Poll of the Day > Do you regret having sex for the first time when you did?

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wolfy42
06/23/17 1:24:02 PM
#1:


Looking back, much later, I do regret it. I certainly enjoyed it, and at the time I was just insanely curious and wanted to see what it was like (was like a huge deal), but, it was with someone I didn't know, didn't end up in a relationship with, and due to a scare (protection broke eventually), didn't have sex for awhile afterwards (2 weeks of worry will do that).

So while I don't know if I could have made another choice at the time, I do regret having made that choice and wish I had waited for someone I really cared about.

What about you?
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Far-Queue
06/23/17 1:26:11 PM
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I regret how immature I was in my behavior towards some of the girls I dated earlier on, but I wouldn't say I regret the sex we had.
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ZiggiStardust
06/23/17 1:26:44 PM
#3:


no. the whole first time must be with someone special is a dumb myth that's carried by insecure people. as long as you're safe, fuck whomever you want. you will fuck many more, ok?

my first was with some girl i was dating in high school, i was horrible at it, she was horrible at it, but that's kinda how it's supposed to be. by no means would i call it special, and it doesn't matter that it wasn't, ok?

Far-Queue posted...
I regret how immature I was in my behavior towards some of the girls I dated earlier on, but I wouldn't say I regret the sex we had.

this, exactly.
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PurpIePerson
06/23/17 1:27:34 PM
#4:


no regretz. I maybe sorta wish my mom and brother and sister-in-law and nephew weren't all in the next room when it happened, but I think we got away with it for the most part.
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Jen0125
06/23/17 1:29:07 PM
#5:


no it's just sex
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mastermix3000
06/23/17 1:29:20 PM
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ZiggiStardust posted...
no. the whole first time must be with someone special is a dumb myth that's carried by insecure people. as long as you're safe, f*** whomever you want. you will f*** many more, ok?


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Dikitain
06/23/17 1:31:08 PM
#7:


No, my first time was a one night stand when I was 22. It gave me enough experience so I wasn't a complete idiot when I had it with someone I actually wanted to impress.
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wwinterj25
06/23/17 1:53:24 PM
#8:


Never have, never will but I'm not one of those who puts the thought of having sex for the first time on a pedestal like it's some sort of holy grail. Hypothetically it really doesn't matter to me who my first time is with. Preferably I'd be in a relationship and if that doesn't work out then so be it but if not so what?
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CarefreeDude
06/23/17 2:01:12 PM
#9:


I wish I knew lube was a thing at the time
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RCtheWSBC
06/23/17 2:03:46 PM
#10:


No ragerts. Even with his whiskey dick, it was a fun time
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TheFalseDeity
06/23/17 2:08:05 PM
#11:


Nope. Didnt live up to all the sex is life preaching but was still worth experiencing. Havent had it since and dont see that changing. If i had held out for someone i cared about id of died a virgin.
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Kungfu Kenobi
06/23/17 2:11:48 PM
#12:


Nothing to regret. It was pretty much perfect. Not too young, not weird old, with someone I really cared about and who was patient with my inexperience.
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SunWuKung420
06/23/17 2:12:35 PM
#13:


Nope.
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MoreRpgs
06/23/17 2:13:16 PM
#14:


Enjoyed it but wish it was with a different person.
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KogaSteelfang
06/23/17 2:24:40 PM
#15:


Knowing me, I probably would.
*shrug*
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Peterass
06/23/17 2:34:48 PM
#16:


No, but I was nervous at the time, afraid that I wouldn't be able to perform or be comfortable in that scenario, but it ended up turning out alright. As a virgin, the idea of sex seemed like the goal of younger guy and once that initial experience was out of the way, I was able to focus on relationships that were not just based on sex.
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Firewood18
06/23/17 3:18:10 PM
#18:


Nah. It was alright.
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FellWolf
06/23/17 3:23:18 PM
#19:


Virgin here :|
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Troll_Police_
06/23/17 3:23:19 PM
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the woman is currently my wife, so no
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fettster777
06/23/17 4:25:41 PM
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Yeah, kind of. It was a terrible experience. Condom broke too and she wasn't on BC. I hadn't come yet, but I still freaked out and she even took a morning after pill to calm me down, but it made her really sick and I kind felt relieved she wasn't gonna get pregnant, and bad for her at the same time for having to do that.

She was like 2 days from her period too so she probably wouldn't have gotten pregnant anyway, but I was so nerve-wracked and we had to eliminate all possibilities to get me to calm down some. She was super conservative, so if she got pregnant, she was definitely keeping it.

My current gf is very liberal and said she would take an abortion pill if that ever happened. I'm fine with that if its taken in the early first trimester since its basically just cells at that point still anyway.
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streamofthesky
06/23/17 4:41:40 PM
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I don't regret my first time. Barely even remember anything about it, it was not in any way some sort of special "magical experience," it just...was.
If I had gone along with my first opportunity to sleep with someone, I may have regretted it, though since I didn't I kind of regret *not* going along with it and wondering what I missed out on.
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Chr0noid
06/23/17 4:44:23 PM
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But TC, I haven't gotten laid yet.
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kukukupo
06/23/17 4:51:41 PM
#24:


Regret? No. Grateful? Yes.

