Current Events > My coworker told me that she had a sex dream about me.

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LookANinja
01/08/20 12:24:21 AM
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She's married with kids and i've been with my girlfriend for 6 years. Me and this girl flirt pretty regularly at work, like there's definite tension there, and it's not just physical. She said she has a serious crush on me, different from anything else, and i said the feeling is mutual, but that we can't do anything about it, and i'd never get between her and her family, neither of us would cheat on our significant others.

It's interesting...

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Lost_All_Senses
01/08/20 12:27:35 AM
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I hope this is fake. Cause you guys are both already cheating if not.

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Dark_SilverX
01/08/20 12:28:15 AM
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Just go do y'all business in the bathrooms. What happens at work stays at work.

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LookANinja
01/08/20 2:31:59 AM
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Lost_All_Senses posted...
I hope this is fake. Cause you guys are both already cheating if not.
Are we though?

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Gobstoppers12
01/08/20 2:38:51 AM
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LookANinja posted...
i've been with my girlfriend for 6 years. Me and this girl flirt pretty regularly at work
Jesus dude. Why are you like this?

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au_gold
01/08/20 2:39:11 AM
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Hows her ass?

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Keith_Valentine
01/08/20 2:39:19 AM
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Youre both bored in your relationships, it happens after you been together that long.
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Blue_Inigo
01/08/20 2:42:42 AM
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au_gold posted...
Hows her ass?


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dj1200
01/08/20 3:00:59 AM
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Oh, come on. You'd do it. You wouldn't post about it if you weren't seriously considering it. You just want the green light from someone else to ease your conscience, but no. Don't do it.

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LookANinja
01/08/20 3:01:20 AM
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Her ass is actually her best feature. I've complimented her on it.

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brestugo
01/08/20 3:04:25 AM
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Karen in HR would not approve.

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DrizztLink
01/08/20 3:06:09 AM
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brestugo posted...
Karen in HR would not approve.
Karen in HR can come along too, it'll loosen her up.

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LookANinja
01/08/20 3:11:16 AM
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We actually have a coworker named Karen that we think is super cute.

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DrizztLink
01/08/20 3:13:58 AM
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Polycosm
01/08/20 3:24:33 AM
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I mean, what's the worst that could happen? (other than HR finding out, firing you, you having to go home and tell your now ex-girlfriend why you got fired, etc.)

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Jabodie
01/08/20 3:26:00 AM
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Meh, fuck her and tell us what ensues.

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SSJGrimReaper
01/08/20 3:26:04 AM
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Meanwhile your gf is fantasizing about the King Chad Dick coworker

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aki_sora
01/08/20 4:09:12 AM
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I mean you not married so why not
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toyota
01/08/20 4:32:52 AM
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Sounds like some HR shit bro. hit them up
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LookANinja
01/08/20 4:55:36 AM
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We both have too much to lose to pursue anything, but it's so weird that it's out there.

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assassingriskel
01/08/20 5:17:25 AM
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My sig always comes through

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ffmasterjose
01/08/20 5:21:12 AM
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Pics of co worker
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Keith_Valentine
01/08/20 5:24:04 AM
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How good is her ass, and would it go to crap unleashed from her pants? Thats the question. Stretch marks bro, she has kids too. Shes horny and bored, and youre settling for ez pussy because its close. Nice way to ruin your life and get shot.

Stop. Keep it at flirting
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toyota
01/08/20 5:31:06 AM
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assassingriskel posted...
My sig always comes through

Whats your sig say? I have it turned off because people put pic linkks an shit
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alimajor
01/08/20 5:35:28 AM
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LookANinja posted...
i said the feeling is mutual, but that we can't do anything about it,l

If you had zero intention of hooking up with her then why the f*** would you say this? She sounds crazy and shed definitely use this against one day.

You night as well f*** her now cause your days are numbered son
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LookANinja
01/08/20 4:52:25 PM
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Why does everyone doubt my resolve?

Also she kept texting me last night while she was at work, i eventually pretended to fall asleep and didn't respond


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pauIie
01/08/20 5:00:38 PM
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Lost_All_Senses posted...
I hope this is fake. Cause you guys are both already cheating if not.

relationships have different understood boundaries all the time. i'd guess this is past that boundary, but you never know.

