Current Events > Do you consider 19 and 26 in a relationship unethical?

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epik_fail1
02/06/20 8:53:29 PM
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Do you?




I have seen people acting like it was very unethical on a Facebook group and I was actually surprised at the amount of people shocked by it.

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inloveanddeath0
02/06/20 8:55:51 PM
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Younger people getting offended

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epik_fail1
02/06/20 8:57:03 PM
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inloveanddeath0 posted...
Younger people getting offended

That's a pretty dumb reason to be offended. I am with a 22 years old while in my early 30 and it kinda made me feel like shit. Some even called it "pedophilia". I would never ever harm a child wtf.

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nevershine
02/06/20 8:59:04 PM
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nah, seems ok

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Irony
02/06/20 9:00:03 PM
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If both are over 18 it doesn't matter. If anyone tells you otherwise assume they are a jealous incel

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epik_fail1
02/06/20 9:00:16 PM
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nevershine posted...
nah, seems ok

Some people were outraged at the one direction guy(forgot his name) for dating a 19 and I was like..."wtf?"

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epik_fail1
02/06/20 9:01:51 PM
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Irony posted...
If both are over 18 it doesn't matter. If anyone tells you otherwise assume they are a jealous incel

It was mostly women who seemed outraged... and also mostly women who defended it and thought it should be ok.

I could not help, but laugh a little at the fact that one of the outrage warrior looks like the ultimate stereotype and was "agender" on her profile.

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inloveanddeath0
02/06/20 9:07:06 PM
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epik_fail1 posted...
That's a pretty dumb reason to be offended. I am with a 22 years old while in my early 30 and it kinda made me feel like shit. Some even called it "pedophilia". I would never ever harm a child wtf.
You misinterpreted me.

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epik_fail1
02/06/20 9:09:17 PM
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inloveanddeath0 posted...
You misinterpreted me.

No, I feel like this opposite. This was not a judgment on you, but on the people getting offended(and people close to my age were offended as well).

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inloveanddeath0
02/06/20 9:11:12 PM
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I've dated underage admittedly. Very little physical contact. It was more of a companionship. Never worked out due to difference in life experience

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epik_fail1
02/06/20 9:11:56 PM
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randy_123r posted...
26/2 + 7 = 20

I officially deem it...not okay.

Wut

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Ultima Dragon
02/06/20 9:12:22 PM
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epik_fail1 posted...
That's a pretty dumb reason to be offended. I am with a 22 years old while in my early 30 and it kinda made me feel like shit. Some even called it "pedophilia". I would never ever harm a child wtf.

The hell? Don't even worry about it dude. Lots of people's parents (especially back in the day) had a ten year age gap or damn near and it was just normal. It's not like you just picked her up fresh out of high school or whatever, at 22 she's already been around the block a time or two and knows what's up. If you guys are into each other that's all that matters, you're both adults here.

I think women will always get the most butthurt about this since guys have a tendency to go after younger women and they know they're getting older and aren't getting the same amount of attention. I've seen a lot of guys on here get mad about it too though. After reading some of the posts here I honestly have no idea at what age a woman stops being a helpless child, but I'm thinking it's like 30+ according to some people lol.

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RiKuToTheMiGhtY
02/06/20 9:13:41 PM
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Nothing wrong with it, I would expect it would offend people though as everything offends someone runs rampant now in society.

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epik_fail1
02/06/20 9:13:46 PM
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-l___________l- posted...
It has a much higher chance of being unethical. I was 17 turned 18 in a "relationship" with a much older guy and he was 100% preying on me. At the same time, I had a strictly sexual relationship with an older guy the same age and it was fine... I feel like it has more to do with relationship experience than age once people start getting to be 18-21.

What was the age difference? Btw we have been dating right now for almost 2 years, I am sorry about what you lived, but it might be more of a problem with the person you are dating than the age gap.

