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Cotton_Eye_Joe
10/29/20 1:14:19 AM
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Do you think she's being railed by some chad right now?


I wish I was one of the beautiful people.

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vigorm0rtis
10/29/20 1:17:09 AM
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Cotton_Eye_Joe posted...
I wish I was one of the beautiful people.

You don't have to be. Be confident, maybe smart and funny if you can. Don't dress like a slob. Don't be a doormat. It's not hard to keep women interested.

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PatrickMahomes
10/29/20 1:18:13 AM
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Depends; did she literally no-call / no-show? Or did she at least have the decency to flake prior to you leaving and everything

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Cotton_Eye_Joe
10/30/20 4:17:42 PM
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Texted me saying she was sorry.

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gunplagirl
10/30/20 4:25:48 PM
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Cotton_Eye_Joe posted...
Texted me saying she was sorry.
I can text you saying I'm sorry. And like her, I won't really mean it.

(That's my roundabout way of saying she did you dirty)

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Cotton_Eye_Joe
10/30/20 4:52:08 PM
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Mezcla
10/30/20 4:53:58 PM
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lmao "its all good"

thats why she stood you up.

HAVE SOME HUEAVOS

SOME CHICHARONES

tell her "i have 2 questions. first HOW DARE YOU"

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Lordgold666
10/30/20 4:54:23 PM
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Where did she come from, where did she go?

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berlyman101
10/30/20 4:55:03 PM
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Cotton_Eye_Joe posted...

oof if this is real. you gotta show some spine buddy, I know it isn't easy if you're down on your chances, though.

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treewojima
10/30/20 4:58:53 PM
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big oof
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Unite
10/30/20 5:00:51 PM
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vigorm0rtis posted...
You don't have to be. Be confident, maybe smart and funny if you can. Don't dress like a slob. Don't be a doormat. It's not hard to keep women interested.

lol
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Vescreth
10/30/20 5:01:09 PM
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My goodness that's the most passive interaction I've seen in a while. There's no spark at all.
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Vescreth
10/30/20 5:04:20 PM
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Unite posted...
lol
You laugh, but he's not wrong. Women aren't difficult to interact with. You just have to have the right attitude. Don't fall into the trap of pretending you're just interested in her personality, because that's how you end up in the "friend zone" for real. You want to come out up front that you're interested in dating her so there's no chance for any misunderstanding.
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PatrickMahomes
10/30/20 5:05:52 PM
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Cotton_Eye_Joe posted...
Yeah... She's with Chad. Also the three hour time difference in your double post is awful. You should've either combined the hangout question into your "it's all good" response, or waited a couple of days before asking to meet up again (or just given up - "Hey I'm sorry!" with zero more words is a clear sign to fuck off - even a bullshit explanation about being tired, forgetting to reply, etc. is still better than that).

Additionally, "wanna hang out?" is an awful question for a first date. "Wanna hang out?" is for when you're like 6-7 dates in, have already banged, and can tell things are going smoothly. Assuming this is a first date, you gotta be specific and pick something to do.

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Turbam
10/30/20 5:06:43 PM
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Cotton_Eye_Joe posted...
bruh...

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JimmyFraska
10/30/20 5:13:30 PM
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Cotton_Eye_Joe posted...
Hold up, something isn't right....

After you say "Do you want to hang out?" Did she respond back in some way other than that text? Did she call you and say "Sure!" or message you on some other app?

If not, she didn't stand you up. You didn't have a date to get stood up on.

Also, when you ask, it's best to not do it over text. But also, when you ask don't leave it open "Hang out tonight" is so vague it's ridiculous. Hang out where? At what time? Doing what?

Next time, a "Hey if you're free let's go to this specific restaurant at 7" may serve you much better.

And the "When do you want to".... open ended, bad..... I can almost 100% guarantee she will either say nothing, or nothing of substance
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Cotton_Eye_Joe
10/30/20 11:20:45 PM
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Chunkey Simmons
10/30/20 11:23:49 PM
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Mezcla posted...
lmao "its all good"

thats why she stood you up.

