Poll of the Day > Sexual orientation experimentation...

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Basically, for the straight folks, have you had ever had any sexual contact(sex of any kind, kissing, etc.) with members of the same sex? And for the gay guys and lesbians ladies, the same with members of the same sex? And would you like to share it with us?

For our bisexual buddies, have you have sexual contact with both sexes? Would you like to share anything with us? And do you prefer males or females more?

Maybe follow up questions depending on the responses...

In case anyone wants to share...
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my balls touched another guys during a threesome

Bi people usually know they're bi because they experimented.

Most (but not all) straight people know they're straight, or are at least comfortable with the fact because they haven't experimented.

Gay people are basically a coin toss.
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LaggnFragnLarry posted...

my balls touched another guys during a threesome

How was it?

DrCidd posted...

Bi people usually know they're bi because they experimented.

Most (but not all) straight people know they're straight, or are at least comfortable with the fact because they haven't experimented.

Gay people are basically a coin toss.

I know a good number of straight people who have experimented a little. And some gay people. Haha.
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No options for 'undecided/none of the above'?

DPsx7 posted...

No options for 'undecided/none of the above'?

I actually was thinking of a question. Specifically because you have said you were asexual. But I was having trouble thinking of one. But Ill get back to you if I can think of one...
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I once watched half an episode of RuPaul's Drag Race, consider myself bi now
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One time my gay friend grabbed my dick. He took a shot, I don't hold it against him, but it wasn't ever going to happen and I'm not sure what gave him the impression that it would.

ASlaveObeys posted...

One time my gay friend grabbed my dick. He took a shot, I don't hold it against him, but it wasn't ever going to happen and I'm not sure what gave him the impression that it would.

I once grabbed my straight friends dick. But he let me. It was in the supermarket. The frozen food section. He then gf, no wife, told us to stop playing around and to not do that there.

Also, inside the underwear. We were very close, though... Very...
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I never dicked a bro
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LinkPizza posted...

How was it?

at first it was distracting but then you just go with it

Lokarin posted...

I never dicked a bro

Has a bro ever dicked you, though?
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LinkPizza posted...

Lokarin posted...

I never dicked a bro

Has a bro ever dicked you, though?

I licked a tongue once, but it was my bro and it was intentionally to creep him out 'cuz he was being a dingus trying to lick everything.
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LaggnFragnLarry posted...

LinkPizza posted...

How was it?

at first it was distracting but then you just go with it

Yeah. Things happen in the threesome. You usually do just have to go with it...
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Lokarin posted...

LinkPizza posted...

Lokarin posted...

I never dicked a bro

Has a bro ever dicked you, though?

I licked a tongue once, but it was my bro and it was intentionally to creep him out 'cuz he was being a dingus trying to lick everything.

Did it work?
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LinkPizza posted...

Lokarin posted...

LinkPizza posted...

Lokarin posted...

I never dicked a bro

Has a bro ever dicked you, though?

I licked a tongue once, but it was my bro and it was intentionally to creep him out 'cuz he was being a dingus trying to lick everything.

Did it work?

Ya, he immediately stopping licking random objects
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LinkPizza posted...

ASlaveObeys posted...

One time my gay friend grabbed my dick. He took a shot, I don't hold it against him, but it wasn't ever going to happen and I'm not sure what gave him the impression that it would.

I once grabbed my straight friends dick. But he let me. It was in the supermarket. The frozen food section. He then gf, no wife, told us to stop playing around and to not do that there.

Also, inside the underwear. We were very close, though... Very...

Nah, this was more of a he pretended he mistakenly did it, but like gripped the shaft. Then later he told me he thought it was his chance.

ASlaveObeys posted...

LinkPizza posted...

ASlaveObeys posted...

One time my gay friend grabbed my dick. He took a shot, I don't hold it against him, but it wasn't ever going to happen and I'm not sure what gave him the impression that it would.

I once grabbed my straight friends dick. But he let me. It was in the supermarket. The frozen food section. He then gf, no wife, told us to stop playing around and to not do that there.

Also, inside the underwear. We were very close, though... Very...

Nah, this was more of a he pretended he mistakenly did it, but like gripped the shaft. Then later he told me he thought it was his chance.

Was it outside the pants?
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Clossest I got was when a girl kissed me when I was ten, I slapped her, called her gross and didn't talk to her for a day.

A few years later I was a little curious about trying things but she wasn't interested, soooo :P. I don't have any interest in experimenting now.
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I used to fuck a dude back in my freshman and sophomore years of high school. It wasn't about attraction though. I was terribly shy and had major self esteem issues. Far too much of a little bitch to approach ladies. We never kissed, cuddled, held hands or any other of that sort of stuff. Just a quick "you can do me if I can do you" sort of arrangement.


