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Waluigi1 01/16/19 12:02:24 AM #101: |
Can't you just refuse to work or something? How can you legally be made to go to work for no pay?
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neonreaper 01/16/19 12:07:56 AM #102: |
Hey man thats a tough thing
Youre gonna have some tough days ahead dealing with this Hormones are going to make it especially tough on her But every day is a new day and you will wake up and move forward, even the days you feel like its a struggle not to fall backward Hope all goes well moving forward. --- Donny: Are they gonna hurt us, Walter? Walter: No, Donny. These men are cowards. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Forceful_Dragon 01/16/19 12:19:11 AM #103: |
Waluigi1 posted...
Can't you just refuse to work or something? How can you legally be made to go to work for no pay? TSA agents and the like have been doing it for over 3 weeks now, that's just how it goes when the government isn't funded but certain jobs still need to get done. And we *will* be paid at some point once those in power decide to do their job and vote on things. --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Forceful_Dragon 01/16/19 12:28:37 AM #104: |
neonreaper posted...
Hey man thats a tough thing Thank you for the words and advice. I don't expect it to be quick or easy, but I know we will get through this. --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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SgtSphynx 01/16/19 12:35:24 AM #105: |
Forceful_Dragon posted...
Waluigi1 posted...Can't you just refuse to work or something? How can you legally be made to go to work for no pay? Hope that happens soon. I'm lucky that DoD is part of the gov't that is funded, but I don't know how long that will last if this goes on much longer. --- Congrats to the BYIG Guru Winner, Advokaiser *slurps yakisoba* *nods* *nods* ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Nrrr 01/16/19 1:23:18 AM #106: |
Waluigi1 posted...
Can't you just refuse to work or something? How can you legally be made to go to work for no pay? You can't technically be legally forced to work without pay (unless you have committed a crime, hence prison slavery) but if you wanna keep your job after they start paying again you are essentially forced into doing so. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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LordoftheMorons 01/16/19 3:02:02 AM #107: |
Nrrr posted...
Waluigi1 posted...Can't you just refuse to work or something? How can you legally be made to go to work for no pay? Yeah, though my understanding is that sending this second group of employees back to work is pretty legally questionable --- Congrats to Advokaiser for winning the CBX Guru Challenge! ... Copied to Clipboard!
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scarletspeed7 01/16/19 3:07:37 AM #108: |
I am so sorry, FD. I actually do understand a little bit of what you're going through, and I know that it's not an easy process. I really do wish you all of the best moving forward for both your wife and yourself. You'll be in my thoughts.
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Forceful_Dragon 01/18/19 1:35:28 AM #109: |
Each day gets a bit better.
We told her family yesterday and most of mine today. It has felt a bit like scheduled sadness, but sharing is helpful. She is still experiencing bleeding and cramping though and after looking into it, it might continue for a couple weeks.. --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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ScareChan 01/18/19 1:48:48 AM #110: |
I would say dont let this topic purge right away
your situation wont just go away so something like this may actual help the healing, and when it does end up purging hopefully it comes at a time where you are in a better stage of healing as well little things go a long way in situations like this still sending prayers and energy to you brother, any extra love you need I know myself and others are happy to give it --- Lets Smash- Switch friend code SW-5264-0547-1806 PSN TehScurr ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Se7enthrust 01/18/19 3:11:15 AM #111: |
Just finally read your update FD.
I feel for you and your wife man. My wife had 2 miscarriages and was told by the doctor that she'd likely never have a kid because she was diagnosed with PCOS. But then one day she could and we had 3 kids in a row. I don't know if it was just chance or some sort of miracle but when the time was right it happened. It's very well possible it can happen for you too. Stay positive and keep your chin up dude. --- "Best read of the game goes to se7en. Who correctly surmised this town is full of idiots." - Corrik Se7enthrust ~ Dude_Dexter ... Copied to Clipboard!
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GTM 01/18/19 3:13:04 AM #112: |
hope everything turns out well
EDIT: caught up and im sorry, FD. Still hope everything turns out well soon. --- GTM - Boko United survivor and dillos and nintendo and wrestling ... Copied to Clipboard!
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HaRRicH 01/18/19 1:35:01 PM #113: |
So sorry to hear the news. At least you are loved in this moment of pain and you have more chances. Hang in there buddy.
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Reg 01/18/19 1:38:40 PM #114: |
Somehow didn't see this topic before now, but, uh, =(
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GTM 01/19/19 8:38:48 PM #115: |
bump
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Punnyz 01/19/19 9:18:27 PM #116: |
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Forceful_Dragon 01/19/19 10:30:37 PM #117: |
ScareChan posted...
