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UnfairRepresent
07/10/20 6:36:44 AM
#1:


Do you tell her husband ?


You walk in on her sleeping with another man.

Later she runs up to you in a panic and she's like "Wait [Firstname]! You can't tell Tony, who as you know is my husband. It would destroy him. Just keep this between us okay? No one needs to know."

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Would you tell your brother-in-law? or keep silent?
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GentlemanGamer
07/10/20 6:47:41 AM
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I don't have a sister or a brother in law so I can't really say.
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im not 13
07/10/20 6:49:57 AM
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Hmmm it's a tricky one

Cheaters are literally scum but I'm very close to my sister

I would pressure her into confessing. If she makes me keep that secret to myself then obviously she doesn't value our relationship as much as I thought


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Choco
07/10/20 6:50:46 AM
#4:


UnfairRepresent posted...
You can't tell Tony, who as you know is my husband.
wow this dialogue is so realistic

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smoke_break
07/10/20 6:50:54 AM
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I feel bad for the husband but I am not betraying the fam.

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UnfairRepresent
07/10/20 6:52:33 AM
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GentlemanGamer posted...
I don't have a sister or a brother in law so I can't really say.

It's a hypothetical
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HagenEx
07/10/20 6:55:11 AM
#7:


Family first. Always.

I'd keep her secret.

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GentlemanGamer
07/10/20 6:57:31 AM
#8:


UnfairRepresent posted...
It's a hypothetical

Yeah, and my hypothetical reaction would depend on my relationship with my sister and my brother in law, and I don't have either.
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pogo_rabid
07/10/20 6:58:25 AM
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I've seen this plotline in my japanese hentais

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UnfairRepresent
07/10/20 6:58:52 AM
#10:


GentlemanGamer posted...


Yeah, and my hypothetical reaction would depend on my relationship with my sister and my brother in law, and I don't have either.

Booo!

Cowardly cop out answer! booo
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buddhamonster
07/10/20 6:59:20 AM
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Gonna need more info.

Where was Wesley in all this?

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07/10/20 7:07:15 AM
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I don't snitch

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IfGodCouldDie
07/10/20 7:13:23 AM
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Man, I don't give a shit what my family members do as long as they aren't actively sabotaging me. The only time I am calling out that kind of stuff is if you are betraying someone I care about. So if I caught Tony cheating, my sister would know. If I caught my best friend's SO cheating my best friend will know. If it's the other way around I'll tell them what they are doing is really shitty but ultimately it's their life and relationship.

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UnfairRepresent
07/10/20 7:21:42 AM
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IfGodCouldDie posted...
Man, I don't give a shit what my family members do as long as they aren't actively sabotaging me. The only time I am calling out that kind of stuff is if you are betraying someone I care about. So if I caught Tony cheating, my sister would know. If I caught my best friend's SO cheating my best friend will know. If it's the other way around I'll tell them what they are doing is really shitty but ultimately it's their life and relationship.

Wow... just wow
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nfearurspecimn
07/10/20 7:23:22 AM
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I would talk about it with her, and suggest getting a divorce, but I wouldn't force her to do anything. However, I would tell her I wouldn't put on an act to pretend nothing is wrong for family get togethers so its up to her if she wants to risk me giving off tells. Not gonna go out and say it, but I'm not gonna put on a charade either.
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IfGodCouldDie
07/10/20 7:44:37 AM
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UnfairRepresent posted...
Wow... just wow
What?

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Kajagogo
07/10/20 7:46:13 AM
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I haven't talked to or seen my sister in years, and I never met my current brother-in-law.

So this scenario would never happen.

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AirFresh
07/10/20 7:46:54 AM
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No sister but yes I'd rat her out.

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NeoShadowhen
07/10/20 7:48:20 AM
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Can she be a step-sister?
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TRC
07/10/20 8:03:19 AM
#20:


no

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GentlemanGamer
07/10/20 8:05:59 AM
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UnfairRepresent posted...
Booo!

Cowardly cop out answer! booo

How is it a cop out? Do you treat every single circumstance exactly the same no matter who is involved? That seems unlikely to me.
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RiKuToTheMiGhtY
07/10/20 8:08:47 AM
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You tell the husband because it is the right thing to do, she can always divorce the husband before going to bed with another man.

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RetsuZaiZen
07/10/20 8:36:50 AM
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Nah. My loyalty is for my sister, not her husband. I wouldn't like it but I'm not getting involved.

If he were cheating on her, I would tell her though.

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UnfairRepresent
07/10/20 8:53:41 AM
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RiKuToTheMiGhtY posted...
You tell the husband because it is the right thing to do,

Most of CE disagree

Are you saying most people on CE are bad?
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GentlemanGamer
07/10/20 8:54:09 AM
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RedWhiteBlue posted...
Not a fan of how many people would allow scummy moves for themselves and family, but not anyone else. We should try to hold everyone to the same standards, ideally. She should be tl communicating with her husband if there are issues. If she won't solve it herself after I speak with her, I'll tell him myself.

There is literally no context provided. They could have an open relationship. He could be a cuck. It could be revenge for his own many affairs, possibly even a 'gimme' they agreed upon. It could be an arrangement marriage. He could be abusive or a horrible person. She could be planning to leave him and just waiting for a specific reason. The man might be threatening her or her family or raping her. You could just love your sister and hate him, or vise versa. An incredible amount of possible nuances to just answer yes or no without question.
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Master_Bass
07/10/20 8:55:11 AM
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I'd tell her see can tell him or I will.

