Poll of the Day > Should I tell this girl to suck a fat one?

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TheOrangeMisfit
04/10/17 11:30:34 PM
#1:


should I?


So here's the condensed version.

About a month ago I went out with a girl for a few hours, we seemed to have a moderate amount of fun. Asked to see her again at the end of the night, she said yes.

Some days later, I sent her some amusing work stuff, chatted for a bit, then she stopped responding.

A few days later, I sent her a musical cover I was working on, chatted for a bit, then didn't respond for a week.

A few days ago, I chatted her up a bit, asked if she wanted to go on a date trip, after some coyishness, she said yes, I suggested a follow up detail and then she didn't respond. (At this point, I told myself I would no longer double-text and if she responds great, if not, whatever)

So a couple of hours ago, she called me. I think it was accidental because it only rang a few times then hung up. I called her back a few minutes later, but she didn't respond. She still hasn't responded and it's been like 6 hours ago.

I'm obviously not amused. I do like her a bit, but her communication skills are pretty abysmal (either that or she's flat out rude) so I was considering telling her something along the lines of either respond or don't, just stop jerking me around. Closure is always nice.
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Kyuubi4269
04/10/17 11:33:08 PM
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Tell her to suck your fat one or GTFO.
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wwinterj25
04/10/17 11:35:43 PM
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Kyuubi4269 posted...
Tell her to suck your fat one or GTFO.

This is the only correct answer.
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WhiskeyDisk
04/10/17 11:35:57 PM
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No point in beating around the bush. Either she's down or she's not. No sense in being played.
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SunWuKung420
04/10/17 11:53:06 PM
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cb0Pk8J
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MICHALECOLE
04/10/17 11:54:30 PM
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SunWuKung420 posted...
cb0Pk8J

Seriously, how can you not see this?
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TheOrangeMisfit
04/10/17 11:57:08 PM
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MICHALECOLE posted...
SunWuKung420 posted...
cb0Pk8J

Seriously, how can you not see this?


I'm delirious. But in all seriousness, I'm living in my crazy world where if you ask someone to do something, and they're not interested, they simply say no. I guess it's easier to jerk someone around than to be upfront with them, but you'd think people would be above that in their 20s.
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MICHALECOLE
04/10/17 11:58:51 PM
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No, you'd completely expect that from people in their 20's

30's maybe not
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Lightning Bolt
04/11/17 12:02:53 AM
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TheOrangeMisfit posted...
you'd think people would be above that in their 20s.

Heheheh.

Oh wait, you're serious? Let me laugh even harder! AHAHAHAHHAHAH
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SunWuKung420
04/11/17 12:05:12 AM
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It's very common, and unfortunate, that an uninterested woman will simply stop contact rather than just say "no thank you."
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WhiskeyDisk
04/11/17 12:21:31 AM
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TheOrangeMisfit posted...
MICHALECOLE posted...
SunWuKung420 posted...
cb0Pk8J

Seriously, how can you not see this?


I'm delirious. But in all seriousness, I'm living in my crazy world where if you ask someone to do something, and they're not interested, they simply say no. I guess it's easier to jerk someone around than to be upfront with them, but you'd think people would be above that in their 20s.


hate to break it to you bro, but i deal with this with women well into their 30's and 40's.

by 35 they really stop being "fun". they're either too obsessed with their careers, or they're baby crazy...either way they develop this problem where they just can't be straightforward for some reason. if a woman can't level with you, there's no point in sticking around to get played at their leisure.
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dpavol1
04/11/17 3:09:48 AM
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Well now, to be fair, if you look at it from their point of view, they probably think that they're letting you down easier by no longer acknowledging your existence rather than just telling you that they're not that into you. Seriously, if you're expecting women of any age to have the balls to play it straight with you up front, you are chasing the wrong gender. Now that I think about it, though, there really aren't even a hell of a lot of guys with that quality anymore. Damn kids nowadays...
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J_Dawg983
04/11/17 3:12:59 AM
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I'd say move on but don't burn any bridges with her.
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Mead
04/11/17 3:17:55 AM
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Zangulus posted...
Move on.

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Lil69Leo
04/11/17 3:38:55 AM
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TheOrangeMisfit posted...
MICHALECOLE posted...
SunWuKung420 posted...
cb0Pk8J

Seriously, how can you not see this?


I'm delirious. But in all seriousness, I'm living in my crazy world where if you ask someone to do something, and they're not interested, they simply say no. I guess it's easier to jerk someone around than to be upfront with them, but you'd think people would be above that in their 20s.


Ya that's something most people lack these days. It's common in dating now. Just move onto the next one. If she's interested she might come back and then just tell her you moved on.
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Bugmeat
04/11/17 6:16:14 AM
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Sounds like she's playing some sort of stupid game to see how interested you are by seeing how hard you'll chase her. Probably some dumb shit she read in one of those ridiculous chick magazines that are always giving all sorts of horrible relationship advice.

If she messages you again asking about this trip just tell you went with someone else because you figured if she were actually interested she would have responded.

But telling her off like you're wanting to do is just going to amuse her. She's not going to really hear anything you say. You'll be "that guy" in her mind.
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SmokeMassTree
04/11/17 6:30:17 AM
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Every girl has either had a guy blow up on them over being straight forward about not having interest, or they've heard horror stories about it.

