 years old, and won't even try to get a girl's number even though she shows shines that she's entirely into him. Because he's afraid that it's a facade, an ruse, and that he will be in a court room sooner or later. Not to mention, it's happened to him via our niece but that's water under the bridge.
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Iwin2013
12/09/20 5:28:57 AM
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Me on the other hand? Been with a beautiful black girl for four years, and I still try to get numbers. I asked three girls out, maybe a month ago. One said, "I would but I've had a man... Hope you understand." She was cute. Thic black girl throwing freight at her job.
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Evening_Dragon
12/09/20 9:28:27 AM
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Xatrion posted...
You're on CE. This is the norm.

You're right. I'm forgetting why I came here for.

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The Trent
12/09/20 9:45:56 AM
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they have covid cooties

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KainWind
12/09/20 10:10:11 AM
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I don't have a single thing to say.

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soulunison2
12/09/20 10:11:06 AM
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Im not shes on her way out after I destroyed her asshole
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Iwin2013
12/09/20 3:21:33 PM
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I used to be very scared of rejection, and to talk to women. In middle school, I used to write notes and leave them in girls lockers, didn't sign my name because I was scared. Ended up after HS; Getting used to just cutting loose with people. Guy or Girl. Just being myself, I got a few "Why aren't you with someone" comments. And you're handsome like a bear.
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SaccharineSmile
12/10/20 12:12:11 AM
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Its got me thinking, say like if you guys went grocery shopping, are you scared of talking to the cashier behind the counter?

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jon1012
12/10/20 12:14:28 AM
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Im not.

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jon1012
12/10/20 12:14:46 AM
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BloodMoon7 posted...
I am a girl.

It scares me.

pics

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Flockaveli
12/10/20 12:20:30 AM
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Hey its not just girls Im scared of.

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Rika_Furude
12/10/20 4:03:59 AM
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CHM_Punk posted...
This happened to me back in high school, so I understand your fear. Back then fucking was the last thing on my mind and I had accepted I would never romantically have a chance with any girl at the school with how unappealing I looked. I asked a girl if she wanted to be friends after I initially felt we were getting along in class or when she sent me a friend request on Facebook. She called me a creep and to leave her alone. We never spoke again.
more than anything this scares me. people always just say "get out there, be yourself, just talk to someone, worst case is they say no"
but no

this is the worst case. being kept awake at night because this is one of those horror memories you can never forget

Iwin2013 posted... Just being myself, I got a few "Why aren't you with someone" comments

in my entire adult life nobody except one person has ever asked me this and im sure it was meant as a snide joke

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