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MFBKBass5
12/06/18 8:35:53 PM
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Sigh.

This girl is super attractive, nerdy, smart, well spoken, opinionated, and genuinely interesting to hold conversations with.

She revealed after like 5 days of talking that she doesnt think humans are naturally monogamous.

Shes not dating anyone, and Im not sure shes ever actually been in an open relationship. This seems to be something shes been exploring more lately.

We had a a real conversation about it where I voiced my opinions that I disagree with her. Super civil and is actually crazy refreshing to have a discussion on two totally different sides of the spectrum.

Damn it.
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MFBKBass5
12/06/18 11:52:37 PM
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JustMyOpinion posted...
Good to see you've matured a little from the fiasco of your last relationship.


lol what fiasco are you referring to?
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marthsheretoo
12/07/18 12:06:49 AM
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Sounds perfect, what's her number?
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Muffinz0rz
12/07/18 12:11:28 AM
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Poly is lit fam, why is this a dealbreaker?

Just make sure both of yall are above board about other people's STD status.
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MFBKBass5
12/08/18 6:27:36 AM
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Muffinz0rz posted...
Poly is lit fam, why is this a dealbreaker?

Just make sure both of yall are above board about other people's STD status.


Poly is only lit if you enjoy being another mans cuck.

Beta as hell if you like that shit
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marthsheretoo
12/09/18 12:32:26 AM
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Poly only cucks you if you're naturally a cuck.
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Sabram
12/09/18 12:36:18 AM
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I'm polyamorous myself, my wife enjoys when other girls come over as much as I do
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Ki_cat_
12/09/18 12:39:26 AM
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Sabram posted...
I'm polyamorous myself, my wife enjoys when other girls come over as much as I do


Most "polyamorous" is just code for "I want to fuck you, you and you but I don't actually want to date any of you."
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SauI_Goodman
12/09/18 12:40:07 AM
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She can be your sidepiece for when your main squeeze isn't giving it up. And she's willing! What's the issue here mang
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averagejoel
12/09/18 12:40:59 AM
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Ki_cat_ posted...
Sabram posted...
I'm polyamorous myself, my wife enjoys when other girls come over as much as I do


Most "polyamorous" is just code for "I want to fuck you, you and you but I don't actually want to date any of you."

this might be a tenuous conclusion drawn disingenuously from anecdotal evidence!
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HenryAllbright
12/09/18 12:41:25 AM
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What's wrong with Polynesians you racist?
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Kickflip
12/09/18 12:41:42 AM
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Princess Polly is a decent brand
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Sabram
12/09/18 12:42:54 AM
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Ki_cat_ posted...
Sabram posted...
I'm polyamorous myself, my wife enjoys when other girls come over as much as I do


Most "polyamorous" is just code for "I want to fuck you, you and you but I don't actually want to date any of you."

Nah I go on dates with the other girls, dinners, movies, etc. Once a month we all get together and go bowling or something. The two other girls, my wife, and myself. Some nights it's card games if no one wants to go bowling
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_Lyonidias
12/09/18 12:44:25 AM
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Ki_cat_ posted...
Sabram posted...
I'm polyamorous myself, my wife enjoys when other girls come over as much as I do


Most "polyamorous" is just code for "I want to fuck you, you and you but I don't actually want to date any of you."


So much this

My ex husband kinda forced me into a poly relationship and yeah, thats him in a nutshell.
So edgy and progressive.
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Ki_cat_
12/09/18 1:04:46 AM
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Sab's casual dating sounds alright but I did say that its "most" and not "all".

People aren't generally mature enough to handle it or simply don't like the ideas behind it.
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_Lyonidias
12/09/18 1:09:09 AM
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Equating maturity to agreeing to polyamorous relationships is basically gaslighting.
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Ki_cat_
12/09/18 1:33:54 AM
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Maybe "maturity" is the wrong word but a lot of "open" relationships end poorly because people simply don't like it or they think they might but whatever the reason may be, they find out it's not for them.
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vocedelmorte
12/09/18 1:38:40 AM
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MFBKBass5 posted...
Muffinz0rz posted...
Poly is lit fam, why is this a dealbreaker?

Just make sure both of yall are above board about other people's STD status.


Poly is only lit if you enjoy being another mans cuck.

Beta as hell if you like that shit

Been possessive and insecure is more beta
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MFBKBass5
12/09/18 11:00:11 AM
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_Lyonidias posted...
Ki_cat_ posted...
Sabram posted...
I'm polyamorous myself, my wife enjoys when other girls come over as much as I do


Most "polyamorous" is just code for "I want to fuck you, you and you but I don't actually want to date any of you."


So much this

My ex husband kinda forced me into a poly relationship and yeah, thats him in a nutshell.
So edgy and progressive.


Yeah poly is a terrible trend honestly.
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catboy0_0
12/09/18 11:02:42 AM
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_Lyonidias posted...
Equating maturity to agreeing to polyamorous relationships is basically gaslighting.

that's not what gaslighting means, but it's a stupid thing to do nonetheless
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SpiralDrift
12/09/18 11:09:01 AM
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Ghost her.
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Omnislasher
12/09/18 11:10:34 AM
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sad, insecure and sheltered CE at it again
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treewojima
12/09/18 11:11:40 AM
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TC should try being more sexually liberated
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Awesome
12/09/18 11:24:11 AM
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there are plenty of women out there who still arent brainwashed and actual want a real stable normal family, don't worry about it.
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ThyCorndog
12/09/18 11:28:23 AM
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if people wanna be poly then they can be poly. but lmao at the people acting like it's the normal, better or more mature way of handling relationships. it's none of those things
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RoboLaserGandhi
12/09/18 11:28:31 AM
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MFBKBass5 posted...
she doesnt think humans are naturally monogamous.

