Poll of the Day > I just asked a girl out for the first time in like 800 years.

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argonautweakend
07/08/20 9:34:01 PM
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Friends sister in law who I see a few times a month when I am over his house as she lives there.

She said she was seeing a previous boyfriend and was taking it slow. However at the same time she did say she also thought I was a cool and interesting person, and asked me how long I've been thinking like this. I said a couple of months, then she asked me why I waited so long and I just said I realized a good moment to ask wouldn't just come up if I didnt make one myself.

So, the way I am taking this is that while she is in something of a relationship the general idea didn't repulse her and if this was a couple of months prior she might have said yes. So while I am backing off I kinda feel like she didn't entirely discount the idea. But I don't plan on being awkward or a creep so that doesn't mean much, but maybe down the line if she is single again I might have something, but I won't be the kind of guy to swoop in as soon as she's single cause that is whack.

Oh well, can't win em all. But I feel much better for having asked.

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Veedrock-
07/08/20 9:39:08 PM
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Did you at least get to rummage through her coin purse?

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SunWuKung420
07/08/20 9:40:29 PM
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Good for you.

Trying is better than not trying.

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argonautweakend
07/08/20 9:43:48 PM
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Veedrock- posted...
Did you at least get to rummage through her coin purse?


Aw dude. I know thats some shit she was talking about when she said she felt like I was interesting.
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wwinterj25
07/08/20 9:48:45 PM
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I can't knock a guy for having the balls to do something about his feelings. In my life I've had two people I've really liked and never confessed these feelings to them. I find myself wondering "what if?" a lot. In insight it would have been probably best to just get rejected.

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argonautweakend
07/08/20 9:50:00 PM
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I did wait an awfully long time before I said something, though, so I am kinda sorta kicking myself in the pants. But it isn't a big deal. Her response gives me confidence because while it didn't work out here, it will work out with somebody in the future.
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blu
07/08/20 9:50:47 PM
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If she had said yes, would you have brought a 3DS with you?
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Smarkil
07/09/20 12:31:38 AM
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how big are her tits?

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FarmerGeddon
07/09/20 6:05:39 AM
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wwinterj25 posted...
In insight it would have been probably best to just get rejected.

Unfortunately I find this is true. In my experience I get over people really quickly if I get a hard rejection. It removes any semblance of doubt so it's a lot easier to move on.
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SpeeDLeemon
07/09/20 6:07:04 AM
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Veedrock-
07/09/20 6:29:43 AM
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Imagine judging a girl by her physical qualities instead of the rarity of her currency!

wwinterj25 posted...
In my life I've had two people I've really liked and never confessed these feelings to them.
Theyre better off having never known.

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wwinterj25
07/09/20 12:33:53 PM
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Veedrock- posted...
They're better off having never known, better still if they don't know you exist.

On what bases?


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JOExHIGASHI
07/09/20 12:34:56 PM
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Does she like simpsons quotes?

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OhhhJa
07/09/20 12:36:51 PM
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I hope I can still date when I'm over 800 years old
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Veedrock-
07/09/20 12:37:42 PM
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wwinterj25 posted...
On what bases?
Just giving you back what you dish to others.


You're a horrible little person.

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wwinterj25
07/09/20 12:41:43 PM
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Veedrock- posted...
Just giving you back what you dish to others.

However I know Zeus as a poster and he knows me. You on the other hand.... I don't even know who you are and you certainly don't know me so your comment holds no weight at all. Try harder next time or better yet don't try at all as it's embarrassing seeing such a shitpost.

You're a horrible little person.

Yeah I'm a horrible person saying someones life probably turned out better than Zeus thinks. How dare I imply such a thing! They clearly are in the gutter at this point.

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Revelation34
07/09/20 12:43:08 PM
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blu posted...
If she had said yes, would you have brought a 3DS with you?


Wait that was him?
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Veedrock-
07/09/20 12:48:22 PM
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wwinterj25 posted...
Yeah I'm a horrible person
Fantastic.

