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Coolppl Owns 04/10/17 5:48:59 PM #1:	BPD = borderline personality disorder i remember @Darkman124 warning me but by the time i realized it, i was already in too deep --- _.-=/Got Coolppl?\=-._ =-._\Got Coolppl?/_.-= <cite>Coolppl Owns posted [p:876933612] in i dated a ... [t:75222152]...</cite> <quote>BPD = borderline personality disorder i remember @Darkman124 warning me but by the time i realized it, i was already in too deep</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ChromaticAngel 04/10/17 5:49:48 PM #2:	Don't do that ever again. --- https://puu.sh/tcLsT/24f4611235.png <cite>ChromaticAngel posted [p:876933656] in i dated a ... [t:75222152]...</cite> <quote>Don't do that ever again.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
_Goggalor_ 04/10/17 5:49:50 PM #3:	I have it, don't need to ask shit. --- Now Playing- The Legend of Zelda: Breath of the Wild, The Last of Us Remastered <cite>_Goggalor_ posted [p:876933662] in i dated a ... [t:75222152]...</cite> <quote>I have it, don't need to ask shit.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Dathrowed1 04/10/17 5:57:28 PM #4:	How did you get stuck? Did she frequently cheat on you? --- sig <cite>Dathrowed1 posted [p:876934247] in i dated a ... [t:75222152]...</cite> <quote>How did you get stuck? Did she frequently cheat on you?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Coolppl Owns 04/10/17 5:57:38 PM #5:	ChromaticAngel posted... Don't do that ever again. definitely don't need to tell me twice. she still crosses my mind occasionally and i regret it every time i think about it. no ill will towards her, but i realize she had me trapped for a long time _Goggalor_ posted... I have it, don't need to ask shit. i hope you have been able to get treatment for that --- _.-=/Got Coolppl?\=-._ =-._\Got Coolppl?/_.-= <cite>Coolppl Owns posted [p:876934264] in i dated a ... [t:75222152]...</cite> <quote><cite>ChromaticAngel posted...</cite> <quote>Don't do that ever again.</quote> definitely don't need to tell me twice. she still crosses my mind occasionally and i regret it every time i think about it. no ill will towards her, but i realize she had me trapped for a long time <cite>_Goggalor_ posted...</cite> <quote>I have it, don't need to ask shit.</quote> i hope you have been able to get treatment for that</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
_Goggalor_ 04/10/17 5:58:56 PM #6:	Coolppl Owns posted... ChromaticAngel posted... Don't do that ever again. definitely don't need to tell me twice. she still crosses my mind occasionally and i regret it every time i think about it. no ill will towards her, but i realize she had me trapped for a long time _Goggalor_ posted... I have it, don't need to ask shit. i hope you have been able to get treatment for that I did. It's a lifelong thing, but believe it or not, it's manageable with a lot of self control and awareness. --- Now Playing- The Legend of Zelda: Breath of the Wild, The Last of Us Remastered <cite>_Goggalor_ posted [p:876934365] in i dated a ... [t:75222152]...</cite> <quote><cite>Coolppl Owns posted...</cite> <quote><cite>ChromaticAngel posted...</cite> <quote>Don't do that ever again.</quote> definitely don't need to tell me twice. she still crosses my mind occasionally and i regret it every time i think about it. no ill will towards her, but i realize she had me trapped for a long time <cite>_Goggalor_ posted...</cite> <quote>I have it, don't need to ask shit.</quote> i hope you have been able to get treatment for that</quote> I did. It's a lifelong thing, but believe it or not, it's manageable with a lot of self control and awareness.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Coolppl Owns 04/10/17 6:11:02 PM #7:	Dathrowed1 posted... How did you get stuck? Did she frequently cheat on you? i found out she had been sexting someone else behind my back i confronted her about it as soon as i found out, and told her i was going to break up with her. as soon as I confronted her, she went straight for a knife and tried to cut herself. my brain panicked and took her back. at the time i felt as if her self harm and possible suicide would be on my hands. i tried to work things out but eventually i realized i didn't want to be with her anymore. any time she sensed this, she would guilt trip into staying with her. she said things like "i'd kill myself if you left me" "how could you even think about doing this to me". it was a lot to handle. i tried not to think about unhappy i was and more about how i could make it work. eventually i ran out of patience and realized that this was not sustainable and that if she were to ever kill herself it wouldn't be on my hands --- _.-=/Got Coolppl?\=-._ =-._\Got Coolppl?/_.-= <cite>Coolppl Owns posted [p:876935154] in i dated a ... [t:75222152]...</cite> <quote><cite>Dathrowed1 posted...</cite> <quote>How did you get stuck? Did she frequently cheat on you?</quote> i found out she had been sexting someone else behind my back i confronted her about it as soon as i found out, and told her i was going to break up with her. as soon as I confronted her, she went straight for a knife and tried to cut herself. my brain panicked and took her back. at the time i felt as if her self harm and possible suicide would be on my hands. i tried to work things out but eventually i realized i didn't want to be with her anymore. any time she sensed this, she would guilt trip into staying with her. she said things like "i'd kill myself if you left me" "how could you even think about doing this to me". it was a lot to handle. i tried not to think about unhappy i was and more about how i could make it work. eventually i ran out of patience and realized that this was not sustainable and that if she were to ever kill herself it wouldn't be on my hands</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
