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CyricZ
07/19/19 11:35:50 PM
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Because I'm damn sure not getting much sleep tonight.
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KiwiTerraRizing
07/19/19 11:36:15 PM
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Why are mods such pieces of shit?
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ScazarMeltex
07/19/19 11:36:29 PM
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Why are you an emotional wreck?
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CyricZ
07/19/19 11:37:09 PM
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KiwiTerraRizing posted...
Why are mods such pieces of shit?

They're not. They don't put emotion into their work. You're taking it too personally. Stop breaking the law.
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KiwiTerraRizing
07/19/19 11:38:16 PM
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CyricZ posted...
KiwiTerraRizing posted...
Why are mods such pieces of shit?

They're not. They don't put emotion into their work. You're taking it too personally. Stop breaking the law.


Shut up
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Shadowplay
07/19/19 11:38:24 PM
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What do you do for a living?
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CelestialVoices
07/19/19 11:42:59 PM
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did you accidentally listen to come sail away by styx again
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CyricZ
07/19/19 11:46:53 PM
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ScazarMeltex posted...
Why are you an emotional wreck?

To make it as short as possible, I became friends with a woman five years ago at the place I worked. I developed feelings for her. She was seeing someone else. I let her know those feelings maybe a month after we started hanging out. She said we can be friends. I said okay. We continued to hang out, and things were okay for a while.

Then she started having second thoughts about her boyfriend. She started getting closer to me, but wouldn't leave him. I supported her as best I could, but I stopped myself from getting too close. Still she kept wanting to get closer. Despite saying yes to her boyfriend to marry him.

A little over a month ago, I told her that I couldn't be what she needed, and she couldn't be what I needed. I told her I needed time apart without contact. I needed to find someone for myself, and I couldn't do that if I was giving her attention. She said she'd respect my wishes.

That lasted three weeks.

At the beginning of July she contacted me, wanting an answer if we were done or not. I ignored her.

She showed up at my door an hour ago.

She wanted back a sketch she drew me for my birthday some years back.

I couldn't find it.

After she left, I texted her never to come to my house again.

Earlier today, I had a drawer full of memories of my time with her. Good memories that made me feel I was a better person.

That all has to go.

I can't look at that stuff without being reminded of the bad memories now.
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CyricZ
07/19/19 11:47:42 PM
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Shadowplay posted...
What do you do for a living?

Safety consultant

CelestialVoices posted...
did you accidentally listen to come sail away by styx again

No, but Weight of the World from NieR Automata can get me pretty emotional.
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TheVipaGTS
07/19/19 11:51:27 PM
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She showed up at my door an hour ago.

She wanted back a sketch she drew me for my birthday some years back.


for someone who is married to someone else and only wants you to be a friend....that's really weird.
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Unsugarized_Foo
07/19/19 11:54:02 PM
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You're an emotional wreck but she's a train wreck
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Questionmarktarius
07/19/19 11:54:34 PM
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Why aren't you drunk right now?
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Infinite 2003
07/20/19 12:03:01 AM
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TheVipaGTS posted...
She showed up at my door an hour ago.

She wanted back a sketch she drew me for my birthday some years back.


for someone who is married to someone else and only wants you to be a friend....that's really weird.


She probably believed the TC to be a close friend as is really hurt by the fact that he basically wants nothing to do with her because she essentially wouldnt leave her fiance for him
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CyricZ
07/20/19 12:03:57 AM
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Questionmarktarius posted...
Why aren't you drunk right now?

I think it's a bad idea in this state.
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kingdrake2
07/20/19 12:04:58 AM
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we think drinking only masks the pain but doesn't fix the problem :(.
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Doom_Art
07/20/19 12:05:04 AM
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The sketch thing is really bizarre to me
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StarSpangled
07/20/19 12:05:58 AM
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Ghosting is ass behavior. Should've gritted your teeth and texted her you weren't going to put up with that before she came and you could've avoided this.
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_Rinku_
07/20/19 12:06:30 AM
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Have you been watching Matt and Liam's LP of Sonic 06? It always puts me in a better mood.
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mybbqrules
07/20/19 12:09:54 AM
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StarSpangled posted...
Ghosting is ass behavior. Should've gritted your teeth and texted her you weren't going to put up with that before she came and you could've avoided this.


Bullshit. He told her he wanted space and she didn't respect that. She clearly doesn't care about his feelings. Shes dangling the carrot in front of his nose to keep him sniffing around while she sees option A out to its conclusion.

Being any women's option B is never worth it.
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Solid Snake07
07/20/19 12:10:24 AM
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What's wrong buddy?
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CyricZ
07/20/19 12:10:29 AM
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_Rinku_ posted...
Have you been watching Matt and Liam's LP of Sonic 06? It always puts me in a better mood.

I have, and I'd rather enjoy it while in a better mood than try to use it to get me out of this bad state.
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FightingJester
07/20/19 12:11:38 AM
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Shoulda smashed.
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StarSpangled
07/20/19 12:12:57 AM
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mybbqrules posted...
StarSpangled posted...
Ghosting is ass behavior. Should've gritted your teeth and texted her you weren't going to put up with that before she came and you could've avoided this.