I would say dont let this topic purge right away Yeah, I've read the topic several times now and it puts me in a better mood when I'm getting too much in my own head about it. . Se7enthrust posted... Just finally read your update FD. That must have been really discouraging after the second one too keep pressing on, but then it's very encouraging to hear that it went so well after that. Though if you don't mind me asking, how old were you both? --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Forceful_Dragon 01/21/19 1:12:06 AM #118: |
We decided to spend a night at the coast after church today just to get out of town. I think it's been really helpful and another day tomorrow exploring tiny beach towns sounds nice.
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Llarian 01/21/19 12:41:04 PM #119: |
Forceful_Dragon posted...
We decided to spend a night at the coast after church today just to get out of town. I think it's been really helpful and another day tomorrow exploring tiny beach towns sounds nice. Glad you decided to get some different scenery. How was tiny beach town exploration? --- well, what's wrong with a little destruction? ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Meow1000 01/21/19 12:41:43 PM #120: |
Wait what happened is everything ok
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Forceful_Dragon 01/22/19 2:25:46 AM #121: |
Meow1000 posted...
Wait what happened is everything ok Post 65 explains it best. . Llarian posted... Forceful_Dragon posted...We decided to spend a night at the coast after church today just to get out of town. I think it's been really helpful and another day tomorrow exploring tiny beach towns sounds nice. It was really nice! Spent some time in in about half a dozen different little towns in the Santa Cruz area (while avoiding the overtly popular places because we're hipster like that). We explored bluffs, beaches, piers and caves and then looked at some of the little shops. There was a cave in particular that had me very nervous to go inside. We were probably 60 or so feet into it, and then turned back after I nearly dropped my phone. We might have another adventure some day just to go back to that cave. We were getting to the point where you couldn't even see the light from the cave entrance so we were using our phones. If we go back we'll bring flashlights and waterproof phone backs and such to see if we can reach the back of it. I'm really nervous about things like going in caves or standing on the edge of a bluff (etc), but she likes adventure so I have to push myself sometimes. --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Forceful_Dragon 01/23/19 10:45:32 PM #122: |
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Se7enthrust 01/25/19 8:52:39 AM #123: |
Forceful_Dragon posted...
ScareChan posted...I would say dont let this topic purge right away She was 20-22 and yeah the depression she experienced was pretty severe. She finally had our first son when we were both 23. It took a little bit of time but the circumstances were just right for her I guess. I used to cook for her a lot and we ate tons of protein but I'm not sure if that had anything to do with it. I'll never forget when we found out that she was pregnant with our 1st kid. She was having a bunch of issues with pain and cramping so we went to the doctor and she came in the room after blood tests and whatnot and said that she was almost 3 months along. We were both in disbelief because she had been previously told that it was unlikely that she'd ever have a baby due the the pcos. It's not something everyone can afford but I made her quit her job and take it easy for the rest of the pregnancy and she eventually carried full term. Can't say for sure what made the circumstance any different but it was almost like having the first kid to full term cured her as she easily got pregnant 2 and 4 years later with my other 2 kids. One thing I will say though is never give up. If it's a child you want, you gotta keep focused. Obviously it'll be your job to help her relieve her stress. The less stress she has the more friendly her body will be to an embryo despite all other potential complications. There are some vitamins that she can take to promote uterus health. Iron. ... Folic Acid. ... Vitamin B12. ... Omega-3 Fatty Acids. ... Vitamin D. ... Calcium & Magneisum All of these are essential in reproductive health. Do your research though if that is something you might be interested in. Sometimes a specific diet could make all of the difference. --- "Best read of the game goes to se7en. Who correctly surmised this town is full of idiots." - Corrik Se7enthrust ~ Dude_Dexter ... Copied to Clipboard!
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GTM 01/26/19 8:19:24 PM #124: |
bump
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Forceful_Dragon 01/27/19 5:13:03 AM #125: |
Se7enthrust posted...
One thing I will say though is never give up. If it's a child you want, you gotta keep focused. Obviously it'll be your job to help her relieve her stress. The less stress she has the more friendly her body will be to an embryo despite all other potential complications. There are some vitamins that she can take to promote uterus health. Yeah she's on a prenatal vitamin. I'll have to double check what's in it, but we adjusted our diet over 6 months ago to follow some various recommendations for helping conception. It's not something we know to much about though. --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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SeabassDebeste 01/28/19 12:57:52 PM #126: |
fuck, hadn't checked back. sorry for the loss, and good luck for the future.
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GTM 01/29/19 10:27:40 PM #127: |
should i still bump this
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Forceful_Dragon 01/29/19 10:31:46 PM #128: |
Yes please. Though if you don't I'll still attempt to. I'm any case when I get home tonight I sound save a copy of the topic in case it purges. It's a very helpful read anytime I get down.
