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AwesomeOSauce
03/02/20 6:58:55 AM
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WTF?! I didn't even like this girl and I have a gf.

Yet I made smart quip about people that take pills, then she got all offended I said it was just a joke and this girl literally avoids me now and a lot of other petty shit.

I feel bad but I don't even care?! WTF why is this? Man fuck this bullshit and why do girls get so easily offended and then m ake random guys feel bad or something?

How do I stop feeling bad for something I don't even care about CE? My mood rn is shit thanks to her.

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Reis
03/02/20 6:59:35 AM
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AwesomeOSauce posted...
Man fuck this bullshit and why do girls get so easily offended and then m ake random guys feel bad or something?

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solosnake
03/02/20 7:00:36 AM
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have sex with your gf

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AirFresh
03/02/20 7:00:46 AM
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Just don't care and smile and say hi whenever you see her and if you catch wind of her talking smack about you then you gotta go to managment. Been there, bro. It's so irritating.

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Turbam
03/02/20 7:00:49 AM
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You obviously care about it.
Admit to that first and then it's easier to get over.
Then tell her that you're sorry if you upset her.

That's all you can do, if she doesn't wanna accept your apology then oh well

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AwesomeOSauce
03/02/20 7:04:53 AM
#6:


AirFresh posted...
Just don't care and smile and say hi whenever you see her and if you catch wind of her talking smack about you then you gotta go to managment. Been there, bro. It's so irritating.

It fucking sucks holy shit.

Turbam posted...
You obviously care about it.
Admit to that first and then it's easier to get over.
Then tell her that you're sorry if you upset her.

That's all you can do, if she doesn't wanna accept your apology then oh well

Yeah already said itt was a joke and admitted I was sorry if she got offended but then she even got more mad >_>
We work together so like this is going to make stuff shit so like can't really ignore

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AwesomeOSauce
03/02/20 7:13:03 AM
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Also question? Do I tell my girlfriend about this situation? How some girl at work affected my mood?

OR will girls find that weird and think something was going on?

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R1masher
03/02/20 7:16:32 AM
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What was the smart quip?

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Ultima Dragon
03/02/20 7:21:05 AM
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Eh, I don't like it either. I understand you can't please/be liked by everyone, but there's an uncomfortable air when you have someone actively throwing shade at you or trying to avoid you.. or worse.

I prefer to have as little negativity at work as possible. My best jobs were always the ones where I got along with most people there.

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fusespliff
03/02/20 7:31:09 AM
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AwesomeOSauce posted...
It fucking sucks holy shit.

Yeah already said itt was a joke and admitted I was sorry if she got offended but then she even got more mad >_>
We work together so like this is going to make stuff shit so like can't really ignore

I guess it's how you said it. "Sorry if you got offended" tends to tick off easily offended people even more. "Sorry I offended you" might've resolved it

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Blue_Dream87
03/02/20 8:47:19 AM
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Yeah you gotta apologize *again* cuz that was a half-assed apology. Just go with "I'm sorry I offended you, that wasn't my intention. And I will be more cognizant in the future" or something, works 100% of the time for me. Gotta mean it, and obviously you do feel bad and want to rectify this

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COVxy
03/02/20 9:10:32 AM
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R1masher posted...
What was the smart quip?

Context here is pretty important.

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Bananana
03/02/20 9:15:44 AM
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TC: makes an insensitive comment

TC: gives a half-ass apology

girl: upset with TC

TC: Im so pissed at this girl cause shes making me feel guilty!

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WrkHrdPlayHrdr
03/02/20 9:18:19 AM
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I have literally never seen someone who offended someone else make it all about them this much.

You also realize she probably forgot about it right? This is all you.

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