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Guide 08/21/20 4:33:42 AM #1:	his is the only skeleton I have left in my closet. I could ruin the marriage, but it's supposed to be the right thing to do, right? I actually don't believe that for a second, I'm just looking for excuses to be a shit. I'm feeling pretty gnarly. And I mean, not just tell. This chick sent nudes daily. There's a whole pile of proof. I'll probably come back to this after a nap, also. --- evening main 2.4356848e+91 https://youtu.be/Acn5IptKWQU <cite>Guide posted [p:943640398] in Would you ... [t:78924974]...</cite> <quote>his is the only skeleton I have left in my closet. I could ruin the marriage, but it's supposed to be the right thing to do, right? I actually don't believe that for a second, I'm just looking for excuses to be a shit. I'm feeling pretty gnarly. And I mean, not just tell. This chick sent nudes daily. There's a whole pile of proof. I'll probably come back to this after a nap, also. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lorenzo_2003 08/21/20 4:41:46 AM #2:	If I was the husband, I would want to know. Yeah, it will probably wreck the marriage, but it sounds like there were already problems, hence the consistent cheating. I say tell him. I have serious doubts about her not continuing to have affairs. Once he knows, then he can decide what to do with his life. --- ... <cite>Lorenzo_2003 posted [p:943640477] in Would you ... [t:78924974]...</cite> <quote>If I was the husband, I would want to know. Yeah, it will probably wreck the marriage, but it sounds like there were already problems, hence the consistent cheating. I say tell him. I have serious doubts about her not continuing to have affairs. Once he knows, then he can decide what to do with his life. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Keith_Valentine 08/21/20 4:53:35 AM #3:	I would 100% not say a damn thing. First of all, you could ruin both their lives and it doesnt need to be said, its done. If they break up let it be about something not involving you, real thugs dont talk about that shit. Second he might kill you , her, or himself. You seem like youre proud of it, but its a shitty thing to do to someone and it will come back on you. Been there myself a few, would Never do it again after seeing the aftermath. <cite>Keith_Valentine posted [p:943640601] in Would you ... [t:78924974]...</cite> <quote>I would 100% not say a damn thing. First of all, you could ruin both their lives and it doesnt need to be said, its done. If they break up let it be about something not involving you, real thugs dont talk about that shit. Second he might kill you , her, or himself. You seem like youre proud of it, but its a shitty thing to do to someone and it will come back on you. Been there myself a few, would Never do it again after seeing the aftermath. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
cjsdowg 08/21/20 4:55:52 AM #4:	Keith is 300% right. There is no good that can come from this. And you do seem happy about it. Reevaluate your life. --- Bender: Well, everybody, I just saved a turtle. What have you done with your lives? <cite>cjsdowg posted [p:943640633] in Would you ... [t:78924974]...</cite> <quote> Keith is 300% right. There is no good that can come from this. And you do seem happy about it. Reevaluate your life. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Music_Rock_Cat 08/21/20 4:57:58 AM #5:	Yeah ive done it plenty of times and I have Open Carry so nobody can do shit about it. Im not gonna get all scared like the other two posters. <cite>Music_Rock_Cat posted [p:943640666] in Would you ... [t:78924974]...</cite> <quote>Yeah ive done it plenty of times and I have Open Carry so nobody can do shit about it. Im not gonna get all scared like the other two posters. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
im not 13 08/21/20 5:01:15 AM #6:	I would want to know --- http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m510t9eNw71r2yd8o.jpg <cite>im not 13 posted [p:943640704] in Would you ... [t:78924974]...</cite> <quote>I would want to know </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Keith_Valentine 08/21/20 5:04:48 AM #7:	Music_Rock_Cat posted... Yeah ive done it plenty of times and I have Open Carry so nobody can do shit about it. Im not gonna get all scared like the other two posters. Wow <cite>Keith_Valentine posted [p:943640754] in Would you ... [t:78924974]...</cite> <quote>Music_Rock_Cat posted... </cite> <quote>Yeah ive done it plenty of times and I have Open Carry so nobody can do shit about it. Im not gonna get all scared like the other two posters.</quote> Wow </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Blue_Dream87 08/21/20 5:07:49 AM #8:	No. Nothing good can come from it, and you don't know how he or his wife will react. --- <cite>Blue_Dream87 posted [p:943640792] in Would you ... [t:78924974]...</cite> <quote>No. Nothing good can come from it, and you don't know how he or his wife will react. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Ilishe 08/21/20 5:08:32 AM #9:	Cat with a gun doesn't realize other people can have guns too. Anyway don't do it. --- ~Phoenix Nine~ ~Victory needs no explanation; defeat allows none.~ <cite>Ilishe posted [p:943640804] in Would you ... [t:78924974]...</cite> <quote>Cat with a gun doesn't realize other people can have guns too. Anyway don't do it. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