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Se7enthrust 02/01/19 12:35:53 AM #129: |
Bump
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Forceful_Dragon 02/01/19 12:49:44 AM #130: |
Every tome think to myself that it's about time to bump the topic I come and see someone recently took care of it. I am feeling the love
And in good news things have settled down physically with regard to the after effects my wife had been experiencing. We should be good to start trying again in a matter of days. --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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ScareChan 02/01/19 1:31:23 AM #131: |
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Se7enthrust 02/01/19 1:44:17 AM #132: |
Forceful_Dragon posted...
Every tome think to myself that it's about time to bump the topic I come and see someone recently took care of it. I am feeling the love That's nice to hear dude. Not to get weird on you but I read somewhere once that the best way to conceive is with simultaneous O's. Making sure this happens isn't so much for you but I guess the cervix is in a better position to receive because of the natural muscle contractions and whatnot. I would recommend you spend some time on the foreplay not so much as a perversion of course but to really get her engaged and make her feel like she matters more than the deed. I've heard before that sometimes a woman's psychological state can impact the physiological process behind nurturing an embryo. Either way, Good Luck dude. Hoping for the best for you and your family. --- "Best read of the game goes to se7en. Who correctly surmised this town is full of idiots." - Corrik Se7enthrust ~ Dude_Dexter ... Copied to Clipboard!
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BlAcK TuRtLe 02/01/19 5:50:12 PM #133: |
Sad to hear that. My wife is 5 months along and we've had a couple scary moments early on so I can somewhat relate to the anxiety you feel waiting for those results. Don't let this dissuade you
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ScareChan 02/02/19 4:05:38 PM #134: |
Bump
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GTM 02/03/19 4:50:28 PM #135: |
bump
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GTM 02/04/19 11:06:30 PM #136: |
bump
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Forceful_Dragon 02/05/19 1:54:24 AM #137: |
Se7enthrust posted...
Not to get weird on you Nah that want to weird. Looking through things about concerning I've come across many similar suggestions so that just comes with the territory. . BlAcK TuRtLe posted... Sad to hear that. My wife is 5 months along and we've had a couple scary moments early on so I can somewhat relate to the anxiety you feel waiting for those results. Don't let this dissuade you Yeah, we're hopefully about the next one and we hope it won't take almost a year to get it going. Good luck and good health for the rest of your pregnancy . ScareChan posted... Bump Yup, now it's weird . And thanks for the bumps, GTM. I switched this week from a night shift (300-1130pm) to the morning shift (600am-230pm) which means my schedule will line up better with my wife's, but it's been a tough adjustment to make over a couple days. --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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GTM 02/06/19 8:08:09 PM #138: |
bump
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Forceful_Dragon 02/08/19 12:35:03 PM #139: |
It's been a "busy" week.
If you know what I mean <_< . But seriously the bouts of sadness are already coming much less frequently. I've been very encouraged by how things are going right now. --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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5tarscream 02/08/19 12:44:44 PM #140: |
Im glad things are looking up and just make sure you stay attentive and communicate. Dont rush things too much. I really wish for the very best for the both of you in the near future.
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GTM 02/09/19 12:45:29 PM #141: |
early antipurge
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GTM 02/10/19 10:52:28 PM #142: |
Bump2
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Forceful_Dragon 02/13/19 1:13:21 AM #143: |
We have a follow up with the doctor on Thursday to make sure everything healed all right. I think a good visit to the doctor will suffice as some kind of closure. So pending the results of that I'll probably be ready to let this topic purge soon.
Thank you again to everyone who gave a kind word or advice or shared your own experiences. It has all been invaluable to me and really helped me through this. --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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ScareChan 02/16/19 7:11:54 PM #144: |
bump for impending good news
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GTM 02/19/19 8:01:08 PM #145: |
soon
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Forceful_Dragon 02/24/19 3:44:58 PM #146: |
The good news is that everything has normalized to pre pregnancy levels and there doesn't seem to be any lasting damage of any sort.
The bad news is that we aren't pregnant again yet. We're going to keep testing every couple weeks though and give it a few months before we start looking into whether or not we have any kind of fertility issues. It took 9 months of trying for the first one and we don't want to wait that long again. --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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GTM 03/01/19 9:20:38 PM #147: |
bump
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GTM 03/10/19 4:06:48 PM #148: |
bumpo
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GTM 03/17/19 11:55:09 PM #149: |
bumpo2
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Forceful_Dragon 03/18/19 1:23:52 AM #150: |
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