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SSJCAT 05/18/19 10:59:28 PM #1: |
i dont know why i let it go this long. i am a fool.
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Hanky_Bannister 05/18/19 11:00:00 PM #2: |
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MabusIncarnate 05/18/19 11:01:04 PM #3: |
Regardless, it should be a big relief that it's over, going by that statement. Hopefully the next chapter in your life goes better.
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SSJCAT 05/18/19 11:03:33 PM #4: |
how can people do such terrible things to the ones who love them
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MabusIncarnate 05/18/19 11:08:25 PM #5: |
SSJCAT posted...
how can people do such terrible things to the ones who love them A lot of people suck. I've learned this over the years, there's just as many assholes, if not more, than there are decent humans anymore. --- Ten million dollars on a losing campaign Twenty million starving and writhing in pain ... Copied to Clipboard!
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_Matchabuu_ 05/18/19 11:16:11 PM #6: |
SSJCAT posted...
how can people do such terrible things to the ones who love them Easily. --- \o/ uwu SW-0239-3946-8686 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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EnragedSlith 05/18/19 11:18:11 PM #7: |
SSJCAT posted...
how can people do such terrible things to the ones who love them Love is weird. Feelings are weird. They can leave you spiteful. If you can appreciate where the actions come from, you can learn to respect them. And you can still love in spite of it, just from a distance. --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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SSJCAT 05/18/19 11:18:42 PM #8: |
_Matchabuu_ posted...
SSJCAT posted...how can people do such terrible things to the ones who love them i dont get it --- PSN: SUPER_KITTY_JAM FC: SW-2262-4005-7054 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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_Matchabuu_ 05/18/19 11:21:14 PM #9: |
SSJCAT posted...
_Matchabuu_ posted...SSJCAT posted...how can people do such terrible things to the ones who love them Me either but people are shitty, so thats about all there is to it. --- \o/ uwu SW-0239-3946-8686 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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SSJCAT 05/19/19 5:54:55 AM #10: |
bunp
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boxington 05/19/19 5:56:05 AM #11: |
sorry, man
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Parappa09 05/19/19 6:05:07 AM #12: |
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SSJCAT 05/19/19 6:15:06 AM #13: |
idk what to do
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mattnd2007 05/19/19 6:18:20 AM #14: |
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Parappa09 05/19/19 6:19:18 AM #15: |
SSJCAT posted...
idk what to do the best way to get over someone is to get under someone --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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SSJCAT 05/19/19 6:21:46 AM #16: |
Parappa09 posted...
SSJCAT posted...idk what to do i dont think i really want anyone now... --- PSN: SUPER_KITTY_JAM FC: SW-2262-4005-7054 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Lordgold666 05/19/19 7:25:51 AM #17: |
Want me to kick his ass in public?
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Parappa09 05/19/19 7:26:17 AM #18: |
Lordgold666 posted...
Want me to kick his ass in public? same bro i've been wanting to kick his ass for some time --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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SSJCAT 05/19/19 7:29:27 AM #19: |
Parappa09 posted...
Lordgold666 posted...Want me to kick his ass in public? i dont think it would help --- PSN: SUPER_KITTY_JAM FC: SW-2262-4005-7054 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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SSJCAT 05/19/19 8:12:06 AM #20: |
any advice would be appreciated... tho honestly all i wanna do is just stay in bed and keep crying
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Parappa09 05/19/19 8:21:17 AM #21: |
it's hard because rn is the toughest part, especially coz you loved him so much and he was a dick
but i promise you that you will feel better over time. and most importantly, you've done the right thing you need to keep yourself distracted and hang out with friends. and most of all, don't go back to him --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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SSJCAT 05/19/19 8:34:48 AM #22: |
Parappa09 posted...
it's hard because rn is the toughest part, especially coz you loved him so much and he was a dick thanks. i dont really have any friends tho. all of my friends are his friends... --- PSN: SUPER_KITTY_JAM FC: SW-2262-4005-7054 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Error1355 05/19/19 8:35:53 AM #23: |
SSJCAT posted...
any advice would be appreciated... tho honestly all i wanna do is just stay in bed and keep crying Probably getting out of bed and doing something you enjoy would help. --- Welcome home, shed your skin and expose your bones. Take my hand, follow us into the black so far that we can't get back. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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SSJCAT 05/19/19 8:36:52 AM #24: |
Error1355 posted...
SSJCAT posted...any advice would be appreciated... tho honestly all i wanna do is just stay in bed and keep crying i know... nothing sounds enjoyable right now tho --- PSN: SUPER_KITTY_JAM FC: SW-2262-4005-7054 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Parappa09 05/19/19 8:40:39 AM #25: |
SSJCAT posted...
thanks. i dont really have any friends tho. all of my friends are his friends... make friends online go on reddit and find meetup groups near you based on interest. there's tons of gaymer communities all around the US. or there's a website called meetup which is similar. or join discord groups --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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FrisbeeDude 05/19/19 8:40:40 AM #26: |
SSJCAT posted...
how can people do such terrible things to the ones who love them convenience --- If you're not voting like a black woman, your opinion doesn't matter to me ... Copied to Clipboard!
