Poll of the Day > Why are guys such assholes when sexual assault is involved?

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lihlih
02/17/18 8:26:08 AM
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When I was in basic training for the Army, some dude tried shoving a broom stick up my ass. Instead of beating his ass, I tried doing the right thing and reporting the sexual assault.

When I did that, everyone but like 5 people in my platoon turned on me. I became an outcast for speaking up. Even some of the Drill Sergeants were making light of the situation, saying that when guys are cooped up together for so long, they end up blowing things out if proportion and that it didn't need to be reported. Then and there, I was able to experience what a lot of girls have to go through first hand, and it's not a pleasant experience. It got so bad that I requested to be moved to a battery that was a week behind just to get away from it all. One of the actually good Drill Sergeants talked me out of it, thank God.

Was I asking for it? Did I ask him to try and shove a broom stick up ass then regret it? I know false reporting does exist, but automatically jumping to it without knowing the truth is straight up fucked up.
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Smarkil
02/17/18 12:53:13 PM
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Lmao wtf
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LinkPizza
02/17/18 1:39:56 PM
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During basic training, some guy in my flight played this game called sock ball. You sat down with your legs out in front of you open at like about 45-90 angle, took rolled socks, and threw them at another guys junk. Whoever quit first loses. Also, one guy put baby powder up he ass, ran down the center on the bed naked, and farted while running... Basic training was weird. I just stuck with midnight bowling and hat shoes, but whatever...
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DrPrimemaster
02/17/18 1:47:46 PM
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I really hate that gay locker room stuff that goes on. And I mean literally gay. It was in football and wrestling. I was always big enough that I didn't really get messed with but its so pervasive.
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Krazy_Kirby
02/17/18 1:48:23 PM
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they were trying to sweep it under the rug
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Muffinz0rz
02/17/18 1:51:44 PM
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because dudes are incredibly homo-erotic
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LinkPizza
02/17/18 1:53:03 PM
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Usually, they do it to guys they consider their friends.

Also, they do it more if they know it bothers you...
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synth_real
02/17/18 2:55:28 PM
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LinkPizza posted...
Also, one guy put baby powder up he ass, ran down the center on the bed naked, and farted while running...

And, Poof! He was gone
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lihlih
02/17/18 4:30:51 PM
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Wow, none of you guys got the point of this post.
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joemodda
02/17/18 4:44:20 PM
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lihlih posted...
Wow, none of you guys got the point of this post.


Goes to show how seriously people take the issue
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Doctor Foxx
02/17/18 4:47:08 PM
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Yeah any time I've had to report misconduct it has made things worse in general. No one should be trying to shove things into your body. And no one should be making your life hell by putting that on you. Once they do even fighting back and trying to prevent further issues can have negative consequences for you. It shouldn't. But it plays out that way.

If that's what you've dealt with then I'm very sorry
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LinkPizza
02/17/18 4:49:42 PM
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Hmmm... I feel like there should be more to this story. Like was he trying to do it as a joke? Or was he mad at you? Or was he trying to turn you on? Or flirting? I mean, he still should've asked first, but...
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lihlih
02/17/18 4:54:51 PM
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LinkPizza posted...
Hmmm... I feel like there should be more to this story. Like was he trying to do it as a joke? Or was he mad at you? Or was he trying to turn you on? Or flirting? I mean, he still should've asked first, but...


He was "joking", but who the fuck jokes around by trying to shove a broom stick up someone's ass? Also, why does it even matter what his intentions were?

Doctor Foxx posted...
Yeah any time I've had to report misconduct it has made things worse in general. No one should be trying to shove things into your body. And no one should be making your life hell by putting that on you. Once they do even fighting back and trying to prevent further issues can have negative consequences for you. It shouldn't. But it plays out that way.

If that's what you've dealt with then I'm very sorry


Yeah, I always thought they exaggerated what females have to go through when they report stuff. That experience was a real eye opener, and I'm kind of glad it happened, even though it was horrible.
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Doctor Foxx
02/17/18 4:57:06 PM
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LinkPizza posted...
Hmmm... I feel like there should be more to this story. Like was he trying to do it as a joke? Or was he mad at you? Or was he trying to turn you on? Or flirting? I mean, he still should've asked first, but...

That's not an ok joke to make

That's not ok at all
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LinkPizza
02/17/18 4:57:30 PM
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lihlih posted...
Also, why does it even matter what his intentions were?

Because if he was joking, you could probably ask him to not do that again. And that you didn't appropriate that. And most people would stop. If he did it angrily(like he hated you or something), then asking him probably wouldn't work...
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lihlih
02/17/18 7:08:27 PM
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LinkPizza posted...
lihlih posted...
Also, why does it even matter what his intentions were?

Because if he was joking, you could probably ask him to not do that again. And that you didn't appropriate that. And most people would stop. If he did it angrily(like he hated you or something), then asking him probably wouldn't work...


What kind of bullshit is that? Yeah, you sexual assaulted me, but it was a joke, so it's OK. Yeah, that's not a thing.
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LinkPizza
02/17/18 7:16:09 PM
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lihlih posted...
LinkPizza posted...
lihlih posted...
Also, why does it even matter what his intentions were?

Because if he was joking, you could probably ask him to not do that again. And that you didn't appropriate that. And most people would stop. If he did it angrily(like he hated you or something), then asking him probably wouldn't work...

What kind of bullshit is that? Yeah, you sexual assaulted me, but it was a joke, so it's OK. Yeah, that's not a thing.

