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Master Kazuya
05/28/19 10:28:50 PM
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I honestly don't think our lifestyles match up too well or whatever, and sometimes conversation feels a lil forced, like she'd rather say something witty than keep digging deeper, but like, she actually acknowledges me lol. I mean pretty much every coworker says hi and stuff but she goes out of her way to do it, waits for me if we're walking to the same place, asks me when my lunch break is, and sometimes just stops in the room to say "just stopping by to say hi cause I haven't seen you all day". Just like, little things that shows she's being a human and not just some coworker that feels obligated to be polite. She follows up about stuff on my Snapchat, she remembers stuff I said pretty well and even takes my advice on the job. It feels like 90% of my other coworkers are just being nice to be nice or are in work mode and don't care to be casual.

I mean it helps that she's hot af too, but yeah. I feel like it wouldn't work because she's kinda structured, safe, and driven and I'm kinda lazy, risky, and super go with the flow. Also cause she has a BF lol.
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thepope_3290
05/28/19 10:38:07 PM
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Master Kazuya posted...
Also cause she has a BF lol.

Sorry you're delusional bro
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Feline_Heart
05/28/19 10:39:44 PM
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Opposites attract. Just keep on doing what youve been doing and dont overthink things too much. Also try to get her to hang out with you outside of work so that she wont just see you as a work friend
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Jiek_Fafn
05/28/19 10:42:37 PM
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If you play your cards right she may someday be your work wife.
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Master Kazuya
05/28/19 10:44:38 PM
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Feline_Heart posted...
Opposites attract. Just keep on doing what youve been doing and dont overthink things too much. Also try to get her to hang out with you outside of work so that she wont just see you as a work friend


I asked her to a coworker hangout I organized and she was willing, but then I had to move it last minute and she couldn't make the second date. I genuinely wanna hang out with her outside of work to get her out of her witty mode and connect deeper
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glitteringfairy
05/28/19 10:49:00 PM
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She's got a bf
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Master Kazuya
05/28/19 10:51:10 PM
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glitteringfairy posted...
She's got a bf


Yeah that's partially why I'm keeping my distance a little and not pushing or asking her to hang out one on one even though I want to
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Super Saiyan 3 Goku
05/28/19 10:52:02 PM
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Master Kazuya posted...
Feline_Heart posted...
Opposites attract. Just keep on doing what youve been doing and dont overthink things too much. Also try to get her to hang out with you outside of work so that she wont just see you as a work friend


I asked her to a coworker hangout I organized and she was willing, but then I had to move it last minute and she couldn't make the second date. I genuinely wanna hang out with her outside of work to get her out of her witty mode and connect deeper

What the hell are you doing? She has a BF. Back off.
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Mister_Sister
05/28/19 10:53:16 PM
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Master Kazuya
05/28/19 10:55:44 PM
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Super Saiyan 3 Goku posted...
Master Kazuya posted...
Feline_Heart posted...
Opposites attract. Just keep on doing what youve been doing and dont overthink things too much. Also try to get her to hang out with you outside of work so that she wont just see you as a work friend


I asked her to a coworker hangout I organized and she was willing, but then I had to move it last minute and she couldn't make the second date. I genuinely wanna hang out with her outside of work to get her out of her witty mode and connect deeper

What the hell are you doing? She has a BF. Back off.


I haven't asked her out, I just want to. I left it at "I owe you a drink sometime" cause she did a nice favor for me. Also, she's asked me to study once. So chill the hell out.
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The Eko
05/28/19 11:47:26 PM
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How long have you worked together?
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Lost_All_Senses
05/28/19 11:54:00 PM
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Does she treat anyone else similar?

Maybe shes just nice and not fake about it so it comes off genuine.

When I was young and pretty, I was always nice to everyone and a lot of girls took that as I was more into them than I was. Now I have to think stuff through to not end up on the opposite side of that >_>.
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DrizztLink
05/28/19 11:56:02 PM
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Master Kazuya posted...
Also cause she has a BF lol.