Bullshit. He told her he wanted space and she didn't respect that. She clearly doesn't care about his feelings. Shes dangling the carrot in front of his nose to keep him sniffing around while she sees option A out to its conclusion.

Being any women's option B is never worth it.

And he should've told her they were done. Communication is vital to every human interaction. Unless it's an emergency, intentionally avoiding communication is always ass behavior.
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evil_zombie11
07/20/19 12:12:59 AM
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CyricZ posted...
ScazarMeltex posted...
Why are you an emotional wreck?

To make it as short as possible, I became friends with a woman five years ago at the place I worked. I developed feelings for her. She was seeing someone else. I let her know those feelings maybe a month after we started hanging out. She said we can be friends. I said okay. We continued to hang out, and things were okay for a while.

Then she started having second thoughts about her boyfriend. She started getting closer to me, but wouldn't leave him. I supported her as best I could, but I stopped myself from getting too close. Still she kept wanting to get closer. Despite saying yes to her boyfriend to marry him.

A little over a month ago, I told her that I couldn't be what she needed, and she couldn't be what I needed. I told her I needed time apart without contact. I needed to find someone for myself, and I couldn't do that if I was giving her attention. She said she'd respect my wishes.

That lasted three weeks.

At the beginning of July she contacted me, wanting an answer if we were done or not. I ignored her.

She showed up at my door an hour ago.

She wanted back a sketch she drew me for my birthday some years back.

I couldn't find it.

After she left, I texted her never to come to my house again.

Earlier today, I had a drawer full of memories of my time with her. Good memories that made me feel I was a better person.

That all has to go.

I can't look at that stuff without being reminded of the bad memories now.


You did the right thing, she would've just kept stringing you along man.
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_Rinku_
07/20/19 12:13:31 AM
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CyricZ posted...
_Rinku_ posted...
Have you been watching Matt and Liam's LP of Sonic 06? It always puts me in a better mood.

I have, and I'd rather enjoy it while in a better mood than try to use it to get me out of this bad state.

Fair enough. I hope things improve for you.
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Solid Snake07
07/20/19 12:13:38 AM
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CyricZ posted...
ScazarMeltex posted...
Why are you an emotional wreck?

To make it as short as possible, I became friends with a woman five years ago at the place I worked. I developed feelings for her. She was seeing someone else. I let her know those feelings maybe a month after we started hanging out. She said we can be friends. I said okay. We continued to hang out, and things were okay for a while.

Then she started having second thoughts about her boyfriend. She started getting closer to me, but wouldn't leave him. I supported her as best I could, but I stopped myself from getting too close. Still she kept wanting to get closer. Despite saying yes to her boyfriend to marry him.

A little over a month ago, I told her that I couldn't be what she needed, and she couldn't be what I needed. I told her I needed time apart without contact. I needed to find someone for myself, and I couldn't do that if I was giving her attention. She said she'd respect my wishes.

That lasted three weeks.

At the beginning of July she contacted me, wanting an answer if we were done or not. I ignored her.

She showed up at my door an hour ago.

She wanted back a sketch she drew me for my birthday some years back.

I couldn't find it.

After she left, I texted her never to come to my house again.

Earlier today, I had a drawer full of memories of my time with her. Good memories that made me feel I was a better person.

That all has to go.

I can't look at that stuff without being reminded of the bad memories now.


Oh, eh, yeah buddy, you went way too deep on a girl who clearly doesn't share the same feelings for you. Sorry man, live and learn
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Machete
07/20/19 12:14:40 AM
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Oh shit. I was about to make a post about having MacGuyver with the back of my AC to fix a drainage issue and also setup an extension for the vertical vent slider using a bunch of opened and unopened mail so that the flow would go even lower and wouldn't be hindered by a less-open vent thanks to the fucking weather because I read into the opening post a bit more than the topic title at first :(

I'm sorry to hear about that. I hope you work through it okay without any additional drama popping up.
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sabin017
07/20/19 12:14:53 AM
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What is your second favorite song off your second favorite album from your favorite band?
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Number090684
07/20/19 12:16:32 AM
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Kudos to you TC for being the level headed, responsible one. It's not healthy for her fiance / husband and their relationship for her to be so possessive of you, and you cutting yourself out of the picture is the right thing to do, regardless if she doesn't like it. Even if the pain of losing a friend hurts for a little while, it will eventually pass.

Seems like she is selfish, immature and has control issues and probably just wanted to keep you around as a backup if things didn't go her way with her husband, or even if she just got bored with him. You deserve better than being someone's second choice, or in this case, their puppet on a string, just waiting around, when instead, you could find someone who is interested and really cares for you.
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NOM
07/20/19 12:16:56 AM
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Get over her and move on. At least you've probably tasted what love and affection from the opposite sex feels like, something that some pathetic piece of trash such as myself will never feel.

