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carpediempimp
05/01/17 4:03:50 PM
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so she turned me down a week or so ago

but i still enjoy her company and its obvious that its at least kinda mutual (shes actively went to speak anytime we've been in the same area since then)


so like i want to keep hanging with her but i know its a waste of time cause i'll never really be satisfied with whatever happens
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CommunismFTW
05/01/17 4:19:58 PM
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Immediately file into your brain: You're not gonna get that ass.

Can you live with this? Proceed as friends with zero pretensions about what could happen. e.g: don't try to get her drunk, have "real" talk, or flirt. Continue the patrol and hit up other girls.

Can't live with this? Distance yourself and move on.
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RedZaraki
05/01/17 4:21:10 PM
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If she turned you down, it's done. It happens.

Crush on another.
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Dustin1280
05/01/17 4:22:57 PM
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CommunismFTW posted...
Immediately file into your brain: You're not gonna get that ass.

Can you live with this? Proceed as friends with zero pretensions about what could happen. e.g: don't try to get her drunk, have "real" talk, or flirt. Continue the patrol and hit up other girls.

Can't live with this? Distance yourself and move on.


This is sage advice
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Leanaunfurled
05/01/17 4:23:15 PM
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You remind me of myself back when I was a teenager and I had a new crush every other week.
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WafflehouseJK
05/01/17 4:24:00 PM
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I've been caught up on a female friend of mine for almost a year.

Don't do that, be smart unlike me and actually stop hanging out with her.
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SwatterXX
05/01/17 4:24:18 PM
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I would move on. Easier said than done I know. I'm dealing with the same thing. You'll likely keep hoping she changes her mind but she won't.
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KILBOTz
05/01/17 4:25:13 PM
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ask her if she has any friends she could set you up with.
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gna647
05/01/17 4:34:42 PM
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carpediempimp
05/01/17 4:51:10 PM
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Leanaunfurled posted...
You remind me of myself back when I was a teenager and I had a new crush every other week.



Ehh crush is a little strong.

I just openly express interest in who ever interest me

CommunismFTW posted...
Immediately file into your brain: You're not gonna get that ass.

Can you live with this? Proceed as friends with zero pretensions about what could happen. e.g: don't try to get her drunk, have "real" talk, or flirt. Continue the patrol and hit up other girls.

Can't live with this? Distance yourself and move on.


That's where I'm torn now, I don't care if we ever hook up but I'd like to ya know
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OmitName
05/01/17 5:32:40 PM
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if someone came to me and said; write a story that starts with a guy that likes a lady. he told her "eh?" but she was like "m-mm."

i would have it be that first off he was completely open and honest. he would tell her all his feels and how those feels made him feel. not flowery exaggerated made up bullshit trying to scheme and get his way; real stuff. she would shrug, not mind it much, and still pursue his company. he would be a gentlemen, and gentlemanly so, accept her company politely. he would carry on valuing that friendship for what it was. in carrying on keeping the company of the lady; he would not jab or insist the way he feels for her persistently, but if a fond-ful pang for her arose suddenly. if genuine, he would express it now and again. it would have to be real and not part of a calculated agenda to wear her down. doing so also in part because stifled pangs beget poison and sorrow. either their relationship would grow platonic roots and sooth his ills of amative sickness in time, or something more might bloom. perhaps because he laid bare and clean all the wounds of his heart with is his confession, and subsequent honest admissions, over time his breaks would mend and turn to strength. perhaps even with his lady friend at his six. lady friends do make the best wingmen when seeking love. & ehhhhvreeeeone would live haaaaapy ever after.

the end.

yeah that'd b prtty gud.
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Solid Snake07
05/01/17 5:38:05 PM
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CommunismFTW posted...
Immediately file into your brain: You're not gonna get that ass.

Can you live with this? Proceed as friends with zero pretensions about what could happen. e.g: don't try to get her drunk, have "real" talk, or flirt. Continue the patrol and hit up other girls.

Can't live with this? Distance yourself and move on.



good advice here. If you can(and want to) be friends and expect nothing else then just keep being cool.

If you're hoping and holding out for something more, it's time to let it go.
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carpediempimp
05/01/17 7:58:56 PM
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bump
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