This is a pretty ignorant take I keep hearing from those people.

They are not naturally monogamous. Not humans as a whole.
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Fam_Fam
12/09/18 11:34:06 AM
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RoboLaserGandhi posted...
MFBKBass5 posted...
she doesnt think humans are naturally monogamous.

This is a pretty ignorant take I keep hearing from those people.

They are not naturally monogamous. Not humans as a whole.


humans aren't.

like many animals.

marriage and monogamy are social constructs. not natural ones
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ThyCorndog
12/09/18 11:34:48 AM
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Fam_Fam posted...
RoboLaserGandhi posted...
MFBKBass5 posted...
she doesnt think humans are naturally monogamous.

This is a pretty ignorant take I keep hearing from those people.

They are not naturally monogamous. Not humans as a whole.


humans aren't.

like many animals.

marriage and monogamy are social constructs. not natural ones

if we're going by nature then it's also natural to kill a dude for fucking a girl you're fucking. animals do that all the time
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RoboLaserGandhi
12/09/18 11:40:28 AM
#30:


Fam_Fam posted...
RoboLaserGandhi posted...
MFBKBass5 posted...
she doesnt think humans are naturally monogamous.

This is a pretty ignorant take I keep hearing from those people.

They are not naturally monogamous. Not humans as a whole.


humans aren't.

like many animals.

marriage and monogamy are social constructs. not natural ones

Marriage is a social construct that reflects a natural one.
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RoboLaserGandhi
12/09/18 11:43:05 AM
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vocedelmorte posted...
MFBKBass5 posted...
Muffinz0rz posted...
Poly is lit fam, why is this a dealbreaker?

Just make sure both of yall are above board about other people's STD status.


Poly is only lit if you enjoy being another mans cuck.

Beta as hell if you like that shit

Been possessive and insecure is more beta

Nope, those are just negative alpha traits.
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SpiralDrift
12/09/18 11:45:24 AM
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I don't get why poly people can't accept that not everyone shares their preferences. Just because something is true and good for you personally doesn't mean the same has to be true of everyone else. And if others aren't the same it doesn't give you the right to tell them they're living a lie. That's something bigots would do.
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ColZach
12/09/18 11:46:19 AM
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marthsheretoo posted...
Poly only cucks you if you're naturally a cuck.


Yea you gotta have the cuck mentality to get cucked
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treewojima
12/09/18 11:46:41 AM
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I won't be satisfied until everyone is fucking everyone in one giant global orgy
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ThyCorndog
12/09/18 11:49:39 AM
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well that's fine then
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ScazarMeltex
12/09/18 11:50:40 AM
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Im not into poly nor is my wife, but I do agree that humans aren't naturally monogomous, that's why relationships are work and you are still tempted when you find another attractive person out there.
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SpiralDrift
12/09/18 11:53:25 AM
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By the same token, age of consent laws aren't natural.
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Infinite 2003
12/09/18 12:00:24 PM
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I guess saying "I'm polyamorous" sounds nicer than "I'm incapable of commitment"
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KainWind
12/09/18 1:48:29 PM
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There's different kinds of poly. They don't all just want to have sex with everyone.
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Sabram
12/09/18 3:27:37 PM
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Infinite 2003 posted...
I guess saying "I'm polyamorous" sounds nicer than "I'm incapable of commitment"

:P I've been married to my wife for over 14 years, I'd say I'm perfectly capable of commitment. I'm also perfectly capable of loving more than one person at a time. My wife is as well, but she only loves other girls, not dudes.

My wife and I have had several other girlfriends together through the years, they come and go over time. If any of them ever get stupid and try to take me away from my wife, or my wife away from me, we kick them to the curb.

I've had girlfriends while married that weren't interested in my wife, and my wife has had some not interested in me. However, the girls ALWAYS are told that we're married, and my wife and I always tell each other when there's a different girl involved, whether it turns into a threeway or not. There's nothing hidden, and no secrets.

You have to know how it can work and balance it. The reason so many "poly" relationships fail, is because it's not fair to one party or another.
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DarkTransient
12/09/18 3:31:38 PM
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Being "poly" is just a term used to tie being a cheating whore / bastard (as applicable) to the whole LGBT thing (which it actually has nothing to do with), just so they can claim you're the bad person if you don't accept it instead of accepting that they themself are.
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MFBKBass5
12/09/18 3:52:43 PM
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DarkTransient posted...
Being "poly" is just a term used to tie being a cheating whore / bastard (as applicable) to the whole LGBT thing (which it actually has nothing to do with), just so they can claim you're the bad person if you don't accept it instead of accepting that they themself are.


lol what
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deupd_u
12/09/18 3:54:04 PM
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MFBKBass5 posted...
nerdy

Gee, look at the time! It's TOPIC LIST O'CLOCK.
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rikasa
12/09/18 3:57:56 PM
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I don't know why people have to label it or make it into a huge deal. Sometimes you just go through periods where you have a few boyfriends and sometimes you just focus on 1. I wasn't trying to have a serious relationship until I really knew the person and felt confident it was a good match.
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thronedfire2
12/09/18 3:58:07 PM
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Shes polywrath? Or has she not evolved yet
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Guide
12/10/18 10:06:46 AM
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So many people here just can't comprehend that different things work for different people.
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catboy0_0
12/10/18 10:42:02 AM
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rikasa posted...
I don't know why people have to label it or make it into a huge deal. Sometimes you just go through periods where you have a few boyfriends and sometimes you just focus on 1. I wasn't trying to have a serious relationship until I really knew the person and felt confident it was a good match.

labels are lame. people are people and do what they do
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