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toyota
06/27/19 1:56:05 AM
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Is this getting to sexual harrassment territory? I really dont like the conversation nor am I interested.

Real talk, how do I get her to stop this crap?
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brotrrwinner
06/27/19 1:56:39 AM
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Say you're gay
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DarthWendy
06/27/19 1:56:54 AM
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You've just been niceguy'd.
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DarkChozoGhost
06/27/19 1:57:27 AM
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brotrrwinner posted...
Say you're gay

That would make the problem worse
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N3xtG3nGam3r
06/27/19 2:22:06 AM
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You got niceguyd cause you dont take control of the conversation and let her know you dont care. Why else would she blab all this shit? Cause youre listening lol.
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Swagnificent119
06/27/19 2:29:07 AM
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Have you tried telling her you don't want to hear that shit?

It's simple. "No offense, but I really don't want to hear about that shit."
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Vita_Aeterna
06/27/19 2:36:24 AM
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"Nipple piercings? Show me."
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SH_expert44
06/27/19 2:39:21 AM
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Swagnificent119 posted...
Have you tried telling her you don't want to hear that shit?

It's simple. "No offense, but I really don't want to hear about that shit."

No no, this is 2019. You are not supposed to stand up for yourself or voice your feelings to someone directly. You are supposed to go behind their back to HR as a first resort. Try to get them fired. If that doesnt work, take your case to social media and name and shame them until the company fires them to save face. That makes the problem go away.
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teepan95
06/27/19 2:46:23 AM
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Vita_Aeterna posted...
"Nipple piercings? Show me."

For me, a simple "I don't believe you" has worked.
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thronedfire2
06/27/19 3:46:34 AM
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I mean..if youre sitting there listening without objecting I dont think it counts as harassment.

And if a girl randomly mentions she got her nips pierced, you ask to see them. Ive seen 4 sets of boobs at work that way
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NinjaBreakfast
06/27/19 3:47:37 AM
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this happened
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SiO4
06/27/19 3:50:20 AM
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SH_expert44 posted...
Swagnificent119 posted...
Have you tried telling her you don't want to hear that shit?

It's simple. "No offense, but I really don't want to hear about that shit."

No no, this is 2019. You are not supposed to stand up for yourself or voice your feelings to someone directly. You are supposed to go behind their back to HR as a first resort. Try to get them fired. If that doesnt work, take your case to social media and name and shame them until the company fires them to save face. That makes the problem go away.


Sad but true.
And she could do that to you if the thread she's weaving doesn't come out exactly the way she wants it to.

If you're truly not interested, just blank her.
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Ilishe
06/27/19 3:53:45 AM
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Come on dude

It's just a girl talking what's the problem
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toyota
06/27/19 4:00:58 AM
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Ilishe posted...
Come on dude

It's just a girl talking what's the problem


Its kind of annoying dude and it doesnt help that the other girlies at work are always implying we should get together or something. Also this...

SiO4 posted...
No no, this is 2019. You are not supposed to stand up for yourself or voice your feelings to someone directly. You are supposed to go behind their back to HR as a first resort. Try to get them fired. If that doesnt work, take your case to social media and name and shame them until the company fires them to save face. That makes the problem go away.

Sad but true.
And she could do that to you if the thread she's weaving doesn't come out exactly the way she wants it to.


I feel like it can backfire if I get too involved in the conversation but at the same time I dont want people thinking im some incel if I dont get involved in the conversation.

I feel more comfortable talking and messing around with the guys at work because I know they wont go ratting to HR or rallying other co-workers against you but Im more weary about what I say around the girls and the gays
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Chicken
06/27/19 4:09:53 AM
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She told you about her butthole hair?
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CADE FOSTER
06/27/19 4:12:50 AM
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D-Lo_BrownTown
06/27/19 4:13:03 AM
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Completely serious, I would tell her straight up that you don't feel comfortable talking about that stuff and if she gets offended reassure her it's simply because you're afraid other people will report you both to HR.

And if she keeps it up, you should go to HR and tell them but don't actually file a complaint just let them know it happened and that you told her to stop so if anything is reported it doesn't blow back on you.
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SiO4
06/27/19 4:26:07 AM
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D-Lo_BrownTown posted...
Completely serious, I would tell her straight up that you don't feel comfortable talking about that stuff and if she gets offended reassure her it's simply because you're afraid other people will report you both to HR.

And if she keeps it up, you should go to HR and tell them but don't actually file a complaint just let them know it happened and that you told her to stop so if anything is reported it doesn't blow back on you.


Ya, basically this. I mean, I wouldn't go to HR..maybe say something to someone.

But it might not even be her that you are worried about.
It's the people around you both that will become the issue.
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SuspectWords
06/27/19 4:49:22 AM
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You want problems?
Because that's how you get problems.

If you don't, tell her to eff off.
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Rebel_Patriot
06/27/19 6:13:40 AM
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Damn Id have already hit it.
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Ilishe
06/28/19 3:34:16 AM
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Jesus, an adult man going up to a chatterbox and telling her he's not comfortable talking about piercings or whatever.

Woah
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