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MorningRose
07/22/18 11:36:33 AM
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Bass_X0
07/22/18 11:37:48 AM
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So youre saying white people should pity date black people?
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Evil_Evil_Evil_
07/22/18 11:38:58 AM
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gunplagirl
07/22/18 11:39:10 AM
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If their race is a reason for you to not date them or else lower their attractiveness, then yes it is racist
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Evil_Evil_Evil_
07/22/18 11:55:15 AM
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gunplagirl posted...
If their race is a reason for you to not date them or else lower their attractiveness, then yes it is racist


would you date someone that's crippled? if not then you're discriminating against the disabled and you're just as bad.
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Inferno Dive Dragoon
07/22/18 11:56:59 AM
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Deny.
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TheMikh
07/22/18 11:58:14 AM
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racial discrimination is racist bro
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Omega Hunter
07/22/18 11:58:21 AM
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gunplagirl posted...
If their race is a reason for you to not date them or else lower their attractiveness, then yes it is racist


This. I find Asians generally the least attractive race. But I would absolutely date a hot Asian girl. Thats not racist. But if I said that being Asian is a disqualifier then there is no other way to describe it, its textbook racism.
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catboy0_0
07/22/18 11:58:25 AM
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I'm racist by default I guess ._.
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Solar_Crimson
07/22/18 12:01:36 PM
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gunplagirl posted...
If their race is a reason for you to not date them or else lower their attractiveness, then yes it is racist

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Bass_X0
07/22/18 12:06:38 PM
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Im white - Ive known black women that I do find attractive and black women I do not find attractive.

Am I racist?
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Typhon
07/22/18 12:11:01 PM
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I only date people who have the same hair color as me. Skin color is irrelevant.
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Fony
07/22/18 12:11:06 PM
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I exercise preference in the way that it's supposed to be. I prefer women of my own race, but I wouldn't turn down a good thing from those of other races. It's not a preference to require your partner be a certain race nor to wholesale exclude races.

Although i'm also not of the mind that it makes anyone a bad person or evil for doing it. I don't really care, it's everyone's own choice. As for your statement on lowered attractiveness @gunplagirl, i'm absolutely less attracted to women of other races all else being equal. Doesn't mean I think they're ugly or can't appreciate their beauty.
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Lost_All_Senses
07/22/18 12:13:44 PM
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It's racist if someones race is a main draw for you imo. Even if it's not hateful/harmful racism, there is still a dash of it in there. I don't blame people for being affected by their upbringing tho.
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Vicious_Dios
07/22/18 12:22:42 PM
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Bass_X0 posted...
Im white - Ive known black women that I do find attractive and black women I do not find attractive.

Am I racist?


Yes, of the worst kind.

A hypocrite racist.

You either like all black women or detest all black women.
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Kombucha
07/22/18 12:23:48 PM
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i've seen this topic so many times and the correct answer to this question never changes

no it is not racist
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Skye Reynolds
07/22/18 12:25:37 PM
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It depends.

If you have a preference for lighter complexions, it's not racist to pass on dating something with a darker complexion. If you find out that the blond guy you're dating has black ancestry and you break up with him because of it, you're racist.
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masticatingman
07/22/18 12:25:51 PM
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Find me a respected dictionary in actual print circulation that includes this concept as part of its definition of racism. Because Ive never seen it.
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Fony
07/22/18 12:26:57 PM
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Skye Reynolds posted...
It depends.

If you have a preference for lighter complexions, it's not racist to pass on dating something with a darker complexion. If you find out that the blond guy you're dating has black ancestry and you break up with him because of it, you're racist.


I've had several friends that were hispanic, middle eastern or 1/4 Asian who look white get ghosted immediately by girls once they found out that they weren't caucasian.
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Oh_Boy_
07/22/18 12:33:17 PM
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Why is black women always used? Anyway, it's not always racist.
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awesome999
07/22/18 12:36:04 PM
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There are black men here who admit to only dating white and Asian women

I don't remember who he is but he's out there
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LinksLiege
07/22/18 12:37:04 PM
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It's one thing if you don't rule out dating other races, but you have a tendency to go for your own.

