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Syncronous
04/04/17 1:15:10 AM
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In person? Call? Text? Email? What do you say? How do you start that conversation? Should it be the first thing you say or should there be buildup? What if she says no? How can I ensure that she says yes? How do you talk to girls?

Serious responses only please.
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the_cajun88
04/04/17 1:17:03 AM
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"I don't know how to say this, so I'm just going to blurt it out randomly. Do you want to be my girlfriend?"

Worked for me in high school.

My wife actually pursued me, so I had that part easy.
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Gamer99z
04/04/17 1:18:11 AM
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"hey you wanna [insert recreational activity] sometime?"
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SuperExcitebike
04/04/17 1:18:17 AM
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Depends. If it's someone I see a lot, I'll text saying let's get some food and hang out later.
If it's someone I run into in public I'll say hey, let's get together soon and I'll call or text details

Never used tinder or anything
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Syncronous
04/04/17 1:25:03 AM
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I see her at school most days. Should I text her while we're in class or later at home? Is there a specific time of the day to text her when she'll be more susceptible to say yes?
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FlashOfLight
04/04/17 1:25:19 AM
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Phone is a good way. In person face to face is a better way.

Don't approach her as it being a date, approach her as asking her if you would like to do something together.

If she says no, just brush it off gently and say "Oh ok, sure." or "All right, I wanted to ask you personally anyway."

You can go the simple approach of asking her if she has anything to do this weekend, or on a certain day, or even during your or her lunch hour, which is actually a convenient time compared to the other two options and is a nice way to go from there.

Like this, for example:

Tim: Hey, Angela? Where do you usually eat for lunch?
Angela: Oh, at this place by 54th street, it's an Italian place
Tim: Oh, you mean Sal's?
Angela: Yeah, aha, that's the one
Tim: I usually go there too, it's a nice place, I was actually hoping you knew about it, and I was thinking if you would like to go eat there together tomorrow or maybe some time next week for lunch?

Then based on her response, go from there.
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Touya999
04/04/17 1:31:16 AM
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By doing this.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T9jdjeG5s9Q

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SSJ92goku
04/04/17 1:32:44 AM
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Ask her if she wants the D
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Darmik
04/04/17 1:33:03 AM
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Don't act like it's a big deal. Because it isn't.

By planning what to say you're making it onto a big deal. Just ask when it seems appropriate to.
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Itachi157
04/04/17 1:34:12 AM
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"aye girl"

Then you just go from there.
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SuperExcitebike
04/04/17 1:34:53 AM
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Syncronous posted...
I see her at school most days. Should I text her while we're in class or later at home? Is there a specific time of the day to text her when she'll be more susceptible to say yes?


You should walk with her after class and ask her to lunch or ask her what she's doing this weekend
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TheDarkCircle
04/04/17 1:37:03 AM
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Are you asking for advice because you're planning on asking a specific girl out? Or is this just a general topic?

It depends. If it's someone I've met through mutual friends I'll try to ask to hang out one on one in person, if said group of friends is all hanging out in a larger group.

Otherwise I'll generally call and ask to grab a lunch or another activity (hike, check out an art exhibit etc), NEVER MOVIE FIRST DATE.

After I've hung out with a girl or at least established good communication I'll text.
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Scarecrow1711
04/04/17 1:38:11 AM
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Ask her in person if she wants to get coffee or lunch or something. It would help if you can string the asking out into an established conversation so it comes off more natural. At least, that helps me sometimes.
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TheDarkCircle
04/04/17 1:39:32 AM
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Syncronous posted...
Is there a specific time of the day to text her when she'll be more susceptible to say yes?


No, and definitely don't think like this. There is no "wrong" time if she's interested. Even if she's busy at the moment you reach out, if she's interested she'll follow up with you at some point.

Anyways, if you see her at school just talk to her after class. Ask if she wants to grab a bite with you on the weekend or offer another activity so you guys can talk and get to know each other bette.r
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Syncronous
04/04/17 2:01:51 AM
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Okay I have decided that I am going to ask her out tomorrow. Should I print out a script to follow or is it better to improv? Why not a movie date? Could I ask if she wants to see a movie at my place? Do I have to look her in the eyes while saying all of this?
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TheDarkCircle
04/04/17 2:04:27 AM
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Syncronous posted...
Okay I have decided that I am going to ask her out tomorrow. Should I print out a script to follow or is it better to improv? Why not a movie date? Could I ask if she wants to see a movie at my place? Do I have to look her in the eyes while saying all of this?


