Current Events > Wife of 4 years just told me she was a rape victim...

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Sting
06/19/18 3:37:56 AM
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Everyone keeps saying I need to be supportive, and I will. But it's really upsetting that she kept it from me for this long. I feel like I don't know her right now. Not sure how to deal with it...
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metralo
06/19/18 3:40:33 AM
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yeah youre the victim in this situation
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Guerrilla Soldier
06/19/18 3:40:57 AM
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it obviously isnt about you. whyre you making it about you.
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Bad_Mojo
06/19/18 3:41:13 AM
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It's a hard thing to talk about, if you don't understand that, then she deserves better
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Sting
06/19/18 3:41:36 AM
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nevermind, going back to sleep. or going to try at least.
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fire adept
06/19/18 3:41:39 AM
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Sting posted...
Everyone keeps saying I need to be supportive, and I will. But it's really upsetting that she kept it from me for this long. I feel like I don't know her right now. Not sure how to deal with it...


You should probably go ahead and be thinking about some kind of professional counseling to help with this situation.
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BlackHorse6969
06/19/18 3:46:56 AM
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So she lied about being a virgin. So what? You gonna go and hunt down the guy who raped her just because he took her virginity?
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fire adept
06/19/18 3:59:38 AM
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BlackHorse6969 posted...
So she lied about being a virgin. So what? You gonna go and hunt down the guy who raped her just because he took her virginity?


He never said anything about the woman's virginity. This can be upsetting news to just up and find out about your partner, especially your WIFE of 4 years. Here for support if you need it TC.
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Esrac
06/19/18 4:03:35 AM
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metralo posted...
yeah youre the victim in this situation


The dude has a right to feeling conflicted about his wife hiding past trauma from him. Or rather how to take the news that she has experienced such trauma. Don't be a douche about it.
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bknight
06/19/18 4:05:20 AM
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Wife just confided deep dark secret, to CE I go!
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Guerrilla Soldier
06/19/18 4:07:33 AM
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bknight posted...
Wife just confided deep dark secret, to CE I go!

not only that, but "everyone" that told him he should be supportive
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fire adept
06/19/18 4:10:25 AM
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Guerrilla Soldier posted...
bknight posted...
Wife just confided deep dark secret, to CE I go!

not only that, but "everyone" that told him he should be supportive


Probably 2-3 close friends who he has talked with. Outside of the friends this is probably the only place he can actually talk about it.
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Guerrilla Soldier
06/19/18 4:11:53 AM
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fire adept posted...
Guerrilla Soldier posted...
bknight posted...
Wife just confided deep dark secret, to CE I go!

not only that, but "everyone" that told him he should be supportive


Probably 2-3 close friends who he has talked with. Outside of the friends this is probably the only place he can actually talk about it.

don't you kinda get this feeling that she didn't want to tell him because she knew he would tell everyone in the entire world
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Freddie_Mercury
06/19/18 4:13:10 AM
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this is a weird gimmick bro
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Frostshock
06/19/18 4:14:42 AM
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Oh god dammit.

I started typing a post and then decided to check TC's name.
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fire adept
06/19/18 4:15:53 AM
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Guerrilla Soldier posted...
fire adept posted...
Guerrilla Soldier posted...
bknight posted...
Wife just confided deep dark secret, to CE I go!

not only that, but "everyone" that told him he should be supportive


Probably 2-3 close friends who he has talked with. Outside of the friends this is probably the only place he can actually talk about it.

don't you kinda get this feeling that she didn't want to tell him because she knew he would tell everyone in the entire world


If they're married you would think she would have a high amount of trust in this guy. Really not sure on this one.
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