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don't like or want children.

Oh my fucking god I am serious.

They're mostly 30s and 40s and 50s women in this group, and yep, you guessed it, every god damn one of them has at least one kid, if not multiple. Whenever I see a good looking girl, I go, "oh, she's cute, alright, time to go see what her kids look like", and then I visit her page and it's covered in child pics.

But anyway, that wouldn't be so bad if they weren't such judgemental people. God help you if you let if be known that you don't like kids and would probably not date a single mother. It's just nuts, man. They unironically ask "why would a woman having kids be less desirable?" As if a potential guy wouldn't be bringing on years and years of future expense, debt, work, stress and heartache by stepping in to be a father. They literally can't even fathom it from a guy's point of view.
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You gotta see it from their perspective.
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That type is the older woman that is used goods that only wants to pump out little pieces of shit and have some poor sap, potentially you, pay them for it.

The number of women whose life goals amount to pumping out little worthless pieces of shit and literally being a housewife is remarkably higher than you'd think. It's honestly one of the most pathetic things I could possibly think of.

There's a reason why they're single at their advanced age, don't be their sap.

So the problem is that you're in a group that sucks? Just stop being in the group.

I'm aware that you are bringing up specifics and all, but you have basically pointed out something that ruins your enjoyment of being in the group to a large enough degree that I question why you even bother with it in the first place.
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Think of it this way; they're available because they have kids. You've gotta get what you can get, man. You're probably not gonna snag that elusive unicorn unless you're a badass in many areas of your life.

It seems dickish, but some guys just don't want or aren't ready to be a father figure to another guy's kid (which is what you are going to end up being if it gets serious, you can't just ignore the kid forever). It's a pretty big deal to bring not just one person into your life but multiple people, and usually be expected to be the breadwinner for them as well. I don't know why they don't understand that.

It gets depressing when you get older (I'm 30 now) and the only ones that don't have kids are the ones that explicitly don't want any. Usually are on the pill or whatever.
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clearaflagrantj posted...

That type is the older woman that is used goods that only wants to pump out little pieces of shit and have some poor sap, potentially you, pay them for it.

The number of women whose life goals amount to pumping out little worthless pieces of shit and literally being a housewife is remarkably higher than you'd think. It's honestly one of the most pathetic things I could possibly think of.

There's a reason why they're single at their advanced age, don't be their sap.

clear gets it
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clearaflagrantj posted...

That type is the older woman that is used goods that only wants to pump out little pieces of shit and have some poor sap, potentially you, pay them for it.

The number of women whose life goals amount to pumping out little worthless pieces of shit and literally being a housewife is remarkably higher than you'd think. It's honestly one of the most pathetic things I could possibly think of.

There's a reason why they're single at their advanced age, don't be their sap.

Wellllllll that kinda escalated. >_>

I mean, the main reason I made this topic is their attitude toward child-free people. They can have kids all they want, I don't care, just don't get bent out of shape when a guy doesn't want a relationship with you.
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spanky1 posted...

don't like or want children.

Oh my fucking god I am serious.

They're mostly 30s and 40s and 50s women in this group, and yep, you guessed it, every god damn one of them has at least one kid, if not multiple. Whenever I see a good looking girl, I go, "oh, she's cute, alright, time to go see what her kids look like", and then I visit her page and it's covered in child pics.

But anyway, that wouldn't be so bad if they weren't such judgemental people. God help you if you let if be known that you don't like kids and would probably not date a single mother. It's just nuts, man. They unironically ask "why would a woman having kids be less desirable?" As if a potential guy wouldn't be bringing on years and years of future expense, debt, work, stress and heartache by stepping in to be a father. They literally can't even fathom it from a guy's point of view.

I can understand not wanting to date someone with children. The baggage that comes with it plus the dude might still be around which means more crap.
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davyheinz posted...

So the problem is that you're in a group that sucks? Just stop being in the group.

I'm aware that you are bringing up specifics and all, but you have basically pointed out something that ruins your enjoyment of being in the group to a large enough degree that I question why you even bother with it in the first place.

No I still get more enjoyment being in the group despite this flaw.
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clearaflagrantj posted...

That type is the older woman that is used goods that only wants to pump out little pieces of shit and have some poor sap, potentially you, pay them for it.