It's another if by default you say "No Asians" or whatever.
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Oh_Boy_
07/22/18 12:38:30 PM
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awesome999 posted...
There are black men here who admit to only dating white and Asian women

I don't remember who he is but he's out there


Just as more than half the white and Asian men here don't date their own race. White men/Asian women and White men/Hispanic women are the most numerous IR couples in the world.
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Zikten
07/22/18 12:38:44 PM
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CrimsonRage posted...
"i don't date black women"

no way is there any context that doesn't sound racist.

how about this context?

"I don't date black women cause I already have a wife"
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ImCallingYouOut
07/22/18 12:39:04 PM
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theres two ways to look at this.

attraction is not racist

or you could say attraction is racist, but you have 0 right to look down on anyone.

no one should force you to be attracted to anyone.
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EliteLevel
07/22/18 12:42:12 PM
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I only like pale skinned women. Im open to dating any hot women of any race as long as they are pale skinned. This is non-negotiable.
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Lost_All_Senses
07/22/18 12:44:45 PM
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CrimsonRage posted...
gay men can get pretty racist in their preferences

grindr profiles will often have "no spice, no rice" in them, indicating they don't want hispanics or asians.


Gay dudes somehow get a pass to be waaaay more shallow than us cursed to be born straight.
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Lost_All_Senses
07/22/18 12:45:18 PM
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Conflict posted...
Evil_Evil_Evil_ posted...
gunplagirl posted...
If their race is a reason for you to not date them or else lower their attractiveness, then yes it is racist


would you date someone that's crippled? if not then you're discriminating against the disabled and you're just as bad.


I'll give you 24 hours to figure out why that's a painfully stupid analogy.


Holy shit dude. I have a terminal disease and find it completely reasonable to not walk my road with me. I was born with a hard road, I can't blame others for not volunteering to walk the harder path. You just see the magic of when another likes you so much they are willing to. Keeps out the shallows tbh
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Lost_All_Senses
07/22/18 12:50:20 PM
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Conflict posted...
Lost_All_Senses posted...
Conflict posted...
Evil_Evil_Evil_ posted...
gunplagirl posted...
If their race is a reason for you to not date them or else lower their attractiveness, then yes it is racist


would you date someone that's crippled? if not then you're discriminating against the disabled and you're just as bad.


I'll give you 24 hours to figure out why that's a painfully stupid analogy.


Holy shit dude


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I'm not implying that 'writing off disabled people' is more "ok" or anything, there's just zero parallel. One will affect more legitimate aspects of the relationship, the other will not.


Reread my edited post please
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Ilishe
07/22/18 1:10:59 PM
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gunplagirl
07/22/18 1:25:19 PM
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Evil_Evil_Evil_ posted...
gunplagirl posted...
If their race is a reason for you to not date them or else lower their attractiveness, then yes it is racist


would you date someone that's crippled? if not then you're discriminating against the disabled and you're just as bad.


"Crippled" is an ableist term that ignores plenty of other things that may result in a person losing mobility without use of a wheelchair. And yes, I have and am open to dating people with disabilities.

Maybe don't be ableist when trying to do a gotcha ishiggydiggydoo
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Lost_All_Senses
07/22/18 1:26:23 PM
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gunplagirl posted...
Evil_Evil_Evil_ posted...
gunplagirl posted...
If their race is a reason for you to not date them or else lower their attractiveness, then yes it is racist


would you date someone that's crippled? if not then you're discriminating against the disabled and you're just as bad.


"Crippled" is an ableist term that ignores plenty of other things that may result in a person losing mobility without use of a wheelchair. And yes, I have and am open to dating people with disabilities.

