Poll of the Day > If you could be either...

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...what would you prefer and why?
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I would choose to be poor and ugly with an average size dick than anything else with a small dick. A big one is just a plus.

MICHALECOLE posted...

I would choose to be poor and ugly with an average size dick than anything else with a small dick. A big one is just a plus.

That's not how polls work (the title of my sex tape?).
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While lobomoon is the best answer of course, if I had to choose between the top two (which i did...there can only be one Lobomoon), i'd rather be attractive with a small D.

There are tons of things you can do that doesn't involve using your D, and a small one is actually prefered often for Anal etc. Not much of a diff for oral etc, and to really be great at sex you use toys, your hands, your tongue etc. A large D just often causes someone to focus on it, and not use all the other great tools.

Being attractive has so many more uses in real life as well, so it's not just about the sex. Also makes it highly likely you would end up with a very attractive girl (or whatever gender you like) and also, if you are into guys, the D size might not even matter ifyour a bottom.

So in so many ways being attractive with a small D makes way more sense.

I probably think about these questions too much.
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The middle one

What is the point of life with a small dick?

MICHALECOLE posted...

The middle one

What is the point of life with a small dick?

Actually, while woman like bigger ones in most cases, there is a case of too big. Too big, and you may not be able to get as many woman (or men, in my case) as you want or think you would get. And being ugly wouldn't help much. Especially for guys, as they normally do anal. And as Wolfy said, it's much harder when you're bigger. But I guess it also depends on how big or small.
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Lol at "It's much harder when you're bigger" hehe.
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Do gay men actually want bigger? I mean the bigger it it the more butthurt it brings.
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LinkPizza posted...

MICHALECOLE posted...

The middle one

What is the point of life with a small dick?

Actually, while woman like bigger ones in most cases, there is a case of too big. Too big, and you may not be able to get as many woman (or men, in my case) as you want or think you would get. And being ugly wouldn't help much. Especially for guys, as they normally do anal. And as Wolfy said, it's much harder when you're bigger. But I guess it also depends on how big or small.

Right, but when I hear small dick I think of >4 inches. You can always not put it all the way in, you cant put any more in if youre out.

Life is sex and there is nothing better than being able to make your partner come, especially with your genetalia. Id rather be ugly and be able to do that than rich and attractive and famous and not be able to do that.

Plus, I could always be that hilarious ugly guy.

Lobomoon posted...

Do gay men actually want bigger? I mean the bigger it it the more butthurt it brings.

Depends on the guy. I think most want average to maybe a little above average. But lots don't want too big. Because it does hurt if it's too big. Even with lube and stuff. But I do know some that want to stretch out that sphincter as much as possible...
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Lobomoon posted...

Do gay men actually want bigger? I mean the bigger it it the more butthurt it brings.

uhhh, no. That's not how it works.
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Lobomoon posted...

Do gay men actually want bigger? I mean the bigger it it the more butthurt it brings.

Probably are the "biggest" size queens in fact...though girls can like it big as well, but yeah, if your looking for a group that wants "big" I would say gay bottoms are on the um....top of the heap?...should that be bottom of the heap?

Oh well...whatever.

But yeah, gay guys that have um.....been around awhile....are usually into big sizes. Girls on the other hand can often find it painful, or avoid very large ones (of course there are exceptions in both cases). I don't know nearly as much about gay guys (I have friends but thats different then actually sleeping wi th them), but i have known many girls that prefer smaller sizes.....especially for anal (that actually like anal..many don't).
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MICHALECOLE posted...

LinkPizza posted...

MICHALECOLE posted...

The middle one

What is the point of life with a small dick?

Actually, while woman like bigger ones in most cases, there is a case of too big. Too big, and you may not be able to get as many woman (or men, in my case) as you want or think you would get. And being ugly wouldn't help much. Especially for guys, as they normally do anal. And as Wolfy said, it's much harder when you're bigger. But I guess it also depends on how big or small.

Right, but when I hear small dick I think of >4 inches. You can always not put it all the way in, you cant put any more in if youre out.

Life is sex and there is nothing better than being able to make your partner come, especially with your genetalia. Id rather be ugly and be able to do that than rich and attractive and famous and not be able to do that.

Plus, I could always be that hilarious ugly guy.

You still can. It really depends on what he means by small. And you can always use other aids. But with big, it could also be thick around. And if it's too thick, that also may make women say no. My main thing is also the attractiveness, though, I think. I would hate to be ugly. Haha. Being attractive lets you get away with more. And your partner may be willing to try more things. Like using toys and such.
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MICHALECOLE posted...

LinkPizza posted...

MICHALECOLE posted...

The middle one

What is the point of life with a small dick?

Actually, while woman like bigger ones in most cases, there is a case of too big. Too big, and you may not be able to get as many woman (or men, in my case) as you want or think you would get. And being ugly wouldn't help much. Especially for guys, as they normally do anal. And as Wolfy said, it's much harder when you're bigger. But I guess it also depends on how big or small.

Right, but when I hear small dick I think of >4 inches. You can always not put it all the way in, you cant put any more in if youre out.

Life is sex and there is nothing better than being able to make your partner come, especially with your genetalia. Id rather be ugly and be able to do that than rich and attractive and famous and not be able to do that.

Plus, I could always be that hilarious ugly guy.

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Lobomoon posted...

MICHALECOLE posted...

LinkPizza posted...

MICHALECOLE posted...

The middle one

What is the point of life with a small dick?

Actually, while woman like bigger ones in most cases, there is a case of too big. Too big, and you may not be able to get as many woman (or men, in my case) as you want or think you would get. And being ugly wouldn't help much. Especially for guys, as they normally do anal. And as Wolfy said, it's much harder when you're bigger. But I guess it also depends on how big or small.

Right, but when I hear small dick I think of >4 inches. You can always not put it all the way in, you cant put any more in if youre out.

Life is sex and there is nothing better than being able to make your partner come, especially with your genetalia. Id rather be ugly and be able to do that than rich and attractive and famous and not be able to do that.

Plus, I could always be that hilarious ugly guy.

Lmao

Yeah my idea of small was always 5-6" or so, anything less would be... very small in my mind, but I have come to understand my perception was way off, and that average is only like 5 to 5.5 or so and some ethnicities even average only 4.

I don't even see how you can do much with 4 or less to be honest, hopefully the girl your with is very flexible. like I said you can of course use toys etc, but actually penetration would probably barely exist with 4 or less.

As far as painful, I don't think length is what would hurt, but girth, and many guys who have length are not that thick....length just means you have more viable positions/fun and deeper depth if the girl is into it (er or guy I guess).

Girth is where you can run into problems where it would be painful or in one case I know a girl that was dating a relative actually had to go to the hospital. That is where you gotta worry about being to big honestly.
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Unattractive and a huge penis? I could get myself a job in porn with those credentials. Mind you I suppose small dick porn is a thing too so eh.
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First option. I doubt I'll ever have sex, and if I do, I'd want it to be with someone who is so shallow size is an issue.
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