Current Events > I legit feel bad for minute men; it takes me a while to "get there"

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Not bragging, as I'm sure many of my fellow CEmen are in the same boat. But like I never understood how a guy could blow his load after a one-minute BJ or having sex for 30 seconds. Really?

Depends on a lot of factors I suppose. Some people enjoy that kind of thing so I wouldn't discount it completely.

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I have no idea how guys last longer than first contact.

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SableWolfAngel posted...

Depends on a lot of factors I suppose. Some people enjoy that kind of thing so I wouldn't discount it completely.

Not sure what you mean. I enjoy BJs and sex, too; but I don't blow my load after a few pumps

Josiah_Is_Back posted...

Not sure what you mean. I enjoy BJs and sex, too; but I don't blow my load after a few pumps

But you are a virgin

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There's one thing that I can say I envy is that they finish before they get 'tired'. I'm pretty exhausted before I can even let it out.

Is it a mental thing?

AngelsNAirwav3s posted...

But you are a virgin

Nope.

Josiah_Is_Back posted...

Not sure what you mean. I enjoy BJs and sex, too; but I don't blow my load after a few pumps

What's there to not get? I'm saying there are some people who have a fetish for premature ejaculation. And besides that, there are so many factors that go into an individual's stamina that it can vary wildly for many different reasons. You may not understand why someone struggles with such a thing, but you can at least understand that it's a reality for many, many people.

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dameon_reaper posted...

There's one thing that I can say I envy is that they finish before they get 'tired'. I'm pretty exhausted before I can even let it out.

Is it a mental thing?

I don't know. Honestly I can get myself to cum faster through masturbation than sex. I dunno if that's an unusual thing but it's true for me.

I was seeing this 55-year-old cougar for a while (she was pretty hot), and she would cum several times before I even came close. She even told me I was like a machine or the Energizer Bunny.

I dunno. Honestly in my experience handjobs > blowjobs > sex

I've never even managed to finish from sex or blowjays.

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@SableWolfAngel I suppose it can be a fetish for some people, yeah. And yeah I mean I understand it in principle but it's more on the level of empathizing that I have trouble. I just can't imagine being that sensitive.

DrizztLink posted...

I've never even managed to finish from sex or blowjays.

I legit have to help. As in, you know those kegel exercises we can do, where you sort of "pull up" from your groin area, almost like you're trying to stop pissing? Yeah I do that and I hold my breath. But without doing those two things it would just be an indefinite situation lol

Josiah_Is_Back posted...

I was seeing this 55-year-old

Well I found the issue.

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gatorsPENSbucs posted...

Well I found the issue.

Haha, she's not the only person I've been with. And she had a nice friggin' body, bro.

Just busting balls, for the most part Im in the same boat. Theres always those rare occasions when Im just real turned on or if its been a while and I only last like 5-10 minutes but those are pretty rare.

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"its not a marathon baby, its a sprint"

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It's not all about sensitivity. Sexual pleasure is more than just physical sensation. Mentality has arguably more to do with it than the sensation. Someone could be just so overwhelmed with erotic feelings and thoughts that they reach orgasm quickly. Or it could be a lack of masturbation so the only time they feel that pleasure is during intercourse so there could be long periods between release. Or even if they have access to intercourse pretty much unfettered they could have no control or desire to control their pace and go as fast as possible because that's their ultimate goal instead of the act before it. The average human male orgasm takes about 7 minutes. It's biologically advantageous to be able to act quickly to pass on genes than to devote more time and more energy to sex in detriment to other activities.

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@SableWolfAngel fair points. I guess in my case emotion could have a lot to do with it, since I'm a very unemotional person. If I was with someone that I had a deep connection with sex would be different, I'm sure.

I have to be comfortable in order to finish in any kind of timely manner. Otherwise I'll tire myself out physically before I get there.

By comfortable, I mean both physically and mentally. Like if I'm in a bedroom with a girl I just met I'm not going to be comfortable because I'm in a strange environment. Also some chicks act fucking weird beforehand and while I'll still sleep with them it's still in my head that they were weird like 15 minutes ago.

Physically comfortable could be a lot of factors. The bed, the girl's body being a good fit for mine, all sorts of shit. Like I've banged girls in an alley behind a dumpster and it was more comfortable than some of the beds these chicks slept on.

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Jiek_Fafn posted...
I've banged girls in an alley behind a dumpster and it was more comfortable than some of the beds these chicks slept on.

Goddamn

It is called sex and not dulling your senses, that's the whole point of the sex act.

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