Maybe don't be ableist when trying to do a gotcha ishiggydiggydoo


Do terminal illnesses count? Im actually still pretty athletic. Sup?
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Lost_All_Senses
07/22/18 1:36:00 PM
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CrimsonRage posted...
Lost_All_Senses posted...
gunplagirl posted...
Evil_Evil_Evil_ posted...
gunplagirl posted...
If their race is a reason for you to not date them or else lower their attractiveness, then yes it is racist


would you date someone that's crippled? if not then you're discriminating against the disabled and you're just as bad.


"Crippled" is an ableist term that ignores plenty of other things that may result in a person losing mobility without use of a wheelchair. And yes, I have and am open to dating people with disabilities.

Maybe don't be ableist when trying to do a gotcha ishiggydiggydoo


Do terminal illnesses count? Im actually still pretty athletic. Sup?


terminal? as in you're going to die soon?


Supposedly, I don't stress it anymore tho. Mac "everybodies dying bitch" Mcdonald mindstate. I have a lung condition and abdominal problems are the spotlight of my life tho. My lungs were suppose to give out around 32 but it's not looking that way. Im 28.
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gunplagirl
07/22/18 1:38:34 PM
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CrimsonRage posted...
Lost_All_Senses posted...
gunplagirl posted...
Evil_Evil_Evil_ posted...
gunplagirl posted...
If their race is a reason for you to not date them or else lower their attractiveness, then yes it is racist


would you date someone that's crippled? if not then you're discriminating against the disabled and you're just as bad.


"Crippled" is an ableist term that ignores plenty of other things that may result in a person losing mobility without use of a wheelchair. And yes, I have and am open to dating people with disabilities.

Maybe don't be ableist when trying to do a gotcha ishiggydiggydoo


Do terminal illnesses count? Im actually still pretty athletic. Sup?


terminal? as in you're going to die soon?


Could also just mean that he's going to die prematurely and it will be the leading cause

And lost all senses, I'm lesbian as hell but it's good to hear that you're able to stay fit through whatever illness you've got.
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Vicious_Dios
07/22/18 1:38:58 PM
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Conflict posted...
Vicious_Dios posted...
Bass_X0 posted...
Im white - Ive known black women that I do find attractive and black women I do not find attractive.

Am I racist?


Yes, of the worst kind.

A hypocrite racist.

You either like all black women or detest all black women.


I mean

This topic is about people who claim to not be attracted to anybody of a certain race

You can have preferences, I prefer white women myself

But it doesn't make sense to write off an entire race, each race tends to have a diverse group of people and you haven't seen them all


Gee, you know, I never looked at it that way. Thanks, I get it now!
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Skye Reynolds
07/22/18 1:40:28 PM
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Fony posted...
Skye Reynolds posted...
It depends.

If you have a preference for lighter complexions, it's not racist to pass on dating something with a darker complexion. If you find out that the blond guy you're dating has black ancestry and you break up with him because of it, you're racist.


I've had several friends that were hispanic, middle eastern or 1/4 Asian who look white get ghosted immediately by girls once they found out that they weren't caucasian.


I don't suppose it would help if someone explained to any one of those girls that the chances she's 100% white is very, very, very, very slim.

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FaultyGourry
07/22/18 1:41:46 PM
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My dick does not need to fill a diversity quota. That's not how attraction works.
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Lost_All_Senses
07/22/18 1:42:47 PM
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gunplagirl posted...
CrimsonRage posted...
Lost_All_Senses posted...
gunplagirl posted...
Evil_Evil_Evil_ posted...
gunplagirl posted...
If their race is a reason for you to not date them or else lower their attractiveness, then yes it is racist


would you date someone that's crippled? if not then you're discriminating against the disabled and you're just as bad.


"Crippled" is an ableist term that ignores plenty of other things that may result in a person losing mobility without use of a wheelchair. And yes, I have and am open to dating people with disabilities.

Maybe don't be ableist when trying to do a gotcha ishiggydiggydoo


Do terminal illnesses count? Im actually still pretty athletic. Sup?


terminal? as in you're going to die soon?


Could also just mean that he's going to die prematurely and it will be the leading cause

And lost all senses, I'm lesbian as hell but it's good to hear that you're able to stay fit through whatever illness you've got.


