Current Events > Does CE still have a thing against single mothers?

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Cause I've started going after single mothers and wow I was an idiot for avoiding them this is like dating easy mode

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KillerSlaw posted...

this is like dating easy mode

Of course it is easy mode.

You will have to get used to seeing little Johnny/Jenny hang out with you during your dates, which will be at family friendly places, never in a bar or a fun place for grown ups, sex will have to be carefully planned and scheduled and one day, after a small number of dates little Johnny/Jenny will call you dad while looking at mommy, who will give him/her a "well done!" look.

The price to pay is so high it's easy to get those dates.

I think you just found the answer to your question. :/

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Coastal_elite posted...

Of course it is easy mode.

You will have to get used to seeing little Johnny/Jenny hang out with you during your dates, which will be at family friendly places, never in a bar or a fun place for grown ups, sex will have to be carefully planned and scheduled and one day, after a small number of dates little Johnny/Jenny will call you dad while looking at mommy, who will give him/her a "well done!" look.

The price to pay is so high it's easy to get those dates.

None of that has happened so far. Everyone I've been with (admittedly only 3 so far) have gotten overnight baby sitters

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the only way i'd date a single mom is if i were a single dad myself...

i gotta put up with her kid and she has to put up with mine. it's fair game. lol

KillerSlaw posted...

None of that has happened so far. Everyone I've been with (admittedly only 3 so far) have gotten overnight baby sitters

Those get expensive over time. If you last a full month with her prepare yourself for being second-hand daddy, or perhaps collateral daddy.

Coastal_elite posted...

Of course it is easy mode.

You will have to get used to seeing little Johnny/Jenny hang out with you during your dates, which will be at family friendly places, never in a bar or a fun place for grown ups, sex will have to be carefully planned and scheduled and one day, after a small number of dates little Johnny/Jenny will call you dad while looking at mommy, who will give him/her a "well done!" look.

The price to pay is so high it's easy to get those dates.

I guess you were trying to be funny or whatever, but none of that is actually true

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An alarming trend I've noticed among a very large amount of men in 2020 is that they possess almost none of the characteristics that have made men who they are for thousands of years. In fact, these creatures can only be considered "men" in the sense that they have aged the correct number of years to be considered adult males.

These men (most of whom are liberals) tend to have an enormous sense of entitlement, shirk responsibility, fear commitment, and only opt to do things when it is directly rewarding to them. In a sense, they are not real men but rather adult children, with a narrow mindset and no capacity to look at the "big picture."

No area is this more evident in than when you will see many of these "men" (liberals) talk about how they refuse to date a woman simply because she is a single mom, and they don't want to "raise another man's kid."

This is disgusting. Not only are these men choosing loneliness and isolation over a healthy adult relationship because of a human life, but they are also depriving themselves of one of the greatest joys of life (fatherhood) simply because they did not contribute DNA to this child.

For the last 2 years, I have been dating a single mom, and it has been the most rewarding experience of my life. Aiden, Braiden, and Caiden are like my own children to me, and even though I do not share a DNA bond with them and they call me by my first name, I feel a powerful and immutable connection. It takes a big man to want to become a dad to these kids, to help a single mom in her noble quest, and to deal with the fathers of Aiden, Braiden, and Caiden, and I believe I am that man.

It is very disheartening to see so many young men fall into the trap of entitlement and selfishness - to avoid family life based on some silly preconceived notions, to feel they are entitled to have a family on THEIR terms, and to only have children when it provides some sense of satisfaction to them. To me, it personally fulfilling to watch Aiden, Braiden, and Caiden every other weekend (hearing them say "oh, hey Pete" when I come over is one of the most satisfying things in a "father's" life), and I don't need the satisfaction that I somehow contributed to the conception of these children.

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Coastal_elite posted...

Those get expensive over time. If you last a full month with her prepare yourself for being second-hand daddy, or perhaps collateral daddy.

This exactly. My wife's sister is just like this, she had 4 children under the age of 10. She always starts dating to "prove herself" or whatever and tries to act like she can be entirely independent while dating. After a few weeks she basically runs out of income to keep doing this, brings her kids everywhere with them and the guy loses interest fast. Most cases the real dad is a prick also and theres ugliness in that relationship, whereas in early stages she says "its complicated but it won't effect us" until the first holiday or event comes up where he is involved.

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Romulox28 posted...

An alarming trend I've noticed among a very large amount of men in 2020 is that they possess almost none of the characteristics that have made men who they are for thousands of years. In fact, these creatures can only be considered "men" in the sense that they have aged the correct number of years to be considered adult males.

