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mattnd2007 11/14/19 12:22:55 AM #51:	I'm not saying don't do it, because for a small amount of people getting back together has worked. But I will say I wouldn't do it. --- Show me a man who resorts to violence and I'll show you a man who's run out of good ideas Phil Funnie <cite>mattnd2007 posted [p:930109207] in I'm thinki... [t:78151172]...</cite> <quote>I'm not saying don't do it, because for a small amount of people getting back together has worked. But I will say I wouldn't do it. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
tigerslashII 11/14/19 12:28:01 AM #52:	Too late already did lol Also if we were to get back together I'm pretty sure it'd be for the long haul --- Get a loada this guy here. https://imgur.com/5fTKLaM <cite>tigerslashII posted [p:930109347] in I'm thinki... [t:78151172]...</cite> <quote>Too late already did lol Also if we were to get back together I'm pretty sure it'd be for the long haul </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
mattnd2007 11/14/19 12:34:59 AM #53:	Oh I saw post 50. I'm just saying getting back together if the situation arises. --- Show me a man who resorts to violence and I'll show you a man who's run out of good ideas Phil Funnie <cite>mattnd2007 posted [p:930109514] in I'm thinki... [t:78151172]...</cite> <quote>Oh I saw post 50. I'm just saying getting back together if the situation arises. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
mattnd2007 11/14/19 12:35:38 AM #54:	My post wasn't super clear after rereading. I'm tired and have been drinking lol --- Show me a man who resorts to violence and I'll show you a man who's run out of good ideas Phil Funnie <cite>mattnd2007 posted [p:930109528] in I'm thinki... [t:78151172]...</cite> <quote>My post wasn't super clear after rereading. I'm tired and have been drinking lol </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
samurai bandit 11/14/19 12:58:47 AM #55:	tigerslashII posted... Too late already did lol Also if we were to get back together I'm pretty sure it'd be for the long haul Dont get your hopes up and dont try to rush it. Give it more time to let the new relationship develop on its own, assume you are starting from 0. --- Go and watch Ef ~ A tale of memories now! <cite>samurai bandit posted [p:930110165] in I'm thinki... [t:78151172]...</cite> <quote>tigerslashII posted... </cite> <quote>Too late already did lol Also if we were to get back together I'm pretty sure it'd be for the long haul</quote> Dont get your hopes up and dont try to rush it. Give it more time to let the new relationship develop on its own, assume you are starting from 0. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Blackstar110 11/14/19 1:06:08 AM #56:	I dont wanna encourage this line of thinking because it is SO circumstantial But just to add to the other side, about five years ago, after some bad dates that didnt compare, I texted an ex who I felt I had unresolved business with that I couldnt consistently get off my mind, and weve been happily married for 2.5 years now. So, obviously, dont hitch yourself to that mentality, but I cant say shooting your shot is inherently 100% bad every time because, well, best decision of my life. Only you two can know. Could range anywhere from utter disaster to happy marriage, just go in with an open mind and as clear of eyes as you can have. --- -Shred <cite>Blackstar110 posted [p:930110364] in I'm thinki... [t:78151172]...</cite> <quote>I dont wanna encourage this line of thinking because it is SO circumstantial But just to add to the other side, about five years ago, after some bad dates that didnt compare, I texted an ex who I felt I had unresolved business with that I couldnt consistently get off my mind, and weve been happily married for 2.5 years now. So, obviously, dont hitch yourself to that mentality, but I cant say shooting your shot is inherently 100% bad every time because, well, best decision of my life. Only you two can know. Could range anywhere from utter disaster to happy marriage, just go in with an open mind and as clear of eyes as you can have.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
tigerslashII 11/14/19 1:06:17 AM #57:	samurai bandit posted... Dont get your hopes up and dont try to rush it. Give it more time to let the new relationship develop on its own, assume you are starting from 0. That's what I'm doing. Really anything at this point since I realized I'm living in a Mountain Goats song. I can't stop this creeping sense of dread with temporal things, so I'm looking hard for what I've lost. --- Get a loada this guy here. https://imgur.com/5fTKLaM <cite>tigerslashII posted [p:930110372] in I'm thinki... [t:78151172]...</cite> <quote>samurai bandit posted... </cite> <quote>Dont get your hopes up and dont try to rush it. Give it more time to let the new relationship develop on its own, assume you are starting from 0.</quote>That's what I'm doing. Really anything at this point since I realized I'm living in a Mountain Goats song. I can't stop this creeping sense of dread with temporal things, so I'm looking hard for what I've lost. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Wewillrocku 11/14/19 1:09:22 AM #58:	so tell us how the massage went --- The american prison system is a sorry mess but giving them game consoles isn't going to solve anything. Zurriah <cite>Wewillrocku posted [p:930110465] in I'm thinki... [t:78151172]...</cite> <quote>so tell us how the massage went</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