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inloveanddeath0
02/06/20 9:15:18 PM
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epik_fail1 posted...
What was the age difference? Btw we have been dating right now for almost 2 years, I am sorry about what you lived, but it might be more of a problem with the person you are dating than the age gap.
One of my old female friends from HS her parents are 17 years apart

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epik_fail1
02/06/20 9:17:01 PM
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Ultima Dragon posted...
The hell? Don't even worry about it dude. Lots of people's parents (especially back in the day) had a ten year age gap or damn near and it was just normal. It's not like you just picked her up fresh out of high school or whatever, at 22 she's already been around the block a time or two and knows what's up. If you guys are into each other that's all that matters, you're both adults here.

I think women will always get the most butthurt about this since guys have a tendency to go after younger women and they know they're getting older and aren't getting the same amount of attention. I've seen a lot of guys on here get mad about it too though. After reading some of the posts here I honestly have no idea at what age a woman stops being a helpless child, but I'm thinking it's like 30+ according to some people lol.

Ultima Dragon posted...
The hell? Don't even worry about it dude. Lots of people's parents (especially back in the day) had a ten year age gap or damn near and it was just normal. It's not like you just picked her up fresh out of high school or whatever, at 22 she's already been around the block a time or two and knows what's up. If you guys are into each other that's all that matters, you're both adults here.

I think women will always get the most butthurt about this since guys have a tendency to go after younger women and they know they're getting older and aren't getting the same amount of attention. I've seen a lot of guys on here get mad about it too though. After reading some of the posts here I honestly have no idea at what age a woman stops being a helpless child, but I'm thinking it's like 30+ according to some people lol.

Well... I am with a guy(but the original post was referring to the 1d guy, it still made me feel like shit)

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Houston
02/06/20 9:17:40 PM
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epik_fail1 posted...
That's a pretty dumb reason to be offended. I am with a 22 years old while in my early 30 and it kinda made me feel like shit. Some even called it "pedophilia". I would never ever harm a child wtf.

22 with early 30s seems better than 19 and 26.

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BigBoobieHitomi
02/06/20 9:18:14 PM
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inloveanddeath0 posted...
I've dated underage admittedly. Very little physical contact. It was more of a companionship. Never worked out due to difference in life experience
eww gross

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inloveanddeath0
02/06/20 9:18:57 PM
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BigBoobieHitomi posted...
eww gross
Okay. So what are you getting at?

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TheLastHero
02/06/20 9:22:09 PM
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Somewhat unusual but not unethical
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inloveanddeath0
02/06/20 9:23:01 PM
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TheLastHero posted...
Somewhat unusual but not unethical
Exactly. I don't target people, I just go with the flow

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BigBoobieHitomi
02/06/20 9:26:00 PM
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inloveanddeath0 posted...
Okay. So what are you getting at?
just shaming you for dating someone underage, that's all ya creep :D

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inloveanddeath0
02/06/20 9:27:55 PM
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BigBoobieHitomi posted...
just shaming you for dating someone underage, that's all ya creep :D
It wasn't really dating but you do you

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Ultima Dragon
02/06/20 9:29:56 PM
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epik_fail1 posted...
Well... I am with a guy(but the original post was referring to the 1d guy, it still made me feel like shit)

Eh, I kind of got that impression by the lack of gender pronouns but I was mostly just speaking from personal experience haha. Same rules still apply no matter what the genders involved, imo. I think guys might actually be able to handle relationships a bit better, but I have no actual basis for that. Obviously teachers shouldn't be sleeping with students (way too young, obvious manipulation and abuse of power in this scenario as well) but I think two consenting adults are fully capable of gauging their maturity and compatibility levels and whether they want to be in a relationship together or not. To hell with what anyone else says.

There's that one guy on here, FF_Redux I think, he's in his early 30's and dating someone roughly thirty years older than him iirc. After a certain point age doesn't really matter that much.