NeonOctopus 04/10/17 6:13:30 PM #8:	How was da sex? Were different personalities better than others? >_> --- http://i.imgur.com/nlaY1qH.jpg http://i.imgur.com/zHJ1OCo.gif http://i.imgur.com/btBPP4E.jpg http://i.imgur.com/1B3bMHw.gif <cite>NeonOctopus posted [p:876935308] in i dated a ... [t:75222152]...</cite> <quote>How was da sex? Were different personalities better than others? >_></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
yem69420 04/10/17 6:15:14 PM #9:	i dated a girl with borderline i dated a girl with bipolar disorder the one with borderline was the biggest fuckin pathological liar I have ever met. --- psn, steam id: yem69420 origin id: yemman 360/xbone gt/uplay: cjpitt1985 <cite>yem69420 posted [p:876935420] in i dated a ... [t:75222152]...</cite> <quote>i dated a girl with borderline i dated a girl with bipolar disorder the one with borderline was the biggest fuckin pathological liar I have ever met.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
armandro 04/10/17 6:17:28 PM #10:	Baltimore Police Department --- http://i.imgur.com/sKghEcP.gif 8 October, 2023 <cite>armandro posted [p:876935560] in i dated a ... [t:75222152]...</cite> <quote>Baltimore Police Department</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Coolppl Owns 04/10/17 6:20:44 PM #11:	_Goggalor_ posted... Coolppl Owns posted... ChromaticAngel posted... Don't do that ever again. definitely don't need to tell me twice. she still crosses my mind occasionally and i regret it every time i think about it. no ill will towards her, but i realize she had me trapped for a long time _Goggalor_ posted... I have it, don't need to ask shit. i hope you have been able to get treatment for that I did. It's a lifelong thing, but believe it or not, it's manageable with a lot of self control and awareness. that is good to hear. i hope that continues to go well for you and anyone else with BPD. i don't think it was necessarily her fault for her being the way she was. she grew up with an abusive family and had abusive boyfriends in the past. yes ultimately she did do some shitty things but i realize that her environment had a lot to do with it as well. NeonOctopus posted... How was da sex? Were different personalities better than others? >_> the sex was always bombtastic. however, i think you are getting this confused with multiple personality disorder. BPD is more characterized by things like risky behavior, unpredictable mood changes, fear of abandonment, etc. https://psychcentral.com/lib/characteristics-of-borderline-personality-disorder/ yem69420 posted... i dated a girl with borderline i dated a girl with bipolar disorder the one with borderline was the biggest fuckin pathological liar I have ever met. only neurotypical girls from now on, please. for your mental health --- _.-=/Got Coolppl?\=-._ =-._\Got Coolppl?/_.-= <cite>Coolppl Owns posted [p:876935739] in i dated a ... [t:75222152]...</cite> <quote><cite>_Goggalor_ posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Coolppl Owns posted...</cite> <quote><cite>ChromaticAngel posted...</cite> <quote>Don't do that ever again.</quote> definitely don't need to tell me twice. she still crosses my mind occasionally and i regret it every time i think about it. no ill will towards her, but i realize she had me trapped for a long time <cite>_Goggalor_ posted...</cite> <quote>I have it, don't need to ask shit.</quote> i hope you have been able to get treatment for that</quote> I did. It's a lifelong thing, but believe it or not, it's manageable with a lot of self control and awareness.</quote> that is good to hear. i hope that continues to go well for you and anyone else with BPD. i don't think it was necessarily her fault for her being the way she was. she grew up with an abusive family and had abusive boyfriends in the past. yes ultimately she did do some shitty things but i realize that her environment had a lot to do with it as well. <cite>NeonOctopus posted...</cite> <quote>How was da sex? Were different personalities better than others? >_></quote> the sex was always bombtastic. however, i think you are getting this confused with multiple personality disorder. BPD is more characterized by things like risky behavior, unpredictable mood changes, fear of abandonment, etc. https://psychcentral.com/lib/characteristics-of-borderline-personality-disorder/ <cite>yem69420 posted...</cite> <quote>i dated a girl with borderline i dated a girl with bipolar disorder the one with borderline was the biggest fuckin pathological liar I have ever met.