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The_Scarecrow
12/10/19 8:03:21 PM
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Here is some backstory. I met this girl at the age of 14 in high school. Shes been wanting for us to be together ever since. For 8 years, shes asked me for dates and such. Ive constantly curved her and made it clear I wasnt interested. Ive even mentioned other girls I was seeing to her. She just refuses to give up.

Tonight, she FaceTimed me asking for help studying for her statistics final. I agreed because I have no problem helping someone study. She said Great. Lets do it over dinner soon. Text me when youre available. Bye!. Now, this has happened before. She asked me for dinner and told me to text her when Im available. I never end up texting her on purpose. Its a little different this time since she may actually need my help.

Shes a nice girl and all. I dont want to hurt her feelings but how many times do I have to turn her down? For people wondering why I dont bite the bullet and go out with her to see if I enjoy myself, Im just not attracted. Im not crazy about a blonde or sometimes purple buzz cut on a black girl and I like girls who are in good shape. Shes not fat but eh, shes not in good shape either.

How do I let her down permanently? Saying no, not interested, not replying, being with other girls has done nothing. Id rather this not blow up in my face like every other time. I suppose I could block her but Im wondering if there is an alternative. Where are all the normal girls at?


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Irony
12/10/19 8:03:51 PM
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Ok

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inloveanddeath0
12/10/19 8:03:57 PM
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Zikten
12/10/19 8:05:09 PM
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I wish I had this problem
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Lairen
12/10/19 8:05:17 PM
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If vice versa the girl would blatantly ignore you.

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ssj3vegeta_
12/10/19 8:05:51 PM
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evil_zombie11
12/10/19 8:07:11 PM
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ssj3vegeta_ posted...
Its ok to say no to ugly fat women tbh


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jkiteym
12/10/19 9:45:23 PM
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Bring someone who looks like you and more form fitting for her size and say that person is you. You can try that.
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Wii_Shaker
12/10/19 9:49:00 PM
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I think you need to take this girl to a nice dinner and explain to her that you'll never be with her. Treat it like a break up date.

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PatrickMahomes
12/10/19 9:50:38 PM
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ssj3vegeta_ posted...
Its ok to say no tbh


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Flockaveli
12/10/19 9:53:09 PM
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Tell her she's got the wrong idea, that she's holding out for something that's never going to happen, to stop getting her hopes up, and to be more productive with who she chooses to pursue.

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k debonair
12/10/19 10:07:47 PM
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did you give her the d yet? seriously, ask her if she will leave you alone if you give her a fun night.
in addition, you might have fun too and find something in common.

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twitterfriends
12/10/19 10:10:17 PM
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You might have to break her heart and tell her she's no good, it's better for her in the long run anyways.

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cmiller4642
12/10/19 10:10:59 PM
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This happened
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KogaSteelfang
12/10/19 10:12:08 PM
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Zikten posted...
I wish I had this problem
This...

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VictourieFlake
12/10/19 10:14:41 PM
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https://i.imgur.com/1Rj2AUc.jpg

*that did not happen.

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The_Scarecrow
12/10/19 10:56:05 PM
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JustMyOpinion posted...
This is a different girl than the one who got you fired after you hooked up? Your stories sound fishy.

Whats fishy about this story? This is a completely different girl, yes. All four girls Ive mentioned this year are not the same. There was the girl I took out on Valentines Day, the girl from my tutoring job, the girl from last month, and the girl from this thread. I can always provide pics if that would suffice.

cmiller4642 posted...
This happened

CE never believes me for some reason. Every time I make a thread about my personal life, it has always been true no matter how ridiculous or far fetched. I gain nothing from lying.

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