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MrMelodramatic
07/09/20 12:48:28 PM
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Revelation34 posted...
Wait that was him?
No that was ico

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wwinterj25
07/09/20 12:51:03 PM
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Veedrock- posted...
Fantastic.
Marked for harassment.

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Revelation34
07/09/20 12:52:45 PM
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MrMelodramatic posted...

No that was ico


But he doesn't even have a job. Honestly that thread was such a long time ago I forgot who posted it.
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Veedrock-
07/09/20 1:24:02 PM
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wwinterj25 posted...
Marked for harassment.
Of course you can only dish it and not take it.

You make unsolicited jabs at users you don't like then cry foul when it happens to you. Classic wwinter.

I apologize to argonaut for hijacking this thread, I shall disband and only comment further about serials, mintage, and grade.

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Bugmeat
07/09/20 1:45:31 PM
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Don't just wait to see how this other thing of hers pans out. Now is the time to suggest that the two of you go out, but "just as friends." She's probably not serious about this previous boyfriend. She's more than likely bored and he's a known, comfortable alternative to being alone. But there's a reason shit didn't work out for them the first time. Her taking it slow with him sounds like there are trust issues with him.

You obviously have no intention of just being friends when you go out. But saying it's just friends hanging out gives her the opportunity to justify it to herself and say yes. Be smooth, show her a great time and make her forget about that chump of an ex that she isn't even serious about. At the end of that first date it should be clear whether there's a chance to go further. If there isn't, then leave it alone and look elsewhere.


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wwinterj25
07/09/20 3:16:20 PM
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Veedrock- posted...
Classic wwinter.

Who are you?

Veedrock- posted...
I apologize to argonaut for hijacking this thread, I shall disband and only comment further about serials, mintage, and grade.

So you should. You're a embarrassment.

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LeetCheet
07/09/20 3:59:13 PM
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So did she have a nice set of tits and/or a nice ass?
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argonautweakend
07/09/20 4:39:25 PM
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Bugmeat posted...
Don't just wait to see how this other thing of hers pans out. Now is the time to suggest that the two of you go out, but "just as friends." She's probably not serious about this previous boyfriend. She's more than likely bored and he's a known, comfortable alternative to being alone. But there's a reason shit didn't work out for them the first time. Her taking it slow with him sounds like there are trust issues with him.

You obviously have no intention of just being friends when you go out. But saying it's just friends hanging out gives her the opportunity to justify it to herself and say yes. Be smooth, show her a great time and make her forget about that chump of an ex that she isn't even serious about. At the end of that first date it should be clear whether there's a chance to go further. If there isn't, then leave it alone and look elsewhere.


I don't know much but i guess they were living together and argued a lot towards the end of it so the girl moved in with her sister.

Im definitely going to act cool and shit though around her still in case that goes south. I don't know about asking her to hang out 1 on 1 without the context of dating only because i know her sister and her husband well so including them would be natural and the default.

Though we both like taking photos so perhaps i could see if she would want. To do that
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LinkPizza
07/09/20 10:03:04 PM
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argonautweakend posted...
first time in like 800 years.

Oh. I didnt know you were older than me...
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helIy
07/09/20 10:32:44 PM
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that's a long time

are you a vampire

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SunWuKung420
07/09/20 10:35:36 PM
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You should have used an alt.

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argonautweakend
07/09/20 10:36:17 PM
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"Well i've been living in this spooky castle for 800 years and ive never noticed a problem"
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Revelation34
07/10/20 9:02:16 PM
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argonautweakend posted...
"Well i've been living in this spooky castle for 800 years and ive never noticed a problem"


Not even coffin problems?
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argonautweakend
07/10/20 9:12:46 PM
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Not that WD-40 or Spirit-all can't fix.
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Fierce_Deity_08
07/10/20 10:14:41 PM
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Try getting into dating after 1000 years. I really should put my pride aside and try it.

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Revelation34
07/11/20 2:35:03 PM
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Fierce_Deity_08 posted...
Try getting into dating after 1000 years. I really should put my pride aside and try it.


Only 1000?
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