</quote> only neurotypical girls from now on, please. for your mental health</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Darkman124 04/10/17 6:21:46 PM #12:	i'm sorry it got as bad as it did usually a man has to put himself through that once before he learns to respond to the warning signs (unless he swims in pussy) --- And when the hourglass has run out, eternity asks you about only one thing: whether you have lived in despair or not. <cite>Darkman124 posted [p:876935816] in i dated a ... [t:75222152]...</cite> <quote>i'm sorry it got as bad as it did usually a man has to put himself through that once before he learns to respond to the warning signs (unless he swims in pussy)</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Cartwheel_Kick 04/10/17 6:28:19 PM #13:	My first BF had BPD as well, but while it was a shitload of manipulation and emotional hell I never experienced the textbook "leave me and I'll kill myself" bullshit. Jesus It's so ridiculous even for a BPD. It feels like we all need to go through a shitty relationship before anything else. Some of us just get extra shitty ones. <cite>Cartwheel_Kick posted [p:876936203] in i dated a ... [t:75222152]...</cite> <quote>My first BF had BPD as well, but while it was a shitload of manipulation and emotional hell I never experienced the textbook "leave me and I'll kill myself" bullshit. Jesus It's so ridiculous even for a BPD. It feels like we all need to go through a shitty relationship before anything else. Some of us just get extra shitty ones.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
EdgeMaster 04/10/17 6:29:18 PM #14:	Coolppl Owns posted... Dathrowed1 posted... How did you get stuck? Did she frequently cheat on you? i found out she had been sexting someone else behind my back i confronted her about it as soon as i found out, and told her i was going to break up with her. as soon as I confronted her, she went straight for a knife and tried to cut herself. my brain panicked and took her back. at the time i felt as if her self harm and possible suicide would be on my hands. i tried to work things out but eventually i realized i didn't want to be with her anymore. any time she sensed this, she would guilt trip into staying with her. she said things like "i'd kill myself if you left me" "how could you even think about doing this to me". it was a lot to handle. i tried not to think about unhappy i was and more about how i could make it work. eventually i ran out of patience and realized that this was not sustainable and that if she were to ever kill herself it wouldn't be on my hands Lol sounds about right. Except she probably fucked anything that stood to piss that gave her attention and you never found out about it. What really amuses me is mental health forums on BPD barely even mention cheating or it's just a quick glance and time line of the times she has. It's like it's old news and everyone is well aware you're gonna get cheated on left and right dating a BPD chick. --- If you don't have anything nice to say, say it on the internet. ****poster Extraordinaire <cite>EdgeMaster posted [p:876936264] in i dated a ... [t:75222152]...</cite> <quote><cite>Coolppl Owns posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Dathrowed1 posted...</cite> <quote>How did you get stuck? Did she frequently cheat on you?</quote> i found out she had been sexting someone else behind my back i confronted her about it as soon as i found out, and told her i was going to break up with her. as soon as I confronted her, she went straight for a knife and tried to cut herself. my brain panicked and took her back. at the time i felt as if her self harm and possible suicide would be on my hands. i tried to work things out but eventually i realized i didn't want to be with her anymore. any time she sensed this, she would guilt trip into staying with her. she said things like "i'd kill myself if you left me" "how could you even think about doing this to me". it was a lot to handle. i tried not to think about unhappy i was and more about how i could make it work. eventually i ran out of patience and realized that this was not sustainable and that if she were to ever kill herself it wouldn't be on my hands</quote> Lol sounds about right. Except she probably fucked anything that stood to piss that gave her attention and you never found out about it. What really amuses me is mental health forums on BPD barely even mention cheating or it's just a quick glance and time line of the times she has. It's like it's old news and everyone is well aware you're gonna get cheated on left and right dating a BPD chick.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Coolppl Owns 04/10/17 6:34:03 PM #15:	Darkman124 posted... i'm sorry it got as bad as it did usually a man has to put himself through that once before he learns to respond to the warning signs (unless he swims in pussy) can't say you didn't warn me Cartwheel_Kick posted... My first BF had BPD as well, but while it was a shitload of manipulation and emotional hell I never experienced the textbook "leave me and I'll kill myself" bullshit. Jesus It's so ridiculous even for a BPD. It feels like we all need to go through a shitty relationship before anything else. Some of us just get extra shitty ones. i'm glad you eventually got out of it. i remember when i was still in the relationship i read stories of people being married to a BPD partner. imagine that hell on earth. dating a neurotypical woman is so much easier and a huge relief. i almost forgot what it felt like to be into your girlfriend but it feels good man --- _.