Current Events > Date #3 with Tinder girl was last night

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MFBKBass5
09/17/17 8:08:53 AM
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And I still didn't kiss her. God damn it. I'm so bad at reading the moment. She even offered to give me a ride to my car even though we were in the same parking garage. I should have kissed her when she dropped me off.


Oh well. Next week we're going to a big college football game where drinking will probably be involved. That might be a perfect time to kiss her and maybe establish a relationship with her.
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creativeme
09/17/17 8:13:49 AM
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i'm bad at reading the sign too but if she offered to drop you off at your car than i'm pretty sure that was it <_<
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MFBKBass5
09/17/17 8:16:17 AM
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creativeme posted...
i'm bad at reading the sign too but if she offered to drop you off at your car than i'm pretty sure that was it <_<


Yeahhhh I screwed that one up hahaha. Oh well. We already made plans to hang out again for next Saturday. Definitely will make a move then. She's so damn cute :3
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TommyG663513
09/17/17 8:19:20 AM
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She wants to trap you with a baby
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MFBKBass5
09/17/17 8:36:56 AM
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TommyG663513 posted...
She wants to trap you with a baby

I'd be fine with that. This girl is wife material. I've seen pics of her mom too on Facebook...and damn. She's gonna age well hahaha
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Vermander
09/17/17 1:46:38 PM
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"There is no such thing as the sign! But yeah Ted, that was the sign."
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EnragedSlith
09/17/17 1:57:39 PM
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On_The_Edge
09/17/17 1:59:03 PM
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Damn bro. I went on a date with a girl last week and I felt shitty for not kissing her. I can't imagine going 3 dates and still having a shot, I guess she really likes you
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Geiki Ganger
09/17/17 2:00:24 PM
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3 dates and no kissing?

She probably already moved on from you to get pounded by Chad.
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N1NJAREB0RN
09/17/17 2:01:26 PM
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Geiki Ganger posted...
3 dates and no kissing?

She probably already moved on from you to get pounded by Chad.

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MFBKBass5
09/17/17 2:20:03 PM
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On_The_Edge posted...
Damn bro. I went on a date with a girl last week and I felt shitty for not kissing her. I can't imagine going 3 dates and still having a shot, I guess she really likes you


I mean. The moment has to be right. The first date was just drinks. Second and 3rd were dinner. 2nd date didn't really have an opportunity. Last night definitely did.


As long as I kiss her this next time I'll be fine. I didn't kiss the last girl I dated until after like...8 times hanging out. We dated for 3 years after. I usually attract the kinda girls that move slow anyways.
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Turbam
09/17/17 2:22:56 PM
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You think that you're bad at reading signs?

Back in highschool, this cute nerd chick asked me if I was going to prom.


You know what I said to her?

"I don't know."
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SSJGrimReaper
09/17/17 2:24:37 PM
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Turbam posted...
You think that you're bad at reading signs?

Back in highschool, this cute nerd chick asked me if I was going to prom.


You know what I said to her?

"I don't know."


Then her and Jameel were crowned king and queen of prom :V

@Turbam
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Lost_All_Senses
09/17/17 2:25:07 PM
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You should of kissed her. Now if you do it while you're drinking she's gonna question how much drinking had to do with it. You should always make the 1st move sober if its a girl you actually like.
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Returning_CEmen
09/17/17 2:25:20 PM
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You are a good friend.
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Turbam
09/17/17 2:26:10 PM
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SSJGrimReaper posted...
Turbam posted...
You think that you're bad at reading signs?

Back in highschool, this cute nerd chick asked me if I was going to prom.


You know what I said to her?

"I don't know."


Then her and Jameel were crowned king and queen of prom :V

@Turbam

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emblem boy
09/17/17 2:39:14 PM
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Took until the 4th date to kiss the girl I'm seeing right now. I was bad at being assertive
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MFBKBass5
09/17/17 2:42:48 PM
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Lost_All_Senses posted...
You should of kissed her. Now if you do it while you're drinking she's gonna question how much drinking had to do with it. You should always make the 1st move sober if its a girl you actually like.


Eh. I've been very forward with the fact I think she's cute. And she's been the same with me. She knows I'm attracted to her haha.
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pinky0926
09/17/17 2:46:32 PM
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Give you some advice; sometimes you have to create the moment, not wait for it to turn up. In fact I'd say that's usually the case.

When you're walking her to her car and you're wondering when the right moment is, you should instead try thinking "ok, I'm going to stop her now". She wants to kiss you, it's not going to matter if you're a little clumsy or not that smooth about it. "The moment" doesn't have to be a big perfect thing where all the timing is right. It's just when you decide to step things up and make the move she's waiting for you to make.