spikethedevil 08/21/20 5:09:04 AM #10:	Cheating is scum bag behaviour and facilitating it isnt much better. --- A garbage pod!? It's a smegging garbage pod! <cite>spikethedevil posted [p:943640816] in Would you ... [t:78924974]...</cite> <quote>Cheating is scum bag behaviour and facilitating it isnt much better. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ReignFury 08/21/20 5:33:11 AM #11:	Do the right thing, the marriage is based on lies and is doomed to fail anyway. --- This is my main <cite>ReignFury posted [p:943641089] in Would you ... [t:78924974]...</cite> <quote>Do the right thing, the marriage is based on lies and is doomed to fail anyway. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
teepan95 08/21/20 6:00:19 AM #12:	If you were the guy, would you want to know? --- teep dumb as f*** fr - BatmanvonDoom I'm gonna pound a 400 lb woman just to prove teep wrong - NigerianKnight <cite>teepan95 posted [p:943641424] in Would you ... [t:78924974]...</cite> <quote>If you were the guy, would you want to know?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Fam_Fam 08/21/20 6:05:19 AM #13:	learn your lesson and move on with your life that's not your business/job <cite>Fam_Fam posted [p:943641472] in Would you ... [t:78924974]...</cite> <quote>learn your lesson and move on with your life that's not your business/job </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
NeonOctopus 08/21/20 6:06:23 AM #14:	No, you shut the fuck up and everyone lives their lives --- https://imgur.com/7nfPhE2 <cite>NeonOctopus posted [p:943641483] in Would you ... [t:78924974]...</cite> <quote>No, you shut the fuck up and everyone lives their lives </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
RiKuToTheMiGhtY 08/21/20 6:10:43 AM #15:	The husband needs to know, and all the people saying not to say anything must not have any respect for the husband. It is NOT better that he is left in the dark about his wife cheating on him, if she cheated once odds are high it was not the only time. No man should stay with someone unfaithful, and how he reacts is up to him. --- doa-plus.com - We Press Forward. . . By Pressing Back. <cite>RiKuToTheMiGhtY posted [p:943641535] in Would you ... [t:78924974]...</cite> <quote>The husband needs to know, and all the people saying not to say anything must not have any respect for the husband. It is NOT better that he is left in the dark about his wife cheating on him, if she cheated once odds are high it was not the only time. No man should stay with someone unfaithful, and how he reacts is up to him. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
JlM 08/21/20 6:10:58 AM #16:	Balance it out and fuck him for a year. --- Posted with GameRaven 3.5.2 <cite>JlM posted [p:943641538] in Would you ... [t:78924974]...</cite> <quote>Balance it out and fuck him for a year.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Woodger 08/21/20 6:11:47 AM #17:	Yeah, I'd wanna know too - would feel awful, especially coming from the person the wife was cheating with, but better knowing than being a chump. The wife is obviously a disgrace who's likely to do it again. Also, you are terrible. <cite>Woodger posted [p:943641547] in Would you ... [t:78924974]...</cite> <quote>Yeah, I'd wanna know too - would feel awful, especially coming from the person the wife was cheating with, but better knowing than being a chump. The wife is obviously a disgrace who's likely to do it again. Also, you are terrible. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lost_All_Senses 08/21/20 6:17:34 AM #18:	I'd say no, since your reasons seem selfish. --- Name checks out "Stupidity is a spectrum, and we're all on it" - OfDustandBone <cite>Lost_All_Senses posted [p:943641618] in Would you ... [t:78924974]...</cite> <quote>I'd say no, since your reasons seem selfish. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ReignFury 08/21/20 6:19:23 AM #19:	Woodger posted... Yeah, I'd wanna know too - would feel awful, especially coming from the person the wife was cheating with, but better knowing than being a chump. The wife is obviously a disgrace who's likely to do it again. Also, you are terrible. Shes definitely been fucking other dudes. --- This is my main <cite>ReignFury posted [p:943641646] in Would you ... [t:78924974]...</cite> <quote>Woodger posted... </cite> <quote>Yeah, I'd wanna know too - would feel awful, especially coming from the person the wife was cheating with, but better knowing than being a chump. The wife is obviously a disgrace who's likely to do it again. Also, you are terrible.</quote> Shes definitely been fucking other dudes. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