Hmmm... So, were you wearing clothes? Or like nude? Also, was he like forcefully trying to shove it up there? Or was it like he lightly touched the tip to your butthole?
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lihlih
02/17/18 7:18:23 PM
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LinkPizza posted...
lihlih posted...
LinkPizza posted...
lihlih posted...
Also, why does it even matter what his intentions were?

Because if he was joking, you could probably ask him to not do that again. And that you didn't appropriate that. And most people would stop. If he did it angrily(like he hated you or something), then asking him probably wouldn't work...

What kind of bullshit is that? Yeah, you sexual assaulted me, but it was a joke, so it's OK. Yeah, that's not a thing.

Hmmm... So, were you wearing clothes? Or like nude? Also, was he like forcefully trying to shove it up there? Or was it like he lightly touched the tip to your butthole?


I was in my clothes and he was trying to shove it in there. Jesus Christ, why would I say he was trying to shove it in there if he wasn't doing it? God, this is just ridiculous.
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RedPixel
02/17/18 7:19:10 PM
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lihlih posted...
When I was in basic training for the Army, some dude tried shoving a broom stick up my ass. Instead of beating his ass, I tried doing the right thing and reporting the sexual assault.

Gr8 b8 m8
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lihlih
02/17/18 7:23:54 PM
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RedPixel posted...
lihlih posted...
When I was in basic training for the Army, some dude tried shoving a broom stick up my ass. Instead of beating his ass, I tried doing the right thing and reporting the sexual assault.

Gr8 b8 m8


How the hell is this a bait? What, because anyone who reports sexual assault is lying?
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RedPixel
02/17/18 7:26:40 PM
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lihlih posted...
RedPixel posted...
lihlih posted...
When I was in basic training for the Army, some dude tried shoving a broom stick up my ass. Instead of beating his ass, I tried doing the right thing and reporting the sexual assault.

Gr8 b8 m8


How the hell is this a bait? What, because anyone who reports sexual assault is lying?

One does not simply "report someone who tried to shove a broomstick up their ass" in the Army. Broomstick guy gets his ass beat. Nobody cares about what went down. The end.
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lihlih
02/17/18 7:28:05 PM
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RedPixel posted...
lihlih posted...
RedPixel posted...
lihlih posted...
When I was in basic training for the Army, some dude tried shoving a broom stick up my ass. Instead of beating his ass, I tried doing the right thing and reporting the sexual assault.

Gr8 b8 m8


How the hell is this a bait? What, because anyone who reports sexual assault is lying?

One does not simply "report someone who tried to shove a broomstick up their ass" in the Army. Broomstick guy gets his ass beat. Nobody cares about what went down. The end.


Maybe like 20 years ago. They warned us from the beginning that if we got into a physical altercation, we'd get an Article 15, or maybe even kicked out.
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ASlaveObeys
02/17/18 7:28:56 PM
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RedPixel posted...
lihlih posted...
RedPixel posted...
lihlih posted...
When I was in basic training for the Army, some dude tried shoving a broom stick up my ass. Instead of beating his ass, I tried doing the right thing and reporting the sexual assault.

Gr8 b8 m8


How the hell is this a bait? What, because anyone who reports sexual assault is lying?

One does not simply "report someone who tried to shove a broomstick up their ass" in the Army. Broomstick guy gets his ass beat. Nobody cares about what went down. The end.

You'd be surprised. Hazing can be oddly sexually and rapey... and it's almost never reported.
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Lokarin
02/17/18 7:31:50 PM
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Look at all the people in here defending the toxic patriarchy
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LinkPizza
02/17/18 7:42:50 PM
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lihlih posted...
LinkPizza posted...
lihlih posted...
LinkPizza posted...
lihlih posted...
Also, why does it even matter what his intentions were?

Because if he was joking, you could probably ask him to not do that again. And that you didn't appropriate that. And most people would stop. If he did it angrily(like he hated you or something), then asking him probably wouldn't work...

What kind of bullshit is that? Yeah, you sexual assaulted me, but it was a joke, so it's OK. Yeah, that's not a thing.

Hmmm... So, were you wearing clothes? Or like nude? Also, was he like forcefully trying to shove it up there? Or was it like he lightly touched the tip to your butthole?


I was in my clothes and he was trying to shove it in there. Jesus Christ, why would I say he was trying to shove it in there if he wasn't doing it? God, this is just ridiculous.

Idk. Lot's of people exaggerate sometimes... Just checking...
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ArvTheGreat
02/17/18 7:48:16 PM
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Arv bet they laughed their ass off after you left the room umm this guy shoved a broom stick up
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LinkPizza
02/17/18 8:03:20 PM
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Oh. I do remember something else. We had a guy Mushroom stamp another guy in my flight. That was weird. And then when he found out... I think the guy who did it got sent back a week or two...
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SkynyrdRocker
02/17/18 8:04:09 PM
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What is mushroom stamp
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LinkPizza
02/17/18 8:16:30 PM
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SkynyrdRocker posted...
What is mushroom stamp

It involves a penis be either slap or placed hard upon the forehead of someone else. Leaving a mushroom shaped mark on their head. Because of the mushroom shaped heads a penis may have. The other guys was sleeping. I believe he was in the bed next to mine. And the culprit was in he bed across from me... And a couple hours later in the night, me and the victim had to work together on whatever the night watch duty was called back then...
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Zeus
02/17/18 8:17:57 PM
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Why do gals make such bad generalizations when sexual assault is discussed?
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