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Perfect looks and personality for you but a virgin or

Perfect looks and personality for you but she tells you she has been with 8 men (note: at least thats how many she tells you)

Who do you go with?

Experienced will be better at sex so

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Virgin. I don't know why.

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I hope it was 8 at the same time.

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Personally virgin as I would rather we learn together.

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Rather an experienced girl, nothing worse than a hottie that you take home only to realize she's awful in bed

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virgin so i can train her

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Virgin. At least her expectations won't be too high.

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8 men isnt really a lot. most girls are hoes

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Isn't the perfect girl also perfect sexually with the poster?

There doesn't exactly seem to be a bonus to her having more sexual partners then.

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ill take the virgin but only because its unlikely that the other girl is gay

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Spiderman23JII posted...

8 men isnt really a lot. most girls are hoes

8 men is like the modern day virgin, lol. For some others it's like a busy long weekend.

Dunno how I'd feel about a virgin since I'm a bit older now and exclusively date older women. They might have some weird hang-ups about sex, although I don't mind teaching them if they're willing to learn and have some fun along the way.

Otherwise the 8 partners girl is fine. She'll know what she's doing, and I don't have to wonder what sort of decision making led her to having a triple digit body count and how long I have before I'm inadvertently stirring some other dude's vanilla.

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Bananana posted...

Experienced will be better at sex so

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The_Ivory_Man posted...

Isn't the perfect girl also perfect sexually with the poster?

There doesn't exactly seem to be a bonus to her having more sexual partners then.

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marthsheretoo posted...

Rather an experienced girl, nothing worse than a hottie that you take home only to realize she's awful in bed

Maybe she's had 8 partners because she's awful in bed and break up after sex.


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A girl who has only had 8 partners seems like the perfect compromise between a virgin who isn't good at sex, and a girl who gets around and probably has an STD.

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"A virgin, pure like the Ganges river."

I saw an Indian dude say this on some youtube vid where a woman confronted her society expecting women be virgins

Experienced. I'd prefer not to have to teach someone how dicks work.

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I'm 26 years old. If the girl was my age and a virgin I'd be turned off tbh.
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A girl who doesn't have STDs vs a girl who MIGHT have STD's


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Virgin sex is terrible

The other option pls


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The_Ivory_Man posted...

Isn't the perfect girl also perfect sexually with the poster?

There doesn't exactly seem to be a bonus to her having more sexual partners then.

This is a good point that I hadn't considered before I voted. I'd like to change my vote to virgin

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I don't have time to teach a person.

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darkphoenix181 posted...

"A virgin, pure like the Ganges river."

I saw an Indian dude say this on some youtube vid where a woman confronted her society expecting women be virgins

Was he being sarcastic? The Ganges is filthy.

Either would be fine.

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Kami_no_Kami posted...

Was he being sarcastic? The Ganges is filthy.

Nope.

Btw your post can be culturally offensive.

In Hinduism, the river Ganges is considered sacred and is personified as the goddess Gag. She is worshiped by Hindus who believe that bathing in the river causes the remission of sins and facilitates Moksha (liberation from the cycle of life and death), and that the water of the Ganges is considered very pure.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ganga_in_Hinduism

M_Live posted...

Do you guys think 8 is a lot or something

This lol
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darkphoenix181 posted...

and that the water of the Ganges is considered very pure

https://imgur.com/t3GrNL6


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Mistere Man posted...

Personally virgin as I would rather we learn together.

This, as the only reason.

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marthsheretoo posted...

Rather an experienced girl, nothing worse than a hottie that you take home only to realize she's awful in bed

Are you that awful in bed that a virgin wont learn anything from you and get better at sex within a week or two?

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Just because a girl's more experienced doesn't mean she's any good in bed. The ex of mine that had the most partners was terrible.

You guys keep forgetting she's the perfect girl, so of course she's going to be good in bed.
Either would be fine with me, I don't care. There would be some fun in teaching her, but also some fun in knowing she already knows the basics.

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I'm less likely to disappoint the virgin

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Why would anyone pick experienced

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Bananana posted...

Experienced will be better at sex so

In theory yes

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Sada_Pop posted...

In theory yes

Yeah it depends. My wife had been with other men before I met her, and I was a virgin. I still joke with her about the first time we had sex that I gave her the greatest 60 seconds of sex she'd ever had lol And she found things out she didn't know about sex and herself because she had been with a lot of selfish pricks that didn't care about her sexual needs. So yeah, it's a case by case basis.

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Not only is 8 too many men, it also means I have to deal with knowing she's had EIGHT EX-BOYFRIENDS. Sounds like a red flag.

edit: why are people making this to be out sex? Do people pick their partners depending how good they are in bed? God damn it CE.

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Both

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Vita_Aeterna posted...

it also means I have to deal with knowing she's had EIGHT EX-BOYFRIENDS.

Sometimes people have sex outside of relationships. It's literally called a One Night Stand.

Do people pick their partners depending how good they are in bed? God damn it CE.

Sometimes, yeah. Sexual attraction is very much a thing. Performance can often be molded over time, and any decent couple ought to give feedback to their lover and refine both their own and their partner's fucking.

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I suspect a lot of the people who'd prefer the virgin are inexperienced themselves and projecting their insecurities.
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I prefer virgins, because it is entirely about possession and molding for me. That thing she does with her tongue, her sensitivity to being touched in subtle and specific ways, the reason she laughs whenever she hears a squeaky rubber duck; I sculpted that. You can take the sculpture home later, I don't care, I already made it.

Not to say that I only see women as objects or anything; this is just a sexual aspect.

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philsov posted...

Sometimes, yeah. Sexual attraction is very much a thing. Performance can often be molded over time, and any decent couple ought to give feedback to their lover and refine both their own and their partner's fucking.

I'll say after 20 years with the same woman our sex life has done nothing but get better every time because we communicate our needs and wants and what we are getting out of our sexual relationship. Sex isn't just in the genitals, it's in the mind and heart too. And that kind of connection is immensely deeper than anything strictly physical.

To quote my favorite writer: "Kissing is more intimate than fucking" -- Charles Bukoswki

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thanosibe posted...

Sometimes, yeah. Sexual attraction is very much a thing. Performance can often be molded over time, and any decent couple ought to give feedback to their lover and refine both their own and their partner's fucking.
I'll say after 20 years with the same woman our sex life has done nothing but get better every time because we communicate our needs and wants and what we are getting out of our sexual relationship. Sex isn't just in the genitals, it's in the mind and heart too. And that kind of connection is immensely deeper than anything strictly physical.

To quote my favorite writer: "Kissing is more intimate than fucking" -- Charles Bukoswki

This is so true. Like, sleeping with other people just gets downright unappealing if you've been in an accommodating long term relationship.

I'm still doing it to assuage immense heartbreak, but it sucks.

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The one I'm more similar to.
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No one ever stays with their first or they cheat and lie about it.

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Evening_Dragon posted...

Like, sleeping with other people just gets downright unappealing if you've been in an accommodating long term relationship.

I'm still doing it to assuage immense heartbreak, but it sucks.

Yup. Placeholder sex is fleeting reprieve :\ I did similar last year when my fiance and I severed. Hooked up with a relatively high number of couples for a window. Slowly got better and was good to start dating again about six months post breakup, but ymmv.
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