cjsdowg 08/21/20 7:06:47 AM #20:	RiKuToTheMiGhtY posted... The husband needs to know, and all the people saying not to say anything must not have any respect for the husband. It is NOT better that he is left in the dark about his wife cheating on him, if she cheated once odds are high it was not the only time. No man should stay with someone unfaithful, and how he reacts is up to him. The husband needing to know , and TC telling him are to differnet things. While the Husband should find out some how. The TC should not go to and admit it. The wife should be open about it. --- Bender: Well, everybody, I just saved a turtle. What have you done with your lives? <cite>cjsdowg posted [p:943642162] in Would you ... [t:78924974]...</cite> <quote>RiKuToTheMiGhtY posted... </cite> <quote>The husband needs to know, and all the people saying not to say anything must not have any respect for the husband. It is NOT better that he is left in the dark about his wife cheating on him, if she cheated once odds are high it was not the only time. No man should stay with someone unfaithful, and how he reacts is up to him.</quote> The husband needing to know , and TC telling him are to differnet things. While the Husband should find out some how. The TC should not go to and admit it. The wife should be open about it. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Morrowindmodman 08/21/20 9:20:33 AM #21:	So you fucked a dude's wife, and now you've decided to rat her out about it? You sure didn't have a problem with cheating when you were benefiting from it. Why would you snitch on yourself? You already admitted you're doing it just to be vindictive. I'd say NOT to do it because he loves his wife more than he does you. You don't know what goes on in this dude's head. Are you prepared to have a confrontation with this guy that might get violent? If you rat on yourself and he confronts her, she's going to tell him everything. She knows who she sent these pictures to. She'll know it was you and she'll tell him. What do you do if he decides that YOU'RE the problem? That YOU'RE the one who seduced his wife and MADE her cheat on him? He's going to be experiencing an intense cocktail of betrayal, rage and sadness when he learns this information. You don't know how he's going to react. Are you okay with this guy showing up at your house or workplace and at the very least causing drama? If you'd never fucked this woman, then ratting on her is whatever. But you did and you knew she was married. So you're snitching on two people now and you're inviting a lot of potential bullshit into your life. Don't do it. If something does happen as a result of this, then you only have yourself to blame. <cite>Morrowindmodman posted [p:943644552] in Would you ... [t:78924974]...</cite> <quote>So you fucked a dude's wife, and now you've decided to rat her out about it? You sure didn't have a problem with cheating when you were benefiting from it. Why would you snitch on yourself? You already admitted you're doing it just to be vindictive. I'd say NOT to do it because he loves his wife more than he does you. You don't know what goes on in this dude's head. Are you prepared to have a confrontation with this guy that might get violent? If you rat on yourself and he confronts her, she's going to tell him everything. She knows who she sent these pictures to. She'll know it was you and she'll tell him. What do you do if he decides that YOU'RE the problem? That YOU'RE the one who seduced his wife and MADE her cheat on him? He's going to be experiencing an intense cocktail of betrayal, rage and sadness when he learns this information. You don't know how he's going to react. Are you okay with this guy showing up at your house or workplace and at the very least causing drama? If you'd never fucked this woman, then ratting on her is whatever. But you did and you knew she was married. So you're snitching on two people now and you're inviting a lot of potential bullshit into your life. Don't do it. If something does happen as a result of this, then you only have yourself to blame. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
