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De Evolution
01/27/20 2:34:25 PM
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I don't see it as a big deal even though it never happened in my family.

I just figured everyone is raised different.

Also some cultures are very liberal with kissing when it comes to friends and family.

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CloneTheHero
01/27/20 2:36:39 PM
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inloveanddeath0
01/27/20 2:37:42 PM
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After a certain age which is around 10

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K181
01/27/20 2:38:42 PM
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Yes. I shot that down with my daughters, cheeks only. I ain't no Tom Brady.

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De Evolution
01/27/20 3:13:47 PM
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inloveanddeath0 posted...
After a certain age which is around 10

Ahh I can see that.

Honestly I think it should be avoided completely.

If it's not appropriate at a certain age, no need to create the habit to begin with.

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BuckVanHammer
01/27/20 3:16:37 PM
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kissng family on the lips is weird in every case outisde of your SO...

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AlienLanes
01/27/20 3:16:46 PM
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It's fine
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AmericaTheBrave
01/27/20 3:17:59 PM
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The Wheelman1
01/27/20 3:30:20 PM
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Kissing a 10 year old on the lips is creepy af no matter what.

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Ultima Dragon
01/27/20 3:33:03 PM
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K181 posted...
Yes. I shot that down with my daughters, cheeks only. I ain't no Tom Brady.

Good man. I also wouldn't see any issue with kissing your daughter on the top of the head, or kissing a "boo boo" on a knee or elbow. Stuff like that.

Kissing on the lips isn't something you do casually to just anyone, and definitely not to children. I wonder what they think when they grow up? Say you stop the behaviour when they enter puberty or whatever. "Hey dad, remember when you used to kiss me on the lips? That was weird huh?" Lol.

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inloveanddeath0
01/27/20 4:48:38 PM
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The Wheelman1 posted...
Kissing a 10 year old on the lips is creepy af no matter what.
Maybe at that point it's just on the cheek. I'm just kind of guessing here. I have seen on the lips kissing around 7-9 area

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inloveanddeath0
01/27/20 4:49:51 PM
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Might resonate more with the daddy's girl and mommy's boy types too

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Lairen
01/27/20 4:53:36 PM
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Its weird. Youre trying to teach them head/cheek kiss is like an innocent family kiss while lips kisses indicate something more personal.

They obviously dont fully understand now but when theyre teens and older theyll be glad daddy wasnt lip kissin em in front of friends.

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The_Numerous
01/27/20 4:53:38 PM
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Speaking of tom Brady what the fuck ever came of that? He was getting a massage, invites his son for a Kiss and makes him come back and do it again? and that story kinda just fizzled out?!


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inloveanddeath0
01/27/20 4:54:35 PM
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Lairen posted...
Its weird. Youre trying to teach them head/cheek kiss is like an innocent family kiss while lips kisses indicate something more personal.

They obviously dont fully understand now but when theyre teens and older theyll be glad daddy wasnt lip kissin em in front of friends.
That's true

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Kaiganeer
01/29/20 12:47:21 AM
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what a twist
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dolomedes
01/29/20 12:47:53 AM
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y
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im not 13
01/29/20 12:51:55 AM
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Kissing gets me all randy

I'm not sharing that experience with my daughter

Cheeks

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MutantJohn
01/29/20 1:05:42 AM
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Depends if my daughter is hot or not
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CloneTheHero
01/29/20 1:19:56 AM
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The_Numerous
01/31/20 3:13:01 PM
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The_Numerous posted...
Speaking of tom Brady what the fuck ever came of that? He was getting a massage, invites his son for a Kiss and makes him come back and do it again? and that story kinda just fizzled out?!

No, but seriously. And didn't some female artist who's name escapes me admit to drugging men and robbing them?

Jokeaccountinc posted...

And wtf is this!

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ClunkerSlim
01/31/20 3:30:29 PM
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inloveanddeath0 posted...
After a certain age which is around 10
Gross. Seems like under 10 just makes it fucking worse.

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Zikten
01/31/20 3:35:03 PM
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The_Numerous posted...
No, but seriously. And didn't some female artist who's name escapes me admit to drugging men and robbing them?

And wtf is this!
Kobe Bryant kissing his daughter Gianna

Both now dead, sadly.....

But yes that photo is weird. I first saw it on CNN and was like wtf
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Solid Snake07
01/31/20 3:41:45 PM
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I wouldnt do it. I have a niece and kisses on the cheek/neck seems more than adquete to show affection

It's definitly super weird past 8-10 years old.

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ChocoboMog123
01/31/20 3:48:52 PM
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Literally how herpes spreads.

