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Vmode 07/19/19 3:13:03 PM #1: |
Need unbiased opinions.
Scenario; you and others in the family get a text message from a family member saying they're getting married in ten days. Would it be okay for the people to who received said text message to invite people to said wedding without telling the people getting married (not as a +1, they aren't attending the wedding themselves, just telling someone else they can/should go)? Edit: End parentheses for clarification. --- "Better to reign in Hell, than serve in Heaven" - extract from Paradise Lost (Book 1, Line 263) ... Copied to Clipboard!
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dragon504 07/19/19 3:19:06 PM #2: |
No, unless you've been specifically told you can bring someone.
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CTLM 07/19/19 3:21:41 PM #3: |
dragon504 posted...
No, unless you've been specifically told you can bring someone. That's a good way to put it. You should always come alone unless they're your +1 and they are aware you are bringing a guest on your RSVP ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Smarkil 07/19/19 3:27:20 PM #4: |
who texts someone 10 days before their wedding?
do they not know what invitations and RSVP's are? --- I promise that if the game stinks I will make a topic about how I hate it and you can all laugh at me - Mead on Fallout 76 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Vmode 07/19/19 3:32:40 PM #5: |
dragon504 posted...
No, unless you've been specifically told you can bring someone. What if the person doing the inviting isn't coming themselves? --- "Better to reign in Hell, than serve in Heaven" - extract from Paradise Lost (Book 1, Line 263) ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Bugmeat 07/19/19 3:33:04 PM #6: |
dragon504 posted...
No, unless you've been specifically told you can bring someone. Exactly. Weddings are typically set up with a specific number of people in mind. Several guests bringing unaccounted for companions can cause a big problem. Not enough food, seats, etc. If you are unsure for any reason you ask the person throwing the wedding. The 10 days in this scenario is plenty of time to get clarification. A simple "Can I bring a date?" in a response to the announcement message will do the job. This is basic etiquette. --- John Mellencamp said it best "Life goes on long after the thrill of living is gone." ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Pus_N_Pecans 07/19/19 3:45:46 PM #7: |
Hard no, unless its your +1, and even then you should let them know if youre bringing a +1 or not ahead of time
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ninja_lootz 07/19/19 3:46:25 PM #8: |
Vmode posted...
dragon504 posted...No, unless you've been specifically told you can bring someone. That might actually be worse. If that person wants to go, then they should ask. --- MY HELMET'S ON YOU CAN'T TELL ME I'M NOT IN SPACE ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Aculo 07/19/19 4:13:42 PM #9: |
that's a hard no, ok?
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ClarkDuke 07/19/19 4:15:06 PM #10: |
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Aculo 07/19/19 4:16:58 PM #11: |
ClarkDuke posted...
hell no, ok? clark has been to literally hundreds of weddings. as a young gentleman of his caliber, he knows the etiquette like the back of his hand, ok? --- ok? ... Copied to Clipboard!
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KeijiMaedaTiger 07/19/19 4:27:55 PM #12: |
I say it's okay if there isn't a reception. TC doesn't specify.
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ParanoidObsessive 07/19/19 7:26:03 PM #13: |
The only acceptable scenario to invite anyone to a wedding for any reason is if you're bringing them as your +1. Inviting anyone else even by implication kind of makes you an asshole.
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ClarkDuke 07/19/19 11:52:40 PM #14: |
Aculo posted...
ClarkDuke posted...hell no, ok? thank you for those kind and accurate words, they humble me, ok? as a good friend you already know, i hold myself to higher standards, so i can help everyone i can, better themselves, ok? --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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wwinterj25 07/20/19 12:26:11 AM #15: |
I would say no. if you are gong to invite others it's best to ask the bride and groom if it's ok unless they specifically say you can bring a +1.
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DeathMagnetic80 07/20/19 1:20:31 AM #16: |
Absolutely not. If they wanted then there, they'd have invited them. A plus one is one thing, that's a whole other beast.
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Mead 07/20/19 1:30:10 AM #17: |
Invite them and tell us what happens lol
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TigerTycoon 07/20/19 1:33:23 AM #18: |
Depends on the bride. Weddings ceremonies are typically far more important to women then men.
And as such, most women want their wedding to be "perfect", and that includes only the people they want showing up. However, like I said, it depends on the bride, if she doesn't care, then it doesn't matter. --- YOU COULDN'T AFFORD IT! ... Copied to Clipboard!
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KeijiMaedaTiger 07/20/19 1:43:44 AM #19: |
TigerTycoon posted...
Depends on the bride. Weddings ceremonies are typically far more important to women then men. I really doubt anyone involved cares about anything. Ten days notice via text? Bunch of crazy people in here saying you shouldn't bring someone. --- Why are tigers strong? Because they're born that way! ... Copied to Clipboard!
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