The Trent 08/21/20 9:22:27 AM #22:	don't do this, there's no benefit --- i swear to God most of y'all cats just don't know The Trent you barely know yourself so i guess most of y'all should be offended <cite>The Trent posted [p:943644601] in Would you ... [t:78924974]...</cite> <quote>don't do this, there's no benefit </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
apocalyptic_4 08/21/20 9:24:11 AM #23:	Maybe the husband a cuck and hes into it youd never know --- XBL: Mrpicardbottoms <cite>apocalyptic_4 posted [p:943644642] in Would you ... [t:78924974]...</cite> <quote>Maybe the husband a cuck and hes into it youd never know </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
HBOSS 08/21/20 9:54:49 AM #24:	why tell? you have no idea what telling this man will do to him. youve created a moment where this man will lose it all and it will be on his mind indefinitely. what do people do when theres nothings left? what if he was one the few who thinks about your life? emotion, plan, action will manifest itself to reality for anybody. all it takes is a moment to decide. --- You don't stop playing because you grow old, You grow old because you stop playing <cite>HBOSS posted [p:943645392] in Would you ... [t:78924974]...</cite> <quote>why tell? you have no idea what telling this man will do to him. youve created a moment where this man will lose it all and it will be on his mind indefinitely. what do people do when theres nothings left? what if he was one the few who thinks about your life? emotion, plan, action will manifest itself to reality for anybody. all it takes is a moment to decide. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Obstacle2 08/21/20 9:57:23 AM #25:	I would want to know as the husband but you're only doing it for a sociopathic ego trip so I'd recommend against it but we all know you're going to do what you want to anyway. --- fka cmc/blaze \| #Swag crew now and forever we're half awake in a fake empire <cite>Obstacle2 posted [p:943645459] in Would you ... [t:78924974]...</cite> <quote>I would want to know as the husband but you're only doing it for a sociopathic ego trip so I'd recommend against it but we all know you're going to do what you want to anyway. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
GentlemanGamer 08/21/20 10:01:40 AM #26:	Woodger posted... Yeah, I'd wanna know too - would feel awful, especially coming from the person the wife was cheating with, but better knowing than being a chump. The wife is obviously a disgrace who's likely to do it again. Also, you are terrible. <cite>GentlemanGamer posted [p:943645576] in Would you ... [t:78924974]...</cite> <quote>Woodger posted... </cite> <quote>Yeah, I'd wanna know too - would feel awful, especially coming from the person the wife was cheating with, but better knowing than being a chump. The wife is obviously a disgrace who's likely to do it again. Also, you are terrible.</quote> </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lysandear 08/21/20 10:03:19 AM #27:	So while she was married to him you slept with her for a year? What the actual fuck is wrong with you? Like shit why the fuck are there so many disgusting-ass serial cheaters on this board? What the fuck guys? Is it really that ubiquitous? Unreal. <cite>Lysandear posted [p:943645606] in Would you ... [t:78924974]...</cite> <quote>So while she was married to him you slept with her for a year? What the actual fuck is wrong with you? Like shit why the fuck are there so many disgusting-ass serial cheaters on this board? What the fuck guys? Is it really that ubiquitous? Unreal. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Tired-Insomniac 08/21/20 10:06:10 AM #28:	I'd want to know If she did it with you, she could also have been doing it with other guys Could bring an STD home, or she gets pregnant and he thinks it's his and ends up raising some other man's child The aftermath of discovering either of those two possibilities would likely be worse than the aftermath of finding out she's cheating now --- "I like turtles" <cite>Tired-Insomniac posted [p:943645648] in Would you ... [t:78924974]...</cite> <quote>I'd want to know If she did it with you, she could also have been doing it with other guys Could bring an STD home, or she gets pregnant and he thinks it's his and ends up raising some other man's child The aftermath of discovering either of those two possibilities would likely be worse than the aftermath of finding out she's cheating now </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