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LinkPizza posted...

And for the gay guys and lesbians ladies, the same with members of the same sex?

I mean, I wouldn't be gay if I wasn't having sexual contact with members of the same sex, lol. I hope I get what you were trying to say though and my real answer is kinda sorta, but it was when I was a kid with another kid and we didn't really know what we were doing and the whole thing was more one sided since I had no interest while she was trying her best. Mostly it was just confused groping and awkward "kissing." Basically it was about as sexual as watching a baby trying to walk for the first time and failing horribly.

On a side note, during high school I had plenty of fun with a few straight guys. I even had quite the oral experience with a dude during school, in the school's football stadium's locker room while athlethic P.E. was going on. Man, that was a fun one and I had such a crush on him, but thankfully it never ended up being more than just me giving him the rare oral fun as he turned out not to be the person I thought I saw and he really did not age well.

There was another dude that came along a bit later in that school year who was a lot more willing to play around, but despite not being gifted in a certain area, I really enjoyed being around him. He was really playful and was probably the only time of my life I actually wanted to engage in intimate acts with someone. Again, nothing ever ended up really happening and I've no idea what has happened to him since I only ever saw him once since graduation and I think he had a girlfriend then. Anywho, sorry for rambling.
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Bugmeat posted...

I used to fuck a dude back in my freshman and sophomore years of high school. It wasn't about attraction though. I was terribly shy and had major self esteem issues. Far too much of a little bitch to approach ladies. We never kissed, cuddled, held hands or any other of that sort of stuff. Just a quick "you can do me if I can do you" sort of arrangement.

I was really looking for stories like this. And this is a very interesting one. Not unheard of, though... Well, even though it had nothing to do with attraction and more with having sex, how was it? And do you ever know what happened to the other guy?

Zanimar posted...

LinkPizza posted...

And for the gay guys and lesbians ladies, the same with members of the same sex?

I mean, I wouldn't be gay if I wasn't having sexual contact with members of the same sex, lol. I hope I get what you were trying to say though and my real answer is kinda sorta, but it was when I was a kid with another kid and we didn't really know what we were doing and the whole thing was more one sided since I had no interest while she was trying her best. Mostly it was just confused groping and awkward "kissing." Basically it was about as sexual as watching a baby trying to walk for the first time and failing horribly.

On a side note, during high school I had plenty of fun with a few straight guys. I even had quite the oral experience with a dude during school, in the school's football stadium's locker room while athlethic P.E. was going on. Man, that was a fun one and I had such a crush on him, but thankfully it never ended up being more than just me giving him the rare oral fun as he turned out not to be the person I thought I saw and he really did not age well.

There was another dude that came along a bit later in that school year who was a lot more willing to play around, but despite not being gifted in a certain area, I really enjoyed being around him. He was really playful and was probably the only time of my life I actually wanted to engage in intimate acts with someone. Again, nothing ever ended up really happening and I've no idea what has happened to him since I only ever saw him once since graduation and I think he had a girlfriend then. Anywho, sorry for rambling.

Well, something sort of like Bugmeats story. Also, for example, I know people who are gay, but didn't really known for sure at first. Or just experimenting to see what it was like... stuff like that, I guess. And the stories you gave were good, too.
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LinkPizza posted...

Basically, for the straight folks, have you had ever had any sexual contact(sex of any kind, kissing, etc.) with members of the same sex?

Nope.
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LinkPizza posted...

Well, something sort of like Bugmeats story. Also, for example, I know people who are gay, but didn't really known for sure at first. Or just experimenting to see what it was like... stuff like that, I guess. And the stories you gave were good, too.

Nah, the guys I played with in high school ended up being very straight. The one I had a crush on went to later on end up "accidentally" getting a girl pregnant and is current with that girl for the sake of the child, despite her (and him as well so they both are innocent) cheating on him constantly. It's a shame since during school he was such a different person and I saw a side of him that he normally would never show, but he never opened up so his life has ended up in a not so ideal place. I do feel bad for him, but at the same time I've long since moved on. There was one person, who I guess you could say was the first person I felt real love for, but that was a very awkward situation and he and his family moved away.

I do have one creepy story about a guy. It didn't go anywhere, it's just something that has stuck with me and I found to be disturbing. I can share if anyone wants to hear it, but it wouldn't be as interesting since nothing happened from it, though it does involve the brother of the dude I had a crush on and was hooking up with on rare moments.
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I mean, I'd never make a move on a dude but if a dude made a move on me and he seemed nice I'd give it a shot, why not.
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Zareth posted...