The number of women whose life goals amount to pumping out little worthless pieces of shit and literally being a housewife is remarkably higher than you'd think. It's honestly one of the most pathetic things I could possibly think of.

There's a reason why they're single at their advanced age, don't be their sap.

Or maybe, just maybe, they genuinely love their children and want any potential mate to be accepting of their offspring. Novel idea, I know.

spanky1 posted...

davyheinz posted...

So the problem is that you're in a group that sucks? Just stop being in the group.

I'm aware that you are bringing up specifics and all, but you have basically pointed out something that ruins your enjoyment of being in the group to a large enough degree that I question why you even bother with it in the first place.

No I still get more enjoyment being in the group despite this flaw.

Oh, well alright then. Good luck with that minefield of shitty people.
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LastTomorrow posted...

spanky1 posted...

don't like or want children.

Oh my fucking god I am serious.

They're mostly 30s and 40s and 50s women in this group, and yep, you guessed it, every god damn one of them has at least one kid, if not multiple. Whenever I see a good looking girl, I go, "oh, she's cute, alright, time to go see what her kids look like", and then I visit her page and it's covered in child pics.

But anyway, that wouldn't be so bad if they weren't such judgemental people. God help you if you let if be known that you don't like kids and would probably not date a single mother. It's just nuts, man. They unironically ask "why would a woman having kids be less desirable?" As if a potential guy wouldn't be bringing on years and years of future expense, debt, work, stress and heartache by stepping in to be a father. They literally can't even fathom it from a guy's point of view.

I can understand not wanting to date someone with children. The baggage that comes with it plus the dude might still be around which means more crap.

Hah! It's funny you used the word "baggage". That was exactly the word that set one of these women off. They don't consider kids to be baggage and feel like that's a negative way to view them. And everyone except maybe one or two people agreed.
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Everyone has baggage. You're not a human unless you have some form of baggage or another in your adult life.

They're not BAGGAGE!!!! They're beautiful and I have no regrets!!!! This is a bundle package ONLY.
They are the most important people in my life and I will never love anyone more than I love them!!!

I will also sacrifice most of my time and love for them, if you have anything to say about it then FUCK YOU.

So, anyway, you interested? :)
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get some dating advice from doubledare
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DoctorPiranha3 posted...

Everyone has baggage. You're not a human unless you have some form of baggage or another in your adult life.

ergo TC is obligated to raise another man's child
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Don't get clear started on women.
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DoctorPiranha3 posted...

Everyone has baggage. You're not a human unless you have some form of baggage or another in your adult life.

No one has to pick my baggage up from soccer practice or cancel movie night because one of them swallowed a lego piece.

Annihilated posted...

DoctorPiranha3 posted...

Everyone has baggage. You're not a human unless you have some form of baggage or another in your adult life.

No one has to pick my baggage up from soccer practice or cancel movie night because one of them swallowed a lego piece.

But the sacrifices we make to get some pussy, knawmean. :)

all they want is a big strong man to wipe them off their feet and pay for their child's food and college
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After a certain age, you just gotta except a majority of a dating pool is gonna come with both men AND women who mostly likely have children. It's just common sense
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spanky1 posted...

LastTomorrow posted...

spanky1 posted...

don't like or want children.

Oh my fucking god I am serious.

They're mostly 30s and 40s and 50s women in this group, and yep, you guessed it, every god damn one of them has at least one kid, if not multiple. Whenever I see a good looking girl, I go, "oh, she's cute, alright, time to go see what her kids look like", and then I visit her page and it's covered in child pics.

But anyway, that wouldn't be so bad if they weren't such judgemental people. God help you if you let if be known that you don't like kids and would probably not date a single mother. It's just nuts, man. They unironically ask "why would a woman having kids be less desirable?" As if a potential guy wouldn't be bringing on years and years of future expense, debt, work, stress and heartache by stepping in to be a father. They literally can't even fathom it from a guy's point of view.

I can understand not wanting to date someone with children. The baggage that comes with it plus the dude might still be around which means more crap.

Hah! It's funny you used the word "baggage". That was exactly the word that set one of these women off. They don't consider kids to be baggage and feel like that's a negative way to view them. And everyone except maybe one or two people agreed.

No I don't mean the kids being baggage, I'm taking about the extra issues and negativity.
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