GoodOlJr 08/21/20 10:08:11 AM #29:	Its not necessarily right If you tell him only to clear your guilt and their marriage is otherwise good, it could be bad --- http://farm4.staticflickr.com/3475/3291766630_b434e97925.jpg 3DS: 1005-8921-6109 <cite>GoodOlJr posted [p:943645686] in Would you ... [t:78924974]...</cite> <quote>Its not necessarily right If you tell him only to clear your guilt and their marriage is otherwise good, it could be bad</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Guide 08/21/20 11:52:25 AM #30:	A lot of assumptions, buuuut since CE of all places is telling me not to do something, it must be pretty bad, huh. So I won't. That being said, I find it interesting how a few of you think intentions are all that relevant. --- evening main 2.4356848e+91 https://youtu.be/Acn5IptKWQU <cite>Guide posted [p:943648696] in Would you ... [t:78924974]...</cite> <quote>A lot of assumptions, buuuut since CE of all places is telling me not to do something, it must be pretty bad, huh. So I won't. That being said, I find it interesting how a few of you think intentions are all that relevant. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
smoke_break 08/21/20 11:56:47 AM #31:	Did you know she was married and still kept a sexual relationship with her? --- https://imgur.com/mOCFlRv <cite>smoke_break posted [p:943648861] in Would you ... [t:78924974]...</cite> <quote>Did you know she was married and still kept a sexual relationship with her? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Tenlaar 08/21/20 11:57:08 AM #32:	Somebody should always be told if they're being cheated on, in every single situation. <cite>Tenlaar posted [p:943648872] in Would you ... [t:78924974]...</cite> <quote>Somebody should always be told if they're being cheated on, in every single situation. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Guide 08/21/20 11:58:13 AM #33:	smoke_break posted... Did you know she was married and still kept a sexual relationship with her? Yes, it started that way. She made the first move, technically. --- evening main 2.4356848e+91 https://youtu.be/Acn5IptKWQU <cite>Guide posted [p:943648921] in Would you ... [t:78924974]...</cite> <quote>smoke_break posted... </cite> <quote>Did you know she was married and still kept a sexual relationship with her?</quote> Yes, it started that way. She made the first move, technically. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Number090684 08/21/20 12:15:23 PM #34:	ReignFury posted... Do the right thing, the marriage is based on lies and is doomed to fail anyway. This. Just be careful and try and to read his mood and determine if it might be a okay time to let him know. Also, let him know you're not letting him know to hurt him but because it's the right thing to do and he should know about it. He might be pissed, but if he stops and thinks about it he'll realize you're at least man enough to own up to what you've done and are trying to make amends. Actually, you could just do this anonymously if you really want to if you are careful about it. Just write him a letter telling him that you have important info about his marriage that you want to discreetly share with him and put a new temporary email address you are going to pass him the evidence in, wait for him to contact you, and send it over. --- US N Switch "Number" FC SW-3804-3177-9797 US PS3 / PS4 / PS Vita PSN: Number090684 <cite>Number090684 posted [p:943649466] in Would you ... [t:78924974]...</cite> <quote>ReignFury posted... </cite> <quote>Do the right thing, the marriage is based on lies and is doomed to fail anyway.</quote> This. Just be careful and try and to read his mood and determine if it might be a okay time to let him know. Also, let him know you're not letting him know to hurt him but because it's the right thing to do and he should know about it. He might be pissed, but if he stops and thinks about it he'll realize you're at least man enough to own up to what you've done and are trying to make amends. Actually, you could just do this anonymously if you really want to if you are careful about it. Just write him a letter telling him that you have important info about his marriage that you want to discreetly share with him and put a new temporary email address you are going to pass him the evidence in, wait for him to contact you, and send it over. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Guide 08/21/20 2:05:53 PM #35:	Oh, I wouldn't be a dick about it or anything, sure. And it's not like retaliation is possible, I'm quite far away from where it happened. --- evening main 2.4356848e+91 https://youtu.be/Acn5IptKWQU <cite>Guide posted [p:943653217] in Would you ... [t:78924974]...</cite> <quote>Oh, I wouldn't be a dick about it or anything, sure. And it's not like retaliation is possible, I'm quite far away from where it happened. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
