Current Events > I dunno what to do, my life has no purpose when I have off days.

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FF_Redux
04/09/17 5:30:17 AM
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What can I do?

Play games. Read. Watch shows. Go out for a walk.

All pointless.
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Cartwheel_Kick
04/09/17 5:34:26 AM
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what do you do? I aim for a high enough revenue to afford interesting experiences. Like trying some new food or restaurant or activity with friends or my bf

the stuff you mentioned should be the buffer between such things and your obligations. Thats how I feel
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FaultyGourry
04/09/17 5:36:32 AM
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What would you rather do on your days off?
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FF_Redux
04/09/17 5:38:24 AM
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Cartwheel_Kick posted...
what do you do? I aim for a high enough revenue to afford interesting experiences. Like trying some new food or restaurant or activity with friends or my bf

the stuff you mentioned should be the buffer between such things and your obligations. Thats how I feel


I could study, I have things I need to do, but on the blocks of time I have off time, there isn't anything other than what I mentioned. My only other hobby is cooking (making it look really nice, experiment etc) but that takes money, time and effort which I can't do every day. I have no friends.

FaultyGourry posted...
What would you rather do on your days off?


I dunno.
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FF_Redux
04/09/17 5:38:53 AM
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Conflict posted...
Do you do nothing when you get home from work?


Play games, go on CE, internet stuff. Watch TV shows..
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NeoBowser
04/09/17 5:39:44 AM
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post everything happening in your sad life on CE, like for instance, everytime you're drunk, when you shit in your bed, or your desires for old men
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FaultyGourry
04/09/17 5:40:54 AM
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FF_Redux posted...
I dunno.

Well, are you feeling unfulfilled or just feeling as though you should be doing something more productive?
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Cartwheel_Kick
04/09/17 5:41:35 AM
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FF_Redux posted...
I have no friends.

I find that hard to believe
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FF_Redux
04/09/17 5:42:39 AM
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FaultyGourry posted...
FF_Redux posted...
I dunno.

Well, are you feeling unfulfilled or just feeling as though you should be doing something more productive?


Both. And it's even worse now that I'm ended my clinical nursing practice and back to studying. I've noticed I feel the happiest when I can take care of people.

I could ask for some days to work at my current job I'm on a study leave. But yeah I dunno.
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Steelix500
04/09/17 5:43:22 AM
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Right? What is the point of it all? Without purpose, I might as well be dead.
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FF_Redux
04/09/17 5:45:18 AM
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Cartwheel_Kick posted...
FF_Redux posted...
I have no friends.

I find that hard to believe


Has nothing to do with people not liking me, I'm likable, social and people do like me. Problem is within me, I don't open myself to let people get close to me like that.
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Steelix500
04/09/17 5:46:36 AM
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Maybe just chill out? IDK man, why are you not letting people get close?
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FF_Redux
04/09/17 5:49:17 AM
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Steelix500 posted...
Maybe just chill out? IDK man, why are you not letting people get close?


I've tried to work it out, but I dunno if I can do it on my own. I have theories but I dunno.
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FaultyGourry
04/09/17 5:53:34 AM
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FF_Redux posted...

Both. And it's even worse now that I'm ended my clinical nursing practice and back to studying. I've noticed I feel the happiest when I can take care of people.

I could ask for some days to work at my current job I'm on a study leave. But yeah I dunno.

Don't worry so much about feeling unproductive. As long as you're being productive during your non-off time, they're nothing wrong with just relaxing and enjoying simple pleasures during off time. The fact that you read on your days off already makes you more productive than most. You feeling unfulfilled is more of an issue than that at any rate. On the positive side, you know what helps you feel happy. If taking care of people makes you happy, check around for some volunteer opportunities around your area. Maybe check out some mental health websites where you might be able to help others with their problems?
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Steelix500
04/09/17 5:54:34 AM
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FF_Redux posted...
Steelix500 posted...
Maybe just chill out? IDK man, why are you not letting people get close?


I've tried to work it out, but I dunno if I can do it on my own. I have theories but I dunno.

Alright maybe I'm just simplifying it because from my POV IDK the whole story with you. But if you got your own theories then maybe it all just means you're holding yourself back? And if you know you're own faults then you just need to step out of your comfort zone?
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