tigerslashII 11/14/19 1:14:32 AM #59:	We talked about her dog, about her new digs, about her roommate. She draws a bunch of goofy drawings of chibi dicks, which she showed me. I told her what's happened in my life over the past year, and she's glad I'm in a better place in my life. Gonna message her again tomorrow I think. I haven't told her I miss her yet. --- Get a loada this guy here. https://imgur.com/5fTKLaM <cite>tigerslashII posted [p:930110590] in I'm thinki... [t:78151172]...</cite> <quote>We talked about her dog, about her new digs, about her roommate. She draws a bunch of goofy drawings of chibi dicks, which she showed me. I told her what's happened in my life over the past year, and she's glad I'm in a better place in my life. Gonna message her again tomorrow I think. I haven't told her I miss her yet. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
tigerslashII 11/15/19 10:50:51 PM #60:	So it's been 3 days of me talking to her now and this still hasn't blown up in my face. I'm not sure what's up but um... could be worse I guess. --- Get a loada this guy here. https://imgur.com/5fTKLaM <cite>tigerslashII posted [p:930202623] in I'm thinki... [t:78151172]...</cite> <quote>So it's been 3 days of me talking to her now and this still hasn't blown up in my face. I'm not sure what's up but um... could be worse I guess. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
cuttin_in_farm 11/15/19 10:58:13 PM #61:	So... tigerslashII posted... She draws a bunch of goofy drawings of chibi dicks, --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. <cite>cuttin_in_farm posted [p:930202872] in I'm thinki... [t:78151172]...</cite> <quote>So... tigerslashII posted...</cite> <quote>She draws a bunch of goofy drawings of chibi dicks,</quote></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
mattnd2007 11/16/19 2:40:39 AM #62:	Who knows. Like I said it could work out for you. Just be careful. At this point I'm legit interested and rooting for you. I'm a jaded old man in some ways. But in my heart of hearts I'm still a hopeless romantic. --- Show me a man who resorts to violence and I'll show you a man who's run out of good ideas Phil Funnie <cite>mattnd2007 posted [p:930208686] in I'm thinki... [t:78151172]...</cite> <quote>Who knows. Like I said it could work out for you. Just be careful. At this point I'm legit interested and rooting for you. I'm a jaded old man in some ways. But in my heart of hearts I'm still a hopeless romantic. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
mattnd2007 11/16/19 2:43:01 AM #63:	Keep us posted. --- Show me a man who resorts to violence and I'll show you a man who's run out of good ideas Phil Funnie <cite>mattnd2007 posted [p:930208731] in I'm thinki... [t:78151172]...</cite> <quote>Keep us posted. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Guerrilla Soldier 11/16/19 3:00:18 AM #64:	sounds like you kept it civil and didn't bring up anything emotional crap great job! --- Disclaimer: There's a good chance the above post could be sarcasm. Die-hard Oakland A's fan --- Keep the A's in Oakland! <cite>Guerrilla Soldier posted [p:930209041] in I'm thinki... [t:78151172]...</cite> <quote>sounds like you kept it civil and didn't bring up anything emotional crap great job!</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
tigerslashII 11/16/19 3:19:41 PM #65:	The way I figure, I'll just approach this like we're getting to know each other again. It has been over a year so a lot has changed anyway. If she catches feelings for me I want it to be genuine, not a sense of guilt or remembering the past and wanting that again, because this can never be that, we have history now. If she doesn't, at least there's some closure involved. I really am happy she is doing well, and she seems to appreciate talking to me again, so we'll see what happens. --- Get a loada this guy here. https://imgur.com/5fTKLaM <cite>tigerslashII posted [p:930228040] in I'm thinki... [t:78151172]...</cite> <quote>The way I figure, I'll just approach this like we're getting to know each other again. It has been over a year so a lot has changed anyway. If she catches feelings for me I want it to be genuine, not a sense of guilt or remembering the past and wanting that again, because this can never be that, we have history now. If she doesn't, at least there's some closure involved. I really am happy she is doing well, and she seems to appreciate talking to me again, so we'll see what happens. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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