I mean, I'd never make a move on a dude but if a dude made a move on me and he seemed nice I'd give it a shot, why not.

How's your day going? Can I make you a nice home cooked meal? ;)
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Zanimar posted...

LinkPizza posted...

Well, something sort of like Bugmeats story. Also, for example, I know people who are gay, but didn't really known for sure at first. Or just experimenting to see what it was like... stuff like that, I guess. And the stories you gave were good, too.

Nah, the guys I played with in high school ended up being very straight. The one I had a crush on went to later on end up "accidentally" getting a girl pregnant and is current with that girl for the sake of the child, despite her (and him as well so they both are innocent) cheating on him constantly. It's a shame since during school he was such a different person and I saw a side of him that he normally would never show, but he never opened up so his life has ended up in a not so ideal place. I do feel bad for him, but at the same time I've long since moved on. There was one person, who I guess you could say was the first person I felt real love for, but that was a very awkward situation and he and his family moved away.

I do have one creepy story about a guy. It didn't go anywhere, it's just something that has stuck with me and I found to be disturbing. I can share if anyone wants to hear it, but it wouldn't be as interesting since nothing happened from it, though it does involve the brother of the dude I had a crush on and was hooking up with on rare moments.

I would personally like to hear both the awkward and creepy story, if you dont mind. If you dont want to put it here, you can also PM me. But its also ok if its to personal...

Also, Ive never messed around with a straight guy. Though, it might be because I was never never a fan of no reciprocation. Haha.

Zareth posted...

I mean, I'd never make a move on a dude but if a dude made a move on me and he seemed nice I'd give it a shot, why not.

Really? Thats cool.
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LinkPizza posted...

ASlaveObeys posted...

LinkPizza posted...

ASlaveObeys posted...

One time my gay friend grabbed my dick. He took a shot, I don't hold it against him, but it wasn't ever going to happen and I'm not sure what gave him the impression that it would.

I once grabbed my straight friends dick. But he let me. It was in the supermarket. The frozen food section. He then gf, no wife, told us to stop playing around and to not do that there.

Also, inside the underwear. We were very close, though... Very...

Nah, this was more of a he pretended he mistakenly did it, but like gripped the shaft. Then later he told me he thought it was his chance.

Was it outside the pants?

Yeah, I would have taken offense if he shoved his hand down my pants. I'm not easily offended but that's a little too far.

Nope.
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LinkPizza posted...

For our bisexual buddies, have you have sexual contact with both sexes?

Yes, both separately. I have not done them together IRL.

LinkPizza posted...

Would you like to share anything with us? And do you prefer males or females more?

I am a firm believer that love, true love, comes not from what anyone has between their legs but rather what they have going on inside their heads and their hearts.
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LinkPizza posted...

DPsx7 posted...

No options for 'undecided/none of the above'?

I actually was thinking of a question. Specifically because you have said you were asexual. But I was having trouble thinking of one. But Ill get back to you if I can think of one...

Enh it's ok. I don't know what I qualify for which is why I said that. I'm not demanding inclusion, ha.

no
theres no such thing as gay sex jus cross contamination lol
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LinkPizza posted...

Also, Ive never messed around with a straight guy. Though, it might be because I was never never a fan of no reciprocation. Haha.

There isn't much option where I live. Heck for a long while I figured I was the only gay guy living here lol. Honestly if I had other gays as options, I would never have fooled with any straight guys. I mean, I don't regret fooling around with them since they were each good friends of mine, but it would have made things at lot less painful emotionally if there could have been some kind of emotional reciprocation. Also, I'm too much of a giver, I'd don't mind if others want to do stuff to me, but at the same time, I don't really get any satisfaction from it aside from one activity but that is what makes me an insatiable bottom lol. My satisfaction comes from knowing I've done a good job at what I do via the sounds the other person makes lol.

LinkPizza posted...

I would personally like to hear both the awkward and creepy story, if you dont mind. If you dont want to put it here, you can also PM me. But its also ok if its to personal...

Oh no, nothing is too personal. I mean, back when I was more freaked about being out, only one person I was friends with knew everything about my personal life (which is a bit awkward since my best friend was cousins with the dude I had a crush on lol) but now I only hide things for the sake of others. I'm an open book to anyone that wants to know anything about my personal life since I don't have an issues with intimacy as a whole.

