Current Events > Had some rough days (part 2)

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Kind of weird that the first topic which started in early December reaches 500 on my soon to be ex wife's birthday.

First topic was started soon after my wife left and followed my ups and downs getting through the past few months. Sold our house 2 weeks ago and we are each going to walk away with a lot of money. House closes on Apr 30.

I have a condo (rental) lined up for April but it depends on the current tennant actually moving out. He initiated moving out with the landlord, but also broke the lease and stopped paying rent. 20% chance he doesn't leave and drags it to court - he probably wont.

Thanks to everyone from the previous topic, youve all been so helpful. Tagging a couple from the end of the last topic

@Mistere_Man @Lorenzo_2003 @Sariana21 @Uglybass69 @Dyinglegacy @powerman1426 @inloveanddeath0

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Why you @ ing me? I dont know you!

I am only joking of course

whoops didnt realize that there was also an account ing. Sorry for the @ it was not intentional.

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Hopefully the move goes smoothly, best wishes man

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Thats great, bro. Youve been through a lot, but things are getting better. Personally, I dont think I did much, but you are welcome for any advice that mightve helped. Youre the one who held it together and went through it all. Good luck as always, and update us whenever you feel ready.

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I missed the last 10 or so posts on the last thread, but I'm glad you started a new one. Thanks for the update. Good luck with the condo situation; I hope that gets sorted out quickly.

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Great news

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Im so bored!
Wife is coming over this weekend to pack stuff.
I loaned my N64 to a bud who is in desperate need of some gaming.

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Remember keep your distance as best you can as not only do they always bring you down a bunch, but now it could literally kill you if they have the virus so keep your face covered and practice good safety measures like washing hands and keeping away from them.

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Will do.
Holy shit the isolation is sitting in. I have a routine now that is basically work during the day when i have to, then when im not working, im playing video games. Then next thing i know its time for bed.
The cats are here at least

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So this weekend my wife is coming to the house to pack. Shes moving out next week to her new place. I am going to be moving my bigger stuff mid-month so ill be in a half empty house for a couple of weeks.
Really sucks with all the coronavirus stuff going on, its going to make moving tough

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Some good news - that guy is out of the condo - i signed the lease tonight and am getting the keys on Apr 1st. Ill be gradually moving things over there in the next couple weeks then ill hire movers to move the big stuff around mid month.

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My wife was over all day both days this weekend. I mostly stayed downstairs and played animal crossing unless she ran into something we needed to divide up.
It went pretty well, and it was just weird, we are friendly and joke around and all that. I brought up how bummed i am that "ill never see rocky (one of our cats that she is getting) again" she says thats not true and ill see him, and i say when - she says that in a few months we will hang out as friends again and ill come by to hang out. What the hell is that? Am i nuts here? That is weird right?

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Rule one of understanding women you will likely never understand them as as soon as you think you have them figured out they throw you for a loop.

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Mistere Man posted...

Rule one of understanding women you will likely never understand them as as soon as you think you have them figured out they throw you for a loop.

Yeah you said it...
Tomorrows moving day for her. Feels weird, but fine. Just glad things are finally moving

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Got my apartment today. Ive got movers scheduled for the 14th. I took a few bins of stuff over there tonight.
Wife moved her stuff out today, and took the cat shes taking - Rocky - my #1 pal for the past 7 years or so... i still have our other cat jynx, but weve only had him a year. I think hes around 11 or so. Hes a good pal but super annoying sometimes. Rocky is the best cat ever. Rough day.

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Bump

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Watched wrestlemania night one tonight connected with a couple buds on zoom who are in austrailia - it was a lot of fun.

Just been moving bins from the house to the apartment for the past few days, not much going on. Feeling fine though, my buds seem to think this is a great time to be on dating aps but i dont know that i am ready...

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With the virus out there no not really the time for dating imo.

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Mistere Man posted...

With the virus out there no not really the time for dating imo.

Meeting up i agree, but just talking or video chat, nothing wrong with that. I know a couple people who are doing it and its good groundwork for later.
Not sure that im ready though...

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J03can posted...

Meeting up i agree, but just talking or video chat, nothing wrong with that. I know a couple people who are doing it and its good groundwork for later.
Not sure that im ready though...

Oh sorry I misunderstood. As for if you are ready or not you really wont know until you try. Still though if you dont feel right about it yet dont force it. Sorry, I know this doesnt really help, but really only you can choose to get on a new ride and see where it goes, or to just stick to the norm.

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Ill probably just keep doing what im doing and save it for when this is over.
I pushed my moving date up from next Tuesday to this Thursday - too much uncertainty with if they suddenly make movers non-essential- crappy thing though is my internet wont be set up until next tuesday, so this weekend will be interesting in that i stream everything. Ill manage though. Spent a lot of time today driving back and forth from the apartment with bins, emptying them and bringing the empty bins back.

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Ok all moved in, the move went well, but, last night i was up really late with a toothache. I took some tylenol and it went away. It came back tonight around 7pm.
I mentioned it to a friend and she said i should email my dentist. I dont know about you guys, but dentists here have been closed for a couple of weeks now.
Within a half hour, my dentist called. He remembered the area im talking about. Im supposed to have this tooth pulled in June as it has issues where it will start to get infected (it is). He called my pharmacy to perscribe me with amoxicillin and told me to take advil in the meantime.
Advil worked and the pain went away, but i just woke up with awful pain again. Took some advil and hope this stops soon.

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Ok that sucks! Infected teeth are nothing to play around with. Well until you get it out then play with it all you want. Hope the meds help until you can get it pulled.

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Mistere Man posted...