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lord0fmud
07/10/20 8:58:57 AM
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Blackmail for sex.
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RiKuToTheMiGhtY
07/10/20 9:10:33 AM
#30:


We know most people on CE are not the cream of the crop, stop pretending this is not a hive of scum and villainy.

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RetsuZaiZen
07/10/20 9:10:38 AM
#31:


RedWhiteBlue posted...
Not a fan of how many people would allow scummy moves for themselves and family, but not anyone else. We should try to hold everyone to the same standards, ideally. She should be tl communicating with her husband if there are issues. If she won't solve it herself after I speak with her, I'll tell him myself.

Yea fuck that. I'm not destroying my relationship with my sister over him.

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garan
07/10/20 3:06:20 PM
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I tell the brother in law so that he leaves her before there are children dragged into this mess of a relationship.
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EnragedSlith
07/10/20 3:10:07 PM
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I think it depends on the context, but I wouldn't be cool about it if one of my siblings cheated on their partner.

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WafflehouseJK
07/10/20 3:11:37 PM
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im not 13 posted...
Hmmm it's a tricky one

Cheaters are literally scum but I'm very close to my sister

I would pressure her into confessing. If she makes me keep that secret to myself then obviously she doesn't value our relationship as much as I thought
Pretty much this. I would try to convince her that she needs to tell him herself, and/or end the relationship if she's unhappy. Ultimately it'd be her choice, I wouldn't tell him if she insisted, but I would actively try to convince her that she needs to grow a backbone and talk to her husband about it.

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Zikten
07/10/20 3:12:16 PM
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I have 2 sisters (and 1 brother) but neither sister is married. if they were though, I would keep their secret. I might not like it, or maybe I wouldn't care, depending on how I feel about their husband. but I would be loyal to my sisters not their husbands
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OffTempo
07/10/20 3:13:55 PM
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No sister but this is what I'd do:

Talk with her about why shes cheating on him. Tell her that she needs to tell him. If she draws it out forever and its clear shes not going to say anything I'm telling him. If you've ever been cheated on you know how shitty of a feeling that is and you wouldn't wish that on anyone else.

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FabIemaster
07/10/20 3:14:57 PM
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Choco posted...
wow this dialogue is so realistic
Please Choco who is my brother because we were born from the same parents who were also born at some point, do not tell my husband that I married as you know him as my husband because we got married in front of you that I slept with another man who is not my husband because I did not marry him because I was married first to my husband that you know because he is your brother-in-law!

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Alteres
07/10/20 3:19:02 PM
#38:


lord0fmud posted...
Blackmail for sex.
I was expecting this to be #2, especially as he always provides a pic.

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UnfairRepresent
07/10/20 8:32:18 PM
#39:


Zikten posted...
. I might not like it, or maybe I wouldn't care

Well you're a real dymanic personality.
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UnfairRepresent
07/12/20 5:49:19 AM
#40:


garan posted...
I tell the brother in law so that he leaves her before there are children dragged into this mess of a relationship.

Children that may not be his lol
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InYourWalls1
07/12/20 6:00:34 AM
#41:


EnragedSlith posted...
I think it depends on the context, but I wouldn't be cool about it if one of my siblings cheated on their partner.

This.

Actually I'm in a similar situation IRL. The brother of my fianc earlier this year had a birthday dinner earlier in the year, and prior to this had broken up with a girlfriend he'd been seeing for about a year. He then contacted us all before the dinner because it turns out he had also been seeing another girl at the same time for around a year, and we had to maintain the story he was telling her.

I would've liked to tell her but felt it wasn't my place and would turn her family against me, and my fianc is very loyal to her family as well, even though she thinks it's horrible. He's an asshole who does this kind of thing regularly though and I feel really bad for this girl

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MT_TRAEH
07/12/20 6:10:01 AM
#42:


lord0fmud posted...
Blackmail for sex.
or money

i dont normally snitch because i usually dont care unless it affects me

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UnfairRepresent
07/13/20 4:43:12 AM
#43:


InYourWalls1 posted...
He then contacted us all before the dinner because it turns out he had also been seeing another girl at the same time for around a year, and we had to maintain the story he was telling her.

I would've liked to tell her but felt it wasn't my place

kinda is your place if he is telling you to lie
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Returning_CEmen
07/13/20 5:09:23 AM
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HBOSS
07/13/20 7:14:57 AM
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cheaters are selfish and greedy af. toxic relationships spread infesting everybody they can with lies.

cheater behavior will not end and gets worse the longer the facade continues.

the truth shall set everybody free!! you wanna hate then hate me. what can i do. i aint suffering from your cheating ways!!

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Aki_Sora
07/13/20 8:19:34 AM
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Blackmail ( )
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HighOnSolar
07/13/20 8:24:09 AM
#47:


im not 13 posted...
Cheaters are literally scum
all there is to it

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ChrisTaka
07/13/20 8:27:36 AM
#48:


Aki_Sora posted...
Blackmail ( )

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Turbam
07/13/20 8:28:07 AM
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I'll fuck Tony for her

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Jeff AKA Snoopy
07/13/20 8:29:11 AM
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I would give her the ultimatum that she has to tell him in the next 24 hours or I will.

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Guide
07/13/20 8:32:33 AM
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Blackmail for the most expensive thing on my Amazon wishlist, then tell anyway.

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