-=/Got Coolppl?\=-._ =-._\Got Coolppl?/_.-= <cite>Coolppl Owns posted [p:876936539] in i dated a ... [t:75222152]...</cite> <quote><cite>Darkman124 posted...</cite> <quote>i'm sorry it got as bad as it did usually a man has to put himself through that once before he learns to respond to the warning signs (unless he swims in pussy)</quote> can't say you didn't warn me <cite>Cartwheel_Kick posted...</cite> <quote>My first BF had BPD as well, but while it was a shitload of manipulation and emotional hell I never experienced the textbook "leave me and I'll kill myself" bullshit. Jesus It's so ridiculous even for a BPD. It feels like we all need to go through a shitty relationship before anything else. Some of us just get extra shitty ones.</quote> i'm glad you eventually got out of it. i remember when i was still in the relationship i read stories of people being married to a BPD partner. imagine that hell on earth. dating a neurotypical woman is so much easier and a huge relief. i almost forgot what it felt like to be into your girlfriend but it feels good man</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Coolppl Owns 04/10/17 7:32:08 PM #16:	EdgeMaster posted... Coolppl Owns posted... Dathrowed1 posted... How did you get stuck? Did she frequently cheat on you? i found out she had been sexting someone else behind my back i confronted her about it as soon as i found out, and told her i was going to break up with her. as soon as I confronted her, she went straight for a knife and tried to cut herself. my brain panicked and took her back. at the time i felt as if her self harm and possible suicide would be on my hands. i tried to work things out but eventually i realized i didn't want to be with her anymore. any time she sensed this, she would guilt trip into staying with her. she said things like "i'd kill myself if you left me" "how could you even think about doing this to me". it was a lot to handle. i tried not to think about unhappy i was and more about how i could make it work. eventually i ran out of patience and realized that this was not sustainable and that if she were to ever kill herself it wouldn't be on my hands Lol sounds about right. Except she probably fucked anything that stood to piss that gave her attention and you never found out about it. What really amuses me is mental health forums on BPD barely even mention cheating or it's just a quick glance and time line of the times she has. It's like it's old news and everyone is well aware you're gonna get cheated on left and right dating a BPD chick. before i met her, she had just broken up with her long term BF and jumped into dating sites. in the span of 2 months she fucked 6 guys not including me yes her body her choice but c'mon i pretty much just ignored all the red flags because she treated me like a king, at least for the first 6 months --- _.-=/Got Coolppl?\=-._ =-._\Got Coolppl?/_.-= <cite>Coolppl Owns posted [p:876939971] in i dated a ... [t:75222152]...</cite> <quote><cite>EdgeMaster posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Coolppl Owns posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Dathrowed1 posted...</cite> <quote>How did you get stuck? Did she frequently cheat on you?</quote> i found out she had been sexting someone else behind my back i confronted her about it as soon as i found out, and told her i was going to break up with her. as soon as I confronted her, she went straight for a knife and tried to cut herself. my brain panicked and took her back. at the time i felt as if her self harm and possible suicide would be on my hands. i tried to work things out but eventually i realized i didn't want to be with her anymore. any time she sensed this, she would guilt trip into staying with her. she said things like "i'd kill myself if you left me" "how could you even think about doing this to me". it was a lot to handle. i tried not to think about unhappy i was and more about how i could make it work. eventually i ran out of patience and realized that this was not sustainable and that if she were to ever kill herself it wouldn't be on my hands</quote> Lol sounds about right. Except she probably fucked anything that stood to piss that gave her attention and you never found out about it. What really amuses me is mental health forums on BPD barely even mention cheating or it's just a quick glance and time line of the times she has. It's like it's old news and everyone is well aware you're gonna get cheated on left and right dating a BPD chick.