Just go up to her and say, HEY! Lets hang out.

The no movie rule is because on a first date you can't talk during a movie. This can make it harder to establish a connection out of the box which is key imo.

A movie at your place for a first hang out is a little strong... but go with your gut man.
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DEKMStephens
04/04/17 2:05:02 AM
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Oh, oh, I know this one!

Badly
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gunplagirl
04/04/17 2:07:01 AM
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Flirt on Facebook pictures she posts, then go to messages, then send nudes and arrange some time to hang out. Usually after detailing what I'd do to her.

But hey, lesbians work differently than straight girls so what works for me probably won't help you any.
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Darthfluffy2
04/04/17 2:12:25 AM
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Yo dawg I have a penis you I would assume have a vagina let's hook up
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Syncronous
04/04/17 2:21:09 AM
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I have this poem that I wrote about her. Should I recite it to her before asking her out? Is it better to ask her out before, during or after class? What if there's someone else walking near us or standing within earshot? Should I ask her to hang out immediately after school or plan something for another day?
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Keith_Valentine
04/04/17 2:22:48 AM
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Dude stop. You're not funny
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Darthfluffy2
04/04/17 2:27:25 AM
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Keith_Valentine posted...
Dude stop. You're not funny

Words can hurt. And those words hurt me bro.
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Keith_Valentine
04/04/17 2:29:37 AM
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Darthfluffy2 posted...
Keith_Valentine posted...
Dude stop. You're not funny

Words can hurt. And those words hurt me bro.


Why? I'm not even talking to you. Tc is trolling
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TheDarkCircle
04/04/17 2:30:31 AM
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Keith_Valentine posted...
Darthfluffy2 posted...
Keith_Valentine posted...
Dude stop. You're not funny

Words can hurt. And those words hurt me bro.


Why? I'm not even talking to you. Tc is trolling


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JJWatt
04/04/17 2:30:43 AM
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You.

Me.

Dinner.

Sex.
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Darthfluffy2
04/04/17 2:35:49 AM
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TheDarkCircle posted...
Keith_Valentine posted...
Darthfluffy2 posted...
Keith_Valentine posted...
Dude stop. You're not funny

Words can hurt. And those words hurt me bro.


Why? I'm not even talking to you. Tc is trolling


We've all been hurt here today. It's ok lets talk about it.

Mommy didn't love me. And daddy wasn't there to take me to the fair. To change my underwear.
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Keith_Valentine
04/04/17 2:38:23 AM
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Lol

Your mom loves me :D
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Darthfluffy2
04/04/17 2:41:21 AM
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Keith_Valentine posted...
Lol

Your mom loves me :D

Dude my mom is a box of ashes.
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Syncronous
04/04/17 2:52:57 AM
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I'm sorry. When I get nervous I ask a lot of questions. I just want to be prepared in case anything goes wrong. Should I make physical contact with her while I ask? Like if I were to brush her hair out of her face amorously like in romantic comedies? Do I have to look her in the eyes the entire time?
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teepan95
04/04/17 3:15:29 AM
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Itachi157 posted...
"aye girl"

Then you just go from there.

"U want sum fuck?"
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Darthfluffy2
04/04/17 3:19:14 AM
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Darthfluffy2 posted...
Keith_Valentine posted...
Lol

Your mom loves me :D

Dude my mom is a box of ashes.

Dude why did you disappear. I hate my mom and glad she's dead.
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Pepys Monster
04/04/17 3:19:25 AM
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Are you tall and ripped? Then literally any approach will work.

If not? Then literally nothing you do will work.
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anth0ny
04/04/17 3:21:25 AM
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wtf... happened in this topic
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anth0ny
04/04/17 3:23:13 AM
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anyway, tc... it goes like this:

You: hey.... :D

Her: hey... :D

then just seal the deal with like... frozen yogurt or something idk
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Darthfluffy2
04/04/17 3:23:14 AM
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anth0ny posted...
wtf... happened in this topic

What did I miss. Was it dog nipples?
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Uncle_Drew
04/04/17 3:31:59 AM
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Goes something like this

"Damn girl you's fine! You trying to get the pipe?"
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awesome999
04/04/17 3:34:29 AM
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I can't tell you how but make sure that you do. If you don't, you'll be wondering what if you did for the rest of your life
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Syncronous
04/04/17 4:22:43 PM
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I couldn't do it. I was too nervous and sweaty. How do I stop getting so nervous? Whenever I look at her I either want to propose to her or bow down and say "I'm not worthy." How do you build confidence? Is there medication you can take for that?
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Touch
04/04/17 4:28:06 PM
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Stare at her vagina until she notices. Then when she asks "What?", respond with "You gonna eat that?"
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Darthfluffy2
04/04/17 4:36:42 PM
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Touch posted...
Stare at her vagina until she notices. Then when she asks "What?", respond with "You gonna eat that?"