HAVE SOME HUEAVOS

SOME CHICHARONES

tell her "i have 2 questions. first HOW DARE YOU"

What do you expect him to say? "How dare you" is a super incel thing to say. Being an asshole to women does not attract them like it does in the movie
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Vescreth
10/31/20 1:07:34 AM
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Dude she threw you a bone, you should have made Sunday work no matter what. Now you're just making it difficult for her.
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JimmyFraska
10/31/20 2:56:34 AM
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I'm gonna be honest, I'm pretty stupified by that screenshot. I promise I'm not trying to hurt your feelings, so try to see this as a learning experience, but I feel it's important for you to understand step by step how she will likely receive what you did there:

You say "When do you want to hang out?" That's open ended, and putting it in her court, which is bad. Just to be frank it's pretty beta, because you're not showing confidence. You should have had a time and place ready.

But she is nice enough to respond "When do you want to". She put it back in your court, where it should be, because you're the one asking. She wants you to be specific, she wants you to be confident. Now is your time to give her the time and place.

But you respond "When are you free" and THROW IT BACK IN HER COURT AGAIN. She already told you she wanted you to make a decision. You already asked her for a time, and she didn't want to give it, she wanted you as the one asking to have something ready, which you're supposed to. At this point in the conversation, she should have stopped responding.

But this girl is nice enough to give in. You should have been confident and made the time but wouldn't, so finally she had to be the confident one and give you the time, when she never should have had to. She gives in, she gives you a chance, she says "Sunday". (This is a nice girl no joke)

Okay. It was rough, but you got to have it both ways, you got to ask her, and you got to do it in a beta unconfident way to keep yourself comfortable. And it worked, she gave you a time she was free that she would want to, just like you asked.........

...and you throw it in the garbage "Sunday is bad for me, what else"

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WHat in the fuck. If you didn't want her to respond with a time that wasn't going to work from you, why did you ask her three separate times for her to tell you when it's gonna be? If you have specific times you have to do it, that's why you set the time.

But you did that, you put her through hell, and she still gave you Sunday, so what do you do from there?

Bro. I don't give a fuck what you're doing. You're going to see your dead Grandma sunday, forget her. (Grandma would rather you get a girlfriend) You have work and you're about to get fired, call in sick (a good job won't fire you, if its a bad job you can get another).

I don't care what your Sunday looks like, you need to grab that up and try and salvage this. It might be too late, but all you can do is try. .Text her back as early as you reasonably can in the morning (not before 8am), and tell her Sunday actually will work. And give her a time and place of where you guys will be, depending what it is you're wanting to do.

Every time you have to ask another question, you're flipping the coin again that she might say no. You're killing yourself. That's why I say, the first message should have all the info for her to say Yes or No. The more questions you ask, the more coinflips/dicerolls you're risking that she's going to decide she doesn't want to.
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No_U_L7
10/31/20 6:42:49 AM
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jeffhardyb0yz posted...
I agree with this spot on. Though I think at this point shes most likely going to flake with how bad tc messed up. @No_U_L7 what you think?


i started reading this topic but cringed too much and had to stop. sorry but i cannot help
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BlingBling22947
10/31/20 7:31:26 AM
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Don't worry about that too much.

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smoke_break
10/31/20 8:12:14 AM
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This topic kind of weird. There's wasn't a date to get stood up on...

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JimmyFraska
10/31/20 5:54:57 PM
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jeffhardyb0yz posted...
Completely disagree with the second half of your post. This is pretty beta (only using this because you did). He said it doesnt work for him so why should he bend backwards and cancel his plans to make it inconvenient for himself to see her? Dont put her on a pedestal to where she cancels out anything youve got planned. She was most likely gonna flake anyways. She doesnt know him, its hinge
@jeffhardyb0yz
Because he messed up. If he hadn't messed up and done everything perfect, walking back would be out of the question. But walking back on his own messup is fine. And I'm not saying cancel anything on the risk of her not accepting. But if he has it nailed down, and she accepts and it's scheduled, cancel your plans tomorrow morning. I also say it because, if this is indicative of TC s dating life, he needs the experience more than whatever it is he's doing on Sunday. If she had messed up and was flaky, I'd say don't do it. But she hasn't done anything wrong yet. So now we're in a "salvage what we can" situation.

I agree when you tell him "guys need to lead".
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J03can
10/31/20 6:10:14 PM
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Sorry bro. Its never easy

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