Most of "the moment"s I've had were because I just decided I had enough of all the lingering looks and just decided to make a move. There wasn't a perfect place or a perfect line, I literally just stopped on the street and my body language told her what I was trying to do.

We're talking assertive, not pushy. But I'd say after 3 dates you're well past it being impolite.
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09/17/17 2:48:17 PM
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MFBKBass5
09/17/17 2:51:14 PM
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pinky0926 posted...
Give you some advice; sometimes you have to create the moment, not wait for it to turn up. In fact I'd say that's usually the case.

When you're walking her to her car and you're wondering when the right moment is, you should instead try thinking "ok, I'm going to stop her now". She wants to kiss you, it's not going to matter if you're a little clumsy or not that smooth about it. "The moment" doesn't have to be a big perfect thing where all the timing is right. It's just when you decide to step things up and make the move she's waiting for you to make.

Most of "the moment"s I've had were because I just decided I had enough of all the lingering looks and just decided to make a move. There wasn't a perfect place or a perfect line, I literally just stopped on the street and my body language told her what I was trying to do.

We're talking assertive, not pushy. But I'd say after 3 dates you're well past it being impolite.


That's actually some really solid advice. I'll keep that in mind next time!! I'm definitely going to kiss her next time I see her.
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Lost_All_Senses
09/17/17 3:58:33 PM
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MFBKBass5 posted...
Lost_All_Senses posted...
You should of kissed her. Now if you do it while you're drinking she's gonna question how much drinking had to do with it. You should always make the 1st move sober if its a girl you actually like.


Eh. I've been very forward with the fact I think she's cute. And she's been the same with me. She knows I'm attracted to her haha.


Yeah but without drinking you seem confident on your own. With drinking it just seems like good ol liquid courage did it for you
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CanuckCowboy
09/17/17 4:10:35 PM
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EnragedSlith posted...
3 dates is way too long already


Not in 1937 it's not!
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MFBKBass5
09/17/17 6:12:22 PM
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Lost_All_Senses posted...
MFBKBass5 posted...
Lost_All_Senses posted...
You should of kissed her. Now if you do it while you're drinking she's gonna question how much drinking had to do with it. You should always make the 1st move sober if its a girl you actually like.


Eh. I've been very forward with the fact I think she's cute. And she's been the same with me. She knows I'm attracted to her haha.


Yeah but without drinking you seem confident on your own. With drinking it just seems like good ol liquid courage did it for you


Well we'll be hanging out all day next time I see her. Not sure how much we'll drink, as it's a football game and those suck to be completely wasted at haha. Probably will grab dinner afterwards too.
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Returning_CEmen
09/17/17 6:17:08 PM
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I kissed my ex on the second date. I wanted to kiss her on the first but she kept bringing up that she was a germaphobe, so I didn't want to creep her out by going in for a kiss. Then a couple of days after our first date, she texts me and asks me if I wanted to kiss her on our first date, because she really wanted to kiss me but didn't want to make the first move. We made out on our second date.
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pinky0926
09/17/17 6:43:22 PM
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MFBKBass5 posted...
That's actually some really solid advice. I'll keep that in mind next time!! I'm definitely going to kiss her next time I see her.


All I will say is try to do it when nobody else is around, or at least if they're around they're not paying attention or going to see. Can be a bit off putting for both of you if it feels like someone is staring.
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Returning_CEmen
09/17/17 6:56:59 PM
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Do you hold hands with her?
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ShamblerQ
09/17/17 7:12:04 PM
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You know, she could've kissed you just as well as you could've kissed her. Don't take the blame for everything. I think you're doing fine.
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MFBKBass5
09/17/17 7:29:15 PM
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Returning_CEmen posted...
Do you hold hands with her?


Nah we hug when we meet up and when we leave but not much physical contact yet...

ShamblerQ posted...
You know, she could've kissed you just as well as you could've kissed her. Don't take the blame for everything. I think you're doing fine.

Subconsciously I think the same thing...but she seems fairly traditional when it comes to dating. She's not conservative by any means, but doesn't come across as that super feminist type that takes charge like that. Guess that'll be my job lolz
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pinky0926
09/17/17 8:13:55 PM
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MFBKBass5 posted...
Subconsciously I think the same thing...but she seems fairly traditional when it comes to dating. She's not conservative by any means, but doesn't come across as that super feminist type that takes charge like that. Guess that'll be my job lolz


I think it's one of those cultural expectations that's so ingrained, unfortunately. I've rarely had a girl on a first date make the full move on me. Usually they'll give you a signal like grab your hand or stare pointedly at you, but sometimes not even that.
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masticatingman
09/17/17 8:17:37 PM
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Girls want a kiss on the first date as an encouraging sign...from my experience.

You at least go for it...and everybody will know where they stand after that.
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