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Super Saiyan 3 Goku
05/29/19 12:00:44 AM
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Master Kazuya posted...
Super Saiyan 3 Goku posted...
Master Kazuya posted...
Feline_Heart posted...
Opposites attract. Just keep on doing what youve been doing and dont overthink things too much. Also try to get her to hang out with you outside of work so that she wont just see you as a work friend


I asked her to a coworker hangout I organized and she was willing, but then I had to move it last minute and she couldn't make the second date. I genuinely wanna hang out with her outside of work to get her out of her witty mode and connect deeper

What the hell are you doing? She has a BF. Back off.


I haven't asked her out, I just want to. I left it at "I owe you a drink sometime" cause she did a nice favor for me. Also, she's asked me to study once. So chill the hell out.

I never claimed you asked her out but your intentions here are clear. As friendly as this co-worker may be, they must've told you at some point that they are in a relationship with someone and your intentions with this whole situation is to ask her out at some point. That's not a good move, bro.

Put yourself in the BF's shoes. How would you feel if one of your girl's co-workers was trying to slowly win her favor with the ultimate goal of asking her out?
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GameboyTroy
05/29/19 12:17:47 AM
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Don't do it. Leave her alone. She has a bf.
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Master Kazuya
05/29/19 6:27:09 AM
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Lost_All_Senses posted...
Does she treat anyone else similar?


She's super nice to her students moreso than the other people but in terms of staff, not really

Super Saiyan 3 Goku posted...
How would you feel if one of your girl's co-workers was trying to slowly win her favor with the ultimate goal of asking her out?


I'd find it hot that other dudes lusted over her lol
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Ilishe
05/29/19 6:32:59 AM
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Hm. She likes a little bit of attention like most women but anything you perceive to be there is exclusively in your mind. Trust me.

Maintain a polite distance and don't show any signs of romantic interest.
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MarqueeSeries
05/29/19 6:36:33 AM
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Fuck it man

Who cares if she has a bf? It's not a fiance or husband. If she ends up deciding that she'd rather pursue something with you, then that's great. If not, and she's happy with her bf, that's cool too.

Some of y'all take this shit way too seriously
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YourDrunkFather
05/29/19 6:51:23 AM
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She loves tc like a brother
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vocedelmorte
05/29/19 7:03:24 AM
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Maybe she just needs a friend :/
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CellBlock7
05/29/19 7:24:39 AM
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Finger her in the break room
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Feline_Heart
05/29/19 7:40:05 AM
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MarqueeSeries posted...
Fuck it man

Who cares if she has a bf? It's not a fiance or husband. If she ends up deciding that she'd rather pursue something with you, then that's great. If not, and she's happy with her bf, that's cool too.

Some of y'all take this shit way too seriously

Exactly
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Master Kazuya
05/29/19 7:56:34 AM
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MarqueeSeries posted...
Fuck it man

Who cares if she has a bf? It's not a fiance or husband. If she ends up deciding that she'd rather pursue something with you, then that's great. If not, and she's happy with her bf, that's cool too.

Some of y'all take this shit way too seriously


Yeah idk why people are being weird. People act like I'm trying to sabotage or do something fucked up. It's just a work crush with someone that is attractive and I have some chemistry with. And honestly people forget that girls have agency over their relationship. Sometimes it's the girl that actually chooses where the relationship go, she's not being mind controlled by men.
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LockeMonster
05/29/19 8:14:04 AM
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This sounds more like she sees you as a friend or brother and second off, stop playing the "it's her choice" card.

Chasing someone that's taken is a dick move no matter how much she might be a dick about it too. Luckily, in this case she just wants a friend it seems.
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Master Kazuya
05/29/19 8:26:45 AM
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LockeMonster posted...
Chasing someone


This is so frustrating, having to repeat myself to people that don't read other posts
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LockeMonster
05/29/19 8:35:07 AM
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Master Kazuya posted...
LockeMonster posted...
Chasing someone


This is so frustrating, having to repeat myself to people that don't read other posts

You literally said you haven't asked her out but want to and you're on here asking us if little everyday friendly shit means something more.

Yeah, you're after her and hoping it escalates.
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Master Kazuya
05/29/19 10:05:00 AM
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LockeMonster posted...
hoping it escalates.


I'm not trying to argue if I'm a great morally flawless guy, but I am saying that hoping vs making something happen are different. Just never liked the whole thought police thing people like to do.
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