Thanks. Yeah, cause off my situation I appreciate it way more too. I am skinny as shit but I have enough muscle tone to throw myself around and climb like a champ. When something gets stuck in a tree im like "....I got this ". Congrats on being a Lesbian. Your life is hot to the entirety of the rest of the world. That's pretty neat
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gunplagirl
07/22/18 1:44:29 PM
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Skye Reynolds posted...
Fony posted...
Skye Reynolds posted...
It depends.

If you have a preference for lighter complexions, it's not racist to pass on dating something with a darker complexion. If you find out that the blond guy you're dating has black ancestry and you break up with him because of it, you're racist.


I've had several friends that were hispanic, middle eastern or 1/4 Asian who look white get ghosted immediately by girls once they found out that they weren't caucasian.


I don't suppose it would help if someone explained to any one of those girls that the chances she's 100% white is very, very, very, very slim.

-_-


I pass for white despite being half Mexican. Like, great grandparents on my father's side crossed the border in their lifetime Mexican. The amount of people who react with a tell as they see or hear my surname is pretty high. They're also the only group that reliably fucks up pronouncing it.
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gunplagirl
07/22/18 1:46:49 PM
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Lost_All_Senses posted...
gunplagirl posted...
CrimsonRage posted...
Lost_All_Senses posted...
gunplagirl posted...
Evil_Evil_Evil_ posted...
gunplagirl posted...
If their race is a reason for you to not date them or else lower their attractiveness, then yes it is racist


would you date someone that's crippled? if not then you're discriminating against the disabled and you're just as bad.


"Crippled" is an ableist term that ignores plenty of other things that may result in a person losing mobility without use of a wheelchair. And yes, I have and am open to dating people with disabilities.

Maybe don't be ableist when trying to do a gotcha ishiggydiggydoo


Do terminal illnesses count? Im actually still pretty athletic. Sup?


terminal? as in you're going to die soon?


Could also just mean that he's going to die prematurely and it will be the leading cause

And lost all senses, I'm lesbian as hell but it's good to hear that you're able to stay fit through whatever illness you've got.


Thanks. Yeah, cause off my situation I appreciate it way more too. I am skinny as shit but I have enough muscle tone to throw myself around and climb like a champ. When something gets stuck in a tree im like "....I got this ". Congrats on being a Lesbian. Your life is hot to the entirety of the rest of the world. That's pretty neat


*nods* with regards to your other post about not stressing about your impending mortality, I really respect that. How we handle life is just as important as how we handle death. It's also why people I know who have disabilities are heavily left leaning, because they want others like them to have a shot at a better life than they'll ever know.
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Lost_All_Senses
07/22/18 1:46:50 PM
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gunplagirl posted...
Skye Reynolds posted...
Fony posted...
Skye Reynolds posted...
It depends.

If you have a preference for lighter complexions, it's not racist to pass on dating something with a darker complexion. If you find out that the blond guy you're dating has black ancestry and you break up with him because of it, you're racist.


I've had several friends that were hispanic, middle eastern or 1/4 Asian who look white get ghosted immediately by girls once they found out that they weren't caucasian.


I don't suppose it would help if someone explained to any one of those girls that the chances she's 100% white is very, very, very, very slim.

-_-


I pass for white despite being half Mexican. Like, great grandparents on my father's side crossed the border in their lifetime Mexican. The amount of people who react with a tell as they see or hear my surname is pretty high. They're also the only group that reliably fucks up pronouncing it.


Holy shit, weird you just basically described me as well. I was Mexican to my white friends and white to my Mexican friends. White people love the token Mexican. I fucks with that
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Lost_All_Senses
07/22/18 1:50:00 PM
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My early 20s were really hard. But these late 20s got really freeing. I really reached the stage of "this is who I am, deal with it or gtfo the way" and even people who don't know my misfortune seem to respect me to an extent so I have no reason to question my methods anyway outside of personal interest in who I am even deeper down.
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