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SSJCAT 05/19/19 8:54:16 AM #27: |
Parappa09 posted...
SSJCAT posted...thanks. i dont really have any friends tho. all of my friends are his friends... i dunno how good the area i live in would be good for that but ive never tried before. looking into it now but really not finding much :/ --- PSN: SUPER_KITTY_JAM FC: SW-2262-4005-7054 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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SSJCAT 05/19/19 9:15:12 AM #28: |
SSJCAT posted...
Parappa09 posted...SSJCAT posted...thanks. i dont really have any friends tho. all of my friends are his friends... yea im really not finding anything :( --- PSN: SUPER_KITTY_JAM FC: SW-2262-4005-7054 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Cleo_II 05/19/19 9:19:12 AM #29: |
Im happy for you TC, that guy was toxic. You dont see it now but given enough time you will be so glad this happened. And youll find a guy who will actually treat you the way you deserve to be treated.
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Parappa09 05/19/19 9:21:25 AM #30: |
SSJCAT posted...
yea im really not finding anything :( there's a CE lgbt discord server you can join. do you use discord? Cleo_II posted... Im happy for you TC, that guy was toxic. You dont see it now but given enough time you will be so glad this happened. And youll find a guy who will actually treat you the way you deserve to be treated. this is v true and good words --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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SSJCAT 05/19/19 9:23:38 AM #31: |
i guess i can download discord again..
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TheDrivingForce 05/19/19 9:31:56 AM #32: |
SSJCAT posted...
any advice would be appreciated... tho honestly all i wanna do is just stay in bed and keep crying Keep crying. Theres really nothing no one can say on here that will help you. You just have to let it all out. Usually takes about couple months. Just don't starve in the process. --- "It's no worse then expelling a tapeworm. Unless you want to say killing a tapeworm is murder too." - Duncanwii on abortion. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Psyonix 05/19/19 9:33:19 AM #33: |
SSJCAT posted...
how can people do such terrible things to the ones who love them "Love will Tear Us Apart" ... Copied to Clipboard!
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EnragedSlith 05/19/19 9:37:47 AM #34: |
I got an older friend who went through a breakup maybe a year and a half ago. The love was there, he just couldnt be what she needed him to be. She needed him to quit drinking, move up north, and turn into a husband. Thats what she wanted. He just isnt that and couldnt do it. She could probably call him selfish and shitty, but he never pretended he wasnt. Again, love was there and love persisted after the fact, but they just couldnt be together.
Sounds like you needed this guy to be something he wasnt. And you can still love him for all his faults, but sometimes the faults are just too much. Be kind to yourself and think kindly of him. Time and distance is all you need. Im sorry. It never isnt painful. --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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SSJCAT 05/19/19 9:45:00 AM #35: |
EnragedSlith posted...
I got an older friend who went through a breakup maybe a year and a half ago. The love was there, he just couldnt be what she needed him to be. She needed him to quit drinking, move up north, and turn into a husband. Thats what she wanted. He just isnt that and couldnt do it. She could probably call him selfish and shitty, but he never pretended he wasnt. Again, love was there and love persisted after the fact, but they just couldnt be together. i was only in love with who he pretended to be. --- PSN: SUPER_KITTY_JAM FC: SW-2262-4005-7054 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Parappa09 05/19/19 10:05:49 AM #36: |
@EnragedSlith posted...
Im sorry. It never isnt painful. a bit off topic but what happened between you, M and your gf after you told her? --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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--Zero- 05/19/19 5:46:23 PM #37: |
I'm sorry. Do you have time you can use away from work? I know your brain is fighting you on everything right now that involves doing anything but thinking of him, but you really should force yourself you get out. If you've got some days off maybe go take a drive somewhere far and mingle with some people. Maybe go to a theme park, try something new, visit some family.
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EnragedSlith 05/19/19 6:20:08 PM #38: |
@Parappa09 posted...
@EnragedSlith posted...Im sorry. It never isnt painful. She got way more upset than I thought she would because she never really seemed to care that much about me. And then our relationship improved. And now were having problems again. I dont think its like an extreme issue, she just isnt as attentive or caring as I might need and comes off as a little selfish. I try not to put myself in compromising situations, but they occasionally find me. Im not a player. But its tough when youre frustrated and some attractive woman is trying to chat you up. I dont play with it, but it makes me think sometimes. But Ive been with this girl for a year, and I obviously care about her. --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Parappa09 05/19/19 6:23:43 PM #39: |
EnragedSlith posted...
She got way more upset than I thought she would because she never really seemed to care that much about me. at the time i thought it was a brave move telling her. i mean it's definitely the 'right' thing to do but i could see it being a bigger issue than it was --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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vocedelmorte 05/19/19 6:26:36 PM #40: |
You did the right thing. Give it a time, you will be okay
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