</quote> before i met her, she had just broken up with her long term BF and jumped into dating sites. in the span of 2 months she fucked 6 guys not including me yes her body her choice but c'mon i pretty much just ignored all the red flags because she treated me like a king, at least for the first 6 months</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Iodine 04/10/17 7:35:54 PM #17:	armandro posted... Baltimore Police Department This was literally my thought until I opened the topic. --- In Belichick we Trust <cite>Iodine posted [p:876940201] in i dated a ... [t:75222152]...</cite> <quote><cite>armandro posted...</cite> <quote>Baltimore Police Department</quote> This was literally my thought until I opened the topic.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ColdOne666 04/10/17 7:38:09 PM #18:	How hot was she? --- FFX is the best game of all time. The only good Nintendo franchises are Pokemon and Fire Emblem. Comics are for kids. https://i.imgur.com/LJ3WSyB.gif <cite>ColdOne666 posted [p:876940344] in i dated a ... [t:75222152]...</cite> <quote>How hot was she?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Manocheese 04/10/17 7:42:27 PM #19:	Coolppl Owns posted... Dathrowed1 posted... How did you get stuck? Did she frequently cheat on you? i found out she had been sexting someone else behind my back Is this the same girl who sent you a video of herself masturbating before you ever met or even talked to her? If so, you shouldn't have been surprised that she's a slut. --- ()_() Hardcore - We'll probably be modded for this... (o.o) http://manocheese.googlepages.com/manocheesery <cite>Manocheese posted [p:876940570] in i dated a ... [t:75222152]...</cite> <quote><cite>Coolppl Owns posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Dathrowed1 posted...</cite> <quote>How did you get stuck? Did she frequently cheat on you?</quote> i found out she had been sexting someone else behind my back </quote> Is this the same girl who sent you a video of herself masturbating before you ever met or even talked to her? If so, you shouldn't have been surprised that she's a slut.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Cartwheel_Kick 04/10/17 7:45:10 PM #20:	EdgeMaster posted... What really amuses me is mental health forums on BPD barely even mention cheating or it's just a quick glance and time line of the times she has. It's like it's old news and everyone is well aware you're gonna get cheated on left and right dating a BPD chick. 100% sure mine didn't cheat though. I don't think it's par for the course. Although I'm starting to think I had it easy. Yours sounded like a real catch TC. At least it's all in the past. <cite>Cartwheel_Kick posted [p:876940718] in i dated a ... [t:75222152]...</cite> <quote><cite>EdgeMaster posted...</cite> <quote> What really amuses me is mental health forums on BPD barely even mention cheating or it's just a quick glance and time line of the times she has. It's like it's old news and everyone is well aware you're gonna get cheated on left and right dating a BPD chick.</quote> 100% sure mine didn't cheat though. I don't think it's par for the course. Although I'm starting to think I had it easy. Yours sounded like a real catch TC. At least it's all in the past.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Dathrowed1 04/10/17 8:26:32 PM #21:	EdgeMaster posted... Lol sounds about right. Except she probably f*ed anything that stood to piss that gave her attention and you never found out about it. The girl who I knew (not involved with) threw herself at any guy who paid any attention to her and expected to sleep with them ASAP. This was despite the fact that she's a misandrist. --- sig <cite>Dathrowed1 posted [p:876943392] in i dated a ... [t:75222152]...</cite> <quote><cite>EdgeMaster posted...</cite> <quote>Lol sounds about right. Except she probably f*ed anything that stood to piss that gave her attention and you never found out about it. </quote> The girl who I knew (not involved with) threw herself at any guy who paid any attention to her and expected to sleep with them ASAP. This was despite the fact that she's a misandrist.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
green butter 04/10/17 8:29:20 PM #22:	did she fuck with drugs --- http://i.imgur.com/LhwwG.gif <cite>green butter posted [p:876943572] in i dated a ... [t:75222152]...</cite> <quote>did she fuck with drugs</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Coolppl Owns 04/10/17 8:36:46 PM #23:	Manocheese posted... Coolppl Owns posted... Dathrowed1 posted... How did you get stuck? Did she frequently cheat on you? i found out she had been sexting someone else behind my back Is this the same girl who sent you a video of herself masturbating before you ever met or even talked to her? If so, you shouldn't have been surprised that she's a slut. fair enough green butter posted... did she fuck with drugs nothing harder than bud, surprisingly --- _.-=/Got Coolppl?\=-._ =-._\Got Coolppl?/_.-= <cite>Coolppl Owns posted [p:876944019] in i dated a ... [t:75222152]...</cite> <quote><cite>Manocheese posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Coolppl Owns posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Dathrowed1 posted...</cite> <quote>How did you get stuck? Did she frequently cheat on you?</quote> i found out she had been sexting someone else behind my back </quote> Is this the same girl who sent you a video of herself masturbating before you ever met or even talked to her? If so, you shouldn't have been surprised that she's a slut.