Ok that sucks! Infected teeth are nothing to play around with. Well until you get it out then play with it all you want. Hope the meds help until you can get it pulled.

Yes, infections can kill. Im sure TC will be fine, but he should not underestimate it.

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Yesterday was extremely painful, my tooth was a disaster. I got prescription around noon and need to take 3 pills a day. I watched Dark Knight around 1140pm, went to sleep afterwards - woke up at 430am with the worst tooth pain imaginable. Took 2 extra strength advil and brushed my teeth, and rinsed with mouthwash. The pain wore off and i fell back asleep around 8am.
Woke up at 1030am with no pain, took 1 extra strength advil just incase but havent had pain since. Looks like the antibiotics are working thank god.

I spent today putting stuff on shelves in my apartment. Feeling really good about my new place and things in general going forward.

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Do you need to have it pulled or does it require more work than that?

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Lorenzo_2003 posted...

Do you need to have it pulled or does it require more work than that?

Yes it needs to be pulled. I have an appointment in June for it but my dentist says its going to be pushed back. He thinks that it should be ok after this cycle of antibiotics - while moving i realized i was clinching my teeth A LOT. He thinks the stress of moving aggrivated it. I just need to take it easy

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J03can posted...

Yes it needs to be pulled. I have an appointment in June for it but my dentist says its going to be pushed back. He thinks that it should be ok after this cycle of antibiotics (for the time being, until we can pull it) - while moving i realized i was clinching my teeth A LOT. He thinks the stress of moving aggrivated it. I just need to take it easy

Bro, June is a loooong time off. Personally, I wouldnt wait one week, let alone two months, if my tooth was bothering me as much as yours is. To be fair, some people have strong pain tolerance. Anyway, couldnt you see another dentist, or is the only one you like?

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I had a bacterial infection almost 2 years ago. That was unimaginable pain. I had to drink just to be able to sleep

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Lorenzo_2003 posted...

Bro, June is a loooong time off. Personally, I wouldnt wait one week, let alone two months, if my tooth was bothering me as much as yours is. To be fair, some people have strong pain tolerance. Anyway, couldnt you see another dentist, or is the only one you like?

Well the pain is mostly gone now for the time being. Problem is, my dentist isnt doing the work - its being done by a specialist - and they are all closed right now due to the pandemic. I have 8 more days worth of antibiotics, i trust that this will go away for the time being.

inloveanddeath0 posted...

I had a bacterial infection almost 2 years ago. That was unimaginable pain. I had to drink just to be able to sleep

Yeah it was so bad. I didnt drink, but i did think about it. Id get so tired id pass out, but when id wake up 2 or 3 hours later, the pain would be much worse

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M3sterybumper posted...

Hang in there buddy

Thanks bumper, its going good

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Had a couple drinks tonight in a group chat with my wrestling buds. It was really necessary. Feeling good.

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Always good to hear.

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M3sterybumper posted...

Just tell me if you don't want it up

Thanks dude. I appreciate the bumps. The good news is things for me are good and i dont need this topic like i did in the past.
That being said, i like that it exists and i appreciate it not being purged when i forget about it

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Had to go to the house earlier this evening and meet my wife there to go through whats left in the house. Not much there, most of it will go to the garbage. It was tough seeing her. Im in a mood. I know we cant get back together, but im really bummed out that she ended it. We could have made it work, it wasnt even really that bad.

I spoke with my therapist today and that was ok. It helps.

Ill be ok, i just hate days like this.

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J03can posted...

Had to go to the house earlier this evening and meet my wife there to go through whats left in the house. Not much there, most of it will go to the garbage. It was tough seeing her. Im in a mood. I know we cant get back together, but im really bummed out that she ended it. We could have made it work, it wasnt even really that bad.

I spoke with my therapist today and that was ok. It helps.

Ill be ok, i just hate days like this.

With this virus around and a lockdown in most places, try to keep busy at home so you dont have any time for toxic thoughts. Honestly, I dont think its mentally healthy to keep meeting your estranged wife. Its just reopening old wounds. Stay safe, bro.

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Lorenzo_2003 posted...

With this virus around and a lockdown in most places, try to keep busy at home so you dont have any time for toxic thoughts. Honestly, I dont think its mentally healthy to keep meeting your estranged wife. Its just reopening old wounds. Stay safe, bro.

Its not healthy but its necessary. My therapist doesnt have any problem with it as long as its professional and im not professing my love to her.
The house closes on april 30th, after that i might never see her again...

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Great day today. Got a bunch of unexpected shoutouts on social media today, wrestlers and fans looking forward to hearing me ring announce again once this quarentine is over with. Feeling good, playing some FF7Remake on a friday night. Not too bad

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How was the FF VII Remake?

I only tried the demo and I enjoyed it. Would like to hear your opinion before I buy. Thanks.

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Lorenzo_2003 posted...

How was the FF VII Remake?

I only tried the demo and I enjoyed it. Would like to hear your opinion before I buy. Thanks.

Its great! Ive played through the original FF7 around 5 times. The remake is great, looks amazing! Ive been playing it here and there though, not marathoning, and when i do play i take my time.
Right now my playclock is around 10 hours and i feel that i am still very early.
I do recommend though, i enjoy the combat and story. Some new nuances to it but i dont have any complaints.

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M3sterybumper posted...

Where you at?

Spoilers for safety:
i just met aries in the church, fought reno and made our way across the rooftops.

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Tagging this topic

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I played a bit more of FF7 on Saturday night - just running some side jobs in sector 5.
But i spent most of today reading Jim Ross' book: Under the Black Hat. I read the whole thing in one sitting

If youve ever liked wrestling, this is a must read. Like holy shit i cant stress that enough

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