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BigBoobieHitomi
02/06/20 9:30:22 PM
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inloveanddeath0 posted...
It wasn't really dating but you do you


inloveanddeath0 posted...
I've dated underage admittedly.
uh huh. i'm literally using your own words against you XD

guess i'm not surprised creeps aren't so bright lmfao
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inloveanddeath0
02/06/20 9:30:37 PM
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Hey I have no problem with you Lost. Don't post shit like that

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inloveanddeath0
02/06/20 9:32:04 PM
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BigBoobieHitomi posted...
uh huh. i'm literally using your own words against you XD

guess i'm not surprised creeps aren't so bright lmfao
It's a loose term. I should have parenthesis'd it that's my bad

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jumi
02/06/20 9:33:33 PM
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Android 19 is an ugly fuck. I don't remember any Android 26.

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inloveanddeath0
02/06/20 9:34:44 PM
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jumi posted...
Android 19 is an ugly fuck. I don't remember any Android 26.
Ok androomer

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Tsukasa1891
02/06/20 9:37:04 PM
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epik_fail1 posted...
It was mostly women who seemed outraged.
In that case, it's because they're old hags who are jealous of younger women getting more attention from men then they are.
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epik_fail1
02/06/20 9:40:17 PM
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Houston posted...
22 with early 30s seems better than 19 and 26.

Technically is started at 20 and 29. A bigger age gap

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Sabram
02/06/20 9:40:28 PM
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epik_fail1 posted...
Wut
That's supposed to be the formula for determining if the person you're with is too young.

For me the minimum age would be about 24, but I've gone on dates with people younger and it wasn't weird for either of us


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inloveanddeath0
02/06/20 9:40:42 PM
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Zangulus posted...
Two consenting adults.

Ethics.

You dont seem to understand what ethics is.
Go back to POTD

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epik_fail1
02/06/20 9:42:47 PM
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BigBoobieHitomi posted...
uh huh. i'm literally using your own words against you XD

guess i'm not surprised creeps aren't so bright lmfao

I think he might have meant "younger" and his first language is not english(I hope)

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epik_fail1
02/06/20 9:46:32 PM
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-l___________l- posted...
He was 33 and I was 17

He was just a classic predator, made me feel special and loved when he really just wanted to F me... he could have just said that and I would have F'd him, but he felt like he had to manipulate me for whatever reason... He also shit talked me at every opportunity when I wasn't around lol.

Yes, it's much more likely for younger people to end up in a relationship with someone like this, though, I think. Now having that experience, there's no way I'll ever get involved with someone like that again. That's what I meant when I said there's a much greater chance for it to be unethical and that relationship experience matters more.

I lived something like this with someone with the same age as me. I was broke and I had nowhere to go. It's just that I consensually dated people 10 years older when I was 19 and I did not even feel remotely abused. I was 100% consensual. Same with my current boyfriend. I am sorry you lived that though.

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epik_fail1
02/06/20 9:47:06 PM
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inloveanddeath0 posted...
Go back to POTD

What does it stands for?

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TheLastHero
02/06/20 9:47:50 PM
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Poll of the day
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GameboyTroy
02/06/20 10:20:55 PM
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No.

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Inferno Dive Dragoon
02/06/20 10:28:26 PM
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It's two consenting adults, so I have zero issue with it.
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epik_fail1
02/06/20 10:35:12 PM
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GameboyTroy posted...
No.
Why?

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Guerrilla Soldier
02/06/20 10:39:20 PM
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who cares

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Ivany2008
02/06/20 10:40:27 PM
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My exroommate was 27 when he started his relationship with a 19 year old woman. It lasted about 2 years before she moved. So yeah, it can happen.
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epik_fail1
02/07/20 1:05:48 AM
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Thank you guys. I was starting to be concerned that "I might be fucked up"

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Extreme_light
02/07/20 1:12:55 AM
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No? I dated someone in their 30s at 19 lol.

It simply didn't work out like any other relationship.

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