The Trent 08/21/20 2:06:44 PM #36:	it's just a no benefit situation --- i swear to God most of y'all cats just don't know The Trent you barely know yourself so i guess most of y'all should be offended <cite>The Trent posted [p:943653235] in Would you ... [t:78924974]...</cite> <quote>it's just a no benefit situation </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Guide 08/21/20 2:07:30 PM #37:	The Trent posted... it's just a no benefit situation I already said I won't, don't worry. I'm feeling less of that gnarl after a good nap. --- evening main 2.4356848e+91 https://youtu.be/Acn5IptKWQU <cite>Guide posted [p:943653256] in Would you ... [t:78924974]...</cite> <quote>The Trent posted... </cite> <quote>it's just a no benefit situation</quote> I already said I won't, don't worry. I'm feeling less of that gnarl after a good nap. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Tenlaar 08/21/20 2:07:38 PM #38:	The Trent posted... it's just a no benefit situation Sure, if you ignore the benefit of the guy knowing his wife has been cheating on him. <cite>Tenlaar posted [p:943653265] in Would you ... [t:78924974]...</cite> <quote>The Trent posted... </cite> <quote>it's just a no benefit situation</quote>Sure, if you ignore the benefit of the guy knowing his wife has been cheating on him. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
The Trent 08/21/20 2:09:31 PM #39:	Tenlaar posted... Sure, if you ignore the benefit of the guy knowing his wife has been cheating on him. debatable whether that's a benefit or not ignorance can be bliss and not everyone handles truth very well but i'm not talking about anyone other than TC in this situation when i say that there's literally no benefit to him because "i get to be a dick" is not a benefit --- i swear to God most of y'all cats just don't know The Trent you barely know yourself so i guess most of y'all should be offended <cite>The Trent posted [p:943653322] in Would you ... [t:78924974]...</cite> <quote>Tenlaar posted... </cite> <quote>Sure, if you ignore the benefit of the guy knowing his wife has been cheating on him.</quote> debatable whether that's a benefit or not ignorance can be bliss and not everyone handles truth very well but i'm not talking about anyone other than TC in this situation when i say that there's literally no benefit to him because "i get to be a dick" is not a benefit </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Guide 08/21/20 2:12:09 PM #40:	The Trent posted... "i get to be a dick" is not a benefit Are you really saying this on CE? I'm kidding. I know what you mean. Kinda. --- evening main 2.4356848e+91 https://youtu.be/Acn5IptKWQU <cite>Guide posted [p:943653402] in Would you ... [t:78924974]...</cite> <quote>The Trent posted... </cite> <quote>"i get to be a dick" is not a benefit</quote> Are you really saying this on CE? I'm kidding. I know what you mean. Kinda. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
RetsuZaiZen 08/21/20 2:12:49 PM #41:	Lmao no. Literally no point. --- Why do nerdsalways get caught up on the details? https://imgur.com/dntQM https://imgur.com/9gNcUGM https://imgur.com/bH8vq3f <cite>RetsuZaiZen posted [p:943653431] in Would you ... [t:78924974]...</cite> <quote>Lmao no. Literally no point. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
The Trent 08/21/20 2:13:06 PM #42:	you know i don't really give a shit what you do though --- i swear to God most of y'all cats just don't know The Trent you barely know yourself so i guess most of y'all should be offended <cite>The Trent posted [p:943653436] in Would you ... [t:78924974]...</cite> <quote>you know i don't really give a shit what you do though </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Tenlaar 08/21/20 2:13:56 PM #43:	The Trent posted... debatable whether that's a benefit or not ignorance can be bliss and not everyone handles truth very well It's not debatable if you're not a scummy person who doesn't see cheating as being that bad and thinks hiding it is excusable because it would hurt the person being cheated on. but i'm not talking about anyone other than TC in this situation when i say that there's literally no benefit to him because "i get to be a dick" is not a benefit I know, and I'm pointing out that you're purposefully choosing to exclude the actual victim of this scenario and the very real benefit to them from your equation. <cite>Tenlaar posted [p:943653466] in Would you ... [t:78924974]...</cite> <quote>The Trent posted... </cite> <quote>debatable whether that's a benefit or not ignorance can be bliss and not everyone handles truth very well</quote>It's not debatable if you're not a scummy person who doesn't see cheating as being that bad and thinks hiding it is excusable because it would hurt the person being cheated on. <quote>but i'm not talking about anyone other than TC in this situation when i say that there's literally no benefit to him because "i get to be a dick" is not a benefit</quote>I know, and I'm pointing out that you're purposefully choosing to exclude the actual victim of this scenario and the very real benefit to them from your equation. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