She doesn't owe you anything. Not one thing. If you can't take the hint, it's on you.

The first sign of a bitch not being into it I'm out. I don't look back, I don't 2nd guess it. There are plenty more sluts out there.

We are living in an age of endless options. This has horrible consequences on dating.
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SmokeMassTree
04/11/17 6:31:44 AM
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Absolutely don't feed her ego with another text or ultimatum.
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synth_real
04/11/17 7:16:03 AM
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Nah man, when girls do this stuff, nothing more needs to be said, it's just a waste of typing. Move on and continue trying to go somewhere, don't get stuck on a dead end. This is pretty typical of women these days when they're not interested, welcome to dating in 2017.
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Dikitain
04/11/17 7:58:27 AM
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This is why prostitution is better then dating. With a prostitute I pay a girl $50 and I get some. With a date I spend $50 and MIGHT get some.
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mastermix3000
04/11/17 8:16:04 AM
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Dikitain posted...
This is why prostitution is better then dating. With a prostitute I pay a girl $50 and I get some. With a date I spend $50 and MIGHT get some.


Lmfao so true haha
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fettster777
04/11/17 11:03:50 AM
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I think you just need to ignore her and forget about her.
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Kyuubi4269
04/11/17 11:11:42 AM
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Dikitain posted...
This is why prostitution is better then dating. With a prostitute I pay a girl $50 and I get some. With a date I spend $50 and MIGHT get some.

Hookers also have better customer service, better bodies and better performance.
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Smarkil
04/11/17 11:19:35 AM
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SmokeMassTree posted...
Every girl has either had a guy blow up on them over being straight forward about not having interest, or they've heard horror stories about it.


Srsly. This. I never ask someone out on the same day I go out with them for this reason (on the first date at least). Because when confronted face to face, most people will agree just to avoid the awkwardness.

But I also don't bother if I see any sign of disinterest. I just stop texting them and if they text me of their own accord, then I'll try to keep it going.

Oh, and for the record, DON'T BLOW UP ON HER. For fucks sake just chill out and go your own way. You're not doing them, yourself, or the rest of us any favors by being a dickhead.
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Jen0125
04/11/17 11:19:43 AM
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if she really wanted to talk to you she would.
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helIy
04/11/17 11:21:53 AM
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is this the dude who constantly thinks women have problems even though it's him and he gets super upset when they don't reply to his seven paragraph long text within seconds
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Smarkil
04/11/17 11:25:54 AM
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helIy posted...
is this the dude who constantly thinks women have problems even though it's him and he gets super upset when they don't reply to his seven paragraph long text within seconds


Oh shit, I think you might be right. Isn't this the one that posted his OKC convos?
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Jen0125
04/11/17 11:31:02 AM
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Smarkil posted...
Oh shit, I think you might be right. Isn't this the one that posted his OKC convos?



yeah it's him
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ZiggiStardust
04/11/17 11:31:19 AM
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i didn't even read the original post, but yes, yes you should, ok?
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TheOrangeMisfit
04/11/17 12:29:31 PM
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Jen0125 posted...
Smarkil posted...
Oh shit, I think you might be right. Isn't this the one that posted his OKC convos?



yeah it's him


Hey that's a mild exaggeration! And I also post amazing youtube videos I'll have you know...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rG9VSFIl4ZQ

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helIy
04/11/17 1:28:18 PM
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ugh, he's the youtube guy, too?
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Smarkil
04/11/17 1:30:35 PM
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helIy posted...
ugh, he's the youtube guy, too?


What are the odds he sent her his youtube vids?
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helIy
04/11/17 1:32:52 PM
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my youtube videos are much better because i only talk in one

the rest is dumb game recordings
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deoxxys
04/11/17 1:59:42 PM
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lol i like these pokemon card reviews

creepy mask though
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Peterass
04/11/17 2:43:45 PM
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Forget about her... If she comes around on her own and you're still interested, then maybe give it a shot. Otherwise, on to the next. So in essence, yes, tell her to suck a fat one.
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DirtBasedSoap
04/11/17 3:11:46 PM
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helIy posted...
is this the dude who constantly thinks women have problems even though it's him and he gets super upset when they don't reply to his seven paragraph long text within seconds

seriously. he's posted this shit multiple times.
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Omnishot
04/11/17 5:52:32 PM
#38:


Never double-text.
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TheOrangeMisfit
04/11/17 7:23:50 PM
#39:


Update? It's been more than 24 hours, she hasn't responded, I didn't contact her and deleted her number (mainly because I just found someone else to talk to)
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TheOrangeMisfit
04/14/17 11:14:54 PM
#40:


I knew I should have told her to suck a fat one...

About an hour ago I got a text from a string of numbers, "Hope you are doing well"

Wtf, how condescending can you get or maybe I'm taking it the wrong way.
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deoxxys
04/15/17 6:06:42 PM
#41:


TheOrangeMisfit posted...
I knew I should have told her to suck a fat one...

About an hour ago I got a text from a string of numbers, "Hope you are doing well"

Wtf, how condescending can you get or maybe I'm taking it the wrong way.

i dunno man that doesnt seem to give you too much info
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Ikzai
04/15/17 6:17:15 PM
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Just don't be a dick
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RedPixel
04/15/17 8:25:11 PM
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fettster777 posted...
I think you just need to ignore her and forget about her.

Sorry, TC.
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