Current Events > I don't get why Women get mad that Men don't want to date Single Mothers

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gamer167
07/09/20 2:50:13 PM
#202:


34 is about the cutoff point where you can be a single guy and choose to not date moms.

After that you gotta suck it up homie. Age 35 and up your chances of being forever alone increase exponentially each year.

Unless youre dating younger women.
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Blue_School
07/09/20 2:54:42 PM
#203:


There's a reason the childs dad ran off and 99% its bc the mother was bat shit crazy. Im gonna go with his judgement and pass on that type of women.

Shes obviously made bad choices and is unable to have the foresight to think through her actions. Also im not going to be a literal cuck for some other man and raise his child while he is free and is able to bang as many other women he wants, parties and generally lives it up.

Fuck that.
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TopKekBro
07/09/20 3:13:34 PM
#204:


DespondentDeity posted...
You're pathetic, don't @ me.

lmao!

hit a sensitive simp nerve I see
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The23rdMagus
07/09/20 3:15:27 PM
#205:


Blue_School posted...
There's a reason the childs dad ran off and 99% its bc the mother was bat shit crazy. Im gonna go with his judgement and pass on that type of women.

Shes obviously made bad choices and is unable to have the foresight to think through her actions. Also im not going to be a literal cuck for some other man and raise his child while he is free and is able to bang as many other women he wants, parties and generally lives it up.

Fuck that.
Holy shit.

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Lorenzo_2003
07/09/20 3:17:43 PM
#206:


There are hundreds of millions of women between the ages of 20-29. Of course there are many more above that age bracket, if thats your interest. Not all are heterosexual, but the vast majority are. Knowing that, why would you pursue a woman who is automatically going to increase the time, money and effort you will have to sacrifice for her already existing child?

If you feel some moral obligation to help children in need, remember that your taxes are supporting many already. If you want to do more, you can donate to various charities.

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Demigod_Elessar
07/09/20 3:30:25 PM
#207:


I dated a single mother for about two years. It was interesting, and weird. We didn't really experience those initial "courtship" parts that a lot of relationships start with. It was just like one day we were flirting back and forth, the next I asked her out, and boom I'm dating a mother with a 5-year-old son. Our first date was me taking both her and her son out to dinner. Which was fine, I had no issue or problem with having to include her son in out activities. I accepted that going in.

But I get why some people wouldn't want to. And that brings me to my next part. I grew attached to both her and her son over the next two years. So when our relationship finally ended, I didn't just lose her. I lost her son as well. Kind of double the heartache.

So, me personally, I will never date another single mother again. For those two main reasons.
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Dreamscissors
07/09/20 3:47:30 PM
#208:


Blue_School posted...
There's a reason the childs dad ran off and 99% its bc the mother was bat shit crazy. Im gonna go with his judgement and pass on that type of women.

Shes obviously made bad choices and is unable to have the foresight to think through her actions. Also im not going to be a literal cuck for some other man and raise his child while he is free and is able to bang as many other women he wants, parties and generally lives it up.

Fuck that.
Is this satire? Like taking all the ridiculous misogynistic points people make about single mothers and putting it into one hyperpost of toxicity.

I guess all the times you've been dumped or rejected are because you're batshit crazy too. Am I doing the wild baseless assumption thing right?

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DespondentDeity
07/09/20 4:03:04 PM
#209:


TopKekBro posted...
lmao!

hit a sensitive simp nerve I see

You've admitted you're nothing but bar trash already. I don't have to simp, I'm attractive and women flirt with me everywhere I go. I just have values and am an interesting enough person to have fun without lowering myself. Every post you've made in this topic has been toxic and adversarial towards women. I could give a fuck what you do with your life, but you're beneath me.

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DarkProto05
07/09/20 4:55:14 PM
#210:


gamer167 posted...
34 is about the cutoff point where you can be a single guy and choose to not date moms.

After that you gotta suck it up homie. Age 35 and up your chances of being forever alone increase exponentially each year.

Unless youre dating younger women.
Look at this sexist stuff lol.

Imagine saying to women you gotta suck it up and date Mr. A or Mr.B. You'd be branded a sexist. But it's quite okay to tell a man who to date, smh.

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Heavy_D_Forever
07/09/20 4:59:39 PM
#211:


There's a shitload of PC Principals in this topic lolol

Date whoever you want or don't want to for any reason. No one can tell you it's wrong to dislike single moms.