</quote> fair enough <cite>green butter posted...</cite> <quote>did she fuck with drugs</quote> nothing harder than bud, surprisingly</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Ruvan22 04/10/17 11:37:17 PM #24:	Coolppl Owns posted... EdgeMaster posted... Coolppl Owns posted... Dathrowed1 posted... How did you get stuck? Did she frequently cheat on you? i found out she had been sexting someone else behind my back i confronted her about it as soon as i found out, and told her i was going to break up with her. as soon as I confronted her, she went straight for a knife and tried to cut herself. my brain panicked and took her back. at the time i felt as if her self harm and possible suicide would be on my hands. i tried to work things out but eventually i realized i didn't want to be with her anymore. any time she sensed this, she would guilt trip into staying with her. she said things like "i'd kill myself if you left me" "how could you even think about doing this to me". it was a lot to handle. i tried not to think about unhappy i was and more about how i could make it work. eventually i ran out of patience and realized that this was not sustainable and that if she were to ever kill herself it wouldn't be on my hands Lol sounds about right. Except she probably fucked anything that stood to piss that gave her attention and you never found out about it. What really amuses me is mental health forums on BPD barely even mention cheating or it's just a quick glance and time line of the times she has. It's like it's old news and everyone is well aware you're gonna get cheated on left and right dating a BPD chick. before i met her, she had just broken up with her long term BF and jumped into dating sites. in the span of 2 months she fucked 6 guys not including me yes her body her choice but c'mon i pretty much just ignored all the red flags because she treated me like a king, at least for the first 6 months How did she treat you like a king? <cite>Ruvan22 posted [p:876956345] in i dated a ... [t:75222152]...</cite> <quote><cite>Coolppl Owns posted...</cite> <quote><cite>EdgeMaster posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Coolppl Owns posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Dathrowed1 posted...</cite> <quote>How did you get stuck? Did she frequently cheat on you?</quote> i found out she had been sexting someone else behind my back i confronted her about it as soon as i found out, and told her i was going to break up with her. as soon as I confronted her, she went straight for a knife and tried to cut herself. my brain panicked and took her back. at the time i felt as if her self harm and possible suicide would be on my hands. i tried to work things out but eventually i realized i didn't want to be with her anymore. any time she sensed this, she would guilt trip into staying with her. she said things like "i'd kill myself if you left me" "how could you even think about doing this to me". it was a lot to handle. i tried not to think about unhappy i was and more about how i could make it work. eventually i ran out of patience and realized that this was not sustainable and that if she were to ever kill herself it wouldn't be on my hands</quote> Lol sounds about right. Except she probably fucked anything that stood to piss that gave her attention and you never found out about it. What really amuses me is mental health forums on BPD barely even mention cheating or it's just a quick glance and time line of the times she has. It's like it's old news and everyone is well aware you're gonna get cheated on left and right dating a BPD chick.</quote> before i met her, she had just broken up with her long term BF and jumped into dating sites. in the span of 2 months she fucked 6 guys not including me yes her body her choice but c'mon i pretty much just ignored all the red flags because she treated me like a king, at least for the first 6 months</quote> How did she treat you like a king?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
BoobsAreMurder 04/10/17 11:38:55 PM #25:	One of my friends mom has BPD and he has a lot of problems including trying to make me feel like I've used him somehow. Could the apple fall far from the tree? --- Kamala Harris 2020 <cite>BoobsAreMurder posted [p:876956435] in i dated a ... [t:75222152]...</cite> <quote>One of my friends mom has BPD and he has a lot of problems including trying to make me feel like I've used him somehow. Could the apple fall far from the tree?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
