Poll of the Day > Is staying single for the consideration of others a valid reason?

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Solid Sonic
12/09/19 10:40:45 AM
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Like I can't help but think I have a bunch of personality traits that would ruin a relationship if I got serious with a woman so I often contemplate if staying single is better for everyone.

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Mead
12/09/19 10:43:57 AM
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Valid for what?

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Solid Sonic
12/09/19 10:44:20 AM
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As a reason for not getting too serious about dating.

I'm not saying I can't change but I would hate to make someone miserable being with me just because I've got some idiosyncrasies that I can't seem to work through.

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Aculo
12/09/19 10:51:10 AM
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Solid Sonic posted...
I'm not saying I can't change but I would hate to make someone miserable being with me just because I've got some idiosyncrasies that I can't seem to work through.
that's kind of the point of dating, to see if you match up. be as honest as you can up front about your hangups, or whatever. what's not cool it hiding those away and hooking someone, getting them invested, and then revealing these traits later in the relationship. more hurt, plus you're literally wasting their time, ok?

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Mead
12/09/19 11:05:33 AM
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Solid Sonic posted...
As a reason for not getting too serious about dating.

I'm not saying I can't change but I would hate to make someone miserable being with me just because I've got some idiosyncrasies that I can't seem to work through.

you just gotta find someone messed up enough that they make you equally miserable in return

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