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The Wheelman1
07/09/20 5:42:03 PM
#212:


gamer167 posted...
34 is about the cutoff point where you can be a single guy and choose to not date moms.

After that you gotta suck it up homie. Age 35 and up your chances of being forever alone increase exponentially each year.

Unless youre dating younger women.
Or unless you're rich. There is no way any young childless girl will fall for you after 35. You'll just have to suck it up and accept being with a single mom.

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Lost_All_Senses
07/09/20 5:47:44 PM
#213:


CEmen are too busy still being kids to raise kids.

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TopKekBro
07/09/20 6:34:50 PM
#214:


DespondentDeity posted...
You've admitted you're nothing but bar trash already. I don't have to simp, I'm attractive and women flirt with me everywhere I go. I just have values and am an interesting enough person to have fun without lowering myself. Every post you've made in this topic has been toxic and adversarial towards women. I could give a fuck what you do with your life, but you're beneath me.

Haha if I go to bars I am trash?

if I would rather date attractive women who want to have fun now that I am young, so I can be a devoted, domesticated husband when the time comes that means I am bar trash?

youre giving me strong supreme gentleman and nice guy vibes. Have fun having dates that consist on taking junior to Chuck E. Cheese , when you turn around and realize youre now 40 and never did bar trash stuff you will become a thirsty, crass creepy old man going to nightclubs and strip clubs, while I will be a serious, dependable dad
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TopKekBro
07/09/20 7:47:47 PM
#215:


Mods: how the fuck is it sexist to say that both men and women have different demands and that they are in their right to ask for them ?
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MasterVading
07/09/20 7:50:15 PM
#216:


TopKekBro posted...
Mods: how the fuck is it sexist to say that both men and women have different demands and that they are in their right to ask for them ?

Its not.

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TopKekBro
07/09/20 7:50:52 PM
#217:


MasterVading posted...
Its not.

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i was moderated and the mod left me a simpy, snarky note for it :(
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IfGodCouldDie
07/10/20 2:33:29 AM
#218:


Dreamscissors posted...
The only issue I've ever had with single mothers is bonding with the kid then not seeing them again, that was bad in my first relationship after splitting with my daughter's mother. But that single mom just used me as a babysitter and was abusive to me physically and mentally.

I'm very happy with my current situation, living with my fiancee and their daughter. We bonded really well and it's a happy family household. I read her a story before bedtime every night, take her to school and we play a lot of video games together. She's also become a great sister and best friend to my daughter, even when apart they chat online constantly.

I have a wonderful relationship, a wonderful second daughter and a happy home for the first time in my life. Dating single parents isn't some terrible thing, although I guess coming from the position of a parent it's different
Yea dating a single parent when you are a single parent is much different than dating a single parent when you are single and childless.

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StarReaper13
07/10/20 2:37:48 AM
#219:


I wouldn't date a single mother at this stage in my life for multiple reasons.

Don't get why people get upset about it when it's simply a preference.

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FinalFantasy462
07/10/20 2:44:56 AM
#220:


The23rdMagus posted...
Probably because it's not all that reasonable.

Lol
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Giblet_Enjoyer
07/10/20 4:46:18 PM
#221:


TopKekBro posted...
i was moderated and the mod left me a simpy, snarky note for it :(
Lmao, is it against the ToS to share it? I wanna see

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TheMikh
07/11/20 3:34:13 AM
#222:


StarReaper13 posted...
Don't get why people get upset about it when it's simply a preference.
shaming culture is driven by biological imperatives

few know this

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ClockworkHare
07/12/20 10:28:45 AM
#223:


There's plenty of men willing to date single mothers.

The only reason this is considered an "issue" is because most of those men are not the types those women are hoping for.

My general response to this issue has been:
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In the west, men do not have the right to dictate what a woman's preferences are in the men she dates. She has the liberty to accept and decline whoever she wants. It's unjust and oppressive to try to regulate that choice for her. It's wrong to shame her for it. And only she gets to decide what makes a man attractive to her and what doesn't.

That door swings both ways.

In the same vein, women do not get to dictate who men accept or decline either. If a large portion of the male populous has determined dating a single mother has more cons to it than pros...boohoo, boo boo. It's their choice, their rules just the same.

Wealthy successful men typically don't settle down with single moms. They don't have to.
That means a hopeful mom's standards need to take that into account.

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TopKekBro
07/12/20 10:42:55 AM
#224:


ClockworkHare posted...
There's plenty of men willing to date single mothers.