No protection so many times and no teenage pregnancy or STDs.
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Funkdamental
06/23/17 4:57:55 PM
#25:


No. I regret farting during it, but...
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KogaSteelfang
06/23/17 5:07:55 PM
#26:


FellWolf posted...
Virgin here :|

Never would've guessed this. I could've sworn you'd talked about having sex before. Oh well, I'm sure you'll manage.
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TheCyborgNinja
06/23/17 5:15:42 PM
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I regret the surface upon which it happened. My knees...
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ss4parrothair
06/23/17 5:48:13 PM
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wwinterj25 posted...
Never have, never will but I'm not one of those who puts the thought of having sex for the first time on a pedestal like it's some sort of holy grail. Hypothetically it really doesn't matter to me who my first time is with. Preferably I'd be in a relationship and if that doesn't work out then so be it but if not so what?

@wwinterj25 why do you always say you never will
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ss4parrothair
06/23/17 5:48:37 PM
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Also,I couldn't wait so no I don't.
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wolfy42
06/23/17 5:50:39 PM
#30:


Yeah, I was pretty much at the point of not being able to wait either, which is why it happened. I regret not having it be with someone I cared about, and continued to be with afterwards, but I don't think I could have waited any longer.
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juicebox4
06/23/17 6:29:26 PM
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yeah. I was very drunk. with a girl I didn't completely care for. it was nice to break the virginity ice and all, but I wish I could've had one of those "special" first times lol. to this day I don't think I've banged a chick I truly, deeply actually care for. found most of them hot but then their personalities grate on me after a while and I drop em.

I'm genuinely envious of anyone who finds their "soul-mate".
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wwinterj25
06/23/17 9:32:28 PM
#32:


ss4parrothair posted...
why do you always say you never will


... because that seems like the way my fate has been written.
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ss4parrothair
06/24/17 2:53:32 AM
#33:


wwinterj25 posted...
ss4parrothair posted...
why do you always say you never will


... because that seems like the way my fate has been written.

:(
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Zeus
06/24/17 3:41:56 AM
#34:


Not really.
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JaH Reborn
06/24/17 4:28:55 AM
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No and I actually have a crazy story to tell. So, I first lost my virginity to a girl I met in high school. She was my very first serious girlfriend.

One day when her parents were gone she invited me over to her house to seal the deal. Once I get done doing what I did I head straight home and the absolute CRAZIEST thing happens. Did any of you guys ever have a project in middle school or a certain grade (maybe 4th grade-8th grade?) where you guys had to write a letter to your future self? Well that's what I did when I was in 7th grade.

As soon as I got home, my mom yells to me: “Isaiah, you got mail!” I open up the letter, and it's the letter I wrote when I was in 7th grade [I was 17 when I lost my virginity and was in the 12th grade (I was 12 years old when I wrote the letter)]. It said: “Dear Future Isaiah. Blah blah blah when you get older you're gonna do this and are not gonna do that blah blah blah. The very last sentence of the letter: When you are 17, that is the age when you will lose your virginity.”

Literally right when I got home from doing my deed with my girlfriend, I opened and read that letter which said exactly that. To this day it still amazes me how that happened. It's things like these that make me believe that fate and “what is meant to be” truly are a real concept of life.

Yes this actually happened. If there was a way I could prove it I would but sadly you're just gonna have to trust me on this.
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AllstarSniper32
06/24/17 4:36:34 AM
#36:


Nope.
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wolfy42
06/24/17 12:29:24 PM
#37:


The universe is funny like that JaH, I think we all have similar experiences in our lives.
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deoxxys
06/24/17 12:35:46 PM
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RCtheWSBC posted...
No ragerts. Even with his whiskey dick, it was a fun time

you fucked WhiskeyDisk?
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mastermix3000
06/24/17 12:50:21 PM
#39:


JaH Reborn posted...
No and I actually have a crazy story to tell. So, I first lost my virginity to a girl I met in high school. She was my very first serious girlfriend.

One day when her parents were gone she invited me over to her house to seal the deal. Once I get done doing what I did I head straight home and the absolute CRAZIEST thing happens. Did any of you guys ever have a project in middle school or a certain grade (maybe 4th grade-8th grade?) where you guys had to write a letter to your future self? Well that's what I did when I was in 7th grade.

As soon as I got home, my mom yells to me: “Isaiah, you got mail!” I open up the letter, and it's the letter I wrote when I was in 7th grade [I was 17 when I lost my virginity and was in the 12th grade (I was 12 years old when I wrote the letter)]. It said: “Dear Future Isaiah. Blah blah blah when you get older you're gonna do this and are not gonna do that blah blah blah. The very last sentence of the letter: When you are 17, that is the age when you will lose your virginity.”

Literally right when I got home from doing my deed with my girlfriend, I opened and read that letter which said exactly that. To this day it still amazes me how that happened. It's things like these that make me believe that fate and “what is meant to be” truly are a real concept of life.

Yes this actually happened. If there was a way I could prove it I would but sadly you're just gonna have to trust me on this.


Wow that's cool. I agree with the last statement too lol
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gguirao
06/24/17 1:18:28 PM
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I'll let you know when it happens.
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FrndNhbrHdCEman
06/24/17 3:27:36 PM
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Hell no.
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rexcrk
06/24/17 3:31:10 PM
#42:


It hasn't happened for me yet, but I've always wanted it to be with someone special. Otherwise I've just never really cared either way. I haven't minded waiting.
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Katon
06/24/17 4:21:16 PM
#43:


No, the first time was pretty awesome. There are plenty of times after that I've regretted, though....
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Mead
06/24/17 4:28:03 PM
#44:


No it was really good and with the love of my life
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Melon_Master
06/24/17 4:47:31 PM
#45:


Not in the least, if anything I wanted more and more. :x
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