EdgeMaster 04/11/17 3:50:02 AM #26:	Cartwheel_Kick posted... EdgeMaster posted... What really amuses me is mental health forums on BPD barely even mention cheating or it's just a quick glance and time line of the times she has. It's like it's old news and everyone is well aware you're gonna get cheated on left and right dating a BPD chick. 100% sure mine didn't cheat though. I don't think it's par for the course. Although I'm starting to think I had it easy. Yours sounded like a real catch TC. At least it's all in the past. Count your blessings I guess... BPD has a long list of symptoms and some borrow other traits from personality disorders such as anti-social or narcissistic behaviors. The one I was involved with was more histrionic but close enough.... infidelity, compulsive lying, and substance abuse pretty much come standard though. Dathrowed1 posted... EdgeMaster posted... Lol sounds about right. Except she probably f*ed anything that stood to piss that gave her attention and you never found out about it. The girl who I knew (not involved with) threw herself at any guy who paid any attention to her and expected to sleep with them ASAP. This was despite the fact that she's a misandrist. Made me lol. --- If you don't have anything nice to say, say it on the internet. poster Extraordinaire <cite>EdgeMaster posted [p:876966170] in i dated a ... [t:75222152]...</cite> <quote><cite>Cartwheel_Kick posted...</cite> <quote><cite>EdgeMaster posted...</cite> <quote> What really amuses me is mental health forums on BPD barely even mention cheating or it's just a quick glance and time line of the times she has. It's like it's old news and everyone is well aware you're gonna get cheated on left and right dating a BPD chick.</quote> 100% sure mine didn't cheat though. I don't think it's par for the course. Although I'm starting to think I had it easy. Yours sounded like a real catch TC. At least it's all in the past.</quote> Count your blessings I guess... BPD has a long list of symptoms and some borrow other traits from personality disorders such as anti-social or narcissistic behaviors. The one I was involved with was more histrionic but close enough.... infidelity, compulsive lying, and substance abuse pretty much come standard though. <cite>Dathrowed1 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>EdgeMaster posted...</cite> <quote>Lol sounds about right. Except she probably f*ed anything that stood to piss that gave her attention and you never found out about it. </quote> The girl who I knew (not involved with) threw herself at any guy who paid any attention to her and expected to sleep with them ASAP. This was despite the fact that she's a misandrist.</quote> Made me lol.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Ki_cat_ 04/11/17 5:54:09 AM #27:	My partner was/is diagnosed with BPD. I've dated them close to a year, known them for close to 2 years now. They have some anxiety issues but they're fully aware of it and really do try. She knows when she's being a bitch to people and 9/10 times it is valid. Even though she's been diagnosed, she doesn't really have any major red flags. Doesn't try to guilt me into anything, manipulate etc...If I want to break up I'm sure she'd be hurt and stuff but for the most part, she's really respectful. Only had a few partners before me. Drunk a bit but never did anything too detrimental. I'm not really worried overall. --- People are afraid of what they don't understand. <cite>Ki_cat_ posted [p:876968829] in i dated a ... [t:75222152]...</cite> <quote>My partner was/is diagnosed with BPD. I've dated them close to a year, known them for close to 2 years now. They have some anxiety issues but they're fully aware of it and really do try. She knows when she's being a bitch to people and 9/10 times it is valid. Even though she's been diagnosed, she doesn't really have any major red flags. Doesn't try to guilt me into anything, manipulate etc...If I want to break up I'm sure she'd be hurt and stuff but for the most part, she's really respectful. Only had a few partners before me. Drunk a bit but never did anything too detrimental. I'm not really worried overall.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Back_Stabbath 04/11/17 5:57:44 AM #28:	thinking of jumping into this... situation with a girl i've been talking to online for over a year. i can handle mood swings and what-have-you, but the cheating thing is what worries me.. this girl is put off sex entirely due to a whole other bag of cats, so I don't think it should be an issue but... idk, CE... idk. --- PSN: StabbathUS \| Steam: Back__Stabbath \| XBL: MrStabbath <cite>Back_Stabbath posted [p:876968910] in i dated a ... [t:75222152]...</cite> <quote>thinking of jumping into this... situation with a girl i've been talking to online for over a year. i can handle mood swings and what-have-you, but the cheating thing is what worries me.. this girl is put off sex entirely due to a whole other bag of cats, so I don't think it should be an issue but... idk, CE... idk.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Ki_cat_ 04/11/17 6:03:38 AM #29:	Don't date people if you have a reason to distrust them. --- People are afraid of what they don't understand. <cite>Ki_cat_ posted [p:876969015] in i dated a ... [t:75222152]...</cite> <quote>Don't date people if you have a reason to distrust them.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Darkman124 04/11/17 8:42:34 AM #30:	Coolppl Owns posted... can't say you didn't warn me it's always hardest to see when you're so close to it. but i knew you'd figure it out in your own time. though i figured around the "let's have a one-way open relationship so you don't leave me" part you'd see the problem --- And when the hourglass has run out, eternity asks you about only one thing: whether you have lived in despair or not. <cite>Darkman124 posted [p:876972913] in i dated a ... [t:75222152]...