The Trent 08/21/20 2:14:39 PM #44:	sorry --- i swear to God most of y'all cats just don't know The Trent you barely know yourself so i guess most of y'all should be offended <cite>The Trent posted [p:943653497] in Would you ... [t:78924974]...</cite> <quote>sorry </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Feline_Heart 08/21/20 2:15:45 PM #45:	Theres no reason to tell him unless you enjoy fucking with peoples heads --- Pickles the Drummer doodily doo ding dong doodily doodily doo <cite>Feline_Heart posted [p:943653541] in Would you ... [t:78924974]...</cite> <quote>Theres no reason to tell him unless you enjoy fucking with peoples heads </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Guide 08/21/20 2:17:16 PM #46:	Tenlaar posted... It's not debatable if you're not a scummy person who doesn't see cheating as being that bad and thinks hiding it is excusable because it would hurt the person being cheated on. I know, and I'm pointing out that you're purposefully choosing to exclude the actual victim of this scenario and the very real benefit to them from your equation. He's right though. Cheating is bad, but it's not impossible for them to just go on, happy in blissful ignorance. --- evening main 2.4356848e+91 https://youtu.be/Acn5IptKWQU <cite>Guide posted [p:943653589] in Would you ... [t:78924974]...</cite> <quote>Tenlaar posted... </cite> <quote>It's not debatable if you're not a scummy person who doesn't see cheating as being that bad and thinks hiding it is excusable because it would hurt the person being cheated on. I know, and I'm pointing out that you're purposefully choosing to exclude the actual victim of this scenario and the very real benefit to them from your equation.</quote> He's right though. Cheating is bad, but it's not impossible for them to just go on, happy in blissful ignorance. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
The Trent 08/21/20 2:18:40 PM #47:	just say sorry, you don't have to engage he'll feel right, like he won, and you get to keep it moving --- i swear to God most of y'all cats just don't know The Trent you barely know yourself so i guess most of y'all should be offended <cite>The Trent posted [p:943653641] in Would you ... [t:78924974]...</cite> <quote>just say sorry, you don't have to engage he'll feel right, like he won, and you get to keep it moving </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Woodger 08/21/20 2:19:05 PM #48:	Benefit for the husband though - pay the guy at least a shred of respect and give him the agency to choose whether he wants to waste his life in an unfair marriage. Anonymous email is probably the way to go. <cite>Woodger posted [p:943653656] in Would you ... [t:78924974]...</cite> <quote>Benefit for the husband though - pay the guy at least a shred of respect and give him the agency to choose whether he wants to waste his life in an unfair marriage. Anonymous email is probably the way to go. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Tenlaar 08/21/20 2:19:07 PM #49:	Guide posted... He's right though. Cheating is bad, but it's not impossible for them to just go on, happy in blissful ignorance. No he's not, and "it's better to lie to people so that they don't have to deal with the truth" is 100% bullshit scumbag justification for doing bad things. <cite>Tenlaar posted [p:943653658] in Would you ... [t:78924974]...</cite> <quote>Guide posted... </cite> <quote>He's right though. Cheating is bad, but it's not impossible for them to just go on, happy in blissful ignorance.</quote>No he's not, and "it's better to lie to people so that they don't have to deal with the truth" is 100% bullshit scumbag justification for doing bad things. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
CommunismFTW 08/21/20 2:20:38 PM #51:	Let it die. Your moment with her has passed. Let them live their life, I'm sure she feels guilty about it and it could ruin a marriage. And it's not like she'll come running back to you. --- Since only from below can one better see the heights. https://imgur.com/OhZgm <cite>CommunismFTW posted [p:943653715] in Would you ... [t:78924974]...</cite> <quote>Let it die. Your moment with her has passed. Let them live their life, I'm sure she feels guilty about it and it could ruin a marriage. And it's not like she'll come running back to you. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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