Current Events > Gay Asian and white boyfriend call black food service employee the n word

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[UPDATE: full interaction here:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Cvx1qWnPPOU
To address concerns of some doubtful folks in comments below who actually thinks the employees were provoking the attacks (which makes no sense) said the n-words, I have the full interaction here for you. It's easy to tell whose voice is whose.
I worked to censor faces of other guests and employees to maintain their privacy, which was the reason preventing my posting this initially, as I am no video expert. This was after closing time. Cashier had already closed the register and was asking if customers can pay with Visa/Mastercard (as we don't accept Amex) instead of cash. While cashier eventually did accommodate cash to process the order, the final racial comments/slurs were totally unprovoked. The event ended with the cashier walking over to wipe tables.]

http://gothamist.com/2017/05/11/racist_customers_shout_n-word_at_mi.php

http://www.itnycpt.com/provider/keith-chan-pt-cktp <- Gaysian

https://twitter.com/@realjoshuahager <- white catcher
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Would I get in trouble if I said every single gay person I know is either racist or self hating? Wish it weren't true but it is.
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From May? So why are you posting this now?
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Fony posted...

Would I get in trouble if

Probably. Asking about an offensive statement (which is true only for you) instead of just overtly saying is just as offensive.

And linking to these dude's profiles? really? Are you hoping we'll dox them or something?
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Would I get in trouble if I said every single gay person I know is either racist or self hating? Wish it weren't true but it is.

There is certainly truth to this statement. I have quite a few homosexual acquaintances, some of them have very strict racial dating preferences (white guys only) and others are blatantly prejudice lol. I find a lot of them really don't like the hyper effeminate gays at all, though I would say that's understandable XD
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Fony posted...

Gaysian

lol
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FightingGames posted...

Gaysian

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CKAqWhSxGk0
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-Gavirulax- posted...

What scumbags.

From my own experience, there is a quite a lot of racism in the gay community unfortunately.

Yes yes, not all, blah blah.

It really is pretty lame... Like some guys are pretty upfront about it too.
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Fucking lunatics.

-Gavirulax- posted...

From my own experience, there is a quite a lot of racism in the gay community unfortunately.

This has been my experience as well. I was raised in an oppressively religious family, surrounded by hatred and bigotry of all kinds. I only accepted myself being gay a few years ago because of my upbringing and I thought I was going to finally be rid of all of that shit and be in a very accepting and inclusive community. Took about 6 months to see how wrong I was. About broke my heart finding out I had just moved from one intolerant shitbag community into another.
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Not even surprised
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When you're a straight, white male you're constantly judged by your behavior and persecuted if you step out of line.

Not quite the same for everyone else.

Women can get away with anything, too.
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Gay people and straight people are equally racist.
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-Gavirulax- posted...

Fony posted...

Would I get in trouble if I said every single gay person I know is either racist or self hating? Wish it weren't true but it is.

Probably, because it's a stupid thing to say.
However it might be true...after all it's the ones you know - so you're not saying they all are, just ones you've got to know.

I mean I'm gay, I don't consider myself racist and I don't think I hate myself.
Some call me sociopathic though....:P

Yeah, I think it's a commonly held (ignorant) belief that if you're a minority (sexually or racially) that you're all on the same leftist page, working together, when that's totally inaccurate. It just shocks people more, I guess... While being black or gay may give you a different perspective on specific issues that affect you differently, most people don't base their whole identity on just one trait.

I don't know any non-hetero or non-white people that seem to hate themselves. They just let their flags fly, so to speak, and that's how it should be. Repressing normal feelings is about the least healthy thing you can do. The two most prejudiced people I know are coincidentally both part of different minority groups (a guy dude and a brown guy who hate all Muslims), but in both cases it's totally unrelated to their respective statuses.

I was talking to a friend yesterday about a similar topic, and she basically said "you never know who you're talking to" when I pointed out that I don't really have an accent and I'm fairly Aryan-looking, so people will badmouth immigrants or something around me but my mom's an immigrant and my dad's parents speak English as a second language. I basically said something like "it just proves it's about racism, not immigrants in general."
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-Gavirulax- posted...

-Henri posted...

I have quite a few homosexual acquaintances, some of them have very strict racial dating preferences (white guys only) and others are blatantly prejudice lol.

@MegaTech - Can you believe these types of gays exist!
Only white people? Blah!

It's that way with a lot of people in general unfortunately. I see it with girls and other races too. A big reason I left my ex is because her parents were racist af. A lot of times it's a mentality instilled at a young age. I'm grateful she broke that mold but without being independent, she was still stuck abiding by their agenda. I've seen it multiple times. It's sad really.
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TheCyborgNinja posted...

-Gavirulax- posted...

Fony posted...

Would I get in trouble if I said every single gay person I know is either racist or self hating? Wish it weren't true but it is.

Probably, because it's a stupid thing to say.
However it might be true...after all it's the ones you know - so you're not saying they all are, just ones you've got to know.

I mean I'm gay, I don't consider myself racist and I don't think I hate myself.
Some call me sociopathic though....:P

Yeah, I think it's a commonly held (ignorant) belief that if you're a minority (sexually or racially) that you're all on the same leftist page, working together, when that's totally inaccurate. It just shocks people more, I guess... While being black or gay may give you a different perspective on specific issues that affect you differently, most people don't base their whole identity on just one trait.

I don't know any non-hetero or non-white people that seem to hate themselves. They just let their flags fly, so to speak, and that's how it should be. Repressing normal feelings is about the least healthy thing you can do. The two most prejudiced people I know are coincidentally both part of different minority groups (a guy dude and a brown guy who hate all Muslims), but in both cases it's totally unrelated to their respective statuses.

What I meant by self hating is non whites with internalized racism who self deprecate and put whites on a pedestal.
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I'm not saying it didn't happen, but I've mussed have missed it when it did. Where in the video is this at?
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-Gavirulax- posted...

What scumbags.