The only reason this is considered an "issue" is because most of those men are not the types those women are hoping for.

My general response to this issue has been:
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In the west, men do not have the right to dictate what a woman's preferences are in the men she dates. She has the liberty to accept and decline whoever she wants. It's unjust and oppressive to try to regulate that choice for her. It's wrong to shame her for it. And only she gets to decide what makes a man attractive to her and what doesn't.

That door swings both ways.

In the same vein, women do not get to dictate who men accept or decline either. If a large portion of the male populous has determined dating a single mother has more cons to it than pros...boohoo, boo boo. It's their choice, their rules just the same.

Wealthy successful men typically don't settle down with single moms. They don't have to.
That means a hopeful mom's standards need to take that into account.

Ohhh you are gonna need a flame shield. Certain poster ITT and a mod went after me HARD for articulating this position.
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DarkProto05
07/12/20 3:27:41 PM
#225:


In the west, men do not have the right to dictate what a woman's preferences are in the men she dates. She has the liberty to accept and decline whoever she wants. It's unjust and oppressive to try to regulate that choice for her. It's wrong to shame her for it. And only she gets to decide what makes a man attractive to her and what doesn't.

That door swings both ways.

In the same vein, women do not get to dictate who men accept or decline either. If a large portion of the male populous has determined dating a single mother has more cons to it than pros...boohoo, boo boo. It's their choice, their rules just the same.

Everything you said is 100% correct and I wish everyone thought like this. But a lot of people (wrongfully) don't agree. Plenty of folks think a woman can reject a man for ANY reason no matter how asinine it is, but a man doesn't get that same privilege (look at this topic).

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Giblet_Enjoyer
07/12/20 4:39:56 PM
#226:


DarkProto05 posted...
Everything you said is 100% correct and I wish everyone thought like this. But a lot of people (wrongfully) don't agree. Plenty of folks think a woman can reject a man for ANY reason no matter how asinine it is, but a man doesn't get that same privilege (look at this topic).
Yeah it's pretty funny how their stance changes so readily. Straight from "women don't owe you sex" to "whoa hey now, so what if she has a kid so what if she's a little chubby so what if so what if"

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ZEROWOLF
07/12/20 4:44:40 PM
#227:


MrResetti posted...
I think I could go for it if the dad is dead.

I'm not doing baby daddy drama.

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Chicken_Butt
07/12/20 8:17:17 PM
#228:


Giblet_Enjoyer posted...
Yeah it's pretty funny how their stance changes so readily. Straight from "women don't owe you sex" to "whoa hey now, so what if she has a kid so what if she's a little chubby so what if so what if"
But what about their feelings?

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looked
07/12/20 8:46:15 PM
#229:


When you have kids you have less value on the dating market, thats just how it is. Its hard enough finding someone you can click with as it is, but kids are an additional obstacle to getting to know this person, they are an additional challenge as you need to get them to accept you as well. If you want to get serious you are taking on not just this person, but taking on a family. Its a lot harder than than dating someone with no kids, which why they have more value.
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looked
07/12/20 8:57:31 PM
#230:


C7D posted...
Kids are gonna be her priority over the guy. Kids are gonna be shitty towards the guy. Dad always does it better. Good luck trying to punish them. Mom is looking for a man to step up to support but not actually raise them. ...


Ive seen this posted a few times, and Im not sure why some of you just assume the kids will hate you. Its possible if they are uncomfortable with their mother dating, but its also possible that the kid might have a void in their life because they dont have a father and gravitate towards any male that shows interest.

As for disciplining the kid, I hope you realize that those fights can happen even if its your own kid. People dont always agree on children should be raised. That is probably something that should be discussed before it gets too serious.
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DepreceV2
07/12/20 9:19:35 PM
#231:


looked posted...
Ive seen this posted a few times, and Im not sure why some of you just assume the kids will hate you. Its possible if they are uncomfortable with their mother dating, but its also possible that the kid might have a void in their life because they dont have a father and gravitate towards any male that shows interest.

As for disciplining the kid, I hope you realize that those fights can happen even if its your own kid. People dont always agree on children should be raised. That is probably something that should be discussed before it gets too serious.

People dont flat out assume the kids will hate them. It is a possibility to consider. You have to take in all the variables and make a decision. Based on those variables, I dont want to date Single Mothers

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Notti
07/14/20 4:31:30 AM
#232:


The biggest reason is I don't even want kids of my own.

We all have our preferences.
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