</cite> <quote><cite>Coolppl Owns posted...</cite> <quote> can't say you didn't warn me</quote> it's always hardest to see when you're so close to it. but i knew you'd figure it out in your own time. though i figured around the "let's have a one-way open relationship so you don't leave me" part you'd see the problem</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Coolppl Owns 04/11/17 9:47:14 AM #31:	How did she treat you like a king? -roped me in with the best sex I ever had at the time -boosted my ego with words -bought me gifts often (before I realized she was actually broke AF) she was initially very nice to me, but arguments with her would almost always end up being an all out war BoobsAreMurder posted... One of my friends mom has BPD and he has a lot of problems including trying to make me feel like I've used him somehow. Could the apple fall far from the tree? if his mom has it it's very likely that he has it too Ki_cat_ posted... My partner was/is diagnosed with BPD. I've dated them close to a year, known them for close to 2 years now. They have some anxiety issues but they're fully aware of it and really do try. She knows when she's being a bitch to people and 9/10 times it is valid. Even though she's been diagnosed, she doesn't really have any major red flags. Doesn't try to guilt me into anything, manipulate etc...If I want to break up I'm sure she'd be hurt and stuff but for the most part, she's really respectful. Only had a few partners before me. Drunk a bit but never did anything too detrimental. I'm not really worried overall. sounds like she has it under control. it's when it's compounded with suicidal tendencies/depression that it really gets dangerous Back_Stabbath posted... thinking of jumping into this... situation with a girl i've been talking to online for over a year. i can handle mood swings and what-have-you, but the cheating thing is what worries me.. this girl is put off sex entirely due to a whole other bag of cats, so I don't think it should be an issue but... idk, CE... idk. i'm biased, but it's just not worth it imo Darkman124 posted... Coolppl Owns posted... can't say you didn't warn me it's always hardest to see when you're so close to it. but i knew you'd figure it out in your own time. though i figured around the "let's have a one-way open relationship so you don't leave me" part you'd see the problem she actually offered to let me sleep with other people eventually, but it didn't feel right and by then I didn't want to be with her anymore. --- _.-=/Got Coolppl?\=-._ =-._\Got Coolppl?/_.-= <cite>Coolppl Owns posted [p:876975584] in i dated a ... [t:75222152]...</cite> <quote> How did she treat you like a king? -roped me in with the best sex I ever had at the time -boosted my ego with words -bought me gifts often (before I realized she was actually broke AF) she was initially very nice to me, but arguments with her would almost always end up being an all out war <cite>BoobsAreMurder posted...</cite> <quote>One of my friends mom has BPD and he has a lot of problems including trying to make me feel like I've used him somehow. Could the apple fall far from the tree?</quote> if his mom has it it's very likely that he has it too <cite>Ki_cat_ posted...</cite> <quote>My partner was/is diagnosed with BPD. I've dated them close to a year, known them for close to 2 years now. They have some anxiety issues but they're fully aware of it and really do try. She knows when she's being a bitch to people and 9/10 times it is valid. Even though she's been diagnosed, she doesn't really have any major red flags. Doesn't try to guilt me into anything, manipulate etc...If I want to break up I'm sure she'd be hurt and stuff but for the most part, she's really respectful. Only had a few partners before me. Drunk a bit but never did anything too detrimental. I'm not really worried overall.</quote> sounds like she has it under control. it's when it's compounded with suicidal tendencies/depression that it really gets dangerous <cite>Back_Stabbath posted...</cite> <quote>thinking of jumping into this... situation with a girl i've been talking to online for over a year. i can handle mood swings and what-have-you, but the cheating thing is what worries me.. this girl is put off sex entirely due to a whole other bag of cats, so I don't think it should be an issue but... idk, CE... idk.</quote> i'm biased, but it's just not worth it imo <cite>Darkman124 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Coolppl Owns posted...</cite> <quote> can't say you didn't warn me</quote> it's always hardest to see when you're so close to it. but i knew you'd figure it out in your own time. though i figured around the "let's have a one-way open relationship so you don't leave me" part you'd see the problem</quote> she actually offered to let me sleep with other people eventually, but it didn't feel right and by then I didn't want to be with her anymore.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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