Anyway, it's a pretty boring story overall though. Basically I was visiting my friend since he was home for the weekend and was waiting on his cousin to come pick him up to go back to college. Now, before I continue, I should mention that we already had the whole me coming out thing with the brother saying that he was cool with me as long as I don't flirt with him. I was never interested in him and I straight up told him in a joking (though he didn't know the truth) that I'd rather have his brother over him. Anywho, the cousin goes to help my friend gather his stuff and the brother calls me over saying he wants to ask me something and when I asked him what he wanted, he told me never mind and that was that. Later I found out the brother had been asking my friend if I liked taking it in the butt and if I liked it rough. My friend played dumb and told the brother he didn't know and should ask me instead. I never heard from the brother, but on super rare moments I see him, he's way nicer to me than he's ever been to me before that day.

I should mention that the dude I had a crush on and the brother had their dad end up coming out as gay and running off with another dude and abandoning them. They also had a gay uncle who ended up being arrested for being a pedophile and soliciting young men over the webcam to do sexual activities. I've met the uncle a couple times when I would go to visit my friend/crush, though this was long after I was past 18, but I did always have a bad feeling about him since the things he openly admitted to me lying to guys on chat and pretending to be a woman (though he left out the part about the being underage). Anywho, I just recently found out that on a swimming trip, the brother had sneaked up behind my friend (as a reminder, they are cousins to each other) and started to try to jerk him off. Oh I should mention that back when he asked about me and with his cousin, the brother is married and has a kid, though he cheats on her basically 24/7.
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This maybe a weird question, but did the cousin let his cousin jerk him off? Or did he try to stop him?
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LinkPizza posted...

Basically, for the straight folks, have you had ever had any sexual contact(sex of any kind, kissing, etc.) with members of the same sex? And for the gay guys and lesbians ladies, the same with members of the same sex? And would you like to share it with us?

For our bisexual buddies, have you have sexual contact with both sexes? Would you like to share anything with us? And do you prefer males or females more?

Maybe follow up questions depending on the responses...

In case anyone wants to share...

Done both. Prefer guys despite finding girls more sexually attractive. Probably because I've had better luck and experiences with them. Not wanting kids help a lot too
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I consider myself straight though I have had sexual contact with my best male friend before. nothing major just small experimentation. I still consider myself straight but i enjoyed it but he did not. Though I guess knowing that straight would not be accurate, though i am not really attracted to dudes in general. I guess BI would be the right term but even so i dont feel like using it because its one dude ever.

LinkPizza posted...

This maybe a weird question, but did the cousin let his cousin jerk him off? Or did he try to stop him?

Oh no, he put a stop to it real quick. He was not happy about what the dude tried to do and wanted beat the ever living daylight out of him for it, but it was a public place and he's gotten better about his temper so he just got away from the situation and has avoided him since. Though we joke around a lot, my friend could never really bring himself to mess with another guy. Even when he use to stay over my house all the time and had a number of opportunities, he never made a move. Currently he has a girlfriend.
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argonautweakend posted...

I consider myself straight though I have had sexual contact with my best male friend before. nothing major just small experimentation. I still consider myself straight but i enjoyed it but he did not. Though I guess knowing that straight would not be accurate, though i am not really attracted to dudes in general. I guess BI would be the right term but even so i dont feel like using it because its one dude ever.

No. It doesnt mean you bi. You just had a little fun. And tried something new.

Zanimar posted...

LinkPizza posted...

This maybe a weird question, but did the cousin let his cousin jerk him off? Or did he try to stop him?

Oh no, he put a stop to it real quick. He was not happy about what the dude tried to do and wanted beat the ever living daylight out of him for it, but it was a public place and he's gotten better about his temper so he just got away from the situation and has avoided him since. Though we joke around a lot, my friend could never really bring himself to mess with another guy. Even when he use to stay over my house all the time and had a number of opportunities, he never made a move. Currently he has a girlfriend.

So, hes just all over the place? The brother, I mean.
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LinkPizza posted...

So, hes just all over the place? The brother, I mean.

I suppose. Aside from the forced interactions I've had with him because of friends and the rare times I'd see him in a store, I know next to nothing about him aside from what his brother and cousin (mostly cousin) have said. He has been in jail a number of times for various reasons and is a major drug user (though I don't know what he does besides alcohol and weed). Currently he works on a pipeline if I remember right. I know his biological daughter doesn't like him either and I can tell something is going on since she seems to want to be no where near her home and goes over to my friend's (her cousin I guess) house and stays there until night when she has to go home. I didn't want to pry much since it's not my business and if it was something that was ok to share, they would have told me already.

I just know that I don't want to be alone with him, both because my addiction to men would cause me to actually agree to him and that I know he may have the potential to be violent and I quite like living. Though I'm strictly gay men now, but there is a curiosity that lingers since his brother (the crush) mentioned him being way bigger downstairs than him.
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