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BigBaIIer
09/15/17 5:33:25 PM
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looking back ,i kinda felt guilty for being a bully (elementary school, middle school, HS, and even in college) because looking back, it was just the "status-quo" or something "i just did" without thinking about the future repercussions.

i was reading an article claiming that caleb (who was bullied) shot up and killed a student, so it's time to give back and i will answer any relevant questions anyone might have from a former bully's point of view.

yes, i was the kid who got a straw and used it as a spitball to spit at kids at the back of their head, i was the kid who would take your lunch money and threatened to beat you up if you didn't, i was the kid who made fun of you for whatever reason (weight/height/minority/etc).

Looking back, i felt bad and as I matured, i completely stopped and i'm way more empathetic on the victims of it.
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chill02
09/15/17 5:33:55 PM
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Can I call you Big Ruddy
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DragonGirlYuki
09/15/17 5:34:04 PM
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Did your main get warned again?
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Kitt
09/15/17 5:35:13 PM
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On scale of 1-10, how awesome are you?
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SageHarpuia
09/15/17 5:35:14 PM
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Oh I saw your username and thought you were someone else
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BigBaIIer
09/15/17 5:37:08 PM
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Cpt_Pineapple posted...
are you a cop now?


nope, not a cop. I work at a warehouse(pay and benefits is good)
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Turbam
09/15/17 5:37:17 PM
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Why would I want to ask a bully anything?











Actually scratch that, white or wheat bread?
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BigBaIIer
09/15/17 5:38:58 PM
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Turbam posted...
Why would I want to ask a bully anything?




Actually scratch that, white or wheat bread?


BigBaIIer posted...
looking back ,i kinda felt guilty for being a bully (elementary school, middle school, HS, and even in college) because looking back, it was just the "status-quo" or something "i just did" without thinking about the future repercussions.

i was reading an article claiming that caleb (who was bullied) shot up and killed a student, so it's time to give back and i will answer any relevant questions anyone might have from a former bully's point of view.

yes, i was the kid who got a straw and used it as a spitball to spit at kids at the back of their head, i was the kid who would take your lunch money and threatened to beat you up if you didn't, i was the kid who made fun of you for whatever reason (weight/height/minority/etc).

Looking back, i felt bad and as I matured, i completely stopped and i'm way more empathetic on the victims of it.


facepalm
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Turbam
09/15/17 5:40:34 PM
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Do bullies not eat bread?
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BigBaIIer
09/15/17 5:40:44 PM
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also it's "former" bully

i havn't bullied anyone since i was in college(i'm 30 now)
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BigBaIIer
09/15/17 5:48:23 PM
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SageHarpuia posted...
Oh I saw your username and thought you were someone else

oh ok because this is my only account on GF
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FaytlessHearts
09/15/17 5:52:36 PM
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How do bullies feel knowing years after the fact, that a former victim fucks your mother and gets her pregnant, and then has an abortion? How would one respond?
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BigBaIIer
09/15/17 5:53:47 PM
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FaytlessHearts posted...
How do bullies feel knowing years after the fact, that a former victim fucks your mother and gets her pregnant, and then has an abortion? How would one respond?


lol damn, i didn't know you had negative experiences with bullies for you to say such a hatred thing about them
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FaytlessHearts
09/15/17 5:56:14 PM
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BigBaIIer posted...
FaytlessHearts posted...
How do bullies feel knowing years after the fact, that a former victim fucks your mother and gets her pregnant, and then has an abortion? How would one respond?


lol damn, i didn't know you had negative experiences with bullies for you to say such a hatred thing about them

I mean..it isn't a hateful thing. His mom was hot. To this day, he doesn't know.
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BigBaIIer
09/15/17 6:01:26 PM
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FaytlessHearts posted...
BigBaIIer posted...
FaytlessHearts posted...
How do bullies feel knowing years after the fact, that a former victim fucks your mother and gets her pregnant, and then has an abortion? How would one respond?


lol damn, i didn't know you had negative experiences with bullies for you to say such a hatred thing about them

I mean..it isn't a hateful thing. His mom was hot. To this day, he doesn't know.


it's ok man, no reason to have any vindictive fantasies

i'm a former bully so i know where you are coming from. A lot of bully victims have vindictive yet suicidal tendencies
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FaytlessHearts
09/15/17 6:03:07 PM
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Oh okay then.
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TAFKAHurricane
09/15/17 6:03:33 PM
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Please answer the bread question
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Freddie_Mercury
09/15/17 6:04:42 PM
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BigBaIIer posted...
and even in college



wut
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BigBaIIer
09/15/17 6:07:22 PM
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Freddie_Mercury posted...
BigBaIIer posted...
and even in college



wut


happens all the time dude

especially if you lived on campus
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Colorahdo
09/15/17 6:09:38 PM
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If you're in college and you're being bullied you deserve it for being such a child
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BigBaIIer
09/15/17 6:12:55 PM
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Colorahdo posted...
If you're in college and you're being bullied you deserve it for being such a child


it has less to do with physical or intimidation, but other guys picking on you or messing with your boundaries. For example, this kid who played videogames allday in his dorm and ppl made fun of him for being a pariah/loner.

basically, college bullying has less to do with physical intimidation(like middle school/HS), but moreso on people picking on you/making fun of you/etc

Happened a lot especially in the 2 years of living on campus.
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Lorenzo_2003
09/15/17 6:16:36 PM
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Considering that you bullied as recently as college, what made you finally want to stop?