So chin up!
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Buzz Killjoy
07/20/19 12:24:04 AM
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Good job man. Reads to me like she wanted something from you she couldn't get in her other relationship but wouldn't let either thing go, which is just manipulative. Even if it would have been better for you to break it off differently, asking for a gift back was just a way to put you on the spot.
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Bio_babe_4
07/20/19 12:33:07 AM
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StarSpangled posted...
mybbqrules posted...
StarSpangled posted...
Ghosting is ass behavior. Should've gritted your teeth and texted her you weren't going to put up with that before she came and you could've avoided this.


Bullshit. He told her he wanted space and she didn't respect that. She clearly doesn't care about his feelings. Shes dangling the carrot in front of his nose to keep him sniffing around while she sees option A out to its conclusion.

Being any women's option B is never worth it.

And he should've told her they were done. Communication is vital to every human interaction. Unless it's an emergency, intentionally avoiding communication is always ass behavior.


This.
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CyricZ
07/20/19 12:35:06 AM
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Her number is blocked.
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LordDemonWolf
07/20/19 12:37:47 AM
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Good on you man. It sounds like you're doing the right thing, but it's hard. I've been there. The way she reacted to you, to me, kinda shows either she doesn't really care, or she's lashing out at you in order to hurt, which could be from a couple of things. You'll get through it!

Uh....ama....Nier? Automata is damn good. You listen to the original Replicant/Gestalt soundtrack at all?
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CyricZ
07/20/19 12:45:25 AM
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LordDemonWolf posted...
Uh....ama....Nier? Automata is damn good. You listen to the original Replicant/Gestalt soundtrack at all?

I've played through it. Every so often I'll queue up Song of the Ancients.
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CyricZ
07/20/19 12:45:51 AM
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Emptied the trash.

Guh, next is the social media and pictures in phone.
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TestaALT
07/20/19 12:46:19 AM
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I've always admired your FAQs.

Regarding your situation, I'm sorry it happened. :( I know it feels bad right now, but I don't think you ever would've been happy in that situation. It sounded toxic and unfulfilling.

You are now free, and you can move on and focus on someone who will treat you better and respect you.
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ModLogic
07/20/19 12:47:08 AM
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CyricZ posted...
Stop breaking the law.

kind of difficult when it chops and changes every other hour
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EverDownward
07/20/19 12:50:21 AM
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CyricZ posted...
ScazarMeltex posted...
Why are you an emotional wreck?

To make it as short as possible, I became friends with a woman five years ago at the place I worked. I developed feelings for her. She was seeing someone else. I let her know those feelings maybe a month after we started hanging out. She said we can be friends. I said okay. We continued to hang out, and things were okay for a while.

Then she started having second thoughts about her boyfriend. She started getting closer to me, but wouldn't leave him. I supported her as best I could, but I stopped myself from getting too close. Still she kept wanting to get closer. Despite saying yes to her boyfriend to marry him.

A little over a month ago, I told her that I couldn't be what she needed, and she couldn't be what I needed. I told her I needed time apart without contact. I needed to find someone for myself, and I couldn't do that if I was giving her attention. She said she'd respect my wishes.

That lasted three weeks.

At the beginning of July she contacted me, wanting an answer if we were done or not. I ignored her.

She showed up at my door an hour ago.

She wanted back a sketch she drew me for my birthday some years back.

I couldn't find it.

After she left, I texted her never to come to my house again.

Earlier today, I had a drawer full of memories of my time with her. Good memories that made me feel I was a better person.

That all has to go.

I can't look at that stuff without being reminded of the bad memories now.

Ya blew it. In some regard, I think you made the right decision, but I also legitimately believe something was probably there and you were probably too afraid to act upon it.
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Future_Ruins
07/20/19 12:53:33 AM
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CyricZ
07/20/19 12:54:55 AM
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I've most certainly made mistakes in this.

And yes, I do feel that if I pressed, if I just took instead of waiting, that something would have changed.

That's not who I am.

I wasn't going to be a homewrecker.

Only a little over a hundred photos on the phone to delete. Not bad, all things considered. Now Facebook.
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__aCEr__
07/20/19 12:56:40 AM
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Damn how petty do you have to be to show up at a person's house demanding some picture you drew years ago?
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ssj3vegeta
07/20/19 12:58:23 AM
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damn, 5 years wasted, gone, never can't get back dose 5 years waiting for some hoe
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CyricZ
07/20/19 1:01:47 AM
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Facebook cleaned up.
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CyricZ
07/20/19 2:50:08 AM
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I can't sleep.

This is probably the worst sleep I've ever had since I moved.

I hope someone is available to hang out tomorrow because I really don't think I should be alone.
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Bio_babe_4
07/20/19 2:52:16 AM
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CyricZ posted...

I hope someone is available to hang out tomorrow because I really don't think I should be alone.


Why shouldn't you be alone?
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CyricZ
07/20/19 2:56:28 AM
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I need someone to help me process this severe emptiness and guilt I'm feeling.

A human tangible someone.
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Evening_Dragon
07/20/19 2:57:31 AM
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Took you long enough, but you dodged thottery, so you can only get better from here.
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