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UnfairRepresent
02/02/20 6:21:16 AM
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Meh

people can be too sensitive to this stuff

I think the "if you kiss your kids then you are a pedophile!" camp is the same one that stopped kids sitting on Santas lap
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Rika_Furude
02/04/20 5:39:37 AM
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its weird to kiss anyone except your sexual partners on their lips
and if a father/daughter are sexual partners the father needs to go to prison straight away

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Lorenzo_2003
02/04/20 6:43:57 AM
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Rika_Furude posted...
and if a father/daughter are sexual partners the father needs to go to prison straight away

Prison? What are you basing that on?

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Rika_Furude
02/04/20 6:51:10 AM
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Lorenzo_2003 posted...
Prison? What are you basing that on?
the fact that incest is a crime and rightfully so

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Lorenzo_2003
02/04/20 9:24:27 AM
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Rika_Furude posted...
the fact that incest is a crime and rightfully so

Incest between consenting adults, despite being disgusting to me and you, is not a crime in every country.

But honestly, it was more your use of the words rightfully so that make me wonder what youre basing your judgment on. I dont know what that means, if we are talking about adults, not children of course.

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Rika_Furude
02/04/20 2:09:12 PM
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Lorenzo_2003 posted...
Incest between consenting adults, despite being disgusting to me and you, is not a crime in every country.
Thats not a good defense...

GiggetySplicer posted...
Incest isnt fully illegal in your country.
It should be

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Outer_space
02/04/20 2:12:24 PM
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MutantJohn
02/04/20 7:35:08 PM
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If there's one thing I know about humans, making a sexual act illegal is definitely the best way of preventing it from happening.

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Sada_Pop
02/04/20 7:47:32 PM
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It's not meant to be sexual ffs

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Hayame Zero
02/04/20 11:07:39 PM
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The deli guy at the grocery store I worked at would come in with his daughters on off days. He'd walk around holding their hands or have his arm around them, and massage their shoulders out of the blue in front literally everyone.

It was the creepiest shit.

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De Evolution
02/05/20 11:42:06 AM
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Hayame Zero posted...
The deli guy at the grocery store I worked at would come in with his daughters on off days. He'd walk around holding their hands or have his arm around them, and massage their shoulders out of the blue in front literally everyone.

It was the creepiest shit.

How is holding hands or massaging a shoulder "creepy"?

Seriously?


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MutantJohn
02/05/20 7:42:07 PM
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De Evolution posted...
How is holding hands or massaging a shoulder "creepy"?

Seriously?
Yes, massaging your pubescent daughter's shoulders is a creeper move.

Massages are by their nature kind of sexual. As a dad, you should definitely not be massaging your children.

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p-m
02/05/20 7:45:08 PM
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MutantJohn posted...
Massages are by their nature kind of sexual. As a dad, you should definitely not be massaging your children.
This is one of the stupidest things I've read on this site.1. Massages are not inherently sexual. 2. Massage is recommended with babies as a way of bonding and relaxing them, baby massage classes are everywhere and open to fathers and mothers.

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De Evolution
02/05/20 7:47:31 PM
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MutantJohn posted...
Massages are by their nature kind of sexual. As a dad, you should definitely not be massaging your children.

Seek help.

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Sada_Pop
02/05/20 9:07:11 PM
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MutantJohn posted...
Yes, massaging your pubescent daughter's shoulders is a creeper move.

Massages are by their nature kind of sexual. As a dad, you should definitely not be massaging your children.
This is a bad fucking take. Lmao.

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MutantJohn
02/05/20 9:22:03 PM
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Oh, okay, sure.

You guys would probably be at a kickback and when some dude comes over and starts massaging your girl, you'd just sit there and watch as he fills her with pleasure.

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Hayame Zero
02/05/20 11:03:59 PM
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Massaging is not inherintly sexual, but it was just weird when I saw it. They were teens, and he'd just randomly start rubbing their shoulders and run his hands along their hips. One of them closed their eyes and rested her head up against him which made it even more awkward.

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BlkPopeIseem
02/06/20 12:37:08 AM
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Hayame Zero posted...
One of them closed their eyes and rested her head up against him which made it even more awkward.
Yeah, consent is soo awkward.

This is starting to read as the creepy onlooker who doesn't know what to do with their own feelings
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im not 13
02/06/20 12:41:17 AM
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MutantJohn posted...
Oh, okay, sure.

You guys would probably be at a kickback and when some dude comes over and starts massaging your girl, you'd just sit there and watch as he fills her with pleasure.

Just take the L and go

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malenz
02/06/20 1:12:47 AM
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maybe but I'm kinda confused on my expression of affection so I can't say for sure
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Irony
02/06/20 1:14:21 AM
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As long as they don't use tongue

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jmikla
02/06/20 1:16:25 AM
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Not according to cornhub

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