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NobleWill8
01/08/20 5:01:05 PM
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I mean.... be honest. Do you want to?

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...and even if the answer is yes, don't, just yell at yourself. If you really want to, then break up with your girlfriend first. Then, you shouldn't have too guilty of a conscience.

unless this is all really bad advice

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krazychao5
01/08/20 5:03:20 PM
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NobleWill8 posted...
I mean.... be honest. Do you want to?

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...and even if the answer is yes, don't, just yell at yourself. If you really want to, then break up with your girlfriend first. Then, you shouldn't have too guilty of a conscience.

unless this is all really bad advice
dude, the guilty feeling is hitting up a married chick.

And also cheating on your gf.

But it won't go away if you dump yo girl

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clyde_frog
01/08/20 5:14:00 PM
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Just go for it TC. Youre already balls deep into this, might as well go all the way. Could make working with her even more exciting moving forward.

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TheMikh
01/08/20 5:17:37 PM
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this is a disaster waiting to happen

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LookANinja
01/08/20 7:54:29 PM
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I responded to her and now she keeps texting me. How do i proceed?

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Omnislasher
01/08/20 7:56:27 PM
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lol you're in big trouble
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Omnislasher
01/08/20 7:57:28 PM
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LookANinja posted...
Are we though?
hm well maybe not. could you tell your s/o about this, assuming you haven't?
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modena
01/08/20 7:58:09 PM
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Man last time I went through this it was hell,we were both attracted to each other but it made it hard to focus on just enjoying doing my job.Good luck.

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_BIueMonk
01/08/20 7:59:08 PM
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/r/thathappened

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haloiscoolisbak
01/08/20 8:03:25 PM
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People are so weak lol

Do you know how many coworkers are attracted to each other but are mature enough to not let it get this far when they're already both in relationships?

You're not special bro

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LookANinja
01/08/20 9:43:06 PM
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Omnislasher posted...
hm well maybe not. could you tell your s/o about this, assuming you haven't?
Ummm. No.

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LookANinja
01/09/20 3:05:17 AM
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Well there's a work party coming up and she's asking if i'm going. She said she needs to ask her husband if she can go.

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008Zulu
01/09/20 3:24:00 AM
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Find somewhere, and give each other handies. No kissing though. It's the least sexual contact thing you can do, so if you immediately regret it afterwards, the damage will be minimal. You don't want to have sex right away, then find out it was a mistake.

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Solid Snake07
01/09/20 3:31:21 AM
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LookANinja posted...
Are we though?


Kind of, yeah. It's emotionally cheating

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LookANinja
01/09/20 6:00:20 PM
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Gladius_ posted...
OP put it this way. If you learned your significant other is flirting with someone else, having sexual dreams about that person, is telling them they feel something special about them and have a crush on them.. you would think "Hey that's great honey!"? Personally I would already start talking to my lawyer. Try to figure out how deep it goes and suggest a marriage counselor but I would document everything so if it does come to divorce I end up on the winning side.
I would probably break up with her, seeing as she seems unfulfilled by our relationship, and is having both physical and emotional fantasies about someone else.

But i'm not having these fantasies. The married girl is.

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tennisdude818
01/09/20 7:09:41 PM
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You need to bail out of this situation, especially if a work party is coming up. It wont be any easier to turn away when you are both tipsy and handsy.

Ive seen this happen at the office before. Its absolutely not worth the trouble at home and with HR.

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stoltenberg11
01/09/20 7:30:31 PM
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LookANinja posted...
i said the feeling is mutual, but that we can't do anything about it
you sure could. only got one life to live bro

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LookANinja
01/10/20 12:07:00 AM
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We're still texting. Everything is staying light and work related.

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voldothegr8
01/10/20 12:15:38 AM
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Gladius_ posted...

My point is that the relationship is already doomed. The moment that comes out kids, wife, husband, it's all going up in smoke. This is why "Emotional cheating." is still "Cheating." because it's just as damaging to the relationship.

All the more reason to just fuck her
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