Damn this guy is good.
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Pepys Monster
04/04/17 5:35:28 PM
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Syncronous posted...
I couldn't do it. I was too nervous and sweaty. How do I stop getting so nervous? Whenever I look at her I either want to propose to her or bow down and say "I'm not worthy." How do you build confidence? Is there medication you can take for that?

Confidence is meaningless unless you have the big muscles to back it up. You might as well get it over with quickly by saying "I like you" and waiting for the bitter sting of rejection.
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MacadamianNut3
04/04/17 5:42:57 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7ZN5gJus6Zw

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awesome999
04/04/17 7:16:40 PM
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Pepys Monster posted...
Syncronous posted...
I couldn't do it. I was too nervous and sweaty. How do I stop getting so nervous? Whenever I look at her I either want to propose to her or bow down and say "I'm not worthy." How do you build confidence? Is there medication you can take for that?

Confidence is meaningless unless you have the big muscles to back it up. You might as well get it over with quickly by saying "I like you" and waiting for the bitter sting of rejection.

Please, just because you don't have a love life doesn't mean you get to drag other people down

TC, ignore this guy


Anyway, there is a drug for social anxiety but I don't think it's a good idea to mention here. I mean, do you really want to depend on a drug something you should be doing naturally?

Syncronous posted...
I couldn't do it. I was too nervous and sweaty. How do I stop getting so nervous? Whenever I look at her I either want to propose to her or bow down and say "I'm not worthy." How do you build confidence? Is there medication you can take for that?

There are articles on how to manage anxiety and nervousness. Just Google

And don't fear rejection. There are enough women in this world that you could get rejected by ten a day and still have more than enough for the rest of your life
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Syncronous
04/04/17 8:02:36 PM
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awesome999 posted...
I mean, do you really want to depend on a drug something you should be doing naturally?

Yes, absolutely. I hate this feeling. What's worse is that she's the perfect girl. If I mess this up then I'll never have a chance with her.
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Pepys Monster
04/04/17 8:15:34 PM
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awesome999 posted...
Anyway, there is a drug for social anxiety but I don't think it's a good idea to mention here. I mean, do you really want to depend on a drug something you should be doing naturally?

Even that can't help you if you don't have big muscles. Why would a woman want a confident guy without a ripped physique when she can just go on Tinder and find a guy who has both confidence AND muscles?
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awesome999
04/04/17 9:19:30 PM
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Syncronous posted...
Yes, absolutely. I hate this feeling. What's worse is that she's the perfect girl. If I mess this up then I'll never have a chance with her.

There's your problem. You've barely talked to her and you already think she's 'perfect'. You're just setting yourself up for heartbreak

I bet you meant to say that she's a 919. Well there are enough 919s that rejection by one doesn't matter. And I can tell you by experience that she's not a 919. Everyone looks like a 919 from far enough

Anyway the drug is called alcohol. Liquid confidence. There IS another drug but dig around, I'm not gonna tell you what it is

Pepys Monster posted...
Even that can't help you if you don't have big muscles. Why would a woman want a confident guy without a ripped physique when she can just go on Tinder and find a guy who has both confidence AND muscles?

I can also tell you confidence is THE thing girls look for. I know because a girl (who I thought was perfect from afar) chose a shorter, less muscley, facially uglier guy over me, simple because he was more confident
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Syncronous
04/04/17 9:20:05 PM
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Is it possible to gain muscles within a week or so? What training regimen should I use? Will muscles help compensate for my complete lack of confidence?
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awesome999
04/04/17 9:23:16 PM
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Syncronous posted...
Is it possible to gain muscles within a week or so? What training regimen should I use? Will muscles help compensate for my complete lack of confidence?

No no and no

I mean not without steroids

And do you really want to work out for a girl? If you're going to the gym for any reason other than to make yourself better, you're going for the wrong reasons
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Syncronous
04/04/17 9:47:56 PM
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I want to be confident and I don't know how. I have nothing to offer this girl. At least if I had muscles that's something. I don't think I can drink alcohol in school without it going unnoticed.
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