These men (most of whom are liberals) tend to have an enormous sense of entitlement, shirk responsibility, fear commitment, and only opt to do things when it is directly rewarding to them. In a sense, they are not real men but rather adult children, with a narrow mindset and no capacity to look at the "big picture."

No area is this more evident in than when you will see many of these "men" (liberals) talk about how they refuse to date a woman simply because she is a single mom, and they don't want to "raise another man's kid."

This is disgusting. Not only are these men choosing loneliness and isolation over a healthy adult relationship because of a human life, but they are also depriving themselves of one of the greatest joys of life (fatherhood) simply because they did not contribute DNA to this child.

For the last 2 years, I have been dating a single mom, and it has been the most rewarding experience of my life. Aiden, Braiden, and Caiden are like my own children to me, and even though I do not share a DNA bond with them and they call me by my first name, I feel a powerful and immutable connection. It takes a big man to want to become a dad to these kids, to help a single mom in her noble quest, and to deal with the fathers of Aiden, Braiden, and Caiden, and I believe I am that man.

It is very disheartening to see so many young men fall into the trap of entitlement and selfishness - to avoid family life based on some silly preconceived notions, to feel they are entitled to have a family on THEIR terms, and to only have children when it provides some sense of satisfaction to them. To me, it personally fulfilling to watch Aiden, Braiden, and Caiden every other weekend (hearing them say "oh, hey Pete" when I come over is one of the most satisfying things in a "father's" life), and I don't need the satisfaction that I somehow contributed to the conception of these children.

For some reason I read this in Danny McBride's voice inside my head LOL

KillerSlaw posted...

Cause I've started going after single mothers and wow I was an idiot for avoiding them this is like dating easy mode

I doubt anyone here has a problem with using single moms for easy sex. It's just a rejection of the notion that a single mother household is just as good as a two parent household.

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Romulox28 posted...

An alarming trend I've noticed among a very large amount of men in 2020 is that they possess almost none of the characteristics that have made men who they are for thousands of years. In fact, these creatures can only be considered "men" in the sense that they have aged the correct number of years to be considered adult males.

These men (most of whom are liberals) tend to have an enormous sense of entitlement, shirk responsibility, fear commitment, and only opt to do things when it is directly rewarding to them. In a sense, they are not real men but rather adult children, with a narrow mindset and no capacity to look at the "big picture."

No area is this more evident in than when you will see many of these "men" (liberals) talk about how they refuse to date a woman simply because she is a single mom, and they don't want to "raise another man's kid."

This is disgusting. Not only are these men choosing loneliness and isolation over a healthy adult relationship because of a human life, but they are also depriving themselves of one of the greatest joys of life (fatherhood) simply because they did not contribute DNA to this child.

For the last 2 years, I have been dating a single mom, and it has been the most rewarding experience of my life. Aiden, Braiden, and Caiden are like my own children to me, and even though I do not share a DNA bond with them and they call me by my first name, I feel a powerful and immutable connection. It takes a big man to want to become a dad to these kids, to help a single mom in her noble quest, and to deal with the fathers of Aiden, Braiden, and Caiden, and I believe I am that man.

It is very disheartening to see so many young men fall into the trap of entitlement and selfishness - to avoid family life based on some silly preconceived notions, to feel they are entitled to have a family on THEIR terms, and to only have children when it provides some sense of satisfaction to them. To me, it personally fulfilling to watch Aiden, Braiden, and Caiden every other weekend (hearing them say "oh, hey Pete" when I come over is one of the most satisfying things in a "father's" life), and I don't need the satisfaction that I somehow contributed to the conception of these children.

This post is disgusting.

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My main concern would be dealing with baby daddy

That shit can get complicated

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Hairistotle posted....

i sincerely believe this dude will kill someone some day if he hasn't already

holly logical leaps, Batman!

You wouldn't date a single mom? "UR A MURDERED!!! U KILLED PEOPLE OR U WILL KILL PEOPLE!!!!". That's a scary and weird conclusion to make.

ROD pretending hes ever even been on a date is good shit

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I have nothing against them, I'm just not interested in dating them.
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KillerSlaw posted...

None of that has happened so far. Everyone I've been with (admittedly only 3 so far) have gotten overnight baby sitters

That's called bait. Stay with one for longer than a fling and come back with results.

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supercrono posted...

That's called bait. Stay with one for longer than a fling and come back with results.

Well I guess I'll just move on if it gets bad then.

All I'm saying is for the amount of people on here I see complaining about not being able to find anyone, there seems to be a ton of chicks who are willing to put up with me, an unemployed dude who is disabled, so surely everyone with their fancy high salary jobs on here should be able to pull these ladies.

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