Have you made amends to any of your victims, do you even feel like you should (or not) and why?
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Kitt
09/15/17 6:17:18 PM
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Hey! You didn't answer my question.
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BigBaIIer
09/15/17 6:20:27 PM
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Lorenzo_2003 posted...
Considering that you bullied as recently as college, what made you finally want to stop?

Have you made amends to any of your victims, do you even feel like you should (or not) and why?


i'm 30 years old, college was 7 years ago and i moved to a different city so i never saw the people i used to pick on. There was this kid who i used to pick on in HS and we went to the same university but we didn't really speak. I just saw him around and i know we weren't in good terms so we just ignored each other.

i didn't go to my HS reunion unfortunately

if however i saw the people i used to pick on, i would definitely apologize for giving them a hard time. (and yes, i genuinely would apologize considering how bullying can really mess with people)
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Squidkids
09/15/17 6:21:55 PM
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BigBaIIer posted...
also it's "former" bully

i havn't bullied anyone since i was in college(i'm 30 now)

why where you still doing it in collage?

You never consider "what if I was treated like this?" when doing that to someone? In ever understood the lack of empathy/ conscience
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Tappor
09/15/17 6:22:18 PM
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Why did you choose the targets you chose
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BigBaIIer
09/15/17 6:29:37 PM
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Squidkids posted...
BigBaIIer posted...
also it's "former" bully

i havn't bullied anyone since i was in college(i'm 30 now)

why where you still doing it in collage?

You never consider "what if I was treated like this?" when doing that to someone? In ever understood the lack of empathy/ conscience


college was 7 years ago

i never really got bullied considering i always hung out with my older brother(who doesn't take shit from anyone).

if you hang out with people who respect you and some kid is bullying you, they will do something about it.

Like i said, it was just the "status-quo" at the time, it was something everyone "just did" without giving it a conscious thought. The same way kids like cartoons. As i got older though, i became more empathetic and i completely stopped.

as a matter of fact, a lot of the nicest guys that i know used to be bullies when they were younger. It's always the bully victims who give out a mean front as adults.(i don't blame them).
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BigBaIIer
09/15/17 6:32:55 PM
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Tappor posted...
Why did you choose the targets you chose


i don't go around picking random targets

it's always the people i knew who i picked on. it's a combination of things such as him lacking boundaries, him being the butt of everyone's joke, or guys who come off insecure/weak.

Usually, the guys i used to pick on were generally nerdy dudes or losers and are generally unpopular among our peer group.

it wasn't just me who picked on them, it was my friends too and we egg each other on.

Bullying is a primal trait back in the good old days, it's a primal trait dominating people, but bullying has no place in modern society
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DragonGirlYuki
09/15/17 6:40:06 PM
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I don't think you are BallerXRosetta- sorry for confusing you.

Have you ever bullied a girl?
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BigBaIIer
09/15/17 7:07:15 PM
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DragonGirlYuki posted...
I don't think you are BallerXRosetta- sorry for confusing you.

Have you ever bullied a girl?


no clue who that is

have i ever bullied a girl? nope, it's not that i didn't want to, it just wasn't in my train of thought at the time. it's generally other guys.

Generally speaking, i was cordial with most girls(unless of course it's the sister of one of the guys i picked on)
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Lorenzo_2003
09/15/17 8:03:43 PM
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What, if anything, could your victims have done to convince you to stop bullying them?

What could your schools have done to protect your victims?
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Feline_Heart
09/15/17 8:05:06 PM
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Is your boss someone who you used to bully?
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ChrisHanson24
09/15/17 8:08:37 PM
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lol anyone who names their kid Caleb deserves for him to be bullied!
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FightingGames
09/15/17 8:10:49 PM
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is it true that bullies grow up into being CEO's of major corporations?
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Lost_All_Senses
09/15/17 8:18:11 PM
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This is pathetic.

And for the question


How translucent can you be?...as a bully
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BigBaIIer
09/15/17 11:30:25 PM
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FightingGames posted...
is it true that bullies grow up into being CEO's of major corporations?


i don't see a correlation of a specific career and being a childhood bully

there are people whom i worked with who were also bullies and they are among the nicest ppl i know
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BigBaIIer
09/15/17 11:32:31 PM
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ChrisHanson24 posted...
lol anyone who names their kid Caleb deserves for him to be bullied!


honestly, the kid was overweight, had glasses, and seemed socially inept and unpopular. He's typically an easy target for most bullies.

I know for sure though that if he wasn't bullied he wouldn't have done the crime. The people who bullied him provoked him to act that way and it would be the key mitigating factor when it comes to his inevitable sentencing/conviction
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BigBaIIer
09/15/17 11:33:43 PM
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Feline_Heart posted...
Is your boss someone who you used to bully?


nah, he doesn't seem like the type. He seemed like someone i would be friendly/cordial with

warehouse managers are generally not the people you would fuck with growing up
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Gen_Lee_Enfield
09/15/17 11:36:26 PM
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You ever seen The Adventures of Pow Wow?
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